bed hoppers - swinging in the UK

Thanks for checking us out! In this delightful episode we follow up on Mrs H's side quest, which we spoke about in the previous podcast. Essentially, she was challenged to film some naughty content and send it to Mr H whilst he was on his solo date. Did she film it? Did she send it? Was it sexy? For the answers to this and more, take a lovely listen to this show!

We cover how we're feeling about pictures and videos, if that's changed following the side quest and what we might do in the future. Might...

Ahhhh swingers and posting pictures. Have you ever joined a swinging site and recoiled in horror at some of the pictures posted? Perhaps you feel like you could never compete? Or maybe you constantly share pictures and videos every three and a half minutes? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you are prob'ly human! Congratulations! We talk about all things posting pics and vids. We cover what we like, what doesn't work for us and how things have changed. Mrs H accepts a challenge and we share our thoughts on why we do what we...

This episode features delightful guests Mr and Ms J - who talk about their journey into the swinging lifestyle. We cover a whole host of things from dealing with anxiety, diving straight into clubs, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and what challenges children might bring into their adventures. Mr and Mrs H also have a bit of a chat about getting videos and pictures - it's only the start of that conversation but we'd love to know your thoughts. Bob us an email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com 

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Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast. In this episode we talk about our last week or two and how it feels like we’re turning a corner. From awesome threesomes to sexy solo dates and steps in the right direction on meds, it has certainly been a delightful period!

We bring you up to date on our latest escapades, talk about our solo adventures, recount some sexy moments and celebrate how things are on the right track. It might not all be perfect, but it’s lovely to share a slice of the good stuff that’s been g...

This episode starts with an update from us, we check in on Mrs H's menopause progress, chat about the Thrifty shades of grey event and touch on some of our recent adventures.   Our main feature is an interview with Sam, an energetic single man in his early 40s, who describes himself as bisexual and "ADHD as hell". Sam is navigating the lifestyle after a 16-year vanilla relationship, exploring experiences while seeking companionship. He talks about some of the challenges, his advice for newcomers and how he'd bring up the lifestyle conversation with a new partner. He's a delightful guest with p...

We invite two lovely ladies, Bunny and A, to join us for a chat exploring their journey, swinging lifestyle experiences and what they'd throw into room 101. They talk about their new relationship, how it came about and what it means for them and A's partner. We touch on our recent social event, announce a new one and they fire a question or two at us. It's a fabulous interview, digging into new relationships, exploring new dynamics and finding out more about hot husbanding too. 

If you're interested in our Thrifty Shades of Grey event in December, do g...

In this episode we speak to Jess, who shares her personal journey and insights into the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle. Jess, describing herself as a "9-year-old who has been to a lot of therapy", recounts entering the scene through polyamory after university and later discovering swinging post-lockdown.
She identifies as solo poly, preferring to engage in swinging independently, shaped by her own desires and boundaries. Jess emphasises the importance of "doing the work" to unlearn monogamous norms, reframing jealousy, and establishing clear boundaries, particularly not dating monogamous individuals or poly people with negative views on swinging. She covers body image...

In this episode we bring you up to date on what's being going on in our lives. From poorly pets, to great lifestyle success, solo dates, all the way through to HRT - we give you a behind the scenes look at life with the bed hoppers. Find out if Mrs H picked up on some recent sexy hints!
We move on to talk about Channel 4's Open House programme. We talk about what worked for us in season three, what could have been better and why we occasionally yelled at the TV. We add some listener views...

In this episode we chat to single fella Gav. He talks about his journey, how he's started exploring his bi side and some of the challenges you might face as a single gentleman exploring the swinging lifestyle. We cover advice for newbies, what Gav would put in the lifestyle bin and if we've ever deleted one of our podcast recordings. It's fun romp through one man's journey from newbie to experienced swinger.

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Look out for Gav on Fabswingers and other sites at gavla7799.

In this episode (part two of two) we talk about our final few days in Cap d'Agde and our experience as part of the Spicy Match and Libertine event. We cover the foam party, Le Glamour and our overall experience in the French naturist village. We pick up where we left off on the question 'are we shit swingers?' and try to figure out what's changed and why. As ever, we'd love your thoughts - so please reach out to bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. 

