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We had to talk about the big thing this week that’s so disturbing — the creepiness of Grok. Who programmed this thing?? It’s asking inappropriate questions (yes, even about n*des), and it’s raising a big red flag for moms everywhere. X’s chatbot is already known to be a little naughty, but what happens when this kind of tech ends up in the hands of curious teens? We need to keep our kids safe in a world that’s moving a little too fast.

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Perimenopause is confusing, frustrating, and way too misunderstood, even by some doctors. There’s not enough clarity, and women are often left to navigate it on their own, sorting through conflicting advice and wondering what’s normal, what’s treatable, and what can be ignored. If men went through menopause, there’d be a pill, a treatment, and a full wellness plan for every symptom!

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We don’t know what we’ve done to our kids until they grow up. That’s when it hits you — the blind spots, the “we just wanted to help” moments, the realization that our kids might actually be spoiled. We’ve been their autopilot since day one — the more involved we are, the more they tune out. And now they’re walking around with noise-cancelling headphones on. Literally and metaphorically.

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We’re thrilled to tackle this timely topic with lawyer Duncan Embury, who’s representing four major Ontario school boards in a landmark case against Meta, TikTok, and Snapchat. He explains why schools are pushing back, how these platforms are impacting kids’ learning and mental health, and why this legal fight matters for parents and families who are trying to navigate the social media landscape. Social media is the "white van" of our generation. Get informed. For more info visit https://neinstein.com/personal-injury-lawyers-areas-of-expertise/social-media-lawsuit.

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Marriage can be a tricky beast — one minute you’re in love, the next you’ve somehow merged into one person with the same opinions, friends, and weekend plans. We’re here to say, don’t do that! Keeping your own friends, hobbies, and goals isn’t just healthy — it’s what keeps things fresh. Real trust means letting each other live. Because if you merge too hard into his world, you might wake up one day realizing you’ve disappeared from your own.

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Ever tried hitting the highway for a university tour while your stomach is in full-blown chaos? Usually it’s Nat battling IBS, but this time Cat had a MAJOR issue. Highway driving, cramps, sweating, white-knuckling, and praying every exit has a bathroom… until one doesn’t even have toilet paper. Total panic, totally relatable. Pepto didn’t stand a chance with this one! It’s terrifying, intense, and somehow completely hilarious a few days later.

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As parents, we’re all trying to figure out how to keep our kids safe in a world that’s constantly online. Anti-trafficking expert Laila Mickelwait is taking that fight to the next level — working to get child sexual assault material off streaming platforms for good. Her new book, Takedown, tells the unbelievable true story of how she sparked a global movement of more than two million people — and together, they pulled off what’s being called “the biggest takedown of content in Internet history.” This interview might not be for everyone, however if you are seeking further information you can check...

Nat has fake boyfriends and it’s kind of fun. She’s watching herself on these AI dates and when one of the guys leans in for a kiss, she feels giddy! But AI won’t let her get naughty. Every time she wants things to heat up it’s: “violation, violation, violation.” Too bad for Nat but good for the rest of us! And because we’re us — we pivoted and asked AI how to keep the spark alive in a real marriage. Tune in to hear what they suggested!

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Chatbots are shaping the way kids think, feel, and see themselves. These digital voices aren’t just tech—they can subtly groom identity, reinforcing messages about who you are, how you move through the world, and even how you believe you should behave. The scary reality is that kids don’t have fully formed identities yet—they can be given one by what they interact with online, and once it sticks, it’s hard to change. Fighting back against these digital influences is incredibly tough.

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We have been touring universites and wow - these kids are putting so much pressure on themselves to figure it all out. Our advice is start early. Exploring options sooner helps to take the weight off and make the decision process simpler in Grade 12/seniour year. Remind kids that their first choice might not be their forever choice. With the right guidance, they can always change direction. Sometimes just knowing it’s not forever makes the whole journey so much easier.

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We headed to LA to sit down with Aurora Culpo, the no-BS, tell-it-like-it-is host of Barely Filtered. This divorced mom of two keeps it real on sex, dating, relationships, and wellness—all while navigating life with ADHD in a world that never stops moving. With a background in Behavior Analysis and special education, Aurora brings a psychology-driven lens to connection, self-awareness, and human behavior. We chat about literally everything from attachment styles to ketamine—all served with her signature humor, insight, and zero shame. If you love real talk and smart takes, this one’s for you. Find Aurora @aurora...

New school year = new friends = new germs. Here we go again. If you’re a mom, you already know that kids are basically walking germ vessels, and there are zero sick days for us. Feel the sign? BETADINE®. Don’t wait for the tickle to turn into a full-blown cold—get ahead now with BETADINE® Sore Throat Spray and Gargle and BETADINE® Cold Defense Nasal Spray so you’re ready to tackle cold season head-on. Because let’s be honest, moms don’t get to call in sick!

