The Weekly Hot Spot
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Language: en
Categories: Health, Fitness, Sexuality
The Weekly Hot Spot is a podcast hosted by Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika, with fabulous guests.. These women are active in the real-life fetish scene and do Distance Domination on the phone. Hear candid conversations about sex, fetish, BDSM, kink, phone sex, and even vanilla erotic pleasure. The show airs every Monday at 1 pm eastern. Check out our blog: www.weeklyhotspot.com
Episodes
Cum Eating Games that will test your obedience (and make you beg for more)
Dec 15, 2025What if the ultimate test of your submission wasn't about surrendering control, but about consumption? We’re talking about cum eating because this is such a hot, naughty and taboo sex act. Many people have a cum eating fantasy … but struggle to actually eat their own cum. A cum eating game can get a reluctant cum eater over the hump (so to speak).
Today, we explore the intricate psychology behind cum eating games. We go beyond the fantasy to examine how these practices can rewire your relationship with pleasure and obedience.
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5 Cliches about being submissive
Dec 08, 2025We’ve all heard them—the recycled lines, the oversimplified tropes, the porn-ified fantasy of what submission “should” look like. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika tear down the most persistent clichés about being submissive.
No ball-busting today. Just myth-busting. From the fantasy of total surrender to the myth that all subs crave pain, humiliation or degredation, we talk about our top 5 myths about being a submissive man—and exposr the misconceptions that keep men from truly understanding their power, their boundaries, and their joy in kink.
The Secret Thrill of Humiliation: Why Surrender Feels So Good
Dec 01, 2025Have you ever wondered why being put down turns you on? Why a Domme’s laugh, a sharp comment, or a teasing jab about your size leaves you harder than ever? You’re not alone — today we do a dive deep into one of kink’s most misunderstood, yet profoundly powerful dynamics: erotic humiliation.
We explore:How something that sounds painful — even shameful — becomes a gateway to ecstasy. How we, as Femdoms, use humiliation to unlock subspace. Why does being laughed at, judged, or playfully degraded feel so right for so many submissives? A...
Sissy secrets:The Fear of Being Found Out – Keeping Your Kink Private
Nov 24, 2025Have you ever had (or maybe still have) this fear: What if they find out? What will they think about me? You’re not alone. Today we take a dive deep into one of the most common — yet rarely spoken about — fears in the kink and sissy communities: the terror of being discovered.
Whether it’s a partner stumbling on your secret drawer, a family member finding your messages, or simply the crushing weight of “what if someone knows?” — this conversation is for every person who’s ever hidden a part of themselves out of fear.
Duration: 00:42:24
Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire with Dr. Jaime Grant
Nov 17, 2025What does great sex really mean? And why is the simplest question – “What do you really want?” – often the hardest one to answer?
In this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jaime Grant – researcher, LGBTQ+ advocate, and author of Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire – for a conversation that dismantles shame, celebrates pleasure, and redefines intimacy from the inside out.
This isn’t just a talk about kink or technique. It’s a deep dive into the emotional archaeology of desire – how sha...
Kink for Dummies with Dr. Jaime Grant
Nov 10, 2025Ever found yourself whispering a desire into the phone, prefacing it with, “You’re probably going to think I’m weird for this…”? If so, you’re far from alone. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika sit down with a true leader in the world of sexuality and relationships, Dr. Jaime Grant, to dismantle that very notion and explore the empowering landscape of kink.
Dr. Grant, a renowned research activist, relationship coach, and author of pivotal works like Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire and Polyamory for Dummies, joins us to...
When Someone You Love Is Kinky: Love, Fear, and the Power of Acceptance with Janet Hardy
Nov 03, 2025Today’s episode isn’t just a podcast about kink or BDSM – it’s a masterclass in emotional courage, vulnerability and redefining power in loving relationships. Author / kink educator, Janet Hardy helps to bridge the chasm between “normalcy” and kink.
Listener questions drive this episode and you’re likely to hear your own worries in their questions. You don’t have to be kinky to benefit from these insights - many of these issues are universal challenges in life: how do you be vulnerable enough to speak what you want and is it always a good id...
Ethical Sluts & Radical Ecstasy: Desire, Consent, and Coming Into Power with Janet Hardy
Oct 27, 2025What happens when surrender becomes sacred? When boundaries are not barriers—but bridges to deeper intimacy? Meet one of the most influential voices in modern kink culture. Janet Hardy is today’s guest. She’s the co-author of the revolutionary The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence … to name just two of her books. She has a wealth of knowledge and experience.
Listeners of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast, sent in a lot of questions and inspired this intimate conversation.
T...
Wired to Obey? How a Submissive Sissy Finds Power in Pleasing a Femdom Mistress
Oct 20, 2025Today’s episode is an intimate dive into one of the most misunderstood — yet deeply rewarding — dynamics in the world of Femdom and distance domination: the submissive sissy.
Spoiler: It’s not just about lace, lipstick, or humiliation.
It’s about surrender, self-discovery, and the quiet power found in your devotion to your Mistress.
Have you ever asked yourself:
“Why do I feel drawn to this role?”
“Is wanting to serve a woman… weak?”
“How do I truly become the sissy my Mistress deserves?”
…then this ep...
Kinky Halloween: Dressed by Mistress
Oct 13, 2025Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes.
First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN.
This is the perfect holiday for feminization in public.
We give some specific ideas how you can be femme and get away with your sissy play at a Halloween party.
