How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast

We are throwing it back to a classic conversation about what it really means to be an alpha man today. Our guest Kevin Aillaud breaks down the qualities that make a man grounded, confident, and in charge of his own life. Kevin lives what he teaches, and you can hear that in every moment of this episode. A true must listen.

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Enjoy this special throwback episode where Marni sits down with seduction coach Vince Kelvin to talk about dating, attraction, confidence, and how men can naturally get better with women. Vince breaks down actionable insights, useful techniques, and surprising truths about modern dating. Listen now and learn something new.

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Today’s throwback episode of the Ask Women Podcast brings on a single mother who pulls zero punches when it comes to dating past 40. She’s direct, she’s no-BS, and she’s not here to sugarcoat anything for your ego — she’s here to tell you exactly how women in her position actually think, choose, and filter men.

If you’ve ever wondered what dating looks like through the eyes of a woman balancing kids, time, self-worth, and a second act — this is the episode you listen to.

Not feel-good fluff… actionable truth.

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We’re taking it way back to a classic 2016 episode! “The Relationship Doctor” himself, Bob Grant, calls in to share timeless insights on attraction, connection, and what makes relationships actually work.

Bob’s a renowned dating expert and author of multiple best-selling relationship books — and in this vintage “How to Get the Girl” episode, he drops the kind of grounded, no-nonsense wisdom that never goes out of style. Whether you’re single, dating, or trying to make sense of modern love, this throwback is packed with advice that still holds up today.

So grab your stethoscope and...

This week, we’re going primal 🧠🔥

Author and evolutionary psychology expert Tim Ash joins us to talk about his new book Primal Dating, a brutally honest guide to understanding the instincts that secretly drive attraction, love, and relationships.

We dig into the psychology beneath the surface: what’s really motivating men and women, why certain dating behaviors feel “automatic,” and how our evolutionary wiring still plays out in the modern world of apps, texting, and situationships.

If you’ve ever wondered why you (or your dates) do the things you do—even when it doesn’t make lo...

Most men think women already know how to access that deeply sensual, turned-on version of themselves, but the truth is, a lot of women have never actually been guided into their own bodies before. They’re in their heads, second-guessing, performing, or trying to “do it right”… instead of actually feeling anything.

In this episode, we’re joined by Amy Rowan from The Suburban Intimacy Project to break down:

Why so many women don’t even know what they’re supposed to feel during intimacy

The hidden reasons women shut down or go numb in the be...

We’re throwing it back to one of our most powerful Ask Women episodes — where we explore why being happy isn’t just good for your soul, it’s magnetic. Studies show that the happier you are, the more attractive you become to the opposite sex. That’s why we brought on happiness coach Robert Mack, a man who had it all - looks, success, intelligence, a great family — but still felt miserable inside.

Robert opens up about how he completely turned his life around and discovered that true happiness comes from within, not from validation, success, or relations...

We’re throwing it back to the Ask Women days! Comedian Nick Guerra joins Marni and Kristen for a classic “Over Analyze This” episode where we dive into listener letters and answer your biggest dating questions. From how to handle jealousy to dealing with flakers and c*ck blockers, nothing’s off limits. We also dive into our classic segment, Help Another Brother Out, where we give one listener some direct, no-BS advice to get his dating life back on track.

Tune in for some laughs, some raw truths, and a little nostalgic chaos from the Ask Women ar...

On this week’s How to Get the Girl, we’re joined by Adam Woolard — husband to Bachelorette star Hannah Brown, VP of Business Development at Joi+Blokes, and a guy who knows firsthand what it’s like to feel intimidated by a woman.

We dive into two huge areas that can make or break your dating life:

• Confidence around women you actually like — why guys hold back, don’t fully express themselves, and how to flip that script so women feel more attraction.

• Your health and dating success — how small diet changes and preventive car...

Moving to a new city can feel like hitting the reset button—new streets to explore, new friends to make, and a whole new dating scene to figure out. In this throwback episode (originally aired 6.15.16, Ep. 67), Marni and Kristen talk with east-coast transplant PJ about how to rebuild your social life, boost your confidence, and navigate dating when you’re starting from scratch.