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We’re back with brand-new parenting episodes every Monday, and this week we are talking about screens, kids, and the chaos that comes with both. Remember when we thought parenthood would be easy? Between SnapMaps showing everyone's location, and the cesspool that is Snapchat, it’s enough to fry your brain. We’re talking about how to protect your kids from themselves, why monitoring their digital world is a full-time job, and how even with our ScreenSense guide (that breaks it ALL down for you in a super easy and digestible way) our own kids still managed to get around...

This week we went all in on marriage and divorce—because more than half of marriages end in it. We got into what’s more expensive, how women are now choosing happiness over “just sticking it out,” and why some women walk away so their kids don’t grow up thinking this is what love looks like. Divorce can sometimes even bring more financial freedom. Then we flipped it and dove straight into weddings. The cost? Honestly… WTF!?

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We’re coming to you live from LA, and today we’re diving headfirst into the topic of anxiety. For Nat, it shows up as overthinking, ruminating, sweating, shortness of breath, a racing heart…basically everything that could be mistaken for excitement. How many people are walking around anxious without even knowing it? We’re breaking down what it feels like, what it looks like, and why even a casual conversation can feel impossible. From wanting to say nothing at all to overcompensating by talking too much—could that constant state of alert actually be a hidden superpower?

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We sat down with The Tea: The Talk author Alicia Crespin for an open and honest conversation about navigating those tricky—and often awkward—moments with our kids. From puberty to relationships to the curveball questions that leave us speechless, Alicia shares practical advice on approaching “the talk” with confidence. The Tea: The Talk is more than just a parenting guide—it’s a powerful collection of stories from over 30 women, spilling the tea on their pasts. By breaking the silence around stigmatized topics, Alicia shows how we can empower the next generation to grow up stronger, more informed, and more con...

Snorers, we need to talk. This week’s conundrum: do you wake up the human chainsaw beside you, or just lie there listening to your dreams get stolen? People who snore don’t even know they’re doing it. And why do they get so defensive when you say they did? Are we actually doomed to a lifetime of sleepless nights? Give us all of your tips and tricks if you sleep (aka don't sleep) beside a snorer. 

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We’re diving into a hot topic sparked by Kim Kardashian—she says her kids won’t be doing homework after a full school day. Eight hours in class feels like enough, which has us wondering if the whole school system might be a little archaic. Teachers, we want you to weigh in—do kids really need to be doing homework? And on the topic of homework, how many of you are really doing your kids homework??

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In this repeat episode we are back wtih a Cat & Nat parenting dilemma! Nat’s facing a question so tricky, we hope none of you ever have to deal with it. And we’re stumped. That’s why we’re turning to you—what would you tell your teen to do if they were in this situation?

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We are back with new Friday episodes and we are kicking it off with a good one! We’re talking about the absolute chaos of kids’ sports—and your submissions did not disappoint! We had no idea the drama could be this real! Big personalities clashing, travel stress, rules, rivalries, and parents living out their own dreams through their kids. The stakes are high but the drama is even higher!

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Back to school is basically a mom’s New Year—and we’re so excited to kick it off with you. We’re talking “out of town confidence” (our favorite on-the-road alter ego), how the way you love someone and the way they love you back isn’t always the same, and the truth about raising teens (we’ve never met one that isn’t at least a little angsty or anxious). Nobody feels like a million bucks every day, nobody has it all together—and if they say they do, they’re lying!

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We’re neck-deep in perimenopause over here so we had a lot of questions for our expert! Jenn Pike is a Medical Exercise Specialist and Functionally Integrative Diagnostic Nutritionist specializing in women’s health, fitness, and hormones, as well as the best-selling author of The Simplicity Project, The Simplicity Kitchen, and The Simplicity Body. Jenn is the fierce founder of The Perimenopause Project, Synced, and The Audacious Woman, sits on the Advisory Board for STRONG Fitness Magazine, and hosts The Simplicity Sessions, ranked in the top 1% of podcasts worldwide. A wife and mom of two, she’ll help you cut th...

When we got married, we were young, in love, and willing to bend a little to make it all work. But now—with some life experience under our belts and peri-menopause playing havoc with our hormones—we have to ask ourselves: Would we do it all again, knowing what we know now? In this repeat episode, Nat gets real about one of the biggest compromises in her marriage—something Mark let slide that seemed small at the time, but looking back, carried far more meaning than either of them realized.

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This year is going to be an emotional one. One of our kids is finishing their last year of high school before heading off to university—which means campus tours, big decisions, and all the feelings that come with it. Teenagehood looks so different now compared to when we were growing up. We were the generation of fun with endless parties, no check-ins, and parents who had no clue where we were most of the time. That secrecy was part of what made being a teen so exhilarating. But in today’s “Find My iPhone” era, with constant tracking, do teens...

