Words With Myself

Imagine waking one morning and realizing you are not where you thought you’d be. That small misstep — a lost job, a harsh word, an unexpected grief — nudges a scale that keeps tipping. In this episode, we follow a life tilted by momentum: how one event becomes a cascade, how decisions made from pain deepen the fall, and how that same force can lift you back, stronger than before.

Through vivid examples — the unemployed person who loses confidence, the relationship that frays as sorrow grows, the holiday indulgences that drown a year’s progress — the story reveals the invisibl...

This episode explores how meaningful progress takes time but can be undone in an instant by impatience and self-sabotage.

It examines habits and fears that secretly destroy our efforts and offers a clear call to recognize and address those patterns so you can move forward and protect what you've built.

This episode examines why people avoid suffering and how trying to eliminate pain by hardening ourselves can create new problems. It advocates for balance, being strong when needed and soft when appropriate.

Instead of controlling outcomes, the host urges living in the present, accepting uncertainty, taking risks without attachment, and trusting that you can endure and thrive no matter what happens.

This episode explores whether our feelings truly belong to us or are often inherited from others, especially for empaths. The host discusses mirroring, social anxiety, and how external emotions shape our identity.

By recognizing how we pick up and return emotions, the episode shows how awareness and small changes can transform your life and help you reclaim who you are.

This episode explores where feelings come from, how they differ from identity, and why emotions are not absolute truth but valid signals about our experience.

It examines how perspectives, empathy, and past stories shape emotions, and why empaths may struggle to separate their own feelings from others'.

Ultimately it offers a reminder that feelings are temporary and you can choose who you are by changing the narrative and how you respond.

This episode explores what true acceptance really means, not merely acknowledging trauma but fully integrating it into who you are so it no longer controls you.

It examines how anger can consume life, the difficult work of forgiveness and processing, and offers encouragement to make space, grieve, and grow toward freedom.

This episode explores how the Dunning-Kruger effect and self-deception lead us to overestimate abilities and build fragile identities. It explains why projecting an idealized self creates anxiety, depression, and a fear of being exposed.

The host argues that real confidence comes from honesty and alignment between who you are and how you act, not from maintaining flattering illusions. Authentic change requires deep introspection, time, and the willingness to lose what was built on inauthenticity.

Ultimately, the episode calls listeners to take personal responsibility for their inner work: face your truth, become more authentic, and accept...

This episode explores why change is hard and how treating symptoms never solves the real issue. It explains the need to bring buried fears, shame, and habits into awareness, confront your inner 'monster', and accept all parts of yourself.

Through honest self-inquiry and difficult choices you can replace harmful patterns with supportive habits and relationships, building a foundation for lasting change and true healing.

This episode explores how severe depression and suicidal thoughts often come from a longing for spiritual or ego death rather than a wish to end life. It explains how rigid identities, shame, and unprocessed trauma can trap people and make suffering feel permanent.

The host argues that simply telling someone "don't kill yourself" is not enough and offers a path forward: face the darker parts of yourself, understand and forgive the past, let go of fixed identities, and allow change to create space for healing and renewal.

This episode uses the coin-toss scene from No Country For Old Men to explore how every day we unconsciously stake everything on our choices and how fear of loss can lead to a lifeless comfort.

It argues for intentional, present living: accept risk, be fully engaged in your actions, experiment to find what matters, and choose meaningful experiences over passive safety.

Do you believe that magic is real? Do you believe that God is real? Do you believe that numerology is real? Whether you believe all of those things or none of those things, what you decide your belief is, is what will dictate what you perceive.

Target fixation is a term used to describe when you focus on a certain point and it draws you closer towards it. If you focus on the negative, you will perceive the negative; if you focus on the positive, you will perceive the positive. Your beliefs control and impact your perception...

In this episode the host explores how every word we speak influences our beliefs, emotions, and how others perceive us, tracing language’s power from historical control to today’s everyday speech. The episode argues that words carry vibration and meaning, shaping reality both internally and externally, and encourages listeners to become more mindful and intentional with their language.

In this episode of Words With Myself, the host explores why change often leads to loss, the fear of being rejected for setting boundaries, and how trying to force others to change rarely works. The episode emphasizes accepting the sacrifice that comes with self-improvement, distinguishing between voluntary suffering for growth and remaining a victim, and trusting that the right people will stay in your life while others may fall away.

This episode explores how we take everyday blessings for granted, why grounding yourself in gratitude matters, and how noticing your baseline can bring perspective and calm.

It also explains that wanting more or aiming for change doesn’t make you ungrateful—gratitude and ambition can coexist and both help attract abundance and presence.

This episode explores the belief that our traits are either fixed or changeable, and argues we have the power to change our perspective and habits. It examines confidence, self-ownership, and how reframing choices can help you grow.

Listeners are encouraged to take responsibility for their decisions, notice limiting beliefs, and use practical steps—like exposure and inner work—to become the person they want to be.