This one is perfect if you're looking to explore Cap d'Agde, thinking about a...

In this episode we talk about our trip to the South of France, visiting the naturist village of Cap d'Agde. 

This one is a two parter - with more to follow, but we do explore the first half of our week. We talk about about some of the clubs, events and what we got from our Spicy Match trip. From poolside orgies to cold sores - this one covers a lot of ground! Mr H takes time out to reflect on 'if we are good swingers?' and we talk about our style. If you're heading to C...

In this episode we talk about Mrs H's solo adventure in Paris. Was it all Pokemon hunting or was there something a little more naughty? We explore how it all went, how we felt during the trip and talk a little bit about what Mr H got up to whilst Mrs H was away. 

Will Mrs H bring him back a croissant, will it be too hot in Paris, will Mr H have changed the theme tune again and what happens when storm stops play? Find out all of this and more in this delightful edition of t...

This episode features a candid conversation with delightful guests Ads and Chantelle, about their experiences in the swinging lifestyle.

They discuss how they initially entered the lifestyle through an amateur adult content blog and the subsequent evolution of their relationship, including Chantelle's discovery of her bisexuality and Ads's exploration of his own.

The couple shares insights into overcoming challenges, such as ghosting and boundary violations, and emphasise the importance of communication and building a supportive community within the lifestyle. They also touch upon their role in organising social events and offer advice to newcomers, advocating...

In this episode we dive into a discussion about rules and boundaries. We talk about how our rules have evolved from when we first started swinging, how they’ve changed and why we’ve changed them. We explore why we have them there in the first place and if we’ve broken any rules along the way.

You might find this a useful listen if you’re about to explore ethical non monogamy and swinging - or it might be a timely reminder to have a discussion about your current rules and boundaries. Either way, we dig into the...

In this episode we catch up on our solo dating experiences and explore why we've been having some separate play dates over the last few months. We cover what's to come and why we might keep this activity as part of our overall play experience. If you're looking to explore this aspect of Swinging, this one might inspire a conversation or two. And if you're just looking to be entertained, there's nothing better than Mrs H trying to tell a sexy story (we can't back that up). 

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Did you know that data is sexy? Join our episode today and find out about a recent survey we put out about swinging and people's experiences. We make some surprising discoveries about when people started, who brought it up and what people would throw in the swinging lifestyle bin. From age ranges to play-style preferences, we excel at exploring a whole range of data (ha! spreadsheet puns - I wonder what the formula for those is?).

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Come along to the Manchester Mixer - details here...

This episode features Rich and Jo, who playfully describe each other before discussing their entry into the swinging lifestyle via online platforms and initial club experiences. A key theme is communication, which they highlight as crucial for navigating their relationship and has positively impacted their "vanilla" life. They also delve into their adult ADHD diagnoses, finding relief in understanding their behaviours, and discuss the potential link between neurodiversity and the lifestyle, including the concept of "risky sexual behaviour".

Navigating jealousy and boundaries is explored through personal anecdotes, emphasising that jealousy is normal but manageable within agreed...

Thanks for joining our 200th episode! Some very special guests host this one and put us (Mr and Mrs H) under the spotlight. The conversation explores the podcast's origins, our favourite episodes, and memorable guests, and touches on some of the challenges too. We explore events we've have hosted and dream events we'd host if given the chance!

Of course, we trade some playful jabs about our past misadventures. We offer some podcasting advice and future aspirations for the show. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed - here's to another 200!

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In this episode we talk about how we've had a few dates recently and offer some top tips on the topic.

We discuss our experiences with 'social dates' - exploring potential romantic connections with other couples or singles within the swinging lifestyle. We share advice on initiating contact, choosing appropriate venues, communicating effectively, and navigating the complexities of physical intimacy on a first date.

Our conversation also touches on pre-date preparations, communication methods, and dealing with post-date reflections. Finally, we offer tips for listeners on how to have successful social dates, emphasising safety, respect, and...

In this episode we talk to the delightful Ticket2Ride and quiz them about how they got started, what it's like identifying as a straight girl in a bi-world and how not everyone has a fantasy. We take time out to explore their journey, the ups and downs and what they'd like to throw in the lifestyle bin. We also announce a brand new event - a social in Manchester!

