We're Having Gay Sex
By: Ashley Gavin & Studio71
Language: en
Categories: Comedy, Interviews, Society, Culture
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you...
Episodes
The Truth About Trans Athletes In Sports w/ Harrison Browne | WHGS Ep. 295
Oct 27, 2025This episode is deeply informative, listener! Harrison Browne is a transgender actor, filmmaker, and former professional hockey player in the National Women’s Hockey League, but today he’s in the apartment to silence the moral panic around trans athletes in sports ONCE AND FOR ALL! We discuss coming out as trans in a professional sports league, testosterone vs. athletic performance, the nuances of regulations around transgender players, and bizarre gay sex scandals in Boise. Ashley transitions into a woman-woman. Lizzy gets gay typecasted.
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Duration: 01:04:40Gianmarco Soresi Prefers to Flirt With Men Over His GF | WHGS Ep. 294
Oct 20, 2025This episode is DEEP and PHILOSOPHICAL, listener! Gianmarco Soresi is a wholly unique stand-up comedian, podcaster, and writer with a new special, “Thief of Joy” out RIGHT NOW, but today he’s in the apartment to out HIMSELF! We discuss visiting Fire Island with your girlfriend in order to flirt with men, straight vs. gay sexual dynamics, Taylor Swift, and money’s effects on the creation of art. Ashley sleeps with a witch. Lizzy ponders language and comedy.
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Duration: 01:07:07Leandra Earl (The Beaches) Might Be Bangin’ Her Bandmates | WHGS Ep. 293
Oct 13, 2025This episode is rock n’ roll CHAOS, listener! Leandra Earl is the stunning guitarist for The Beaches, one of the hottest rock bands working, but today she’s in the apartment to become the band’s LOVER?! We discuss fighting band-mate relationship allegations, coming out later in life, masc fashion tips, threesomes with friends, and much much more. Yeah, there’s also some tips about how to save your cat. And yeah, there’s a Trump-off too. Things really break format this time, listeners.
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Duration: 01:06:08Lauren Chan: The 1st Lesbian on Sports Illustrated & The Last Findomme | WHGS Ep. 292
Oct 06, 2025This episode is RAUNCHY, listener! Lauren Chan is an iconic model, writer, entrepreneur, and the first ever lesbian to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, but today she’s in the apartment to show off what’s *underneath*, listener! We discuss compulsive heterosexuality, blowing up your marriage to be lesbian, couch sex, and findom. Ashley bangs a hippie. Ali tries to recreate a movie sex scene. Also, we unveil the first WHGS BABE OF THE WEEK!!!
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Duration: 01:01:48Gabby Bryan: You WILL Meet Queer Babes At The Renaissance Fair | WHGS Ep. 291
Sep 29, 2025This episode is NERDY, listener! Gabby Bryan is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, actor, and Emmy-award winning producer, but today she’s cosplaying as a magical fairy wanting to dance in your forest! We discuss the Renaissance Fair and being an undercover weirdo, assuming a masculine role in lesbian relationships, the toxicity that can emerge from that, and how bisexuals most certainly cannot drive. Ashley has a bizarre podcast fan. Lizzy gets gay married / Chuck-and-Larry’d.
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Duration: 01:02:53Stevie Boebi: Polyamory, EDS, and Scissor Collections | WHGS Ep. 290
Sep 22, 2025This episode is deeply informative, listener! Stevie Boebi is an iconic queer sex educator, content creator, and OG lesbian YouTuber that has pioneered internet queer content, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to pioneer new ways to GET US OFF! We discuss polyamory, censorship of queer content, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS), unpacking sexual trauma, and a variety of other important topics! And at some point, Stevie Bobbi scissors on camera (but not really). Is Ashley polyamorous? Is Kylie bisexual? WATCH TO FIND OUT!
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Duration: 01:03:36Gay Marriage at Risk, Abortions are Rough, and Other Uplifting Topics w/ Liz Miele | WHGS Ep. 289
Sep 15, 2025This episode is HILARIOUS and DARK, listener! Liz Miele (NPR, Comedy Central, Hulu) is an incredible stand up comedian with a new special, SPACE CAMP, out RIGHT NOW, but today she’s in the apartment to come out HERSELF! Not really, actually, we just discuss many heavy things. Also, amazing co-host Kylie is back in the building once again from a sabbatical in Los Angeles! We discuss strategies to repulse men, getting your cervix analyzed, the queer joys of crossfit, and abortion. Ashley takes a look at threats to gay marriage in the Supreme Court. Kylie is getting banned an...
Duration: 01:05:54Emma Willmann: Catching Straights Trying to Cheat With Her GF | WHGS Ep. 288
Sep 08, 2025Kylie’s old IG account got cancelled, so get her new account to 10K: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/. This episode is JEALOUS and HILARIOUS, listener! Fan-favorite Emma Willmann is a side-splitting stand up comedian and actor that’s RETURNING to the podcast once again to get down and dirty, but this time she’s airing out some straights trying to steal her girl! In addition, we have beloved co-host Kylie Vincent BACK from California for a slate of episodes! We discuss getting insanely jealous that a man is trying to share his fitness goals with your girlfriend, boundaries, being...
Duration: 01:03:49How to Start Dating Your Best Friend w/ Kimia Behpoornia (Dropout, Abbott Elementary) | WHGS Ep. 287
Sep 01, 2025This episode answers an age-old queer question, listener! Kimia Behpoornia is a comedian, actor, and improv MASTER that has been cracking you up on hit shows like Dropout and Abbott Elementary, but today she’s in the apartment to take a crack at the classic sapphic conundrum: what do you do when your in love with your BFF?! We discuss courting, dating, and eventually marrying your childhood best friend; the painful process of coming out; the flexibility of the human mind; and how the straights are way too open with us about their sex life. Ashley tries to bang he...
Duration: 01:08:23Mayday, Mayday — Ali Kolbert Has Gone Straight | WHGS Ep. 286
Aug 25, 2025This episode is in a bold new era, listener! Hilarious stand-up comedian and fan-favorite Ali Kolbert RETURNS to the apartment for a duo episode, but this is the only girl-on-girl action she’s gettin’ because she is in her “straight girl” era! We discuss embracing the benefits that come with being newly single, strapping for the first time, exploring threesomes with women (and men), the Hunting Wives, and we debut the inaugural WHGS RAP BATTLE!!! Ashley has been bewitched by a lesbian dark lord. Ali is trying to snap her out of it.
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Duration: 01:09:00G Flip Gets a New Marriage Every Year | WHGS Ep. 285
Aug 18, 2025This episode is a BIG ONE, listener! G Flip is an award-winning singer, songwriter, multi-instrumentalist, and one of your favorite working queer musicians, but today they’re in the apartment to become one of your favorite LOVERS! We discuss having yearly weddings with your life partner, getting started in music, writing songs from a queer perspective, and dreaming about your teeth falling out. Ashley wants to be abused. Lizzy is watching TV (in a gay way).
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Duration: 01:05:41How to Come Out Late in Life w/ Queer Sex Educator Eva Bloom | WHGS Ep. 284
Aug 11, 2025This episode is informative & hilarious, listener! Queer & trans sex educator Eva Bloom RETURNS to the apartment after many years to blow our minds with some knowledge, because we needed a break from blowin’ LOADS. We discuss late bloomers & coming out later in life, how to make moves on your crush, queer line dancing, and your girlfriend going to the emergency room after eating glass in her tofu. Ashley witnesses an epic rejection. Lizzy is the star of the relationship.