The FILTHY MILFS return to talk blow jobs, sexy lingerie, having great sex and exploring BDSM
Oct 06, 2025Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine, hosts of the new podcast FILTHY MILFS return to have a candid conversation about sex, foreplay, power exchange, kink and more. If you’ve ever seen a group of women having a fun, lively conversation and wondered what they’re talking about then you’re in luck.
This is like we’re all sitting around with cocktails and dishing about:
Blow Jobs
How to make cum taste good
Reaction of women to sucking cock
Snowballing and cum eating
...
Meet the FILTHY MILFS, stars of a new podcast of the same name.
Sep 29, 2025They say they’re FILTHY and MILFY and this is a new podcast you will thoroughly enjoy! Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine are the FILTHY MILFS. Sophie says, “We’re just a couple of randy, curious, highly intelligent horny ladies.” What a fun conversation!
Topics include:
The power of female sexuality
Embracing the SLUT label
Social standards for the sexual behavior of women
Self empowerment that comes with BDSM, kink, Femdom, and sex work.
Sexual pleasure and aging
E...
Pleasure And Pain: the Femdom Guide To Rough Kink
Sep 22, 2025What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex? Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episode explores pleasure and pain to answer listener questions about BDSM.
Topics include:
What is rough kink in the framework of BDSM pain play?
How rough does it need to be to be considered BDSM?
Who gets to define it?
What are some of the items used in rough kink?
Does someone need a sp...
Behind the scenes with famous trans porn star Eva Maxim
Sep 15, 2025Popular adult entertainer with multiple accolades from AVN, XBIZ and Transgender Erotica Awards (just to name a few) returns to the podcast to talk about the porn industry, changes in the adult industry and being in control of her career.
Topics include:
Why being a porn star used to be more glamorous.
The role of Only Fans in changing the porn industry.
How Only Fans allows adult entertainers to connect directly with fans.
Creating custom adult content on demand.<...
Meet one of today's most popular porn stars, Eva Maxim.
Sep 08, 2025Get to know one of the hottest porn stars in the adult industry, Eva Maxim. This trans woman is the winner of a lot of awards. You know her from her hot sex scenes but today you’ll get a peek behind the scenes.
Today’s episode talks about:
Adult industry awards
The business side of pleasure
Why and how Only Fans has changed the adult industry.
Why she prefers producing content for Only Fans rather than filming a scene for a traditional porn...
All about threesomes!
Sep 01, 2025Are you curious about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes? This episode has tips on group sex, personal stories and lots of advice.
Adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser joins us to talk about her book: Threesomes: For couples who want to know more.
The Weekly Hot Spot podcast listeners sent in lots of questions.
How often does a threesome “just happen”?
How can you spot someone asking you to be in a threesome?
Do you think you’ve ever missed an opportunity for group sex?
All about BLOW JOBS with Lainie Speiser
Aug 25, 2025Questions about blow jobs? We’ve got answers in this episode with adult entertainment publicist Lainie Speiser.
How do women feel about giving blow jobs?
What do these three sexy women like most about giving a blow job?
Do porn stars actually enjoy giving blow jobs or do they fake it for the camera?
How do porn stars give great blow jobs?
Using your hand along with your mouth for blow jobs.
Tips...
His wife knows he’s a crossdresser. Now what?
Aug 18, 2025Meet Davina: a straight male who likes to crossdress. What is the reaction of the wife? How does the feminine side coexist with the masculine side?
Mistress Olivia reads parts of an email from a listener who describes herself as Davina, “I don't mean just someone who dabbles in panties or lingerie behind closed doors, I’ve developed a full feminine persona named Davina — she’s elegant, expressive, grounded, and very real to me.”
Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing, gender presentation and gender identity including:
Terms and labels used in gender expl...
Why do my sissy urges go away after I cum?
Aug 11, 2025A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around feminization urges and the cycles of desire to dress.
Is crossdressing more of a fetish or kink thing?
Why does someone who identifies as male wear women’s lingerie?
How important is submission to a Dominant Woman?
Is dressing en femme always about sex?
Is feminization drop similar to subdrop for a submissive?
Does the type of orga...
Femdom Chastity: new ideas for you
Aug 04, 2025Do you like chastity? We have some new ideas for you. Not sure if you want to explore chastity with a Femdom Mistress? Listen and find out why we love chastity.
A listener inspired this episode with the following questions:
What do women really think of male chastity and being a Keyholder?
Are some men meant to be in chastity?
What are your favorite chastity devices?
Mistress Erika points out that there are different kinds of cages for different...
Sissy Pageant: Finding self-acceptance with Femdom Feminization
Jul 28, 2025Sissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your life.
Many people answered that self-acceptance can be a challenge and that having a Mistress and a supportive community has made all the difference in the world.
Other comments touch on:
Motivation for consistent sissy training or being femmeFeminine style and who gets to decide how someone should look
Body hair while crossdressing or dressing en femme
M...
Behind the scenes of the porn industry with adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser.
Jul 21, 2025Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view.
Today, Lainie answers your questions:
Do adult entertainers really enjoy what they do?
Does sex ever become mundane for a porn star?
Do porn stars worry about cock size or other performance issues?
Penis size, porn and an unusual issue for huge cocks.
Are any performers in gay porn actually straight?
Men in panties
Jul 14, 2025Why does a man want to wear panties?
There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education.
Topics include:
How does panty wearing start?
Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties?
Is it always about sex or kink?
Can wearing women’s lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side?