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Check out our guests on SwingHub at 'Ticket2Ride' and on Fab at https://www...

In this episode we talk to the New Forest Couple - that's Andrew and Clare. We explore their journey, approach and some of the challenges they've faced along the way. Clare opens up about how and why events and meets can be a struggle and offers some great advice for anyone with a disability looking to join the lifestyle. This is an open and honest conversation that you will not want to miss.

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Find out about The New Forest Couple by heading to Swinghub and...

In this episode we interview sexy friends Pennylane and Starlord. Be warned though - it's Mr H's birthday and it's possible that we've had some cocktails. We explore some of the challenges they've faced, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and learn how they got started in the swinging lifestyle. Join us for a really fun conversation and exploration into how this couple have navigated their experiences.

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Find out more about Starlord and Pennylane by heading to fab at: https://www.fabswingers.com/profile...

In this episode we talk to Shiv and Tom - a couple who are relatively new in their journey. They talk about their experiences, how they got started, advice for folks just starting out and what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin. It's a fun little conversation - with something for everyone.

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Find Shiv and Tom on Swinghub by searching 'Shiv&Tom'

Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/<...

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast!

In this episode we kick off a brand new series of interviews. We'll be chatting to guests about their journey, their thoughts on ethical non monogamy and the highs, lows and challenges that they've faced. This week we are joined by Ruby and Cole who share how they got started, talk about their dynamic and their tips on what to do if you get locked out of your room.

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Find Ruby and Cole on Swinghub b...

In this episode we explore New Years Eve (NYE) and some of our previous experiences of the night. We talk about what to expect, how to survive and tackle some of our top tips. We touch on house parties, nights at clubs, managing expectations, what to wear and more. If you're thinking of doing a swinger club on NYE (be it your first club visit or your 100th) then this might just be the episode for you! 

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In this episode we take time out to explore an article that featured in the Sun. We talk about some of the reactions from the community and how we feel about it. We also share a story where Mr H faces a challenging moment and isn't performing to his normal standards. What went wrong and what have we learned since then?

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Read the article we mention: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/31158998/gran-canaria-nude-beach-swinging-orgies-sex/

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

In this episode we field some questions from our listeners and discord community. Questions include if we see ourselves in the lifestyle in 10 years time, would we ever leave, is there anything we'd change about our journey and who do we admire? We work out which celebs would be on our hall passes and if we've had any negative experiences that have had a lasting impact. It's a fun rambling exploration of our past, present and future. 

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In this edition of the bed hoppers podcast we talk about female masturbation and put Mrs H in the hot seat. We talk about when she started, how frequently and what it means to her. We both explore the OMGYES site and talk about our experience in trying it out. Mrs H attempts to talk us through some sexy times too.

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In this episode Mrs H goes on a solo date and has a sexy catch up with a lady friend. We talk about what she got up to (cue awks retelling of sexy times), what the experience was like and if she'd like to do it all again. Since it's us, not everything goes to plan - so we also talk about what went wrong and how we might do things differently. We talk about solo play in general and then a have a recording from some delightful friends covering their experiences in going Han-Solo. 

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In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in things that shocked them once they had started swinging - and what really surprised them. From costs and cliques to reactions about bi guys and expectations around bi ladies - this one covers a whole bunch of surprising things!

Do let us know what has surprised you since you've started on your adventures. Stay tuned to the very end...

In this episode we talk about our Neon Dreams event at Vanilla Alternative. We cover the behind the scenes gossip, the naughty times, the changes to VA and how it went for us. If you've ever wondered what a swingers takeover might be like, how VA has changed over the years or just want a nose about how our recent event went - then this is the episode for you. From lap dances and photography classes to pre-parties and walks of shame, there's something here for everyone!

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In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If you've ever wondered how we got started or how things have changed in the lifestyle, then this might just be the episode for you.

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In this thrilling instalment we take a look at threesomes - and how we rock them (we can't actually back up that we rock them). We talk about some recent experiences, things to think about and how we've negotiated a FMF or two in the past. If you're thinking about sorting something similar, this could be just the pod for you. You might also enjoy it if you like us warbling on for a bit. This one has something for almost everyone. Prob'ly. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

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In this episode we talk about our adventure to Croatia and the Spicy Match Spicy Island. We run through what to expect, what the accommodation is like, the sort of people there, the playrooms, the food, the nights, our experiences and much, much more. From steampunk to sexy times - if you've never experienced a Spicy Match event - this is the episode for you. 