In this episode of Words With Myself, we explore why adults often struggle to imagine what they truly want, arguing that fear, ingrained defense mechanisms, and responsibilities suppress our dreams. Listeners are encouraged to dream without limitations while also realistically considering the full experience—the joys and hardships—of their desires. Through introspection and shadow work, the episode guides listeners to unearth buried aspirations, question automatic beliefs, and find a balanced life that blends freedom with meaningful responsibility.

In this episode of Words With Myself, we discuss quality vs quantity. Many of us pursue longevity and forgo experience quality for safety and comfort, but why live longer in a life you aren't happy with? 

In this thought-provoking episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the intricacies of the human ego and the identities we construct. Through deep reflection, we explore how our perceptions often lead us to view the world through limited lenses, resulting in absolute beliefs about fairness, justice, and happiness.

We discuss the dynamics of optimism and pessimism, and the complex interplay between fate and personal agency. By examining how our thoughts shape our realities, this episode encourages listeners to embrace life's complexity and let go of the desire to control every outcome.

Ultimately, the conversation...

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the intricate nature of human desires, distinguishing between short-term and long-term wants, and the surprising juxtapositions that can exist between them. We explore how our perceived wants often overshadow our true needs and the importance of specificity in understanding what we truly seek. Through personal anecdotes and reflective insights, we invite listeners to question their desires, explore unrecognized wants, and discover a harmonious balance in life.

Join us in this thoughtful introspection that challenges the conventional perception of desire and invites a...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we explore the impact of globalization on the sense of community, particularly in the West. We discuss how traditional familial and communal roles have been monetized, leading to a significant loss of genuine relationships and support systems.

Join us as we delve into the challenges of modern isolation, where individuals often find themselves disconnected from larger social fabrics. We examine how the shrinking of communities affects personal and collective growth, and how children today are growing up without the strong community bonds seen in previous generations.

We also...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the often misunderstood concept of personal alignment. Learn how to bridge the gap between what you know to be true and what you choose to believe, and how the ego plays a pivotal role in this discrepancy. Discover why listening to your intuition is crucial for true alignment, and how it can steer you away from making choices that do not serve your higher self. Through personal anecdotes and insightful reflections, we explore the importance of trusting your instincts and the dangers of disregarding them. Start your journey to...

In this thought-provoking episode of "Words With Myself," we delve deep into the misconceptions surrounding mental health diagnoses. Many view conditions like ADHD, depression, and anxiety as roots of their struggles, yet they may merely be symptoms of deeper issues. The discussion highlights how trauma and a lack of emotional development can manifest in various mental health challenges, casting light on the importance of developing suitable coping mechanisms and emotional tools.

The episode challenges the idea that our mental conditions define us, urging listeners to take responsibility for their choices and change their life narratives. Explore the...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we explore the misconceptions about the perceived ease of doing the right thing. Often, doing what is best for us doesn't immediately feel good, underscoring the importance of pushing through discomfort as a natural part of personal growth. The conversation delves into the qualities of true strength, contrasting it with false strength marked by aggression and hostility.

We explore the notion that true strength comes from balancing kindness with the ability to set and maintain boundaries. This episode challenges the audience to break free from binary thinking—being either overly ni...

Welcome to another enlightening episode of 'Words With Myself.' In a world that often confines our beliefs to what is provable, this episode challenges listeners to free themselves from judgment and observe the universe with an open mind. By embracing intuition and signs, we can realise the magic inherent in our existence.

Explore the conflict between science and spirituality, and understand how both have been used as tools of control. While science is often manipulated, it holds valuable lessons, just like religion. It's crucial to discern personal truths and behold the world for what it offers.<...

In this episode of "Words With Myself," we explore the transformative concept that weakness and strength are choices we make in daily life. By acknowledging our own power to choose courage, honesty, and integrity, we can overcome inherent fears and societal pressures.

This discussion dives deeply into how our reactions are shaped by choices and are not forced by external circumstances. Additionally, we examine the importance of standing by our beliefs and actions, even when faced with external disapproval or challenges.

The episode further addresses how true confidence and healing require internal assurance and self-accountability...

Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of "Words With Myself." Today, we delve into the profound concept of certainty—or rather, the lack thereof. In a world where everyone seems absolutely sure of their opinions and beliefs, we explore the idea that true wisdom lies in accepting that we know nothing for certain.

Through a reflection on famous philosophical insights and personal anecdotes, we challenge the listener to reconsider entrenched beliefs and embrace the complexities and paradoxes of life. How can letting go of the ego and the need to be right lead to a more peaceful and op...