Does wearing panties mean you’re gay, bi or trans?
Are you turned on by smart, sexy women?
Jul 07, 2025Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company.
Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or distance domination before coming to LDW Group so this is a perfect opportunity to talk about perception and reality around these fascinating aspects of human behavior.
Is phone sex always about sex?
Does every session ‘need’ to end with an orgasm?
Why does someone call an online Mistress?
Your hosts use personal storie...
What if all your edging ends in a ruined orgasm?
Jun 30, 2025Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss.
In this episode you’ll hear:
The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose.
Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny?
How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and delay, tease and deni...
He said no to BDSM pain play but got this surprise!
Jun 23, 2025Is pain play a hard limit for you?
If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next!
You’ll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play:
** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of sexual arousal?
** How can a Femdom...
Did you know about these interesting sex facts?
Jun 16, 2025How much do you know about sex?
There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be!
Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones.
Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun?
Are sex dreams only for horny young men?
Who stars in the...
We’re having a Sissy Pageant and you’re invited!
Jun 09, 2025When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun!
This event isn’t JUST for sissies. It’s for anyone into feminization or male submissives under orders from Mistress. We’re calling it a Sissy Pageant simply because we can’t fit this in a title: Trans woman, crossdresser, femmeboi, sissy and some male subs Pageant. See? That title is bulky.
This episode is about how to enter the Sissy Pageant, tips for your photos, advice and so much more. Your Femdom hosts go over t...
You need the ultimate sissy resume!
Jun 02, 2025Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi team up to create The Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume.
Today’s episode is all about how we will create your sissy slut resume. Goddess Demi came up with a very pretty sample resume. That is what you will get at the end, and like most things, it’s all about the journey. Our sissy slut resume journey begins with us asking you lots of questions.
We send you...
What does Femdom Mistress discipline really mean to you?
May 26, 2025Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.”
That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment.
In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the submissive.
Today’s episode includes:
General definitions with BDSM
Power exchange...
Feminization: What’s the origin story of your sissy name?
May 19, 2025Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?”
That’s the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.
Today’s episode is all about gender, identity, feminine names and what those names represent.
Topics include:
Does a sissy Mistress always choose the femme name?
How does a Femdom feel about being asked to pick the feminine name for a submissive?
How does feminization change someone’s outloo...
Everything you always wanted to know about Femdom Mistress Masturbation
May 12, 2025Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdom hosts thoroughly enjoy self-love all the time, not just in Masturbation May. Duh!
In this episode we answer questions like:
What are your favorite topics or themes you get off to?
Dominating men? Women? Straight sex? Prior hot encounters? Switching?
FOLLOW UP to that question: Is there anything new and exciting that gets you going these days that’s different from the usual...
Femdom Approved Tips: Have A Sissygasm For Masturbation May 2025
May 05, 2025Have you had a sissygasm?
If you haven’t, then let’s make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May.
In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about self-love while feminized or en femme:
What is a sissygasm?
How does a p-spot, prostate, or anal orgasm feel and how do you know you’re having one?
Topics include:
Subspace aka femme-space
Role of submission in your feminine journey
Mistress guidan...
Inspiring Tips For Masturbation Month From Your Amazing Femdom Podcast Hosts
Apr 28, 2025Are you ready for Masturbation May?
It’s the month-long celebration of all things involving self-love.
Your Femdom hosts certainly don’t need permission to extol the pleasures of masturbation, but we do think this month is special because everyone ELSE is talking about flying solo.
Mistress Olivia starts off asking about masturbation habits:
Are there studies?
How much do people masturbate?
What is normal?
Why is there something called a gender...
Do you need cock control? We think you do!
Apr 21, 2025What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man’s biological directive. She’s right and this episode is all about Femdoms who enjoy controlling a man by controlling his orgasm (or lack thereof).
But, we’ve had questions asking if cock control automatically means chastity. Short answer, no, but the longer answer is much more fun!
Let’s talk cock control:
What does this term mean?
What is...
BDSM: Are you a switch? Miss Eden joins the conversation.
Apr 14, 2025BDSM: Are you a switch?
Are you a switch?
In BDSM, what exactly ‘is’ a switch?
What is the difference between power exchange in a Dominant/submissive relationship and someone who is a Top or a bottom.
A chance comment by a podcast listener inspired this episode.
Since Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika are Femdoms - Dominant only and don't switch - we needed to have a guest who ‘does’ switch. Meet Miss Eden. She’s a switch and we have a great time on...
Are you nervous about being transformed into a sissy?
Apr 07, 2025In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There are a variety of scenarios and options in this feminization fantasy and that’s what makes it so fun.
(( There's a blooper that we hope will make you laugh as hard as we did. ))
Today’s points include:
What Ms Erika did on a Saturday night - hint, it’s not what you might think.
What happens when a sissy is ner...
Maybe you aren’t submissive, what now?
Mar 31, 2025Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive.
That’s a great question!
It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training.
But, do you have to be submissive to call us...
Beyond the kink: unseen benefits TO YOU when you serve a Femdom Mistress
Mar 24, 2025Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess.
What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship?
In previous episodes, we’ve talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc. Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not have thought of.
Goddess Demi brings up a great poi...
Are you an alpha man who yearns to be a feminized sissy?
Mar 17, 2025Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can’t share with any of THOSE people?
Are you, perhaps, sexually submissive and feminization helps with that submissive feeling?
Are you a sissy, crossdresser or even wondering if you might be trans?