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Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

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In this episode we put our son Morgan in the hot seat. We interview him about being the child (albeit now a grown adult) of swingers, what happened when he found out about our lifestyle, his thoughts on talking to your kids about it and what happened when we were off on adventures.

This one might be useful if you've ever thought about talking to your family about your swinging lifestyle - and understanding how your kids might react. Do get in touch if you have any questions - and thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we explore what we've been up to over the last few weeks - from planning events, some lovely social meets and checking out the SSocial Club in Bournemouth. Then, since it's Pride month, we have a chat with Mrs H about her bisexuality - what it means to her and how she discovered that she was bi. 

Happy Pride everyone - and thanks for hopping into our podcast!

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Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

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In this episode Mr and Mrs H both experience separate dates and solo play! On the same day! With the same person! Without completely spoiling this episode, we both have some adventures and talk about what went right, what could we have done better and how we might change things in future. From taking a swing to robots on the big screen, this one literally has it all. Oh - and it also has the conclusion to the sexy story we've been sharing. Miss that one at your peril!

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In this thrilling instalment, we turn to our AI overlords to ask 'what would be the best ever swinging podcast?' We get some ideas and then jump straight online to record them! This one is like a mini-guide to swinging in 50 mins or so. Hopefully there's some fun to be had too! 

Oh - and if you liked our sexy story from last time, stick around to the end! There might be a treat just for you!

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Welcome to the bed hopper podcast.

Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we do what we do best and sit down and have an honest conversation about what's going on and how we might tackle it. We explore some options, talk about how we're feeling and think through our recent conversations with friends (check out the patreon for a special on that). And to top it off, there might just...

In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the like. We announce that we're going to SpicyIsland and talk about what that's gonna be like too.

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Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

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In this episode we talk about the Black and White Ball, which we hosted with the Lovely Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. We go behind the scenes to talk about how the event went, run through what it's like being a host and also cover some of the sexy times we had during the weekend. Mrs H struggles to tell a sexy story and we delve into why that might be the case. 

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Send Mrs H your phrase at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com 

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In this episode we share an update on what's been going on in our lives lately. We talk about the support we've had from friends in the lifestyle and why things haven't been easy. But don't worry - it's not all doom and gloom - we quickly move onto some lifestyle adjacent TV (think Game of Keys and Couple to Throuple) and then ask Mrs H about what's happening with her solo date! 

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In this episode Mr H catches up with the marvellous Secret Stag for a chat about life, the universe and everything. From hotwifing and taking Secret vixen out on a date - all the way through to top tips for men - this one covers a wide range of random fun topics. Does Secret Stag enjoy the limelight? Will we be tempted by the one ring? How many pop culture references can we fit in one sitting? Find out all of this and more today!

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After taking time out to interview the lovely Secret Vixen in our last episode, Mrs H turns the tables on Secret Stag and interviews him one on one. They delve deeper into the world of hotwifing, cuckolding and stag and vixen dynamics. They explore just what makes Secret Stag tick and what drives his desires. If you've ever thought about being a stag (or cuck) this might just be the episode for you. 

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UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our Black and White Ball with the W...

In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag stay out of it for the benefit of all listeners! Download now for a fabulous convo with fabulous ladies. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

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Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don't forget, if you'd like to send us a question, hit us up at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

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Special thanks to the following for submitting a question on our live stream...

https://twitter.com/Elanjay_UK

https://twitter.com/MistressVixen77

Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang!

This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were last there pre-pandemic), some of the amusing stories and a little bit of the sexy times that we had on the night. We also talk about Mr H's birthday (thanks for all of the well wishes) and some of the drama we've been dealing with since the end of December. It's a fun filled...

In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H reveals what she got up to - and Mr H gives the deets of his sexy story. Would we do it again? You'll just have to listen to find out! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

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This episode is part two (of a two part podcast). The first one is on the Wanderlust Swingers show (https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder) and is called UK Swingers Hotel Takeover. We chill out with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers and talk about the Winter Wonderland event - our joint event which was the largest swinging hotel takeover that's ever happened in the UK (what a mouthful). We go behind the scenes, talk about our highlights, some of the feedback and how it all went down. Find out more about the room crawl, action on the buses and why we went...