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Duration: 01:04:53Discovering Kissing & Intimacy Kink w/ Robin Tran | WHGS Ep. 283
Aug 04, 2025This episode is relentlessly smooching, listener! Hilarious stand up comedian Robin Tran RETURNS to the podcast, and this time she’s in the apartment to teach us the most intense and freaky kink that exists in the bedroom: LOVE! We discuss kissing & intimacy kink, discovering your pansexuality, the ease of making positive changes in your life, and Asian earwax. Ashley finds the fire in her loins. Maddie’s rabbit comes out as bisexual.
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Duration: 01:07:30Spilling Tea on The Ultimatum: Queer Love w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 282
Jul 28, 2025This episode is gossip-filled, listener! It’s a catch-up today as beloved actor, content creator, and friend Breanne Williamson returns to the apartment, and in typical WHGS fashion, we go in-depth into the most popular queer reality TV show a month after everyone already forgot about it! We gossip about the newest season of The Ultimatum: Queer Love, making art, finding validation in the modern media landscape, and getting dunked on for trying to look nice. Ashley is a youth pastor for drunk queers. Breanne is outed as a LARPer.
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Duration: 01:09:41Georgia Bridgers: Squirting is a Serious Medical Issue | WHGS Ep. 281
Jul 21, 2025This episode is gettin’ wet, listener! Actor, comedian, and content creator Georgia Bridgers returns to the podcast for the 5TH TIME, and today she’s in the apartment to tell us the tale of a petulant little SQUIRT, if you catch our drift! We discuss comphet, finding your orgasm, going to the doctor after mistaking your squirting for a kidney issue, and how pilates is for the people. Ashley is caught messing around in 4k. Maddie is a gay rabbit matchmaker.
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Duration: 01:07:46Transitioning, Dating, and Letting Your Parents Pick Your New Name w/ Brenna Jordan | WHGS Ep. 280
Jul 14, 2025This episode is challenging gender, listener! Brenna Jordan is an ICONIC trans content creator and comedian making her return to the internet, but today she’s making a return to the apartment to get wet and loose! We discuss adjusting to life a few years into transitioning, finding meaning beyond your trans identity, dating men safely in a world filled with gross fetishists, and the most trans thing ever: the Meisner Technique. Ashley is losing a relationship spark. Maddie confronts the downsides of appearing non-binary.
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Duration: 01:07:51How to Date Someone With Disabilities w/ Tina Friml | WHGS Ep. 279
Jul 07, 2025This episode is disabled and proud, listener! Tina Friml (Comedy Central, The Tonight Show) is an incredible stand up comedian and writer with cerebral palsy that has been taking the internet by storm, but today she’s in the apartment GIVING the internet some TIPS on banging in the world of disabilities! We discuss dating with disabilities and its in’s and out’s, managing social anxieties around your disability, how male gaze affects even male strip clubs, and embracing disability pride because the gay pride flag sucks. Ashley is letting girls into her apartment. Lizzy is having lesbian sex in...
Duration: 01:05:44Being Straight is a Choice w/ Steph Tolev | WHGS Ep. 278
Jun 30, 2025This episode is chaos, listener! We have the return of fan-favorite Steph Tolev, one of today's best working stand-ups and actors with a NEW Netflix special out, “Filth Queen,” but today she’s in the apartment to undo her straight conversion therapy! We discuss being sucked out of the lesbian dating pool by a gorgeous man, maintaining a positive body image in the internet age, living life as a boy-girl, and freaking out at your girl-boy boyfriend. Ashley hits the double-date. Maddie self-sabotages.
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Duration: 01:09:32The WHGS Family Comes Out as Asexual | WHGS Ep. 277
Jun 23, 2025GET LIZZY TO 10K, LISTENER! It’s free and it actually really helps her career: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/. You’ve been asking, so we’re delivering… It’s a FAMILY EPISODE today, listener, and our dear co-hosts and stand up comedians Maddie Wiener and Lizzy Cassidy are coming together to drive this apartment to RIFF CITY! It’s the gay virgin and the bi-with-a-boyfriend CLASHING, and we may not survive the collision of these epic titans. We discuss demisexuality, the asexuality spectrum, and code-switching your gay voice for the straights. Ashley witnesses Indiana ruin boobs. Lizzy senses some flirtin...
Duration: 01:07:33Life After a Nuclear Lesbian Breakup w/ Ali Kolbert | WHGS Ep. 276
Jun 16, 2025This episode is thriving after chaos, listener! Fan-favorite Ali Kolbert is a fantastic stand up comedian, writer, actress, and dear friend of the show, and today she’s coming back onto it to tell us about life after one of the CRAZIEST breakups that you’ve ever heard. It’s a DUO episode today because all co-hosts were on tour, and we discuss Ali’s insane breakup, untangling your mind after gaslighting, reclaiming your agency, and moving beyond into greatness. We also talk about how Ashley may be the only example of a mainstream lesbian open relationship, and how this rel...
Duration: 01:01:09Jared Freid Teaches You to Date (or Lizzy Tells the Greatest Story Ever if You Hate Men) | WHGS Ep. 275
Jun 09, 2025This episode is a lady killer, listener! Jared Freid is an amazing stand-up comedian, podcaster, and certified bachelor, and today he’s in the apartment for some gay-straight cultural exchange to give you tips for dating women that only a straight man could know! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the secrets to pursuit, how to plan a perfect date, ice cream adventures, and giving up everything to move to Florida. Ashley fights intense homophobia. Lizzy witnesses the pure, unadulterated gay experience.
Video Games Are The Gayest Thing Ever — ft. Ashly Burch (Life is Strange, Horizon) | WHGS Ep. 274
Jun 02, 2025This episode is an ALL-TIMER, gamers! Ashly Burch is an amazing writer and voice actor who has voiced some of your favorite video game characters, but today we are in the apartment NOT having sex with ANYBODY because this episode is all about playing video games! We discuss queer representation in video games, growing up as a gamer, the absolutely sickening specifics of Final Fantasy, and knowing about all of these topics intimately before you remotely touch a woman. Ashley saves a young gamer from homophobia. Maddie needs her mechanical keyboards creamy.
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Duration: 01:07:17WHGS Is On Break This Week!!!
May 26, 2025Hey Bottom Nation! With Alex on vacation this week and multiple different podcasts in production now, there is no episode of WHGS this week. Stay tuned, and we will be back at our regularly scheduled time next Monday!
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Duration: 00:01:34The Next Gay Obsession: Line Dancing? (w/ Josh Sharp) | WHGS Ep. 273
May 19, 2025This episode is bustin’ a move, listener! Josh Sharp is an iconic actor, writer, and comedian behind A24’s hit movie “Dicks: The Musical,” but today he’s in the apartment for a no-pants dance! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the phenomenon of line dancing in the sapphic world, why it has become so popular, the joys it brings, and the rejection of explicitly masculine spaces. We also spend an inordinate amount of time discussing horse sex. Ashley gets fake boobs. Lizzy gets a micropenis...