In this episode of "Words of Myself," we delve into the profound significance of presence in our lives. Presence, often oversimplified, is about more than just being in the moment; it's a journey of self-awareness and intentional living. We explore the challenges of breaking free from habitual behaviors and understanding the discrepancy between who we believe we are and our true selves. By confronting these inner conflicts, we learn how to step into the present moment, shedding illusions and embracing the truth of who we are. This episode guides you towards recognizing and dismantling the comforting but deceptive grip...

Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Words With Myself, where we challenge conventional views on success and failure. In this episode, we delve into the idea that failure is not just an obstacle but a necessary part of the journey to success.

Through captivating stories, like that of a master swordsmith learning to work with new materials, we explore how embracing failure leads to innovation and growth. Discover why even the most successful individuals must continually pursue failure to remain at the top of their game and why stagnation is often the result of avoiding failure.

In this thought-provoking episode of Words With Myself, we delve deep into the concept of reality and the illusions we face every day. Our journey explores how we as humans often align our lives with ego and material wealth, mistaking these for true value. This conversation seeks to challenge the norms of society by questioning the intrinsic worth of money and the structures that define our world, encouraging listeners to shift their focus to what truly matters.

The discussion highlights the temporary nature of life, comparing it to the envy of Greek gods who saw meaning in...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the intricate patterns of behavior that define our lives and decisions. We explore the importance of showing up even when conditions aren't perfect and how persevering through discomfort can foster growth and consistency. On the flip side, we examine the dangers of over-reliance on resilience, where ignoring genuine needs for rest and health can be detrimental.

The podcast also highlights how childhood experiences and unmet needs shape our adult motivations, creating deeply ingrained patterns that often act as defense mechanisms. Through introspection, we can begin to understand...

In this episode of Words With Myself podcast, we explore the intricate dance between patience and action in the pursuit of our goals. Discover how striking the right balance between waiting for the right moment and taking purposeful steps can lead to success.

Through thoughtful insights, mindfulness and self-Awareness, we discuss the importance of knowing when to act decisively and when to exercise patience, drawing parallels with life’s everyday balancing acts. Learn why perfecting this balance is essential for both personal growth and achieving dreams.

Tune in for a journey towards mastering the art of...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we explore the true essence of living in the present moment beyond the clichéd "live today like it's your last day." We discuss how being present is not about neglecting the future but focusing fully on the task at hand. We delve into how intentional living can break us free from mindless routines and guide us towards our goals while staying truly engaged in the here and now.

We look at how activities, especially those requiring intensity and focus, foster a state of presence and how this applies to e...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the complexities of fear and avoidance following deep trauma and suffering. The discussion highlights the challenges of rebuilding trust and the tendency to avoid painful experiences. However, this avoidance can also lead to missing out on the beautiful and joyful moments of life.

Listeners are encouraged to confront their fears and take risks, recognizing that pain and suffering are inevitable parts of life. Ultimately, the episode inspires individuals to live boldly and embrace the full spectrum of life's experiences, understanding that both highs and lows are inseparable...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the complexities of modern attention economies and the rise of extremism. As globalism takes hold, our world is inundated with information, leading to a heightened desire for sensational and dramatic content. This creates an environment where polarization thrives, particularly in politics, resulting in the marginalization of centrist voices.

Explore how media and capitalist structures manipulate public focus, distracting us from the underlying issues in society. We discuss the importance of remaining grounded in our own realities and finding balance to counteract the chaos. By understanding both sides...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we explore the impact of early trauma on personal development and the two distinct paths individuals might take: one of anger and resentment, or one of protection and guardianship. As we delve deeper, we discuss how neither extreme is ideal, emphasizing the importance of achieving a balanced approach to life.

We also shed light on the common confusion between being nice and being genuinely good, highlighting the necessity of setting boundaries and listening to one’s intuition. The discussion extends to the concept of selfishness, urging listeners to prioritize self-care to...

Welcome to another insightful episode of Words With Myself. In this session, we explore how people often define themselves through the lens of their most painful relationships, frequently swinging between extremes in an attempt to escape their pasts. This episode delves into the psychological patterns stemming from trauma, offering guidance on finding balance and harmony in life. By embracing all aspects of ourselves, including those we tend to repress, we can arrive at a more integrated and empowered existence. Join us as we learn to navigate conflict with compassion and composure, moving beyond the simplistic flight-or-fight response to achieve...

In this episode of "Words With Myself," we delve into the overwhelming nature of our information-rich society and the pressure to keep up with the constant influx of trends. The conversation explores how this frantic pace disconnects us from meaningful experiences and creates a sense of perpetual dissatisfaction.

We discuss the impact of modern living on mental health, emphasizing the artificial divide between humanity and the natural world, and the importance of reclaiming our connection with nature and our true selves. This episode encourages listeners to reflect on societal norms and consider living in harmony with their...

Welcome to this insightful episode of Words With Myself, where we delve into the importance of experimentation and play in the learning process. Many adults feel trapped by the pressure to succeed on the first try, avoiding new challenges and experiences due to fear of failure or fear of mistakes' repercussions. This episode challenges that mindset, advocating for a playful approach to learning, where making mistakes is seen as a stepping stone to success rather than a deterrent.