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We take time out to follow up on a discussion we'd started in Miami. For some context, in Florida Mrs H missed out on the opportunity to play with some ladies/one particular lady. This, linked in with some observed changes to our approach, has prompted some discussion about separate play. So, we lay it all out on the table and talk about why this might be a thing, how we're feeling about it and what it could change for our relationship.

Hope you find it a useful discussion. 

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Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about our recent adventure to Florida and how Miami Podcast-A-Palooza (PCAP) went for us. We cover what it was like at the event, what we got up to and our thoughts on returning. There's some theme park talk and a little bit of naughty too - something for everyone! 

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Find out more about about PCAP and other Libertine events here: https://libertineevents.com/

In this episode we speak to the lovely Olivia and Gage about Swinghub (their new lifestyle dating app), appearances on TV (including Open House) and also explore how they met and what they do with their spare time! We have some fun along the way, chat about our shared TV experiences and find out much more about them too! 

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In this episode we have a chat about some upcoming events and talk through our approach. What are our expectations, some of our rules and boundaries - and how are we going to make the best of our experience. Take a listen to find out how we prep for events - and have some honest conversations about how we think it might go! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

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Come to our Winter Wonderland event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

In this episode we have a quick catch-up on Mrs H's birthday and then dive right in to the topic of the day - our visit to Swindon Swingers Club. We give you the basics on how it works, what it's like and try to remember the layout off the top of our heads. It's a handy guide if you're planning to visit for the first time! We also cover a little bit about how we're feeling when visiting clubs and how we're a little out of practice.

Special thanks to the Swindon team for being so...

Thanks for downloading our show! In this episode we answer some listener questions - from making a great first impression and recovering from an illness - all the way through to an exploration of masturbation (thanks for that one, Mrs H!). We also announce our brand new event (Winter Wonderland) that we're hosting with the amazing Wanderlust Swingers. We offer an update on our home lives and talk a little about what's to come! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

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Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about some of the sexy times we had on our Going Dutch adventure. From six in a tiny room to a show for two - this one has it all. We cover the naughty times but also deep dive into a something of a hiccup on the Sunday afternoon. We talk about losing yourself in the moment and how much you give to your play partners - and we wonder how much hanger plays into our play experience.

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Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about our Going Dutch event with the Wanderlust Swingers. We cover the basics on the trip and explore the two clubs that we visited - Fata Morgana and Fun4Two. We compare the two and reveal our favourite - handy if you're heading to Amsterdam and the like. Do get in touch if you've been to either club or have some other recommendations. 

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Thanks for taking a look at our podcast. In this episode we talk about our Hot Summer Nights event at Penthouse Playrooms (co-hosted with the Wanderlust Swingers) and how it went for us and for special guests HiscockHertail (LV and VI). We cover what's been going on at home and the lead up to the event - along with a few spicy details about the night. 

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Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we answer popular listener question - what are our favourite clubs in the UK? So, we talk about our top three and explore just why we'd recommend them, the good, the bad and the ugly. Well, mostly the good - we're pretty positive. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

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The Vanilla Alternative: https://va2.co.uk/

Le Boudoir: https://leboudoir.club/sessions/new

Penthouse Playrooms: https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com/

Thanks for picking our podcast! In this episode we talk about our worst experience ever. We delve into some of the meets that have gone wrong and then into a situation that we'd never want to repeat. We explore a weekend break from several years back that we've never discussed on the podcast before. Trigger warning - it includes a hospital trip and a seizure - so please keep that in mind as you listen.

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Come to our Hot Summer Night event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about a rather exciting weekend. From bottomless drinks and hosting friends all the way through to our social event and a very sexy threesome. Sounds like a great weekend to us. Secret kisses and sleepy hand jobs too! We also talk about attending a rather lovely social event in Oxford. Apologies in advance for Mr H's voice - I'm sorry, I have a cold! 

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Join our Hot Summer Nights event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

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Thanks for downloading our podcast. This one is a chat between us - we decided to ask each other some questions that we think everyone might benefit from. So, consider this a lifestyle and relationship check-in. The questions are...