Duration: 01:11:40Become Bi — Because Lesbian Divorce Statistics are WILD w/ Emily Wilson | WHGS Ep. 272
May 12, 2025This episode is bisexual as heck, listener! Emily Wilson is an amazing comedian, writer, and actor who was nominated for “Best Newcomer” at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but today she’s in the apartment to be nominated for “Best CUMMER” with the LADIES! In addition, we are joined by the hilarious and whip-smart comedian Lizzy Cassidy while Maddie is out sick. We discuss maintaining your bisexuality in a long-term cishet relationship, getting married, straight vs. gay divorce statistics, and how one simple jacket can make you the mother of a trans child. Ashley gets punished by her professor. Lizzy challenges...
Duration: 01:06:48Conquer Fear of Rejection with This EASY TRICK w/ Jared Goldstein | WHGS Ep. 271
May 05, 2025This episode is confident, listener! Jared Goldstein (Black Mirror, The Unicorn, JFL) is a one-of-a-kind comedian, actor, and podcaster that will have you rolling around on the floor laughing, but today he’s in the apartment to roll around UNDER THE SHEETS! In addition, we are joined by comedian and queerbaiting girlie Yvette Segan as temporary co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss getting nervous in queer flirting, creative strategies to overcome these nerves, self-actualization, UNO, and how Urban Outfitters got the BEST shirts. Ashley overhears bad things. Yvette barely survives straight dating.
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Duration: 01:08:07Overcoming Comphet to Always-Coming Hard w/ Alaire Thomas | WHGS Ep. 270
Apr 28, 2025This episode is discovering itself, listener! Alaire Thomas is your favorite queer content creator that has been taking the internet by STORM, but today she’s in the apartment to do some taking of your GAY VIRGINITY! We discuss compulsory heterosexuality and its effects on the coming out process, building confidence to hit on women, leather jackets and their effect on getting you laid, and if it's remotely possible to be polyamorous but not pro-Palestine. Ashley likes Greek girls. Maddie seeks wisdom from the room.
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Duration: 01:05:42Lesbians Have a Racism Problem w/ Sienna Hubert-Ross | WHGS Ep. 269
Apr 21, 2025(TW // racism/domestic violence; skip 33:46 - 35:17 & 53:18 - 55:26 to avoid) This episode is a dialogue, listener! Sienna Hubert-Ross is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, actor, and writer who you’ve seen all over your TikTok feed, but today she’s in the apartment to be all over your BODY! In a unique episode, we are also joined by her best friend, comedy club manager, and secret lover Mae Neil in lieu of a co host. We discuss being a gold-star lesbian before trauma turns you bi, becoming a lesbian preacher, dating a low-key racist, and complex intersections of quee...
Duration: 01:03:55Yvette Segan Prefers to Stay in the Closet | WHGS Ep. 268
Apr 14, 2025(TW // SA; skip 43:05 - 56:40 to avoid) This episode is QUESTIONING, listener! Yvette Segan is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, and producer who performs in comedy clubs across the U.S., but today she’s in the apartment because she’s having some “performance anxiety” around women, IF YOU CATCH OUR DRIFT! We discuss questioning if you’re bisexual despite all signs suggesting that you definitely are, sexual trauma and its relationship to queerness, getting sweaty around gay women, and how Aritzia is the mecca of hot women. Ashley needs attention. Kylie bangs her BFF.
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Duration: 01:10:56Claire Sundbye Sleeps With Women in a Dog Bed (Not a Joke) | WHGS Ep. 267
Apr 07, 2025This episode is GRIMY, listener! Claire Sundbye is an amazing Chicago-based standup comedian, opener for Ashley, and hamster mom, but today she’s in the apartment for some DOGGYSTYLE (bedding). We discuss preferring to sleep and bang in a literal dog-bed, leaving embarrassing surprises in your soulmate’s toilet, taking a penis sabbatical as a lesbian, and how NOT to eat a whole sleeve of Oreos as your only meal. Ashley rides a cowgirl. Maddie has straight panic.
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Duration: 01:09:18How to NOT Date a Trans Person w/ Sunny Laprade | WHGS Ep. 266
Mar 31, 2025This episode is REJECTED, listener! Sunny Laprade is a hilarious stand-up comedian and trans woman who has been doing comedy with Ashley since she was 14, but now she’s grown and in the apartment to become 69!!! We discuss absolutely DISASTROUS dates with other trans people, the long journey of coming out as a trans woman, going through it while baring all on stage, and how there is nothing funnier than getting dead-named by your soulmate. Ashley is on a cold-streak. Kylie is oversharing.
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Duration: 01:06:40I Have My First MMF Experience (w/ Breanne Williamson) | WHGS Ep. 265
Mar 24, 2025This episode is MESSY, listener! Breanne Williamson is a content creator, comedian, filmmaker, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she is a journalist uncovering the truth as I tell the follow up to my CRAZIEST and MESSIEST hookup story ever! We discuss my first ever MMF (Masc-Masc-Femme) three-way, the insanity of how it came about, and how the boring city of Calgary is somehow the thirstiest city alive. Bre, who opened for me during the whole ordeal, keeps me honest as I break it all down. If you want to listen to the first half of this epic...
Duration: 01:08:21My Girlfriend Jen Davis and I Podcast From Bed | WHGS Ep. 264
Mar 17, 2025This episode is deeply in love, listener! Jen Davis is an actor, content creator, and MY GIRLFRIEND, and today we decided to show you the visceral details of what we do together in bed: PODCAST! We switch up our usual format while the crew is on vacation and try out “Pillow Talk,” where Jen and I talk intimately from our bedroom in an idea that totally hasn’t been done the exact same way by hundreds of other creators. We open up. We share our quirks. We share our passions. And finally, we take the silliest questions from our discor...
Duration: 01:00:34Despite Being Lesbian, Emma Dalenberg Dates Men | WHGS Ep. 263
Mar 10, 2025This episode is traumatized & sober, listener! Emma Dalenberg is an amazing stand up comedian and writer who recently came out as a lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to put theory into practice! We discuss dating men AFTER coming out, how addiction and trauma can fuel such decisions, and how hanging out with Kylie Vincent WILL get you banned from your local coffee shop. Ashley fumbles a dishy dame. Kylie sets boundaries.
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Duration: 01:04:38Kate Sisk Reacts to YOUR Crazy Stories | WHGS Ep. 262
Mar 03, 2025This episode is EXCLUSIVE, listener! Ashley’s NEW podcast with Josh Johnson is dropping THIS THURSDAY, 3/6, so with all hands on deck for it’s preparation, we are releasing one of the funnier Patreon bonus episodes of “You’re Having Gay Sex” from our back catalog to the general public! Joined by the hilarious comedian and beloved former co-host Kate Sisk, we read and react to your LISTENER-SUBMITTED gay sex stories about trans-masc hookups and locking people out of a home to bang. In-between, we banter about embarrassing moments when taking T, fostering a girthy garden, and how Alex is just a...