These questions inspired today’s episode we talk about power dynamics, power exchange and feminization by a Dominant Woman.
Topics include:
** What is an Alpha m...
He called for cuckold advice. Guess what happened?
Mar 10, 2025This episode is inspired by a man who called Ms Erika for cuckold advice. He wanted to know how to talk to his girlfriend about his desire to explore being a cuckold.
In this episode you’ll hear about his specific situation, what Mistress Erika told him to do and then you’ll find out what happened!
Topics include:
Myths about cuckolds: this man doesn’t have a small penis, isn’t turned on by humiliation, and they already have a great sex life.
How a phone s...
Mistress advice: How to prepare for your distance domination session
Mar 03, 2025Even if you’ve called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should you do? There are so many questions. And, those who have never called a distance domination service are even more nervous!
We get it and since there are a bunch of new fans to our BDSM kink podcast, we want to give you some tips for how to prepare for your session.
Today’s podcast gives you a basic understanding of how d...
Sexy Sissy programming: bathtime feminization
Feb 24, 2025The ladies try something a little different.
Today’s feminization programming is sissy bathtime.
We know it’s kind of an odd title and we’re doing a podcast much more like the non-explicit parts of a session.
This episode is a mix of sissy training instructions and reasons why these Femdoms recommend them for your journey into womanhood.
Topics include:
** Shower versus bath
** Sex in the shower
** Bathtime rituals for each host: Ms Olivia and Ms Eri...
Is it normal for straight guys to want to do ‘this’ sexually?
Feb 17, 2025A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today’s episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are ‘normal’ or ask something along the lines of ‘what does it mean if I get aroused by this?’
We’ve got you!
In fact, the Femdom hosts hear some version of “is this weird” a lot.
We highlight several common areas of concern:
Anal play / prostate play
Cock sucking
Wearing panties
Being a submissiv...
Why you need prostate play.
Feb 10, 2025A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with the prostate and all that goes along with that.
The episode includes:
A bit of biology, where the prostate is, how to find it, why you want to explore it.
All the fun names including one that will make total sense when you hear it.
What does a prostate orgasm feel like and how is it different from...
Do you have a fantasy roleplay that you never want to do or can’t do in real-life?
Feb 03, 2025Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is the perfect choice for someone who can’t explore their desires in a “real” life setting.
Ms Erika describes fantasy roleplay as letting go of logic and being able for a Mistress to push boundaries that couldn’t otherwise be pushed. Ms Olivia agrees, adding that being able to suspend reality is perfect for storytelling.
Both ladies point out the unique intimacy in this kind of c...
Feminization: Building sissy confidence
Jan 27, 2025We get lots of questions about feminization.
A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or trans woman is about self-confidence in appearance. We get it. Your physical appearance is very important but it’s your mind and heart that will end up having the most influence over your experience of being feminized.
In this episode, you’ll hear personal stories from the Femdom hosts about building confidence, self-acceptance, and resisting the urge to compare yourself to others.
What do you do wh...
Sissy discipline: Do you need strict feminization training?
Jan 20, 2025Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training.
What is petticoat discipline?
Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very kinky!)
Discipline can be used for behavior modification, correction, and more.
Maintenance spanking to ensure submission and obedience.
...
Are you searching for an online Mistress?
Jan 13, 2025What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme?
For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination.
The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom.
Unless you happen to ‘run across’ a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online...
What kind of sissy porn star do you want to be?
Jan 06, 2025This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn’t it? LOL
The Femdom hosts talk about trans women who are porn stars right now. Do you have a favorite trans porn star? We do and you’ll hear some of our top picks who are in the adult entertainment business right now.
The ladies talk about a sissy gurl they know who is exploring this as part of her sissy training and femin...
Welcome to a kinky New Year: Femdom version
Dec 30, 2024We’re posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year’s ideas before you finalize your goals list. LOL We’re so helpful.
Right at the top, the conversation veers into an odd kink goal for Mistress Olivia.
Mistress Erika has a New Year’s goal of getting a specific kind of submissive pet. Could you be the one? You might hear about the goal for Ms. Erika’s ignore pet - or you might just hear the sounds of si...
Top BDSM kink sissy podcast episodes of 2024
Dec 23, 2024This is not your traditional Christmas theme, this is more of an end of year look at some of the top episodes of The Weekly Hot Spot.
We owe our growth and success to you, our listeners, so this episode is also a personal thank you to each of you for joining us on our kinky journey of BDSM education, sissy training, sex work and general naughtiness.
Mistress Olivia talks about the number of downloads in the past year.
Apparently, the numbers put us in the...
A year of feminization by Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia
Dec 16, 2024We listen and we hear you. Many of our feminization friends talk about needing structure, support and practical tips.
In fact, we have so many requests that we’ve created something special just for you!
This episode is all about a year long feminization calendar from your favorite sexy podcast hosts.
Don’t feel alone!
Use the calendar as a way to stay on track with your feminization and find inspiration to go to the next level.
Tease and Denial Games: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress?
Dec 09, 2024There is an art to tease and denial games.
It makes sense to think that the woman is the leader of T&D and that’s true but, there is also the relationship between Mistress and her submissive.
Today’s episode asks the question: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress?
First, the ladies talk about tease toys.
Who are they, what does this phrase mean?
The ladies share insi...
All about chastity: Including using chastity for sissy training.
Dec 02, 2024In this episode we continue our conversation with the Chastity Queen and explore using chastity for sissy training and feminization.