As we watch so many of you pack your teens off for university we felt it was the perfect time to bring back this epside! As Dean at Stanford, Julie Lythcott-Haims witnessed firsthand the toll that overparenting takes—students who were anxious, depressed, and unprepared to handle life when things didn’t go their way. In this interview, she offers a powerful alternative: a path to raising kids who are truly self-sufficient. Julie is the New York Times bestselling author of How to Raise an Adult, the groundbreaking manifesto against helicopter parenting. To learn more about Julie and her book...

This week’s episode is a repeat of one of your favorites—and for good reason. Fridays are reserved for the fun stuff, and this one delivers! We’re talking wild (and wacky) hookup stories—plus proof that there really is someone out there for everyone, even those who find themselves oddly charmed by sexy talk… in a Yoda voice. Whether you’re here for the laughs or just to feel a little better about your own dating history, we’ve got you covered.

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Cat did something small that turned out to be life changing! Sometimes the tiniest decisions can feel like the biggest shifts. So often we say “no” because it’s the rule, it’s the norm, it’s just the way things are done. But we get to make our own rules. And in the process, Cat had one of those “oh wow, I feel like a grown-up” moments. It really is the little things that matter. 

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A new generation of parents is waking up to how damaging social media can be for their teens’ body image. But when used thoughtfully, it can also become a tool for body confidence and empowerment. Dr. Samantha DeCaro, PsyD—Director of Clinical Outreach and Education at The Renfrew Center—joins us to unpack how social media shapes teens’ self-image. She shares practical tips on recognizing red flags for disordered eating, fostering body confidence, and creating a healthier digital environment at home. As Renfrew’s national spokesperson, Dr. DeCaro is a trusted voice in the field, frequently featured in media, on podcast...

Menopause research is (finally) getting the attention it deserves. In this repeat episode we dive into an old article on reviving your sex drive in perimenopause and share our take. Our grandmas didn’t have hormone therapy, libido boosters, or fancy lubes… so did they just suffer in silence, or were they onto something we don’t know? We explore the options and share our thoughts. Disclaimer: In another life, we totally would have been doctors—but in this one, not so much. We may have gotten a few facts wrong in this episode!

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Nat took Taylor and Olivia on their very first Canadian university tour and it wasn’t love at first sight. But now expectations are set, and we will be ready for round two with a clearer picture of what matters most. When you’re looking at schools, the curriculum can be amazing, but if the community isn’t the right fit, it can make the whole experience harder than it needs to be. Ask people why they chose the school, go to open houses, and pay attention to where you feel most at home — because finding your people is a big pa...

We’re bringing back this episode just in time for back-to-school. Our teens have grown up in a world where Snapchat has always been a thing, and there’s this whole secret set of rules no adult ever agreed to—let alone understands. So what’s the move? Taking their phone away isn’t it. Because like it or not, that little screen is their wallet, their bus pass, and their “call for help” button. It’s messy, it’s exhausting, and we’re over here trying to figure it out right alongside them—sometimes succeeding, sometimes failing, always learning.

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In this repeat episode we’re getting into the big convos couples should have before moving in, getting married, or signing on for forever. What actually matters—and what’s maybe a little overrated. Did we have all those talks? Probably not. But we’re sharing what we did cover, what we skipped entirely, and whether any of it even mattered in the end.

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We’re talking about what it’s really like to live in an ADHD brain—one that doesn’t always prioritize the way the world expects it to. It’s not laziness. It’s not incompetence. It’s just a different operating system. AI might be trying to recreate “standard brains,” but it can’t replicate the messy, out-of-order, last-minute, lightning-in-a-bottle brains. Those are the ones that will change the world. Value the people who don’t fit the mold. Life would be boring without them.

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Communication is at the heart of everything. It builds our relationships, and when it breaks down, so do we. Professor Jaime Hamilton knows this better than anyone, and she’s passionate about teaching people how to communicate in a way that actually brings more connection, clarity, and calm — especially when it matters most. Jaime helps explain how bullying can look different in real life versus online — and how parents and kids alike can use communication as a powerful tool to stop a bully in their tracks in both spaces. For more helpful info on how to respond to a bully v...

This week we’re getting into it — the 10 things every married couple needs to know about sex, because no one gives you the manual, and a lot of us are just out here winging it. We get into it, like should you really be putting your sex life on pause while raising kids? We also had to get into why men are SO horny when they’re hungover. You can barely walk, barely talk, but THIS is your priority?! Make it make sense.

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With the release of Happy Gilmore, we figured it was the perfect time to revisit our chat with Erinn and Oliver Hudson. We talked about everything: breaking intergenerational trauma, past relationships, sex, infidelity (and how to actually move through it), and all the messy, beautiful stuff in between. It was such a great convo, we had to turn it into a two-parter. Check them out and see why we’re obsessed. And if you need a daily laugh (or just want to witness some peak couple energy), go follow @theoliverhudson and @ehud26 — you won’t regret it.