Duration: 00:49:52Grace Reiter is a Gold-Star Virgin | WHGS Ep. 261
Feb 24, 2025This episode is undefiled, listener! Grace Reiter is an unfathomably hilarious content creator, comedian, and full-blown virgin, but today she’s in the apartment to destroy fruit because she needs this CHERRY POPPED! We discuss being a virgin in your mid-20s, beauty standards in straight vs. queer dating, destigmatizing sex when you haven’t had any, and how to invest in lucrative new opportunities like playing Minecraft. Ashley bangs her boss. Kylie wrestles with snakes.
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Duration: 01:04:54How to Date a Trans Woman w/ Brenda Jordan
Feb 17, 2025This episode is instructional, listener! Brenda Jordan is a spellbinding transgender comedian, content creator, and 2015 viral sensation who blew up by dancing at a mall, but today she’s in the apartment to go viral again by NO-PANTS DANCING with YOU! We discuss the do’s-and-don’ts when sleeping with a trans woman, overcoming the fetishization of trans women, plunging men into their own sexuality crises, and how long you have to be on estrogen before you earn your slur rights. Ashley gives her that HAWK TUAH. Bre is chit-chatting.
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Duration: 01:09:46Interviewing the Manager of a Legal Brothel (w/ Madam Tara)
Feb 10, 2025This episode is informative, listener! We switch up our typical format for a dedicated interview of Madam Tara Adkins, the manager of Nevada’s first legally licensed brothel — Mustang Ranch. We get into the nitty-gritty of everything you’ve ever wanted to know about organized sex work: how the business operates, how it does so safely, the life of courtesans, and the outrageous stories of the patrons who seek them out. This episode has it all: elderly lesbians using the brothel to explore polyamory, war veterans using it as a form of sex therapy, and even parents taking their childr...
Duration: 01:12:45Akeem Woods Easily Attracts Porn Stars
Feb 03, 2025This episode will touch you (literally), listener! Akeem Woods (The Late Late Show) is a sensational stand-up comedian, writer, and fan-favorite at Ashley’s weekly show, but today he’s in the apartment because he’s the favorite fan of most adult stars! We discuss hooking up with adult film stars on the regular, the nuances of strapping your partner, and how crazy it is that there are people who have probably and literally whacked off to this podcast. Ashley is the 5th wheel. Maddie starts GLP-1s.
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Duration: 01:06:59Lizzy Cassidy Unlocks the Most Vile Queer Ick
Jan 27, 2025This episode will give you the ICK, listener! Lizzy Cassidy (Don’t Tell, Cracked) is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Maddie’s best friend/comedic equal, but today she’s in the apartment for some queer sex therapy after a date that RUINED IT ALL. We discuss cringe-inducing dates with non-binary people, addiction, replacing drugs with sex and love after going sober, and how Lizzy needs to embrace her true identity that she’s been shoving down: goth. Ashley gets gay in Thailand. Maddie investigates the link between neurodivergence and being queer.
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Duration: 01:10:42Irene Tu DENIES Non-Binary Identity
Jan 20, 2025This episode is genderless and asexual, listener! Irene Tu is a side-splitting comedian, writer, WHGS regular, and self-prescribed “nun” who never has sex, but today she’s in the apartment to spurn ace identity regardless. We go DEEP on philosophy this episode as we discuss rejecting both gendered AND genderless labels, reconciling how you perceive yourself vs. how people perceive you, and how the only thing stopping Irene from being asexual is that they’re dorks. Ashley bushwhacks a pubic forest. Maddie seeks the moon.
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Duration: 01:10:47The Entire Cast of “The Bachelor” Hates Me… w/ Breanne Williamson
Jan 13, 2025This episode is scandalous, listener! Our dear co-host and Canadian compatriot Breanne Williamson has RETURNED to the apartment from her mental health break, but today she’s in the apartment to break your BACK! We have a big catch up this week and discuss Bre’s sabbatical, lesbians in Florida, encountering vehement homophobes in the wild, and how Bre has been hiding a secret weapon: massive boobs. Even crazier, Ashley finally confronts “The Bachelor” cast member that dated her girlfriend and blocked her, and she may have gotten blacklisted by the entire franchise in the process.
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Duration: 01:01:50First Time Daddy w/ Watts the Safe Word (REMASTER)
Jan 06, 2025This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight another classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon!
It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp from the "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the first time. Gabriel calls someone daddy for the first time.
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Duration: 01:09:13Breanne Williamson is Quick Switch Bre (REMASTER)
Dec 30, 2024This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight a classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon!
Breanne Williamson dishes on her favorite dirty talk and sexting techniques, and re-tells the story of how she met her girlfriend of 5 years. We also get into the perks of being in an "opposite hand" lesbian relationship. Ashley has phone sex and gets vulnerable. Gabriel goes too hard with baby talk and accidentally cancels himself.
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Duration: 01:17:24Snow Tha Product Will Do Bromance
Dec 23, 2024This episode is for the bros, listener! Snow The Product is an incredible rapper, singer, and podcaster whose music has topped charts and gained millions of views, but today she’s in the apartment to get some views on your BODY! We discuss coming out late in life after having children with a man, being a woman in a male-dominated field, abstaining from sex when visiting in-laws, and how you should definitely NOT surround yourself with employees that are ugly. Ashley can’t find the boob. Kylie has a sugar daddy.
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Duration: 01:09:51Abigail Thorn Has a (S)existential Crisis
Dec 16, 2024This episode is a philosophical one, listener! Abigail Thorn (House of the Dragon, The Acolyte) is an actor, writer, and content creator that dives deep into ideas on “Philosophy Tube,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to dive deep inside YOU! We discuss sexuality crises after good dates, the challenges of being a transgender actor, transphobia and freedom of expression in the UK, and getting banned from dating apps for being yourself. Ashley hits the red light district. Maddie unravels gender.
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Duration: 01:05:55Georgia Bridgers Takes Self-Love Too Far
Dec 09, 2024This episode is an egocentric one, listener! Fan-favorite Georgia Bridgers is an actor, content creator, hot gay jester, and dear friend of the WHGS podcast, but today she’s finally joining us LIVE IN THE APARTMENT to get frisky with she, herself, and hers! We discuss touching yourself to the thought of yourself, having Tourette syndrome, and the ultimate pain of hitting your head while cleaning up after cats. Ashley burns her cooch. Maddie has butt cysts.
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Carmen Lagala and I Date the Same Woman
Dec 02, 2024This episode is a juicy one, listener! Carmen Lagala is a hilarious stand-up comedian and writer who has charmed you with her whimsical comedy on the Late Show with Stephen Colbert, but today she’s in the apartment to charm you into some LOVIN’! We discuss going on dates with the same exact woman, cradle-snatching your boyfriend as a 40 year old woman, and being an endless supporter of liberty…basketball. Ashley impresses her surrogate mother. Kylie shoots her shot (out of a bazooka).
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Duration: 01:05:44Brittany Carney Is a Fairy In Your Armpit Forest
Nov 25, 2024This episode is a smelly one, listener! Brittany Carney is a one-of-a-kind standup comedian and writer that will have you rolling on the floor laughing, but today she’s in the apartment to roll around in your beautiful armpit stench! We discuss the various smells of the human body, getting lost in armpit forests, and kissing girls while looking for your laptop. Ashley traces your scent. Maddie does cotillion.