We explore how children naturally embrace experimentation and learn rapidly because they are not burdened by the weight of...

In this episode of 'Words With Myself,' we explore the delicate balance between self-perception and personal growth. Understanding how we often misjudge our capabilities, this discussion delves into human tendencies to evaluate ourselves inaccurately, leading to self-fulfilling prophecies.

You’ll discover the importance of finding a middle ground – a harmony between being consistent and adaptable in daily life, and the role it plays in shaping a fulfilling lifestyle. Through a reflective lens, we examine the survival instincts behind our ingrained patterns and the comfort zones that hold us back.

Ultimately, this episode invites you to t...

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Words With Myself, where we delve into the transformative power of self-love and respect. Discover how the age-old maxim, "treat others how you want to be treated," can be flipped to empower your self-worth and establish boundaries that reflect true respect.

We explore the visceral impact of negative self-belief on your physical and mental health while unveiling the magnetism that self-assurance creates in the world. Challenge preconceived notions of capability, confront self-imposed limitations, and compete - not with others, but with yourself - to unlock hidden potential.

Embrace a...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the profound concept of self-discovery and self-acceptance. Understanding and nurturing your relationship with yourself is not just about self-care but is deeply intertwined with your relationship with the divine, as we explore the idea that knowing yourself is akin to knowing God.

Join us as we discuss the significance of embracing your true nature, the dangers of self-deception, and the importance of building trust and honesty within oneself. We address the common struggles of feeling disconnected from our true selves, the societal pressures to conform, and how...

In this episode of "Words With Myself," we explore the challenges faced by hyper-independent individuals who often find themselves isolated and lonely. This state of being arises from prolonged periods of self-reliance, during which individuals learn to fend for themselves, often leading to an inability to trust others.

We delve into the difficulties of relearning how to build relationships and trust, as hyper-independence can transform into a barrier preventing meaningful connections. Discover how embracing relationships not only doubles your safety and security but also opens the doors to a more vibrant and fulfilling life.

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In this episode, we delve into the complexities of searching for meaning and purpose, even amidst the beautiful distractions of paradise. Our host shares personal reflections from a recent trip to Thailand, contemplating the nuances of self-discovery in a stunning yet transient environment.

Despite the allure of crystal-clear waters and warm weather, we explore how the real challenges lie within ourselves, regardless of our surroundings. The discussion extends to the lessons learned in one’s twenties, focusing on the endless pursuit of purpose and the realization that life cannot always be meticulously planned.

Listeners are en...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we explore the complex dynamics of human behavior, focusing on the fine line between selfishness and selflessness. We delve into real-life scenarios where individual needs clash with the collective good, illustrating how personal struggles can lead to broader societal issues.

Through thought-provoking narratives, we challenge the notion of universal right and wrong, examining how cultural differences and personal experiences shape our understanding of morality. Join us as we discuss the importance of maintaining a balance between adhering to social rules and following one's own path, seeking to understand what truly...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the subtle yet profound impact of language on our lives. Through intriguing examples and scientific experiments, we explore the overlooked power that words carry in shaping our perceptions and experiences. Discover how the words you choose, often unconsciously, can elevate or diminish your reality.

We discuss the ripple effect of language vibrations, illustrating how seemingly insignificant words can accumulate to produce substantial outcomes. By analyzing language's macro and micro perspectives, we challenge listeners to reflect on their speech patterns and understand how they can consciously harness the...

In this episode of Words With Myself, we explore the natural rhythm of winding down during the winter season, using this time for introspection and yearly reviews. The discussion touches on common challenges people face, like fear and self-imposed limitations, and how to overcome them. By asking the right questions and challenging assumptions, the episode gives insights into redefining personal and professional goals, encouraging listeners to break barriers and transform the seemingly impossible into achievable goals.

In this thought-provoking episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the complex concept of comfort and the deceptive allure it holds over our lives. We explore how comfort, often perceived as a protective shield, can limit our growth and trap us in a state of mediocrity.

Through engaging reflections, we examine how people trade their dreams for temporary ease, sacrificing true fulfillment in pursuit of a safety net that may not even exist. Unpack the dangers of this comfort zone, and learn how embracing risks and stepping out of cushy familiarity can lead to a more...

Welcome to a compelling episode of Words With Myself, where we delve into the inevitable challenges life throws at us and the anxiety arising from the need to control the uncontrollable. We explore how an obsession with preventing bad events from happening can trap us in constant fear and worry, marginalizing the joy and gratitude in our lives.

This episode reveals the liberating truth that, while striving to protect ourselves and our loved ones from adversities, true peace and freedom come from accepting life's inherent uncertainties. It's a journey less about mastering every situation and more about...