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We had so many questions for Abbey Sharp! Abbey’s a Registered Dietitian, content creator, award-winning author, TV personality, podcast host, CEO, Co-Founder… basically, she’s doing it ALL. She’s the voice behind Abbey’s Kitchen and the Bite Back podcast, and she’s on a mission to shut down diet culture and help people feel good about food again. And we got into it all with her! If you want more, check out @abbeyskitchen. And watch out for our episode with her on Bite Back!

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SUMMER 2025 RERUNS

We are officially at the half way point of our summer and bringing you another one of your favourite episodes! Every day, there’s another headline about kids and phones — how screen time is hurting their mental health, their ability to focus, and even how we parent. There’s clearl...

In this repeat episode, we are diving into some truly wild and messy cheating stories—and just to be clear, none of them are ours! From secret second families to shocking best friend betrayals, we're breaking down how it all went down, how they got caught, and who was in the middle of it. Get ready for some seriously next-level bad decisions.

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With the new Happy Gilmore movie making waves, we knew this was the perfect time to bring this episode back! We’re throwing it back to our hilarious convo with one of the funniest moms we know and love, Julie Bowen—aka Claire Dunphy from Modern Family. Julie is a two-time Emmy winner, made two iconic appearances in Happy Gilmore, and has been busy ever since: starring in Mixtape and Hubie Halloween, Totally Killer, The Fallout, voicing Disney characters, directing, launching a tween boy skincare line (JB SKRUB), sitting on the board of Baby2Baby, and raising three teenage boys...

We’re talking about the wild ride of getting your kid ready for university—the pressure, the questions, the panic, the prep. Are they really supposed to already know what they want to do with the rest of their lives? Because it sure feels like some of those kids have it all figured out. And then there’s the idea that you should land a job you’re passionate about the second you graduate. We might have an unpopular opinion on that one. Take a listen and let us know what you think!

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In today’s repeat episode, we talk about the pressure cooker that comes with Grade 11 decision-making. Are teens really supposed to know what they want to do with the rest of their lives before they’ve even finished high school? Apparently. Because here in Canada, what you choose now dictates what courses you take, and that dictates what doors stay open—or close. Kids are feeling the weight of “figuring it all out” way too soon. 

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You know we had to talk about the Coldplay kiss cam moment that had everyone talking, watching, sharing, forwarding and gossiping about. These days, your whole life can literally implode in under five seconds—even if you didn’t post a single thing yourself. When did the wife find out? Did she get a million texts that night? Honestly, it makes us feel nauseous. Their scandal has become the internet’s entertainment. And while it’s messy, it’s also a good teaching moment for our kids: nothing is private anymore. We want you to weigh in, what is the fascin...

This episode goes in a few different directions—in true Cat & Nat fashion. We chat about the latest in pop culture, a post we shared that sparked some unexpected clap back (and what we really think about her comment), and a lot more in between. Plus, we ask the important question: would Jon Hamm be a good match for Nat? Truly a little bit of everything this Tuesday!

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Raising boys and girls can feel like parenting two entirely different species. The experience is different, the energy is different—and both come with their own unique challenges and rewards. In this episode, we unpack some of the common stereotypes and doomsday narratives about raising boys—and why those stories miss the mark. Boys today are often more emotionally aware than we give them credit for, sometimes even more in tune than their dads. As moms, one of our most important roles is learning how to really see them, understand what they need, and meet them where they are.

In this repeat favourite, we’re diving into all the things you didn’t know you needed to talk about—like peeing in the shower. Is it gross? Is it a genius timesaver? We’ve got thoughts. And we’re also getting into the big question: when your kid heads off to university, what do you actually do with their room? Keep it like a shrine or let a younger sibling swoop in with a full-on makeover?

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We pulled off two birthday parties in a week for our girls and were kind of surprised it all came together. Let's just say, thank goodness for Amazon. If we had to run around a store these parties would still be on a Pinterest board. But when it’s delivered to your door, suddenly we’re expert planners with themed floaties and twinkling lights!

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This week we’re talking about one of those hot-button parenting topics that always gets people going: Would you ever let your underage teen and their friends drink at your house because—hey—they're “safe” under your roof?

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On today’s repeat episode, we’re thinking about what we’d tell our younger selves—and our kids—about sex, relationships, and all the confusing stuff in between. There’s this idea that sex equals desire, love, attraction, and a healthy relationship—and if you’re not having sex, something must be wrong. And if you are having sex, people assume everything is perfect. That's not how it works. Sex is one slice, sure—but so is connection, laughter, teamwork, and just doing life together. Especially on a family vacation where “intimacy” looks more like hiding in the bathroom for five minu...

Remember when you went to university, picked a major, and walked out with a job waiting? That’s not how it works anymore. AI is flipping the job market upside down. Half the jobs our kids will do don’t even exist yet, and in our opinion, university has become more of a social experiment than a career guarantee. We’re unpacking the pressure of picking the “right" path and why spending time learning what you actually enjoy might just be the smartest move of all.