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Duration: 01:09:51Tiffani Faison Cooks the Perfect Dish For Date Night
Nov 18, 2024This episode is a tasty one, listener! Tiffani Faison is a superstar chef, restaurateur, judge on “Chopped,” and winner of “Tournament of Champions,” but today she’s in the apartment to win your heart, taste buds, and loins with a delicious dish! In addition, Ashley’s girlfriend and actor Jen Davis fills in as temporary co-host while the other co-hosts are away! We discuss the perfect ingredients for a successful date night meal, her path to becoming a chef, why there are so many lesbians in the restaurant industry, and how Boston is definitely not heaven on Earth. Ashley handles heat...
Duration: 01:10:50The WHGS Family Saves Their Children (A.K.A. Pets)
Nov 11, 2024This episode is a cozy one, listener! It’s a family episode today as we are joined by both of our beloved co-hosts and stand up comedians Maddie Wiener and Kylie Vincent, and sadly we must put aside sex and go all-hands-on-deck to save our KIDS! We discuss pets and the special healing bonds they form, giving the old “Gypsy Rose-Blanchard” treatment to your dog, and golden showers. Ashley is having sex in her sleep (featuring Jaime Wolf). Maddie is saving her ill rabbits. Kylie is closing the cycle of abuse.
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Duration: 01:08:18Kate Sisk is BACK and Better Than Ever
Nov 04, 2024Kate is running an amazing hour of stand-up on Wednesday, 11/13, at the NYC UCB Theater! Support our Cancel Coach and get tickets at: https://ucbcomedy.com/show/kate-sisk-nycf/
This episode is LONG-AWAITED, listener! Kate Sisk is a stand-up comedian, writer, and former co-host/beloved “Cancel Coach” of the WHGS Podcast, but today they’re back in the apartment to update us on their new, improved self. You’ve been asking for them back, and we’re finally providing! We discuss starting testosterone injections and their journey towards doing so, getting married, growing a neckbeard, and affirm...
Duration: 01:12:54Izzy & Emma (Turtlewithhat) Get a Kissing Intervention
Oct 28, 2024This episode is a wholesome one, listeners! Izzy & Emma, also known as Turtlewithhat, are a pair of content creators and filmmakers that are deeply in love, but today they’re in the apartment to go deep inside of YOU! We take a break from our traditional story format to dive deep into the story of Izzy & Emma: how they met, when they came out, how their love blossomed, and how it all translated into sick content. More importantly, between all the discussions of fidgets and firings of our producer, we may just bridge the growing divide between Millennials and Ge...
Duration: 01:10:40Austen Faggen Strips for Trans Rights
Oct 21, 2024This episode is a groovy one, listener! Austen Faggen is a television writer that has been behind some of your favorite shows like “Undateable”, “The Neighborhood,” and “Everybody Still Hates Chris,” but today he’s behind YOU, ready to give you a lap dance! We discuss working as a stripper after getting fired for speaking up about trans rights, the allure of sleeping with the opposite sex via threeway, and how being a nerd makes you stand out at the strip club. Ashley is dreaming about boys. Kylie is kissing in parks.
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Duration: 01:08:25Mal Glowenke Manifests Craigslist Kisses
Oct 14, 2024This episode is a witchy one, listeners! Mal Glowenke is a podcaster, content creator, and late-in-life Lesbian that is sharing her journey with the world, but today she’s in the apartment to share with us the secret to manifesting PUSSY! In addition, fan-favorite stand up comedian Ali Kolbert steps in as our temporary co-host! We discuss positive vibrations and the powers of manifesting, coming out later in life, secret lesbian hookups on Craigslist, and how there’s nothing hotter than bangin’ your boss. Ashley is uncorked. Ali shares the Legend of Shitbag.
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Duration: 01:10:30Weezy WTF Tries Kink That Will Make You Furious
Oct 07, 2024This episode is a SAUCY ONE, listeners! Weezy WTF is a genius sex expert, writer, and podcaster that is dedicated to destigmatizing kink for people of color, but today she’s in the apartment to introduce Bottom Nation to the FREAK SIDE! We discuss a whole plethora of topics in the sex and kink world, like the gender’s roles within sex, attraction vs. fetishization, pee play, and other stuff that’s so nasty, you need to listen to learn more. Ashley is throbbing down there. Maddie is learning from a master.
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Duration: 01:11:33Russell Daniels is (No) Magic Mike
Sep 30, 2024Today’s episode is an absolute riot! Russell Daniels is a hilarious actor who’s the star of “Titanique,” the understudy of Josh Gad, and co-host of “The Downside” with Gianmarco Soresi, but today he’s in the apartment to bring you down to the underbelly of New York acting! We discuss terrible jobs and their effect on your confidence, the nuance and ethics of drag performance in comedy, and how selling magic at Toys R Us is one of the least magical things in existence. Ashley is hitting on boys for the first time. Maddie is dissecting threesomes, ontologically...
Duration: 01:10:35Remy Kassimir’s Ultimate Date Night for Bisexuals
Sep 23, 2024Fan-favorite Remy Kassimir is a stand up comedian, writer, and host of award-winning podcast “How C*m,” but today she’s in the apartment to share some FORBIDDEN KNOWLEDGE with you bisexuals in the crowd! We go full reaction mode today as Remy brings in a variety of topics, and we discuss the chaos of coming out, queerbaiting, the smokin’ hot stars at this year’s VMA’s, and whether or not everything is either a salad or a sandwich. Finally, Remy shares with us the ULTIMATE date night for bisexuals who are in a long-term relationship with a straight man...
Duration: 01:10:07Lesley Hart Gets Stuck in Lesbian Purgatory
Sep 16, 2024Lesley Hart is an incredible Scottish actor and playwright who is best known for her great work on the long-running Scottish series “River City,” but today she is here to work on a way to get into your PANTS! On another installment of Ashley’s Fringe Fest podcasts, we discuss the long journey to fully coming out as queer, surviving closeted relationships, being an older queer, and how the hottest kind of woman is one who is HOSTILE! Ashley can’t crack Scotland (sexually). Lesley was in lesbian purgatory.
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Duration: 00:58:14Anna Akana Gets Trapped in a YouTuber 3way
Sep 09, 2024(TW // Self-harm; skip 30:42 - 38:23 to avoid) Anna Akana is an amazing actor, comedian, and veteran content creator who has been making you laugh on YouTube since 2011, but today she’s hopping on the podcast to make you NUT!!! From the backstage of our theater at the Fringe Festival, we discuss losing your gay virginity to YouTubers, struggling with bisexuality, mental health, and how masc lesbians may only be pulling due to supply and demand. Ashley is planning her proposal to Jen. Anna is flirting with her.
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Duration: 01:04:35Tayla Parx’s Exes Invade Her Birthday
Sep 02, 2024Tayla Parx is a singer, songwriter, and four-time Grammy nominee who has written chart-topping tracks for Ariana Grande, Panic! at the Disco, and Khalid, but today she’s in the apartment to write some EROTICA! We discuss how staying friends with your exes can go terribly wrong, the nuances of gender and queerness in songwriting, and what one must sacrifice to become the first gay Kardashian. Ashley is getting rejected. Maddie is saving gay rabbits.