Now, just because we’re talking about putting a sissy in chastity, much of the conversation about chastity will apply to many people who are curious about this form of submission to a Dominant Woman.
Chastity Queen has a live-in sissy submissive named Bunny. The ladies start off asking for a reality check about being a full-time, live-in sub to a Femdom. Some of these answers will likely surprise fo...
Inside the mind of a Domme: Meet the Chastity Queen
Nov 25, 2024Today’s guest, the Chastity Queen, talks about her personal experiences being a Domme and so much more.
This is your chance to listen in as 3 Dominant Women talk about life, love and power.
Topics include:
The role of women in society and the trad wife phenomenon
How men treat wives versus Dommes
The dynamics of power and what power exchange really looks like
How serving a Femdom can make a man a better husband to his wif...
Your Kink Your Safety and What You Need to Know
Nov 18, 2024A listener asks about political changes in the US and asks how to stay safe.
The specific question involves feminization and crossdressing but it applies to all of us in these various communities:
LGBTQ+
Kinksters and crossdressers
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So you want to be a service submissive. What does that mean to a Femdom Mistress?
Nov 11, 2024Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean?
There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbitrary ‘right’ way to have a D/s relationship. Part of BDSM negotiation means making sure that each person is in agreement about roles, expectations, activities, etc.
Topics in this podcast episode include:
The difference between fantasy BDSM roleplay and lifestyle kink relationships.
A discussion of some things that help different people to feel submissive.
The role...
Do trans women get you horny?
Nov 04, 2024We hear all your secrets and sexual fantasies. A lot of our callers fantasize about sex with a transwoman. Today’s episode explores this.
Topics include:
How popular is the sex with a transwoman fantasy?
Many men ask, am I straight if I want to suck the cock of a transwoman?
To start off, a quick overview of names for transwomen and how to be respectful with the terms you use to talk about these people.
For example, some of the outdated and terms ar...
What does it mean to be submissive?
Oct 28, 2024This episode is inspired by a blog post written by our friend and fellow Mistress, Ms Demi.
Listen in as three Pro Domme’s talk about the submissives in our lives. What do Femdoms have to say about power exchange and those who need to submit to powerful, dominant women?
Mistress Olivia kicks off the conversation with a quote by Mistress Demi:
“Submission isn’t merely about obeying orders or bending to another’s will. It’s a profound journey into the depths of one’s own desires. Learning to trust, to...
How to talk to your partner about crossdressing, feminization, and sissy desires
Oct 21, 2024
Today’s episode is inspired by a listener who wants help talking with a partner about feminization desires. Anita wants us to say something that will change the minds of wives or girlfriends who don’t like feminization with their partner.
We don’t know that we can change minds, but this episode covers topics like:
What do cisgender, heterosexual women think about crossdressers or sissies?
What might be going on in the minds of the cis female partners?
Here are some of the qu...
It’s LOCKTOBER: are you ready for chastity?
Oct 14, 2024Basically, Locktober is a month-long chastity challenge. Typically, it involves those who identify as submissive and wear a chastity cage the entire month of October. This episode is about orgasm delay, orgasm denial, chastity training, and why a Femdon enjoys having a chastity pet.
Topics include:
What is chastity?
What is Locktober?
Why would someone want to go a full month without an orgasm?
Can you participate in Locktober if you can’t or don’t want to go a whole month without an o...
Are you worried about topping from the bottom? BDSM advice from your Femdom hosts.
Oct 07, 2024We hear from a lot of subs who are worried about topping from the bottom.
That’s a BDSM term that means a submissive who flips the power dynamic in a way that is disrespectful, rude or otherwise irritating to the Dominant.
Some subs hear that and worry that they are topping from the bottom if they make ANY requests of the Domme. We don’t want you to worry so this episode is all about how to communicate your needs to your Femdom Mistress.
Power, money, BDSM, and Femdom: interview with author Jane Boon
Sep 30, 2024
We continue our conversation with author Jane Boon. Jane’s first novel Edge Play is about an investment banker who becomes a Pro Domme via her Pro Domme friend Erika … and this second book focuses on Erika.
Both books show women coming into their own personal power. Jane Boon tells a lively, interesting story and even without our favorite Femdom and BDSM themes, this is a very fun read. This interview episode focuses on the themes of: lust, power and money.
Why does a smart, capable woman become a Femdom?
What happens after Edge Play? Author Jane Boon tells us about her new BDSM novel Bold Strokes
Sep 23, 2024Money, power and sex … specifically kinky sex … are the themes of today’s episode with author Jane Boon. Jane is the author of the Femdom themed novel Edge Play and today she’s here to talk about her newest novel Bold Strokes.
We highly recommend both of Jane's books. In fact, if you’re submissive, here’s your order: “Read Edge Play and Bold Strokes by Jane Boon and report back.” Even if you’re not submissive, do yourself a favor and read them. You’re welcome.
Edge Play is a novel about Amy, an...
What makes a sissy purge? And how to avoid crossdresser purging cycles.
Sep 16, 2024
This episode is inspired by a question from a crossdresser but we hear many people in the kink community talk about the impulse to throw away sex toys and other kinky things.
Why?
Well, anyone who is into things that aren’t considered ‘mainstream’ can feel the wrong kind of shame or fear of being discovered by family, friends or work associates.
The Femdom hosts will share personal stories of self-acceptance as kinky dominant women and how this podcast started as a way to dispel myths about BDSM, kink...
Feminization: Are you nervous about lingerie shopping in person?