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Putting boundaries in place with toddlers can feel straightforward—but when our kids become teenagers, those boundaries start to shift, take on new forms, and become important for entirely different reasons. There’s a lot of fear wrapped up in parenting teens, so we brought in Dr. Jenny Hwang, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience helping parents navigate connection, conflict, and everything in between—without fear, shame, or fluff. With a no-nonsense approach, Jenny challenges mainstream parenting advice and helps parents move through the emotional blind spots that often sabotage connection. Rooted in both clinical expertise and he...

So apparently there are eight different kinds of sex every married couple should be having on rotation… and obviously, we had to weigh in. Spontaneous? Scheduled? Morning? Hotel? Quickie? We’re breaking them all down—what works and what doesn’t, and which ones you should be doing. Enjoy this repeat episode!

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This week, we’re chatting with Katie Sturino—entrepreneur, author, body acceptance queen, and founder of Megababe (aka the brand saving our thighs this summer!). Katie has built a community by speaking up for size inclusivity and empowering women of all sizes to feel confident and celebrate their style. Now, she’s bringing her signature honesty and humor to the page with her debut novel Sunny Side Up—a story that helps women improve the relationship they have with their bodies. Sunny Side Up is available now at celadonbooks.com.

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You can totally love yourself… and still not feel 100% confident. You can be in friendships or relationships where you're constantly overthinking, and forgetting to actually live your life because you're too busy chasing what they're doing. But here’s the truth: the second you stop giving a sh*t is the second people stop messing with your emotions. The minute you throw down a boundary? That’s when everything changes. Enjoy this repeat episode!

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Just when you think you’ve got this parenting thing down, they become teenagers and start pushing every boundary. Wendy Snyder, certified parenting educator, family life coach, and mom of two is all about helping parents ditch the yelling, threats, and punishments—and instead parent from a place of connection Wendy’s approach is all about raising good humans without losing your mind. She teaches strategies that actually work. If you're in the thick of teen chaos or just want to feel like a better version of yourself as a parent, this one’s for you. You can follow Wendy on...

We are in full summer mode, bringing you repeats of some of your favourite episodes! Including this one which seems fitting because Nat is currently at her in laws! In this repeat episode Nat snuck in a little sexy time at the in laws! Mind blowing really. There should be a point system for sex in different places. How many points for sex at the in laws??

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This week, we’re sitting down with the queen of good hair days herself—Alli Webb. You probably know her as the genius behind Drybar, but that was just the beginning. Alli is an entrepreneur, author, mom, and total visionary who’s not afraid to dive into the real, raw, and messy parts of life. She just launched her brand-new haircare line, Messy and you can shop it now for 20% off using code CATNAT20 at www.itsmessy.com. Valid until August 26th, 2025.

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We blinked and suddenly it’s summer — and with it comes distracted driving season. People are missing turns, staring at their phones, or just completely zoning out behind the wheel. No surprise it’s one of the biggest traffic issues in the city right now. And with our own kids creeping toward driving age, we’re spiraling just a little bit. Confidence matters, but experience matters even more. Sometimes you’ve got to predict a bad driver’s move before they make it. Are teens even equipped to do that? Are we confident Nat is equipped?!

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In this popular repeat episode, we’re chatting about one of those parenting topics that always gets people talking—do you let your underage teen and their friends have a drink at your house? Some parents feel like it’s the responsible choice because it’s a safe space, while others are a firm no. We’re talking through both sides and sharing how we feel about it....at this moment in time.

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We want to write erotica. But not your typical steamy story… we’re talking one from a mom’s perspective. We want more than the same old storylines where it’s all about him. We’re dreaming of a rom-com with a side of heat—where the main character is a mom juggling real life and still finding time for the GOOD stuff. Something with just the right amount of spice—because let’s be honest, we deserve more than another Hallmark movie. Could this be our next big project?

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We’re recapping Cat’s daughter’s 16th birthday party and yes… there was a full-blown backyard extravaganza. And it got us thinking—how did we get here? When we were growing up, birthday parties were lucky-if-you-even-celebrated situations. After 11, it was a sleepover, a frozen pizza, and a few extra blankets in the basement. Now it’s balloon arches, custom cakes, and themed photo booths. Birthday parties are officially off the rails. Is it time to bring back the basement sleepover?

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Some people you forget the second they walk away. And then there are the ones you never forget—because they were either so kind… or so not. This week, we’re talking about the people from grade school and high school who left a mark, and how something they said or did can stay with you for a lifetime. And now, with social media in the mix, it’s easier than ever for someone to get into your head and leave a lasting impact—good or bad.

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Would you do it? OnlyFans drops a million-dollar offer for one video—would you do it? In this repeat episode, we ask the question that got us spiralling: How much would it take for us to say yes? One of us threw out a number and it was not what you might think!