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Duration: 01:04:53Kylie Vincent and I Fall In Love After Going Deep
Aug 26, 2024Kylie Vincent is an amazing stand up comedian, writer, and one of the beloved co-hosts of WHGS, but today SHE is the one sitting on the couch to give all of US a chance at GETTIN’ IT! In a radical departure from the standard podcast format, we take a dive-in deep into the mind of Kylie and get to know our partner-in-pussy a bit better, touching on everything from abusive relationships to finding respect for your queer identity, and the existence of soulmates. Finally, we take some write-ins from YOU, THE LISTENERS, and answer some of your burning questions ab...
Duration: 01:03:15Brandon Contreras Runs a Relationship PYRAMID SCHEME?
Aug 19, 2024Brandon Contreras is an iconic non-binary actor, writer, creator, and star of the hit off-Broadway show “Titanique,” but today he’s in the apartment to recruit you into their MLM (Men-Loving-Men)! We discuss polyamory and levels of love, the beauty of queer collaboration, and how the best way to flirt with a gay man is not talk at all. Ashley is getting jealous. Kylie is getting lucky.
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Duration: 01:05:57The WHGS Family Has a Girls’ Night Out Gone WRONG
Aug 12, 2024(TW // Sexual Assault; skip 26:43 - 28:18 to avoid) It’s a WHGS FAMILY REUNION as we are joined by our co-hosts and hilarious comedians Maddie Wiener and Kylie Vincent, but today we are leaving the apartment to have a GIRLS NIGHT OUT!!! Ashley and Kylie recount their epic tale of queer love, success, and failure during a night out at a local NYC lesbian bar, touching on everything from queer wingmanning to goth girlies, and the ethics of sapphic spaces. Will they get Maddie to join next time to cast aside their queer virginity?! LISTEN TO FIND OUT!
Robby Hoffman Destroys Me and My Lifestyle
Aug 05, 2024(TW // Sexual Assault; skip 29:22 - 45:02 to avoid) Robby Hoffman (Netflix) is an absolutely hilarious writer and stand-up comedian who has been invading your social media feed with incredible jokes, but today she’s invading the apartment to take down me and everything I stand for! She goes hard as we discuss monogamy and self-regulation, dating a queer “Bachelorette,” and how you can trick any homophobic Christian into changing their mind with this one simple mind trick. Ashley is getting destroyed. Kylie is healing familial wounds.
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Duration: 01:10:07Samantha Ruddy Kinks So Hard, She Claims My Show
Jul 29, 2024Samantha Ruddy (The Tonight Show, The Late Show) is a hilarious comedian, writer, and self-proclaimed kink expert, so much so that today she’s in the apartment to dethrone Ash as the SEX GOD! In addition, stand-up comedian and Ashley’s best friend Sam Morrison fills in as temporary co-host while he’s visiting town. We discuss the ins-and-outs of BDSM parties, the complexities of age gap relationships, and how improv classes will suffice when you need to bust a nut on some roleplay. Ashley is getting lied to. Sam is baby shopping.
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Duration: 01:09:00Oscar Aydin Infiltrates the Mile High Club
Jul 22, 2024Oscar Aydin (Netflix, Bravo) is a gut-busting standup comedian who complains so joyfully, you’ll pay to hear it, but today he’s in the apartment to complain about airplanes not keeping enough NUTS stocked for SUCKING! We discuss joining the mile high club under the cover of a medical emergency, fleeing muscle-bound ex-boyfriends who hunt you down for your hookups, and the secrets to organizing a gay movement (that targets Krispy Kreme). Ashley is glowing up. Kylie is puking.
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Duration: 01:12:59Atsuko Okatsuka Prays to the Drag Queen Gods
Jul 15, 2024Atsuko Okatsuka (HBO, The Late Show) is a delightful stand-up comedian, actor, and writer that is blowing up your phone with her flamboyant style, but today she’s in the apartment to channel the drag gods for some ki ki! We discuss the power of performance for self-actualization, the bonds that bind straight women and gay men, and the most metaphysical question of all: what is the best toilet paper? Ashley is micro-cheating. Maddie uncovers airport secrets.
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Duration: 01:10:04KC Shornima is Only Bi at the Bar
Jul 08, 2024KC Shornima is an amazing stand-up comedian and staff writer for SNL’s “Weekend Update,” but today she’s in the apartment to update us on her experiencing a bi-curious girl’s nightmare! In addition, gut-busting comedian and our apologetic ally Jaime Wolf fills in as co-host while Maddie is on tour! After KC had a live sexuality crisis on her last WHGS appearance, we discuss dating women fresh off of coming out, challenging unspoken gender dynamics surrounding sex, and fancy monkey tricks to eat tiny mangos made for tiny people. Ashley has her second threesome. Jaime invades a gay space...
Duration: 01:20:08Swann Périssé Builds a Love Quadrangle
Jul 01, 2024TW // Sexual Assault at 21:40 - 25:25 & 42:35- 47:21; light detail) Swann Périssé is a hilarious French stand-up comedian, writer, and YouTuber who tours nationally across France, but today she’s in the hotel room to learn how to tour multiple BODIES! We discuss sex with multiple partners at once, Jen’s tips to obtain such an arrangement, comedy and romance in France vs. America, and global problems women face regarding sexual assault. Ashley sets a record-time quickie. Swann is sapphic AF.
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Duration: 01:09:28Breanne Williamson Cleans My Messiest Story Yet
Jun 24, 2024It’s a family episode today as actor, podcaster, content creator, and WHGS co-host Breanne Williamson calls in for a catch up, but more importantly she calls in to clean up Ashley’s MESSIEST story yet! We recap their stand-up tour together in Canada before recounting Ashley’s epic, unprecedented, and multi-part gay sex story featuring devious wing moms, gay gossip, and enough twists and turns to put “Gone Girl” to shame.
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Duration: 01:02:18Jes Tom Homewrecks in the Rec Room
Jun 17, 2024Jes Tom (Netflix, Hulu, HBO Max) is a hilarious trans comedian, actor, and writer who is featured on Hannah Gadsby’s “Gender Agenda,” but today they’re in the apartment to pursue a NAUGHTY AGENDA! We discuss getting sucked into infidelity in your apartment’s rec room, trans magic that puts you in touch with Elliot Page, and we finally decide who is the hottest billionaire in the world (the answer may surprise you). Ashley is educating the barbs. Maddie almost dies.
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Duration: 01:14:25E.R. Fightmaster & Katie Kershaw Praise Muscle Mommies
Jun 10, 2024E.R. Fightmaster (Grey’s Anatomy) & Katie Kershaw (Fargo, Killing It) are ⅔ hosts of “Jockular,” a queer podcast about women in sports, but today they’ve FINALLY hosted us bottoms under their hilarious selves! In addition, gut-busting comedian Irene Tu fills in as co-host while the podcast was in LA for the Netflix is a Joke festival! We discuss women in sports, the beauty within all bodies, dating drunken Shakespearean actors, and how extreme violence in Buffalo Wild Wings is generally preferable to men. Ashley has a new type. Irene is indignant.
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Duration: 01:07:09Robin Tran Blows Out Your Bank, Not Your Back
Jun 03, 2024Robin Tran (Netflix, The Roast of Whitney Cummings) is a gut-busting transgender stand-up who was a breakout star in the 2023 Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but today she’ll blow out your back if it means a shot at breaking the bank! In addition, hilarious comedian and friend of the pod Irene Tu fills in as co-host to make sure Ashley STAYS canceled! We discuss staying positive during financial and emotional stress, curating award-winning queer adult content, combating addiction, and how wacking off is best when done to an unknowing friend. Ashley is a confirmed sapiosexual. Irene is a nun.