1. Why are we doing this?

2. Are we having fun?

3. What does the future look like?

4. How are we staying connected?

5. Is there anything you'd like to tell me?

We run through the questions and come up with some (perhaps) surprising answers. Hope you enjoy it - do let u...

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we interview great friends the Twoofus (or the Twoofers) - and find out more about how they came to join the lifestyle, their favourite clubs and who they'd have over for tea. There's some fun along the way with favourite sandwiches and who'd play us and them in our own film. 

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Find out more about the Twoofus here: https://twitter.com/Thetwoofus2019

Join our Going Dutch event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

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In this episode we tackle some of the great swinger myths - where they might come from, if any of them are actually true and which are just urban legends.  Mrs H pulls together a list of her favourites and tests Mr H on the fact or fiction. A fun little adventure through some of those crazy things we've heard in the swinging lifestyle. Thanks for hopping into our show!

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Hot Summer Nights event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Going Dutch event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

In this episode we invite fabulous friends Secret Vixen and Secret Stag on for a discussion on guilt. We cover feeling guilty as parents, carers and friends as we take time out to explore our sexuality and the swinging and hot-wifing lifestyles. If you've ever felt bad for dropping your friends, leaving your kids with the grand-parents or having your own life - this might just be the topic for you. 

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Did you know that we were on TV again? In the UK we were on 5Star (a Channel 5 thing) on a show called Adults Only - swingers wanted. At the time of publishing, it's still available on catch up. We talk about filming, what on earth made us do TV again and what we thought about the programme. We compare it to our previous effort on television and work through what worked well and what wasn't for us. We also talk about some of the great events we've got coming up!

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We delve into some random listener questions - from the ultimate Batman to perfecting your profile. Should you sh1t on your own doorstep and how long have we been name and face out? There's some serious discussion and some fun to be had too. Also - look out for the slightly new intro!

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In this episode we take a look at our recent Red Hot Party (hosted with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers). We talk event prep, how it went on the night and how Mr H has been feeling reflecting back on it.

And, since it's our 150th episode, we also take a stroll through memory lane and recall some of our favourite bed hopper episodes - and why they mean so much to us.

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In this episode the delightful Cate from Wanderlust Swingers Podcast joins us - and we talk about making the most of events. We cover our top tips for a successful event, some of the dos and don'ts and how to get the best errr bang for your buck. Cate's experience in running events comes in really handy - as does our ability to get it wrong!

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Thanks for checking out our show. In this episode we talk about a couple of naughty weekends and what we got up to. For the first, we stay away to see some amazing folks and, for the second, we have some delightful guests stay the night. We talk about some sexy times, cover some interesting questions that get raised as result and have some fun along the way. 

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In this episode we talk about some of the stuff we didn't expect when we entered the swinging lifestyle. We reflect on the good stuff and take a walk through the not-so-good stuff too. From increasing costs to fabulous friends and more - it's a fun reflection on some of the more surprising things we've discovered.

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In this episode we fly out to a club in Rotterdam (Fun4two) and give you a low down on if it's hot or not. We explore the rooms, restaurant and what it's like partying on NYE! We hang round with delightful friends Cate and Darrell from the Wanderlust Swingers - and talk about how we saw the New Year in with a bang! From tantric tents to full body massage, this one has it all...

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This time around we take time out to reflect on 2022 and have a think about what we're looking forward to in 2023. We walk through some of our highlights, what's on our fucket list for the new year and what we're planning!

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We’re hosting an event with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers. Get your tickets here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

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Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode things go right and we talk about three recent threesomes that we've had. That's three encounters with some single ladies! Is it a bit humble-braggy? Maybe! But we reflect on what's gone right, how we've navigated them and the learnings we've taken from some of our adventures of late.

We're aware that the sound on this one isn't up to our usual standard - but hopefully you'll enjoy the show regardless! Thanks for hopping into our bed.

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Thanks for downloading our show! This time around we talk about our trip to Vanilla Alternative at Halloween. It’s our first ever swinging lifestyle Halloween party - we talk costumes, partying and playtimes! We also had something of a hiccup - so we talk about what went wrong and how we dealt with it. A number of sexy friends join us to describe their naughty night, too!