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Teenagers and their BIG FEELINGS. From sky-high highs to dramatic lows, it’s all actually pretty normal. Being self-focused is part of their job right now — it's how they’re wired. But that doesn’t mean we can’t help them process and release those emotions in healthier ways. Sometimes they just need permission to feel without being told there’s a problem. Teenagers are a different breed, in the best way possible.

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This week we’re chatting about relationships between girls and boys — the sometimes awkward, messy, confusing kind. From school friends to heartbreaks, what does it really mean when someone rejects you? You don’t have to be besties with everyone, and just because someone doesn’t want to date you doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. Rejection is not failure — it’s redirection. Let’s normalize what real connection looks like — not just romantic, but supportive, solid friendships too.

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This week we’re talking underwear — the sad state of our current collection, how ridiculously expensive it is to buy the good stuff, and why we’re leaning into all-black undies thanks to the surprise periods of perimenopause. But post-menopause? Game on. Lacy, colourful, white, downright sexy — no more playing it safe. We’re manifesting a future where our underwear drawer is more “ooh la la” and less “laundry day emergency” (aka our current situation).

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By the time our kids are dating, apparently their plus-ones might be robots. Yep—literal robots. Sitting at our dinner tables, making awkward small talk… or maybe it wouldn’t be awkward because they’d be programmed to say all the right things? Either way, it’s a hard no from us. We’re totally here for robots that do the grocery shopping and make us dinner —but robot boyfriends or girlfriends joining us at the dinner table? No thanks.

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We strongly encourage everyone to listen to this episode with Heidi Chance, a former undercover detective with over 27 years of experience fighting sex trafficking. Heidi shares what she’s seen firsthand, the dangers many parents don’t even realize are out there, and how we can start having the hard—but crucial—conversations with our kids to keep them safer online. Recognized as a Subject Matter Expert in sex trafficking and a trusted Expert Witness in trials, Heidi is known for her powerful case work and lived experience in the field. She’s been featured in the PBS Frontline documentar...

From chaotic pillow piles to pets on the bed, we’re breaking down what your sleep setup really says about you. Are you a hot mess under the sheets or a neat freak who fluffs before hopping into bed? Do you need total silence or fall asleep to true crime podcasts (Nat!!)? We’re diving into sleep habits, bedtime quirks, and all the weird things we do once we crawl under the covers. And also, should we be sleep divorcing our husbands? Why are we meant to share a bed for all of eternity???

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We’re recapping our amazing trip to the Bahamas with two of our boys — just the four of us this time. The other five kids stayed home (and shockingly… didn’t even complain about it). We put on the swimsuits, got our hair wet, and made core memories. It was the kind of trip that reminded us what really matters. And here’s your reminder: wear the dang suit. Get in the water. Splash around. Be in the memories. Your kids won’t remember what you looked like — they’ll remember that you were there.

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We are brining you one of your favourite episodes on this holiday Monday.

As our teens get older, we start to realize something big: our voice — the one they used to hang on every word of — isn’t the loudest in their world anymore. Suddenly, we’re just one of many voices competing for space. Their friends matter. Like, really matter. The people they hang out with can shape everything — for better or worse. Are we on the sidelines watching it all unfold, or are we still able to step in and say, “Hey… I’m not sure about t...

In this episode, Nat takes us on a nostalgic trip down memory lane—back to the days of makeout sessions that stopped just short of the main event: dry humping, plus a few of the unfortunate accidents that came with it. From the curse of khakis to doors that really should’ve been locked, nothing is off the table. We’re also officially putting out a call: we need a guy to come on the pod and tell us what it was all like from their perspective.

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We’re talking about the promposal Taylor got at her dance competition—in public, with signs and everything! While we love the romance of it all, we can’t get over the insane pressure these kids are under to make these moments Instagram-worthy. From giant signs to full-on public performances! Honestly, we’re kind of glad this wasn’t a thing when we were teens. What happened to a simple “Will you go to prom with me?” folded up in a note?

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We’re talking about "mean girls" and how mean girl behavior has evolved in the digital age. It’s no longer just whispered comments or exclusion at recess—today, manipulation can happen through group chats, DMs, screenshots and social media posts. Girls are being targeted in more subtle, calculated ways—using each other’s words against them, turning private conversations into public humiliation, and isolating others with just a few taps on a screen. It’s hard to know how to help. How can we support our kids through a social landscape that’s constantly shifting?

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How many times do dolphins have sex? And do manatees masturbate? This week, we somehow dove into the sex habits of mammals—starting with dolphins and then wandering into even stranger waters with manatees and whether or not they enjoy a little “solo” time. Which oddly led us straight to dinosaurs. Did they actually have sex? Or did they just lay eggs and call it a day? We have zero science degrees but so many questions.

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Nat reveals her latest indulgence that has taken over her mornings - and maybe her waistline - bagels. The conversation spirals from there into why Cat works out and how great it would be to bring back the workout mentality of the 80's. In a surprise twist, Nat shows us exactly what her teenage workout looked like—and it’s not what you would expect. If you are only listening to this podcast, stop what you are doing right now and go watch it on Youtube. Trust us on this one!