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Duration: 01:09:00Alayna Joy Finds Your Forbidden Fantasy
May 27, 2024Alayna Joy is a joyous content creator, therapist-in-training, and mommy on the “Chosen Family” Podcast, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to be Ashley’s SPIRIT GUIDE through one of her KINKIEST experiences to date!!! To provide extra support, we also called in the beloved and hilarious Kylie Vincent to co-host and soothe. We discuss intense religion-fueled sexual experiences, creative solutions to first time queer encounters, and we end up getting so honest and vulnerable that Ashley needs to use a safeword. Alayna is doing research, Kylie loves getting naked.
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Duration: 01:10:54Ali Kolbert Questions America’s Adult Searches
May 20, 2024Ali Kolbert (Breaking Down w/ Ali Kolbert, The Tonight Show) is a gut-busting stand-up comedian, writer, and a WHGS fan-favorite, but today she's in the apartment to analyze America’s favorite FANNIES online! On today’s episode we break format to discuss the most searched adult content on the internet in 2023 and its implications, remaining friends with your ex, charisma vs. looks, and how the Ten Commandments prove, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that God does NOT do open relationships. Ashley is family plannin’.
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Duration: 01:09:01Maddie Peck Cracks the Queer Dating Code
May 13, 2024Maddie Peck is a hilarious comedian and writer who’s making waves in New York with her comedy shows, but today she’s in the apartment to make you WIFEY by laying down some smooth moves! In addition, amazing comedian and fan-favorite Gus Constantellis fills in the cancel chair while our other co-hosts are on tour! We discuss novel techniques to confidently ask out queer women, queer dating in cisgender male vs female spaces, and how if you’re lucky, asking out that cute girly just might get you involved in an MLM ponzi scheme. Ashley gets the cuck chair...
Duration: 01:10:05Gianmarco Soresi is Only Gay at Theater Camp
May 06, 2024Gianmarco Soresi (The Late Late Show, Comedy Central) is an amazing stand-up comedian, actor, and lovable host of “The Downside” podcast, but today he’s in the apartment to taste the UNDERSIDE of some DUDES! In addition, Ashley’s gay bestie and fellow stand-up comedian Sam Morrison steps in as co-host while Maddie is on tour. We discuss intense gay experiences as a teen, embracing non-traditional masculinity as a straight man, and we get to the bottom of WHO in the room would give the most bomb dome. Ashley gets in a snotty situation. Sam faces a poopy conundrum.
Remy Kassimir is a Shining Beacon of Nut
Apr 29, 2024Dear friend Remy Kassimir is a comedian, actor, and host of the famous “How C*m,” podcast, but today she’s in the apartment to repair her busted nut! We discuss the various solutions to and challenges in struggling to orgasm with a vagina, trauma and its relation to orgasm, but ultimately just turn this whole thing into a fan-podcast for the hit musical “Titanique.” Ashley takes a tumble. Maddie is a philosopher.
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Duration: 01:03:05Mak Ingemi Apologizes for Trapping Your Thirst
Apr 22, 2024Fan-favorite Mak Ingemi is an internet influencer, podcaster, and Ashley’s adopted teenage son, but today she’s in the apartment to provide a heartfelt apology to the world for getting you too wet! We discuss awkward first dates as a young queer, the challenges of identifying fellow queers after coming out, and best of all, we have a deep retrospective on Mak’s old thirst traps. Ashley almost loses her GF. Maddie is reviewing “Madame Web.”
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Duration: 01:06:43(My GF) Jen Davis’s Relationship is a Bit TOO Open
Apr 15, 2024Jen Davis is an actor, content creator, and my absolutely gorgeous and perfect girlfriend, but today she’s taking a seat on the couch to expand our open relationship to YOU, the LISTENERS! We discuss the ins-and-outs of having an open relationship, family planning for lesbians, and how “Margaritaville” is the hottest new club in town. Ashley secures her bloodline at a great cost. Maddie starts “Boy Lent.”
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Duration: 01:07:14Reading YOUR Gay Sex Stories!
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Duration: 00:01:28Josh Johnson Escapes the Gender Matrix
Apr 08, 2024Josh Johnson is an Emmy-nominated writer, comedian, and correspondent on “The Daily Show,” but today he’s in the apartment to report on which sex is bangin’ best! We discuss the prisons of gender in society, the ever-changing role of masculinity, and whether or not butter-sculpture can be considered high art. Ashley is a horn dog. Ali is saving incels.
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Duration: 01:10:30Willow Shields Needs a Movie Mermaid Mommy
Apr 01, 2024Willow Shields is an amazing actress most well known for playing “Prim” in the Hunger Games film trilogy, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to catch the attention of a mermaid mate! We discuss the difficulties of being an openly queer actor in Hollywood, gay awakenings from corny fantasy creature flicks, and all the JUICY behind-the-scenes horniess that happens when you go through puberty on a film set. Ashley finds a work wife. Bre is a world-class faker.
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Duration: 01:10:05Mari Taren Needs Post-Coital McDonald's
Mar 25, 2024Mari Taren is a lovely comedian & actor that’s most well known as the casting producer for Netflix’s “Ultimatum: Queer Love,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to put some ladies on the casting COUCH instead! We discuss car sex in fast-food drive throughs, challenges for queer actors in media, and the most dangerous symptom of COVID: becoming masc. Ashley is shopping for wedding rings. Maddie is ready to cast “The First Wiener Kiss Experience.”
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Duration: 01:06:52Nico Carney Was a Lesbian in a Past Life
Mar 18, 2024Gut-busting trans comedian Nico Carney (Boys Club, Late Night w/ Seth Meyers) has been rockin’ the comedy world lately, but today he’s in the apartment to rock your BED, listener! In addition, hilarious comedian and straight (beta) male Jaime Wolf steps in as co-host because we really couldn’t find anyone else. We discuss surviving and thriving as a young queer in a small town, facing transphobia during travels in the USA, and how the “+” in "LGBTQ+" is really just for James Corden. Ashley campaigns for a three-way. Jaime REALLY likes “The L-Word.”
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Duration: 01:08:15Caitlin Peluffo Gets Jacked (and Jerked)
Mar 11, 2024Gut-busting comedian & podcast favorite Caitlin Peluffo (Late Show w/ Stephen Colbert, Just for Laughs) has just released a new standup album, “Dirty Bird,” but today she's in the apartment to release her new ARM CANONS to the thirsty public! We discuss weightlifting expanding your sex life, balancing your masc and femme tendencies, and how totally/probably/maybe 9/11 was done for insurance fraud. Ashley writes to her lover. Maddie is filibustering.
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Duration: 01:05:07Georgia Bridgers’ Tears Get Ladies Wet
Mar 04, 2024Georgia Bridgers is an absolutely wonderful content creator, podcaster, and comedian that’s popping off on your Tik Tok feed, but today she’s in the apartment to pop some CHERRIES after harrowing distress! In addition, the hilarious Kylie Vincent joins us once again as temporary co-host while Maddie is out on tour! We discuss the long journey to finding love again after depression and breakups, the joys of sex after an emotional purge, and how you and your ex that blocked you on everything are totally on good terms. Ashley has an awkward date. Kylie’s ribbing the ladies...