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Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we take our first visit to Swinger club Penthouse Playrooms and review the club. We talk about a hiccup that we faced, what went down and how we handled it. We give you some insight into a sexy moment in one of the rooms (which has an unusual ending). We also announce our new event with Wanderlust Swingers!

Find out about Penthouse here: https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com

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In this episode we talk to good friends Wizard and Jester about their journey so far. We explore Locktober and just why Wizard is wearing a cage. It's a bit of a deep dive into chastity play and what that dynamic looks like for couples in the swinging and Hotwire lifestyle.

Ever wanted to know about cock-cages, power dynamics and denial? This might just be the episode for you!

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This week we bring you up to date with our latest adventures and trials and take time out to talk about how you might do different things with your play partners. Do you kiss them differently? Do you do things with them that you don’t do with your own partner?

We explore roles and boundaries, along with play styles to find out how to navigate this tricksy conversation.

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In this episode we talk about our event at Le boudoir - a Night at the Glitz. We cover the highs, the lows and also share a sexy story which involved something of an orgy in one of the playrooms. Don't forget to check out Wanderlust Swingers podcast for their take on the event. Thanks to everyone who helped to make the night special.

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In this episode we talk about a very sexy threesome with our good friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen. Mrs H take a backseat and directs the action. This one gets a little spicy! 

That leads us nicely into a deep conversation about our fantasies and where we might end up in the future. Are things changing or are they staying the same? Are we being honest with our wants and desires? You'll just have to listen to find out...

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Thanks for downloading our show. This time around we get flipped off by bed hopper patrons Mr and Mrs Nerd (also known as the XXXFiles). We ask them a bunch of questions and then the tables get turned and they probe us! From favourite body parts and sandwiches, all the way through to living without Pokemon and robots - this is a fun little episode that you won't want to miss.

The XXXFiles will be joining us at our Night at the Glitz event in September. If you'd like to come along, check out the link below.<...

Welcome to episode 136. This time around we catch up with the amazing Cate and Darrell from Wanderlust Swingers podcast. We answer questions from a whole host of listeners and apply our swinging experiences to offer some advice, stories and have some fun along the way. Topics include warning other people about poor behaviours, jealousy and being emotionally in the right place - and Darrell's approach to avoiding getting punched.

This is part one of a two parter - you can find part two on the Wanderlust Swingers show (links below).

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Welcome to our second flip you off special - where we interview our good friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen and then the tables get turned and they interview us. From snog, marry and avoid with the avengers - all the way through to what we love most about each other, this one covers a whole range of topics. Be sure to stay to the very end for something of a sing-a-long!

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Welcome to episode 134 and our new bed hoppers flip you off series!

What's flip you off about? We interview guests and find out all about them - and then the tables get turned (or flipped) and they interview us! It's a great chance to find out about other people in the lifestyle and explore their unique perspective! Kicking off this series is delightful couple (and bed hopper Patrons) Max and Mabel - who talk about their dog, how they met and which super power we should have. 

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In this episode we finally announce our next event - A Night at the Glitz! It's being held in Le Boudoir, London on 24 September 2022. If you're interested, there's a link below. We talk about the end of our American holiday and visiting the delightful Sapphic Swingers and the Trapeze club in Fort Lauderdale. And for the main part of the episode Mrs H questions Mr H on his confidence and  why he's not as confident as he sounds. It's an intimate conversation that might help you if you're facing c...

Thanks for downloading our show. This time around we talk about PCAP and cover some of our highlights for the event. We reflect on our experiences and discuss why we didn't play and how we were feeling. We offer some tips for attending similar events - and what we'd do differently in the future.

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This episode was recorded on the last day of PCAP (that's PodCast-A-Palooza). Mickey and Mallory from the Casual Swingers join us to talk about PCAP, their session, some random observations and a bit of a chin wag. We cover some top tips for filming and explore swearing in the UK and USA. The big question is, will our voices hold up? Hopefully this episode will be Mallory approved!

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This time around we talk about a recent visit to the Le Boudoir swingers club in London. We offer some thoughts on the club, talk through our night (including a hint of sexy times) and solve the mystery of where Mrs H went.

We also talk about Eurovision and a slightly inebriated Mr H (drinking Mega Pints of SnakeJuice, no less). This one has a little something for everyone. 