Welcome to this enlightening episode of Words With Myself, where we delve into the unsettling world of intrusive thoughts. Do you feel like you're in control of your thoughts? Discover the truth behind why we don't choose the thoughts that enter our minds and how attaching emotions to these thoughts can affect our sense of self.

Explore the nature of thoughts that disturb us—those that might seem out of character or shocking. We often bury these thoughts, fearing judgment and self-condemnation, which only gives them more power in our shadows.

Learn how to shine a...

In this episode of "Words With Myself," we explore the delicate balance between patience and action. Our host candidly shares personal experiences and challenges with impatience, emphasizing the importance of allowing time for growth and maturity in our endeavors.

Through vivid analogies, such as the nurturing of a plant, we learn that both excess and deficiency can hinder progress. The episode highlights the significance of embracing the process rather than rushing to the end goal. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own journeys, understanding that the true reward lies in the transformation and skills acquired along...

In this episode of "Words With Myself," we explore the contrast between the seriousness with which adults and children approach life decisions. While adults often have well-thought-out reasons for their actions, children live more in the moment, free from the burdens of responsibility. This discussion delves into how adulthood's societal expectations create a cautious, mistake-averse culture, leading to a life that feels more like a task list than an enjoyable journey.

We examine how the fear of making mistakes and the pressure to meet expectations can cause us to miss out on the joy of living in...

In this introspective episode of "Words With Myself," our host recounts a transformative journey through Bali's enchanting temples and reflects on a conversation with a fellow traveler that sparked a personal revelation. This episode delves into the human tendency to compare and the impact it has on our ability to appreciate the present moment.

Through personal anecdotes, including a recent experience at a fireworks display, the host examines how expectations can hinder our enjoyment and lead to a constant pursuit of more, often leaving us unsatisfied. The episode highlights the importance of gratitude and being fully present...

In this thought-provoking episode of "Words With Myself," we delve into the universal experience of lack and the human tendency to overcompensate for it. Whether it's a lack of love, money, or personal experiences, everyone has felt the void at some point in their lives. The episode explores how extremes, whether indulgence or deprivation, often lead to imbalance and further dissatisfaction.

We discuss the societal pressure to maintain a facade of constant happiness and success, and how this impacts our well-being. By examining the systems that encourage us to conform to these extremes, we uncover the hidden...

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Words With My Soul," where we delve into the essence of the spiritual journey as a path towards uncovering your individual truth. Life is a shared experience, yet each person views it from their unique perspective. This episode encourages you to explore, discover, and expand your horizons through your own experiences.

We examine the balance between collective knowledge and personal discovery. While societal memory and shared learning have driven technological and social progress, they often overshadow the necessity of personal exploration and intuitive understanding. The focus on efficiency and profit in...

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. Whether you're a seasoned spiritual seeker or just starting out, this episode is for those feeling stuck or plateaued in their spiritual journey. We'll explore the common stages of learning and growth, and why hitting a plateau is a natural part of the process.

Discover why the initial excitement fades and how to push through the challenging periods of refinement and hard work. We'll draw parallels with physical training to illustrate the universal nature of this experience. Learn why true spirituality requires confronting uncomfortable truths about yourself and how...

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the complex nature of bullying, exploring its many forms and sources. Whether it's physical violence, mental manipulation, or emotional abuse, bullying affects everyone differently. We discuss how bullies often emerge from a place of hurt and trauma, perpetuating a cycle of aggression to protect themselves.

On the other side, we examine the avoidant victims who try to shelter themselves by appeasing aggressors, often at the expense of their own needs and well-being. This episode sheds light on the detrimental effects of constantly prioritizing...

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. Previously, we discussed the significance of light work alongside shadow work, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging positive experiences. In this episode, we dive into practical methods for applying these concepts in daily life.

We explore how to analyze strong emotional reactions during conversations, identifying underlying beliefs and triggers. For instance, understanding why an insult might deeply affect us reveals hidden insecurities. This self-inquiry helps us develop a stronger sense of self-worth, less influenced by others' opinions.

We also discuss techniques to overcome fears, such as performance anxiety...

Welcome to another insightful episode of "Words With Myself." Today, we dive deep into the nature of decision-making, exploring whether big decisions or small daily choices are more challenging. The episode unpacks the misconception that making a significant life-changing decision is the hardest part. Instead, it reveals that the true difficulty lies in the consistency and dedication required to make the right choice every day.

We often inflate the importance of major decisions, such as going on a diet or quitting a bad habit, seeing them as the biggest obstacles. However, the episode argues that it's the...

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the popular phrase "Everything you want is on the other side of fear." We explore the true meaning behind this statement and discuss how to interpret it as practical, actionable advice.

We examine the concept that nothing is 100% true and how absolutes can be misleading. Instead, we focus on how fears, particularly the fear of the unknown, can block us from achieving our goals. Using examples and risk analysis, we discuss the importance of weighing the risks of action against the risks of...

Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of perspective and its impact on our lives. Discover how our ego's interpretation of the world shapes our identity and influences our experiences.

Explore the complexities of how our past decisions, experiences, and societal roles contribute to the formation of our sense of self. Understand the limitations of our memory and the inaccuracies in our recollections that affect our judgments and perspectives.

Learn how to detach from a fixed identity and open yourself to new possibilities by...

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the concept of safety and how our definitions of it can vary widely. We explore the extremes of risk aversion and reckless daring, and discuss the vast middle ground where most of us reside.

We examine how our past experiences shape our willingness to take risks and how this impacts our daily lives. The episode highlights the importance of understanding these influences to avoid living life on autopilot, locked in a cycle of comfort and safety that limits true experiences.

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Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked concept of light work, the essential counterpart to shadow work. Shadow work involves introspection on our deepest traumas and recurring negative patterns, a concept pioneered by Carl Jung. However, focusing solely on our shadows can leave us lost in negativity.

Today, we explore the significance of light work, which involves reflecting on the positive aspects of our lives—the successes, the happy moments, and the times when things went right. By balancing both shadow work and light work, we can ma...

True creativity can only exist with true freedom.

In this episode, we delve into the inherent creativity within all of us and explore how to find and nurture your unique creative outlet. Whether it's art, writing, or even sports, creativity manifests in various forms. We discuss the challenges of monetizing creativity, the pressures that come with professional creative work, and the importance of maintaining a personal, unrestricted space for artistic expression.

Learn how to balance creativity with commercial demands, the importance of experimentation, and the necessity of making time for personal creative pursuits. This episode...

In this thought-provoking episode, we explore the profound insights shared by Rowan Atkinson on a timeless quote from Charlie Chaplin that describes life as a tragedy in the micro and comedy in the macro. This episode delves into the delicate balance between taking life seriously and understanding its grand, playful nature when viewed from a broader perspective.

We discuss the scientific and spiritual dimensions of our existence, emphasizing how interconnected and inseparable we are from the universe. By viewing ourselves as vibrations or frequencies, we uncover the unity between self and other, leading to a realization that...

How do we determine value in our society? This episode delves into the complexities of value, exploring how it is often dictated by external factors but ultimately determined by our personal perceptions and circumstances.

Through examples ranging from the diamond industry to the intrinsic value of time, we examine how scarcity, longevity, and complexity to acquire shape our understanding of worth. The discussion also highlights the paradox of money and its perceived value, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing what truly enhances our quality of life.

Join us as we uncover the ever-changing landscape of value...

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we dive deep into the essence of patience and trust. Often, we feel the urge to control every situation, pushing ourselves to the limit to achieve our goals. But what if the key to success lies in relinquishing control and trusting the process?

We explore the societal pressure to constantly do more and the anxiety that comes with not seeing immediate results. Discover how letting go of the need to rush and trusting the natural order can lead to a more peaceful and fulfilling journey towards...

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In today's podcast, we shift our focus from unhealthy relationship dynamics to exploring the complexities of maintaining positive and healthy relationships. We delve into the challenges of setting boundaries, especially when transitioning from dysfunctional relationships to healthier ones.

As you work on your personal development and prioritize meaningful connections, you may encounter resistance from those who are not ready to embrace your growth. We discuss the importance of identifying and nurturing relationships that honor your needs and respect your boundaries.

Healthy relationships, whether with friends, family, or...

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. Today, we delve into the concept of being "nice" and uncover its hidden complexities. While being nice is often seen as a positive trait, it can also mask a lack of boundaries, self-respect, and self-love.

We explore how the compulsion to be nice can lead to self-destructive patterns, causing resentment and feelings of being taken for granted. Learn why it's crucial to prioritize your own needs and establish healthy boundaries to avoid the pitfalls of people-pleasing.

This episode also examines the origins of this behavior, often rooted...

Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the concept of perspective and how it shapes our understanding of truth. Using the simple analogy of seeing a number as either a six or a nine, we explore how two people can perceive the same thing differently, and yet both be right.

We discuss the emotional intensity that often accompanies arguments where each party is convinced of their own truth. This episode examines why we feel the need to convince others of our beliefs and how this is often an attempt...

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Words With Myself." In this episode, we delve into the common misconception of treating ourselves as projects that need fixing. We often focus on eliminating our weaknesses and amplifying our strengths in the pursuit of perfection. However, true healing is a holistic process that involves embracing our authentic selves.

Join us as we explore how subjective interpretations of positive and negative experiences shape our self-perception. We discuss the importance of recognizing symptoms like anxiety and depression as messages from our bodies, guiding us to realign with our true nature. By understanding...

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Words With Myself." This week, we delve into the concept of being in the present moment and the challenges that come with it. Despite the constant reminders to stay present, many of us find ourselves drifting into anxiety about the future or depression about the past.