Sep 09, 2024This episode is inspired by Sissy Brenda who sent us this question: “I would love to hear a podcast with lingerie shopping tips for those gurls who might be nervous about buying in person. What stores and products would you recommend?”
Great suggestion Sissy Brenda! Here you go!
The ladies begin with real talk about some of the risks of public humiliation and share safety considerations.. There are also ethical issues with consent and BDSM or kink play in public. All that said, these Femdoms are skilled at feminization and in person...
Where can you find your Mistress? Check out our Spaces on X Twitter!
Sep 02, 2024We love it when other smart ladies come up with great ideas. Be sure to send a thank you to Mistress Demi for her idea to use X Spaces (Twitter Spaces) to connect with our friends and even make some new friends.
Ms Demi joins us to talk about Spaces. The ladies talk with her about how the Femdoms at Enchantrix Empire are using spaces.
For example, every Friday at 7pm eastern various Mistresses gather in the Space for Femdom Friday's.
Ea...
Self-bondage with Elite Rope Dominatrix Miss Cassie Loves Rope
Aug 26, 2024
Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play.
Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone.
Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlled by her.
The ladies discuss how vivid descriptions can combine with some simple physical actions to create t...
Bondage, rope play and more from elite rigger Miss Cassie
Aug 19, 2024Today’s guest is rope bondage expert Miss Cassie. This is the first part of a 2 part interview with one of the best riggers in BDSM today.
This lifestyle Femdom has insights into lots of aspects of BDSM, kink play, leather history and so much more.
You’ll hear:
** Miss Cassie’s personal kink journey - from submissive to Femdom
** Leather tradition in BDSM
** Lineage in BDSM leather family tradition
Mistress Olivia takes us on safari with a...
Here’s a sissy success story with timeless advice for anyone into feminization
Aug 12, 2024The podcast episode about the secret sissy that asks if you feel alone in your feminization really hit a nerve. Many of our listeners say that they do wish they could share their femme self with a partner, friends or family.
This episode is a sissy success story from someone who is sharing her authentic self and finding her community.
Meet our new Irish friend, Shauna with a special shout out to her, her wife and her ladies in Ireland. We see you and we’re sending lipstick kisses to...
BDSM Kink event invite: Naughty Knowledge from Studio 58
Aug 05, 2024
Going to a kink event in person can be daunting, especially if it’s your first time or you haven’t been to a play party in years.
Today’s episode features Wicked Peanut from Studio 58 with a wealth of BDSM knowledge and tips for going to in person BDSM play parties like the one called Naughty Knowledge.
You’ll hear conversation about:
** Flying solo: is it okay to show up at a fetish event alone?
** What can I expect when I arrive at...
Are you ready for serious edging? Stroke-a-thon is back by popular demand!
Jul 29, 2024Stroke-a-thon was a huge hit when we did it last time.
There were lots of people who missed it and they got really sad. So, of course, the ladies usuallty make you WAIT … and wait and wait … yes, we do love our tease and denial sessions ... but now, back by popular demand, the cock stroking challenge of Stroke-a-thon.
Mistress Erika starts the podcast off with an outline of the event.
Basically it’s something like 20 sexy ladies teasing you and, this time, TRYING to get you to cum...
BDSM: Are you ready for shocking news about electro play?
Jul 22, 2024Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store, is the guest for all about violet wands and electro play.
You’ll get answers to various common questions about electroplay:
What is a Violet Wand?
How is a Violet Wand different from a TENS Unit?
What is the science behind kinksters using electroplay toys?
Who uses Violet Wands and why?
What does it mean when it’s called a sensation toy?
For BDSM players who are o...
The Dungeon Store: AVN nominated sex toys, female owned, and in depth BDSM education.
Jul 15, 2024Today’s guest is Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store. This is a curated BDSM toy store that is second generation, female owned. There is so much to talk about!
Brittany’s mom founded The Dungeon Store nearly two decades ago. The vast amount of BDSM gear and kink toys can be overwhelming. The Dungeon Store has a curated collection of BDSM toys and one of the most robust collections of electro play options for sale anywhere. The quality and creativity earned The Dungeon Store 3 AVN award nominations in the best plea...
Sissy advice: The prettiest think tank ever
Jul 08, 2024The Sissy Pageant questions ended up being a gold mine of information, tips and support for those who are into crossdressing, sissy play or who are transwomen.
In this episode, you’ll hear all about the challenges of feminization along with creative solutions from your Femdom hosts and the gurls involved in the Sissy Pageant
Topics include:
Self image concerns going from male presenting to en femme
Tips for a more feminine appearing body
How to speak in a more feminine manner<...
The secret sissy: Do you feel alone?
Jul 01, 2024Today’s episode is inspired by the amazing answers to the Sissy Pageant questions. If you are not interested in feminization, this podcast might still resonate with you because this is about staying true to yourself and balancing that with the ‘rest’ of life and personal responsibilities
Here’s the background. Enchantrix Empire, our free adult social networking site, was the recent location for our Sissy Pageant. Participants sent in 3 photos and then answered 4 questions about their feminization journey.
Mistress Daphne is today's guest because she is the f...
BDSM: pain play and how to not leave marks
Jun 24, 2024What do you do if you love pain, impact play, discipline, CBT, and/or bondage but you can’t have marks on your body?
How do you hide the marks when you love being on the receiving end of the S/m dynamic?
That’s the topic today and it’s the result of a listener question to the previous episodes about many aspects of pain play.