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What’s really happening behind our kids’ screens? As parents, it’s more important than ever to educate ourselves to the max. We can’t assume our kids would “know better” — because when it comes to fast decisions and online pressure, common sense often goes out the window. N*des are being sent and received every single day. And most of us weren’t raised with any kind of rulebook for how to handle that — let alone how to help our kids through it. That’s why we need to truly understand what’s going on so we can parent them through it...

We sat down with Dr. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. — a renowned sex and relationship therapist, TEDx speaker, and author of Open Monogamy and When You're the One Who Cheats. She also happens to be Ashley Madison’s Resident Sex and Relationship Expert... so you know we came prepared with a lot of questions! We chat through some eye-opening stats, hear real stories from Dr. Tammy's experiences, and unpack why people cheat. If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on behind closed doors, this one’s for you! For more on Dr. Tammy find her @doctor_tammynelson and check out...

This week we’re pulling back the curtain on what really goes down at dance competitions. When the pressure’s on, emotions can run high (like, really high), and suddenly moms become emotional buffers just trying to keep the peace. You're whispering calmly while your kid is spiraling because they haven’t eaten enough and their hair is secured with 37 bobby pins digging into their scalp. One wrong word could send them over the edge. Somehow, through all the tension and tiptoeing, there are lessons in patience, resilience, and how to show up when it’s hard. It’s exhausting...

We’re joined by Shannon Lee Simmons — award-winning Certified Financial Planner, speaker, bestselling author, Chartered Investment Manager, founder of the New School of Finance, and personal finance writer for The Globe and Mail and CBC Radio’s Metro Morning money columnist. Her new book, Making Bank, is written specifically for teens and covers everything from managing money earned through part-time jobs and allowances to saving, spending, and even investing. Shannon also dives into the topics today’s teens are genuinely curious about — like crypto, stock memes, online sports betting, and how to afford their Sephora hauls. Whether you’re a parent of...

This week we’re diving into some of the biggest relationship problems couples are facing in 2025 — and Nat shares that one of them is her personal favourite . From mixed signals to financial stress to the slow burn of disconnection, we’re breaking down what’s really going on behind closed doors. And have you heard of “grey divorce”? It’s a new trend on the rise — tune in to hear what it is, why it’s happening, and why it might be more relatable than you think.

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Can you actually learn to be happy? We all know that happiness isn't something you can buy, but can money help make you happy? So many of us are living pretty great lives but miss it because we’re busy chasing the next thing, comparing ourselves to everyone else, or feeling like we’re not where we “should” be. If your life doesn’t look exactly like the picture you envisioned, maybe it's time to recalibrate. We’d love to hear your take: What actually makes you happy right now? And if you’re feeling a little unhappy, what do you think w...

Teen sports are equal parts commitment and carpooling. In this episode, we’re talking about that tricky moment in time when your kid wants to quit sports. Do you let them? Do you push through? Some parents have rules like “one school sport per semester,” but we’re not in the market for forcing our kids to do things they’re miserable doing—because then guess what? It becomes our problem. When to back off, when to encourage, and when to just let them call it quits?

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When we got married, we were young, in love, and willing to compromise a little to make it all work. But now, with a little life experience in the rearview mirror—and peri-menopause messing with our hormones—we have to ask: Would we do it all again, knowing what we know now? In this episode, Nat opens up about one of the biggest compromises in her marriage—something Mark let go of that didn’t seem like a huge deal at the time, but looking back, turned out to be far more meaningful than either of them realized.

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We are back to recap Nat’s big night out with the girls. She went to a dance club ready to relive her glory days and see how many men would hit on her—heels on, hair done, full confidence activated—and left a little… confused. Not one guy tried to pick her up. Not a wink, not even a drink. Was it the wedding ring? The unshakable confidence? We definitely need a do-over, but maybe this time the wedding rings will stay home.

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There’s helicopter parenting, bulldozer parenting, attachment parenting—and now lighthouse parenting. Honestly, we think we do middle of the road parenting: the do-what-works-best-for-you kind of parenting. It all gets messy when we start judging other people’s choices. We’re doing what works for us, and that doesn’t need to make sense to anyone else. You can love us or hate us, but at the end of the day, we’re just here to share our experiences. Do what’s right for your family.

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We need to know what really goes down in a beer league locker room. Are people just casually walking around naked?  Are their unspoken rules? Do you compare? We’d love an invite—strictly for observational purposes, of course. We’ll act normal. Eyes up. Promise.

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We started this episode off by discussing the airport theory—the one where you roll up as close to your flight as possible, breeze through security, and avoid wasting precious time browsing overpriced snacks. Basically, it’s how we’ve always done it… and now the internet finally gave it a name. We also shared some pretty funny border crossing stories, including the time Nat got asked if she was in adult entertainment. And we wrapped things up with a chaotic attempt to remember the name of a baseball team that involves bananas.