Our host shares personal insights and revelations from a recent walk, exploring the roots of anxiety and depression. Through the lens of the hermetic laws, particularly the law of polarity, we examine how our lives swing between extremes and how finding a middle ground can...

In this insightful episode, we delve into the nuanced differences between being truthful and being honest. While truthfulness involves a commitment to facts, honesty encompasses a deeper level of openness and vulnerability. Discover how living with integrity and in truth can harmonize your life and bring ease, rather than the stress of maintaining lies.

The discussion further explores the challenges of being honest with oneself and others. We often prioritize the needs of others over our own, leading to diluted personal truth and potential resentment. Learn why establishing boundaries and being selective about whom you share your...

What do you want? Why do you want it? Are you willing to pay the price required? If so, take action. If not, you need to work out if it is something you truly want and have a solid reason for why you want it. The universe is always listening. If you are giving it mixed messages, the universe will return by providing mixed opportunities. Alignment is key.

Control is largely, an illusion. We believe we can control our lives because we control a few variables. Despite our desperate attempts, fighting with ourselves and trying to impose our will onto the world is futile, even if it happens, it will leave us in ruins.

Onions have layers, Humans have layers. So does the ego it seems.

We can get really wrapped up in our sense of self sometimes, but when digging beneath the surface it can be hard to truly decipher where we begin and where we end, where the conditioning starts and finishes. Who are you? Are you happy with who you are? What made you the person you are today?

Stress affects different people in different ways. However, if you are not dealing with and managing your stress correctly, it can quickly metastasise into all sorts of issues. Illness, depression, anxiety, chronic fatigue and a constant feeling of burnout are just some of the ways that stress can choose to manifest itself in your life if not properly managed.

Stress isn't so much an obvious feeling like anger, nor is it as easy to identify as many of us have become accustomed to our stress. It is important that we are aware of our stressors a...

Who Are You Really?

In this episode of Words With Myself, we discuss the identity of self and the paradox of identity. We identify with this perception of ourselves, this character curated for our consciousness to inhabit. But is that truly all you are, if you sit back and meditate it won't be long before you notice you are not the thinker of your thoughts, so who are you really?

Sometimes I notice myself angered by those who seem to lack initiative and drive. It’s not my intention, but the ramifications of a deep-seated resentment dwelling beneath the surface. A disdain for those who abdicate the empty pursuit of perfection and are brave enough to relinquish their inner critic. Or, maybe it’s not a conscious effort at all. Perhaps it’s not a decision but simply a wound they never sustained.

Is that truly possible? To grow up with healthy surroundings and never pick up that chatty hitchhiker. You know who I’m referring to don’t yo...

Remember that thing? That thing you have always wanted to do but never had the confidence to do so?

This is an episode for those experiences crying for help, desperately awaiting your courage to step out of fear and embrace them.

Welcome to episode 7 of the Words With Myself podcast, where we discuss life's everyday mysteries. This episode is about perception, capturing the essence of the saying 'looking at life through rose-tinted glasses', and how our experiences and emotional states dramatically shape how we see the world.

Join us as we delve into the fascinating concept of differing perceptions, evidenced in our day-to-day experiences. We talk about riding a roller coaster as an analogy, emphasizing how different individuals may experience the same event in entirely different ways based on their internal make-up or emotional state.

We...

Welcome to a thought-provoking episode of 'Words With Myself' where we venture into the delicate balance between feelings and actions in pursuing our goals. Drawing from a personal tale of triumph in the face of discomfort, this episode emphasizes the importance of perseverance, endurance, and commitment.

In this reflective narrative, the speaker embarks on a stroll in the woods, against the backdrop of inclement English weather. Despite the gloomy forecast and subsequent downpour, the speaker remains undeterred, choosing to continue the planned journey. A fortuitous change in climate sparks sunshine, transforming the initially grim journey into a...

Welcome to another episode of 'Words with Myself'. In this episode, we take a deep dive into the realm of language and communication. We focus on examining the transformative power of words and how they shape our world, our perceptions and our very reality. Throughout history, words have portrayed significant importance, often mirroring the chants, spells and incantations of old, signifying an ability to manifest and shape our realities.

However, in contemporary society, careful articulation and thought-provoking speech patterns seem to be fading, replaced with slang and less precise, easily dismissed terminology. Language is rapidly evolving, but...

Join us for an insightful episode of Words With Myself, where we explore the importance of not just questioning external information, but also our internal beliefs. Wrapped in a continuous effort to decipher your truth, the episode emphasizes how our beliefs are subtly shaped by a lifetime of curated data from society, the internet, and the government.

We delve into the challenge of questioning deeply held beliefs and the emotional discomfort that comes along with it. It asserts that the defensiveness and agitation we experience when our beliefs are challenged, usually point towards beliefs we haven't truly...