Topics include:
Training for a submissive versus a kinky scene with a pain slut
The role of...
Do you need sissy workout tips?
Jun 17, 2024This episode is inspired by Sissy Kylie who says she wants to get a more feminine body and wants sissy workout tips.
Mistress Erika begins the episode talking about body image. Mistress Olivia says, it’s normal to want to change things about your physical body to be more of the feminine ideal in your mind.
Many feminized people want workout tips and exercises to target specific areas like ass, hips and stomach. Both ladies talk about exercises they do and recommend for any sissy workout.
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BDSM: Are you surprised to find out we love to be a sensual sadist?
Jun 10, 2024Today’s episode is inspired by several pets who acted surprised to hear that Mistress Olivia likes pain play and rough kink.
It starts with this quote from one submissive:
“You are just such a nice person. And you have a sweet natural demeanor. Even though you can turn into a firm Domme in the blink of an eye, I didn’t think pain play was a fun thing for you.”
Both ladies talk about being a Femdom and a sensual sadist.
You’ll hear answers...
BDSM: Is pain necessary to train a sissy?
Jun 03, 2024What happens when a Dominant Woman decides to feminize a submissive?
Sometimes the subby is coerced into sissy training, maybe even before realizing what’s going on and then it’s really too late because full on sissy training is underway.
How does a Femdom Mistress train a sissy submissive?
Listen to feminization Mistresses talking about how they do coerced feminization, sissy training and use a combination of praise, punishment, pain and pleasure to ensure the creation of the best sissy!
This episode is inspired by c...
BDSM, kink, Femdom and pop culture with Edge Play author and journalist Jane Boon
May 27, 2024The conversation starts out with the enduring fascination with “bad girls” - the women who are non-traditional, often sex workers or women that claim their social and/or sexual autonomy.
Jane talks about the role of sex and sex workers in shaping the culture … especially in terms of fetish wear going mainstream with leather and latex being featured in couture lines. Fashion is never “only” about covering the body.
The ladies all talk about how their personal and professional experiences with kink have changed them.
Conversation includes:
...
Everything you need to know about how to enter the Sissy Pageant!
May 20, 2024This is called the Sissy Pageant because it’s a short title but the hosts want you to know that the Pageant is open to anyone interested in feminization and femme style: crossdressers, transwomen, pantybois, and, of course, sissies!
Goddess Skylar is today’s guest because she’s the one that sort of resurrected the Sissy Pageant.
The ladies go over the Sissy Pageant rules and details.
The short version is: submit 3 photos, answer 4 questions and boom you’re in the running!
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Edge Play author Jane Boon on BDSM power exchange and the accidental transformation of an investment banker into a Femdom.
May 13, 2024How in the world did a PhD in industrial engineering end up on The Weekly Hot Spot talking about BDSM and the world of Pro Dommes? In addition to professional experience in engineering and journalism, today’s guest, Jane Boon, is the author of Edge Play.
This episode description is actually difficult to write because what do you say about someone who is able to effortlessly blend the worlds of unethical investment banking bro culture and the BDSM learning curve of an accidental Pro Domme? Both cultures deliver a fantastic ass fucking but only the Fem...
Do you have sissygasms? It’s Masturbation May!
May 06, 2024It’s Masturbation Month and time for the girly girls to celebrate with a sissygasm!
This episode is inspired by several conversations and emails about this distinct kind of orgasm.
Your Femdom hosts touch on various aspects of this sexy topic, including:
** Why is it called a sissygasm?
** How is a sissygasm different from a male orgasm?
** What to expect with a sissygasm.
Many feminized friends aren’t sure how to have a sissygasm or even if they...
Can you handle our cock stroking instructions for Masturbation Month?
Apr 29, 2024Are you ready for Masturbation Month? Your Femdom hosts love this month-long celebration of self love. Today’s podcast is all about cock stroking instructions or JOI, jerk off instructions.
What are some of the ways to spice up your masturbation?
Check out the Month of Femdom Guided Masturbation Calendar in the First Class Erotica Store. Click on the phone sex assignments section and look for Ms Erika and Ms Olivia.
In this podcast, you’ll hear discussion about new ways to stroke including:Hand...
Bi curious cuckolding: Do all cuckolds suck cock? What about sissy cuckolds?
Apr 22, 2024Today we’re talking about bi curious cuckolding. That might be seduced, manipulated, or coerced bi for the cuckold.
Do all cuckolds suck cock? What about sissy cuckolds?
The Cuckold Myths podcast episode that we did earlier inspired this episode to go even deeper into this sexy and fascinating kink.
If a cuckold sucks cock, does that automatically mean they are gay or bi?
Does a submissive cuckold who sucks cock ‘turn’ gay?
Should all sissy husband...
Inside the World of Female Domination: What to expect at a Femdom Kink conference with Mistress Mia Darque
Apr 15, 2024This episode takes you inside the world of professional Female Domination. Mistress Mia Darque returns to The Weekly Hot Spot podcast with stories and insights from the largest gathering of Pro Domme’s in the US, DomCon LA.
What is a Femdom and who decides what is “appropriate” behavior for a Femdom? Did you know there’s actually some controversy around the answer to that question? Yep, there is. Wait until you hear the stories.
Mistress Mia brings up the differences in fan behavior of those going to an AVN show and a ki...
Do you need feminization encouragement and sissy training tips? Check out the Sissy Minute by Goddess Rachel.
Apr 08, 2024Sissy affirmations.
Dressing advice for crossdressers.