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We're not here to pat ourselves on the back, but we do like to keep it pretty real with our kids. Like how open we are about who we were back in the day—what we were like at school, how we handled being students and how we literally tapped out of traditional education at a certain point. We can help our kids with homework but at some point we hit our cap. When we were growing up, there was no ChatGPT—you had to call a friend, compare notes, and figure it out together. It was all peer-to-peer, and...

We dive right into the wild ride that is perimenopause—and let’s just say, it’s not a great time to be doing annoying husband things. Perimenopause has a way of turning up the volume on every little habit that used to mildly irritate you, and now you might just lose your mind over everything he does.

Nat gets very real with story after story about the little things she used to let slide. No time for that anymore.

Hormones may be fluctuating, but the standards are rising. If you're in perimenopause—or even standing...

Is White Lotus good or are we just hooked on chaos? We did a bit of a deep dive into White Lotus—before the season finale dropped. We're watching rich people spiral in luxury resorts, there’s major tension, awkward conversations, and that constant feeling that something bad is about to happen. It’s somehow so messed up… yet nothing is happening at the same time. Every character feels a little off in the most fascinating way. Subtle seeds are being planted. Let us know what you think, is this show brilliant or not worth it?

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Teenagehood today looks very different than it used to. Kids are home more and growing up in a world that’s far more supervised and a lot less rebellious. What happened to the sneaking out, the secrets, and the harmless mistakes that turned into life lessons (and great stories)? We grew up making questionable choices, pushing boundaries, and learning the hard way—and somehow, we turned out just fine. These days, even a small act of rebellion can earn a kid a harsh label. But aren’t teenagers supposed to mess up a little? In this episode, we’re reflecti...

Nat has a boyfriend. He lives down the street. She’s never met him. But she has lusted after him for years and is fully convinced they’d be perfect together… despite knowing absolutely nothing about him—not even his name. And just to keep things balanced, we (aka Cat) come to a shocking realization by the end of this episode that Nat may actually be kind of boring for her own imaginary boyfriend.

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Watching our daughters compete in dance this past weekend got us thinking about the life lessons they’re learning. They practice endlessly for a routine they only get one shot at, and they’re often really tough on themselves. A lot of people have walked away from dance because of the coaching culture—the yelling, the idea that tough coaching is the only way to make kids listen. If we normalize it and don’t push back, we’re passing the torch on what’s considered acceptable.

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Cesalina Gracie is a self-defense expert, entrepreneur, and athlete on a mission to help girls and women navigate life with confidence and strength. A passionate advocate for girls’ education, positive psychology, and women’s rights, she’s traveled across five continents delivering keynotes and workshops that empower women to unlock their inner champion. And trust us—this conversation isn’t just for the girls. It’s one we all need to hear. The way you carry yourself can make you a target, and a strong voice with conviction is just as important as standing tall. This episode will change the way you...

The flu has us in a chokehold, so we’re bringing back one of your favourite episodes! Nat’s mind is in overdrive, spinning a full-blown fantasy with multiple characters—and someone we know just made the cast. She’s playing it out in her head, waiting to see who takes the lead role. It’s basically a novel unfolding in real-time, and we have no idea who the main character will be. Stay tuned, because this is about to get interesting!

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We know Tamron Hall as a two-time Emmy Award-winning television host and executive producer, but did you know she’s now a children’s book author too? We’ve shared so many fun moments with Tamron over the years, so getting to sit down with her to chat about Harlem Honey: The Adventures of a Curious Kid was an absolute blast. Tamron shares how her son’s endless curiosity and sense of wonder inspired Harlem Honey, bringing to life a story that captures the joy of discovering the world around you. Grab your copy here: https://www.harpercollins.com/products...

We were a little all over the map on this episode. First, we dive into whether our kids are destined to choose someone completely opposite from us. Then, we take a little detour into Nat’s sleeping pills before diving into the future—why the next generation will probably hate anyone over 45 for ruining everything with technology, and how they just might take it all back. We’re talking about originality becoming the ultimate currency, the comeback of soft skills and trade jobs, and why no matter how advanced AI gets, it’ll never replace human creativity.

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Emojis aren’t just cute little symbols. Our kids are using them to tell a story, and most parents have no clue what they actually mean. In this episode, we dive into the Netflix show "Adolescence" and how we often hear parents say the words “my kid would never”. Those words might be the most naive thing you can say as a parent. It’s our job to set the boundaries, to teach them how to navigate a device that can expose them to things they’re not ready for. If we don’t understand the way they use their phones...

Marriage or a commitment isn’t just one relationship—it’s three in one: the sexual, the stable, and the loving. But nobody teaches us how important that friendship piece is! Marriage is so freaking complicated and nothing like Temptation Island. That honeymoon-phase chemistry looks amazing on TV, but in real life it's a whole different story. This is part one, and next week, we’ll dive into what it takes to keep all three relationships thriving for the long haul!

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