Welcome to another episode of 'Words With Myself', where we emphasize the importance of living in the present moment. Yet, it's not just about being in the now, but purposively being there. Today, we explore the power of intentional living—consciously deciding to pilot our own lives rather than just mechanically going through the motions.

This episode uncovers the potency of being intentional in your everyday activities. From listening to our podcast to your daily chores or meal times. We delve into the concept of presence and how it plays an integral role in shaping our attitude to...

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself, a series dedicated to personal development and self-understanding. This episode narrates my journey from discovering who I am to realising the importance of having a clear vision.

Reflecting on my past year, it was a precious time of exploration and openness to new experiences. Wandering without a map and uncovering my true desires through the unknown allowed me to formulate a clear direction in life.

Understanding my desires and having developed the drive to pursue them, I recognise now, more than ever, the need to have a...

Welcome to this engaging episode of "Words With Myself," where I deeply reflect on my journey to personal fulfillment and self-appreciation. Through the lens of my experiences, I explore the highs and lows, the trials and triumphs, the pain, and the passion that have shaped my path.

Candidly casting a light on mental health challenges, I talk about my long periods of depression that made happiness seem unattainable for a long time. The turnabout is the result of a fiercely fought personal battle, countless challenges, heartaches, and getting up every time I fell. All of these have...

We all change, we learn new information, have different experiences, gain new insights, but could it be that we just grow closer to who we always were? I am not convinced the soul changes, I believe that our true selves are the constant, and that change happens at the level of the ego. Be open to change, but know that ultimately, all change should bring you closer in alignment with who you are, not further away.

Sometimes, the tools we develop to protect ourselves, end up being the very things that hurt us the most. Our defence mechanisms were all developed at a point in time where we believed that it was the only way, our only choice. An important step in healing and growing is to understand that these things we once developed to protect ourselves, may not be suitable for you now and actually might be hurting you more than the initial situation that caused you to develop them.

Part two of the communication episode is about the importance of your communication. How what you say, in turn, creates and affirms the beliefs that shape your reality.

Living a free life is a life of sovereignty. Living your own life, on your terms, with your own beliefs and ideas, making your own choices. There is a responsibility that comes with this, you must be 100% accountable, and you must allow yourself to embrace your journey without benchmarking it against others. Set yourself free, and embrace acceptance in the truest form it needs to come, self-acceptance.

Communication is a difficult thing to master, and much of our speech often reflects our attitude towards life. I am very careful about what I say, and I am often criticised for being too picky with language. But so much of how someone thinks and feels can be picked up from subtle cues in their speech, things they may not even know about themselves. Switching to accountable language is a fundamental first step to clear communication.

We are living in a time where science is believed to negate ancient wisdom, that spirituality is nonsense and only for the unscientific. Yet more and more, we are seeing science coincide with ancient wisdom, not disprove it. The two do not have to be mutually exclusive, one does not disprove the other.

Some Changes we can't make immediately, but does that mean we are just supposed to wait? Absolutely not! We need to do everything we can to prepare ourselves for the change to take place. Create space, Clear room, Know what to expect and what is required.

From childhood, we are taught to look outside of ourselves to know whether our actions, the way we look, and the people we are are, is good enough. We are taught that external validation supersedes internal validation and that our feelings and thoughts are not as important as the thoughts and feelings of others. This is something we must move away from, to place ourselves back in the drivers seat and give ourselves the authority over our lives back.

Motivation is unreliable, the best way to remain motivated is to take motivation out of the equation altogether. Motivation implies there is a choice, that you will do something depending on how you feel. Discipline is the art of doing something regardless of how you feel. Discipline allows you to be consistent, it ensures the work you need to do gets done. Motivation is great, but you can't depend on it.

Feel the fear and do it anyway, is the underlying message of this episode. Acts of courage are not measured by external perception, but in internal conflict. The truest acts of bravery exist when someone overcomes the fear they feel in service of a noble cause. It is not about not feeling scared, or becoming someone that doesn't feel fear, but instead being someone capable of feeling afraid but being unwavering in the face of it.

We all go through transitionary periods in our lives, times when we are making or have made changes, yet our circumstances, environment, and relationships have not quite caught up. Sometimes it can be us that's the thing that's not changed or adapted. This period can be painful, we can long for our situation to be different and feel as though we are doing everything to change yet the change isn't being realized in the world. One of two things needs to happen depending on the circumstances, we either need to be patient and allow the fruits of our labour...

Trust, not control. Trust that things will be okay, trust that you are capable of dealing with the fallout, trust in the universe. Trust is the antidote to anxiety.

Only when we emerge from the cave, can our eyes truly adjust to the light.

When you want to be successful, the first time you achieve your definition of success you realise that your definition was too small. Success is never really achievable to those who are truly wanting it, because those who have a mind wired to attain success know that there is always more to be done. Mastery, an infinite process that many of us treat like a finite one. You can never be the best, you can only be better.