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This episode is all about our recent come together event - where we took over Vanilla Alternative for an evening and hosted nearly 100 amazing swingers. We chat about what went well, what we'd do to improve it and cover all of the behind the scenes gossip. Tune in to find out who wore the same dress as Mrs H, why Mr H now has a towel with his face on it and if we ever made it to the hot tub.

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This time around we talk about some questions that came up from a recent threesome - and if it was really going to be a booty call. This leads on to a little chat about consent, asking for what you want, celebrating saying no and, of course, Schrödinger's cat. We dive into the Little Mermaid and touch on body language and Hogwarts houses. Like us - it's a short one, but a good one!

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This week we cover three Hot Octopuss toys - the Kurve, the Jett and the Pulse Duo. We natter about bass, treble and Mickey Mouse ears. We also take time out to talk about using toys in the lifestyle and why Mrs H isn't always keen on the idea. 

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In this episode we speak to the delightful Cate from the Wanderlust Swingers about all things events. What makes a good one, what makes a bad one, what should you wear - we cover it all. We talk about value for money and offer some tips for first timers too. If you're thinking about attending an event - this is a great place to start! 

We also announce our brand new website and blog - check out the links below for more info.

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Thanks for downloading our podcast. Ever wanted to know what it's like being a bull? This is the episode for you!

We chat to Ashley Del Toro, Chicago’s Premier Hotwife Lover, about all things bull, hotwife, stag and vixen. He gives us some insight into life as a bull, his top tips for finding the right single guy for you and what it's like flying across the world for a special meet. We cover a huge range of stuff including women being bulls, amazing experiences and the difference between a single guy and a bull. He's ve...

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In this episode we talk about a surprise MFM - and what it might mean (along with our forthcoming event) for our ever developing approach to the lifestyle. We announce that tickets for our Vanilla Alternative takeover event are now on sale. And we have a good ole natter about rules and boundaries.

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Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this bonus episode we talk about night two of our social 2.0. Why's that interesting? Well, there's an orgy with some amazing friends, for one. We spill the beans on some naughtiness. We also take time out to reflect on seeing our good friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen do their Hotwife thing. We talk about how we felt seeing a very different dynamic. 

We also finally announce our plans for an event at the Vanilla Alternative on 23 April. Look out for tickets soon!

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Trigger warning - this one is a little bit of a name dropping humblebrag. We talk about our second social event and how it went. Mrs H names and shames the people who misbehaved, we talk about a couple of surprise guests and we have some audio clips from people who attended. We speak about what went well and how we could improve it for next time.

Oh, and we tease something awesome that's coming on 23 April and a bonus episode for next week.

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We return to the Vanilla Alternative after a couple of years off (blooming pandemic, eh?). We give our thoughts on the updated club and interview some folks who went along with us, along with some listeners we bumped into.

Then it all gets a little bit hot. We talk about a seven person orgy that we hosted in our room on the night - and a few other things that we got up to in VA. Stay tuned to the very end for a bonus morning after 'interview'. It's a long one (giggity) but hopefully there's a...

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In this episode we announce that our second social has now sold out (thank you everyone) and speak to our incredible friend and special guest Violet (https://twitter.com/WhatVioletDid).

We talk about findom, pay pigs, camming, photography, us (hey, it is OUR show) and lots of other interesting things as we get to know Violet better. It's a fabulous insight into her crazy, crazy world and just why we call her the violent croissant. 

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This time we are joined by our delightful friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen. We talk about getting started in the swinging and Hotwife lifestyles (since it's a New Year and all that jazz). So, if you've decided to do something exciting for the New Year, this could be just what you're after. We offer some hints and tips and also explore some of our own journeys too. 

We announce our second social, forget to talk about our Christmas special (link below) and generally ramble along. 

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Thanks for downloading our show. This time around we take a trip to meet the delightful Clitbang (https://twitter.com/ms_clt) and Essex Sprite. We talk about our naughty night with them and then chat about a nice little social visit with Starlord and Pennylane (https://twitter.com/starlordandpen). We talk about sexy times, missed opportunities and why Mr H has to be involved at all times. We then give a nice overview on our highlights for the year and some thoughts on 2022.

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