Duration: 01:04:09Ruby Setnik’s Dangerous “Nut” Allergy
Feb 26, 2024Ruby Setnik is a hilarious stand-up that opens for nationally touring acts like Duncan Trussell and JR De Guzman, but today she’s busting open a NUT, if you catch our drift! We discuss having allergic reactions to “baby sauce,” the intersections of gender and language, and the ever present threat that is the meat-to-man pipeline. Ashley selects a sperm donor. Maddie ponders womanhood.
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Duration: 01:12:33Alex Kim Denies Jesus for Weenus
Feb 19, 2024Alex Kim is an incredible queer stand-up comedian that performs across NYC, but today he’s in the apartment to perform naughty acts that God would consider an abomination! In addition, the lovely Kylie Vincent fills in as temporary co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss the chaos of realizing your gayness as a devout Christian, drawing boundaries with your family, and which musical is the most effective at making your high school drama class feel really weird. Ashley ponders what is better than sex. Kylie has a gay crush.
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Duration: 01:09:23Jonica Booth Eats Neapolitan-Flavored Baddies
Feb 12, 2024Jonica Booth is an actor/comedian who played Chastity in Issa Rae’s hit HBO Max series “Rap Sh!t,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to play with some model girlies! We discuss fumbling foursomes with absolute baddies, keeping receipts for when you come out to your family, and how to make your girlfriend so mad that she gives you dome alongside absolute strangers. Ashley has erectile dysfunction. Bre gets unclogged.
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Duration: 01:06:08Ali Kolbert Takes a Booty Call-in
Feb 05, 2024Fan-favorite comedian and writer Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show, Variety, Forbes) returns to the pod to give you some advice, and if you’re lucky, give you some HEAD! We discuss toilet women and ideal partners, and then in a WHGS FIRST, we take some live call-ins from YOU, the listeners, and give advice on long distance relationships, the Barbie movie, and dealing with your partner’s homophobic family. Ashley has morning sex. Maddie has a sushi date.
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Duration: 01:09:00Emil Wakim Gets Got by Gay Advice
Jan 29, 2024Emil Wakim (The Tonight Show, Just For Laughs) is an amazing standup comedian and writer that opens for the likes of Hasan Minhaj and Nikki Glaser, but today he’s in the apartment to open up his relationship! We discuss gay advice causing distress in straight relationships, how to purge your inner demons through jerkin’ it, and the phenomenon of rice/ass/boobs/noodles. Ashley gets an ultrasound. Maddie has suitors.
You can follow Chris on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: @emilwakim,
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Duration: 01:08:34Chris Fleming Goes “Mommy Mode”
Jan 22, 2024Chris Fleming is an iconic comedian & actor most well known as the creator of the web series “Gayle,” but today he’s gender-bending in the apartment and we’re FREAKING OUT! We discuss playing around with gender from a young age, being owned by your pets, and how to handle your sex life like a conquistador. Ashley gives thanks. Maddie loses their nerves (romantically & medically).
You can follow Chris on IG/TikTok: @chrisflemingfleming, Twitter: @chrisfluming,
And you can watch his new special, “HELL,” on Peacock NOW: https://www.peacocktv.com/watch-online/movies/chris-flemin...
Duration: 01:14:20The Bachelor Disrespects the WHGS Family
Jan 15, 2024On today’s very special episode, WHGS co-hosts Breanne Williamson and Maddie Wiener come together within the virtual realm to settle some feuds and spread some love! We discuss who will get Ashley’s frozen eggs if after she passes, Breanne’s new movie release, Maddie’s unwell YouTube history, and then the goodfellas go on the defensive after intense disrespect against the family: The Bachelor blocks Don Ashley. Maddie needs a haircut. Bre starts standup.
Watch “Aging Out” on YouTube NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=slqOY3ywDBc
Listen to “Phone Is In The B...
Duration: 01:07:19Gus Constantellis is a Suspicious Sneaky Link
Jan 08, 2024Gus Constantellis is an amazing Greek-American standup, writer, and soon-to-be cookbook author, but today he is in the apartment to cook some sizzling hot SEX STORIES! In addition, the wonderful SVU cop Kylie Vincent joins us once again as temporary co-host while Maddie is touring on the road. We discuss having suspicious sex while abroad, grieving the death of well-known loved ones, and we learn the true history of queer icon Marsha P. Jonestown. Ashley puts numbers on the boards. Kylie does sex work.
You can follow Gus on Instagram & TikTok: @constantlygus https://linktr.ee...
Duration: 01:14:06Jaye McBride Shoots Her (Kill)Shot
Jan 01, 2024Jaye McBride is a witty transgender standup who performs at institutions like the Comedy Cellar or Madison Square Garden, but today she’s in the apartment to fix her inability to “perform,” if you catch our drift! We discuss shooting your shot and managing rejection, dating as a transgender comedian, and how your favorite superhero comics could be a little less gay. Ashley meets the parents. Maddie is on Feeld.
You can follow Jaye on IG: jaye.mcbride, Tik Tok and Twitter: @jayemcbride,
And you can get her standup and merch over at her...
Duration: 00:59:59Kenyon Adamcik Gets Dommed Unto Death
Dec 25, 2023Kenyon Adamcik is a hilarious standup comedian and Maddie’s co-host on the “Phone Is In The Bag” podcast, but today he’s in the apartment to take a more submissive role in the relationship, if you catch our drift! We discuss hiring dominatrices, the joys of being a submissive man in the bedroom, and how cross-dressing squirrels may be the secret to solidifying American hegemony. Ashley likes rugby more than a hobby. Maddie is too confident.
You can follow Kenyon on IG and Twitter: @kenyoncomedy, Tik Tok: @kenyon.comedy,
And you can liste...
Duration: 01:04:36Steph Tolev Speedruns Going Steady
Dec 18, 2023Steph Tolev (Netflix, Comedy Central) is an amazing writer, actress, and quick-witted stand up comedian, but today she’s in the apartment to quickly U-Haul with some sexy mofos! In addition, the fantastic Kylie Vincent fills in as the anti-cancel co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss jumping head first into new relationships, whether men or women kiss better, and we get to the bottom of who in the room actually has the biggest body count. Ashley is eyeing the muscle mommies. Kylie desperately tries to eat snatch.
You can follow Steph on IG...
Duration: 01:04:45Kylie Vincent Gets Clam Jammed by God
Dec 11, 2023Kylie Vincent (Comedy Central) is a hilarious standup comedian whose critically-acclaimed solo show, “Bird,” has been gettin’ some serious attention, but today SHE needs attention from some BIRDS! We discuss sex being prevented by the lord almighty, overcoming relationship trauma from sexual assault, and we analyze the beautiful paintings of President George W. Bush. Ashley is topping America. Maddie is going to bang Kylie.
You can follow Kylie on IG & Tik Tok: @kylievincentthefirst
And you can watch her critically-acclaimed solo show, “Bird,” online: https://thecultch.com/event/bird-by-kylie-vincent/
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