Feminization encouragement.
These are some of the topics you’ll hear in the audios on our free feminization site, Get Girlie.
Goddess Rachel started posting the Sissy Minute on the site and this podcast episode is inspired by her and she's the guest!
All three ladies talk about feminization tips and tricks, AND we know it’s more than just how to do something. It’s about us banding together to encoura...
Guide to Being a Submissive and Volunteer at a Femdom Kink Conference with Mistress Mia Darque
Apr 01, 2024Have you been to a BDSM kink conference?
Do you want to go but are worried that you won’t know anyone?
We have a solution, be a volunteer! This episode is inspired by a conversation with Sissy Bruna who wants to be a service submissive to a Femdom Mistress.
There is one of the largest gatherings of Femdoms and Pro Dommes happening in LA at the end of May.
This episode is all about how to be a volunteer su...
Do you wear a cock ring? This podcast is for you.
Mar 25, 2024What are cock rings?
Okay, if you’re a fan of this podcast, chances are you know what a cock ring is.
Maybe you even wear a cock ring. But, do you know all this about cock rings?
The ladies start with the basics of cock rings.
Learn how a cock ring works and why it’s effective for erectile dysfunction, stamina, intensifying sensations, and powerful orgasms.
Ms. Olivia mentions that people in Victorian England used cock ring...
Are you looking for a strict Mistress? Ms. Harper joins us.
Mar 18, 2024The hosts get an email from someone who describes himself as a submissive male interested in being controlled by a strict Mistress.
Mistress Harper joins Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika to talk about requests for a strict Mistress.
Ms. Harper is the perfect guest for this episode because she describes herself as a sensual sadist. What does that mean, and how does that play out in a kink session?
BDSM terms can mean different things to people at various levels of kink play. For example, w...
Wigs and wig care for crossdressers, sissies, and trans women
Mar 11, 2024Today’s episode on wigs and wig care is inspired by Yvonne, who says keeping wigs from becoming a mess is a real challenge. We agree!
Choosing the right wig is complicated. These Mistresses believe that feminization is all about the total package, and, for most people, that means finding the perfect hair for the look you want for your transformation.
Unless you win the lottery, you will probably need at least an idea of your budget as you shop for your crossdresser or sissy accessories.
...
Ms Erika is Mistress of the Month!
Mar 04, 2024Are you a member of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire?
If you’re frustrated with being shadow banned and restricted on social media, you should check out Enchantrix Empire.
It’s free to join. You’ll find Mistresses, other sexy people, and a fantastic kinky community there.
The members of Enchantrix Empire vote for the Mistress of the Month and this month it is our very own, Mistress Erika!
So, we’ve got to celebrate in our own special way.And...
Cuckolding Myths Exposed
Feb 26, 2024The cuckold fetish is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. The Femdom hosts of this kink podcast talk about some of the most common myths about the cuckold lifestyle.
Myth 1: Only men enjoy cuckolding.
The cuckold fantasy is very popular among men, but it’s not exclusive to men. Many women initiate the cuckold lifestyle. Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika talk about why they love cuckolds and why more women are getting involved in the cuckold lifestyle.
Myth 2: The cuckold is always a cis man.
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Gooning, edging and how to cum without a full orgasm with Goddess Rachel
Feb 19, 2024Goddess Rachel joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for this episode, which is inspired by a listener's comment and question.
Here’s the comment / question:
“I’ve been exploring different ways to cum before the orgasm. I didn’t realize how many different ways there are to come without going all the way first. It’s been great to have a better mind-body connection and multiple cums to enjoy. Have you done a podcast on various ways to cum without full orgasm?”
What a great question!
Tod...
Sissy has questions about nails, makeup and Femdom feminization advice
Feb 12, 2024This episode about feminization is inspired by someone who describes herself as a cis male exploring feminization and being a sissy.
Jen Jenn has questions about manicures, nail polish, and whether a sissy needs to go to a salon for a mani/pedi.
What is the most femme style for nails?
What does Mistress recommend for a sissy who needs to be discreet about her crossdressing?
Why press-on nails are perfect for feminization training.
The ladies move...
Do you really want TPE or total power exchange?
Feb 05, 2024Ms Harper joins the ladies for a conversation about myth versus reality with total power exchange relationships.
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give couple of definitions to start the conversation:
** What is power exchange?
** What does total power exchange mean?
** What is the difference between being dominated at a play party and being a full time submissive in a TPE relationship?
Ms Harper points out that power exchange games are based on a power imbalance. That imbalance...
Should all sissies learn how to masturbate like a woman?
Jan 29, 2024How should a sissy cum?
Your Femdom Hosts, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika, explore the question that asks: should ALL sissies learn how to masturbate like a woman?
Sissy Gigi says, yes every single sissy needs to change how she masturbates, and that is part of the feminine journey. This long term sissy says a sissy girl doesn’t deserve the tight grip that a real man uses to stroke and cum.
This inspires a conversation that includes:
** Rub versus tug - is a sissy al...
BDSM Dungeon owner and Elite Dominatrix Mistress Montana returns
Jan 22, 2024Mistress Montana owns several BDSM dungeons. Today’s episode is a real conversation about business, kink and the business of kink.
What goes into setting up a fetish play space?
How does a Pro Domme choose a location for a dungeon?
Ms Erika asks about one location, and this prompts a conversation about so-called conservative middle America and kink on the down low.
Topics include:
How to talk to a Pro Domme.
Dos and don’ts of arranging a se...