We also dive into:

The challenges of dating in a brand-new city

How to create your own social circle from the ground up

Building confidence and finding comfort in u...

This week, we’re bringing you a throwback episode that’s just as valuable today as when it first aired. We sat down with Abby — a hot, young, single twenty-something — to get the unfiltered inside scoop on what dating in your 20s is really like. From the shifts COVID created in the dating landscape to what’s stayed exactly the same, Abby pulls back the curtain on what works, what fails, and how to approach with confidence. She even shares what makes her (and her friends) take notice when a guy walks in — spoiler: a killer smile still wins the day.

In this bonus episode of How to Get the Girl, Kristen sits down with Dave Stultz from Limitless Brave to talk about something that can completely shift your dating life: the power of working with a coach in person.

We break down why nothing compares to the energy of being in the room, where body language, presence, and confidence can be seen, felt, and fine-tuned in real time.

You’ll hear why workshops create an environment where skills stick faster, nerves get rewired into confidence, and accountability goes through the roof.

And here’s th...

This episode is anything but a lecture. In fact, we kick things off with a totally candid 10-minute conversation between me, Kristen, and our guest Dr. Kayte about our own porn patterns - genres, likes, dislikes - proving that yes, we ALL watch porn.

From there, Dr. Kayte breaks down what’s actually healthy versus harmful when it comes to porn, plus what’s real and what’s pure camera trickery that should never, ever be tried in real life.

We also dive into Dr. Kayte’s own dating life as a woman in her mid-30s...

Dating at 49 isn’t about playing games — it’s about knowing who you are, what you want, and not being afraid to say it out loud. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Rachel Birch, host of the award-winning podcast Love Before 100.

Freshly divorced and unapologetically back in the dating scene, Rachel opens up about what she’s looking for, what turns her on, and the mindset of a sophisticated, strong woman who’s not settling for less. We dive into attraction, desire, confidence, and the little things that make a big differ...

When it comes to men’s health, your penis might be saying more than you think. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Dr. Elliot Justin — physician, innovator, and creator of the world’s first smart penis ring — to talk about not erectile dysfunction, but erectile fitness.

Dr. Justin shares why sexual health is more than performance — it’s a vital indicator of your overall well-being. We dig into the critical need for data-driven solutions in medicine, how technology is changing the game for men’s health, and why paying attention to your erecti...

Communication is the foundation of every great relationship, but for so many people, it’s also the biggest struggle. In this episode, we’re joined by Suzanne Tabachnick, founder of Social Foundations, a supportive community dedicated to helping people build social awareness, abilities, and confidence. While Social Foundations focuses on individuals navigating life on the autism spectrum, Suzanne’s insights are valuable for anyone who wants to strengthen their communication skills and form deeper connections, leading to chemistry and romance. 

We dive into the essentials of effective communication in dating and relationships: how to notice...

How do you know when to pursue, when to pull back, and when to stop altogether?

In this throwback episode, we sit down with Emmy-nominated producer and casting director Tanya Bershadsly to break down the art of pursuit.

We dive into the signals women give that tell you she’s interested, HOW TO SPOT when you’re pushing too far, and the difference between persistence and pressure.

Tanya brings her eye for human behavior from years in casting to reveal what women are really communicating, often without saying a word.

Whether you...

This week, is a serious DON'T MISS. We sit down with Erin Keating, creator of the brand and podcast Hotter Than Ever, dedicated to dating over 50, to reveal the unfiltered truths men need to hear.

While Erin’s show focuses on dating later in life, the insights she shares apply to any man looking to attract and connect with women.

Erin is no-holds-barred, authentic, and tells it exactly like it is- no fluff, no sugarcoating. We cover the biggest online dating mistakes guys of every age make, how to actually get her to say yes to...

This one’s from the vault back when the show was called Ask Women—so don’t be confused by the old name drop! The advice still holds up (and then some).

In this episode, we’re joined by Adam Wayne, Marni’s personal coach, to talk about one of the trickiest topics for men: how to share your vulnerabilities without coming off as self-deprecating, weak, or like you’re making excuses for who you are.

Adam breaks down how to own your truth, express emotion, and connect deeply with women—without ever losing your edge. Whether...

In this throwback episode, we get all too relatable talking about making a bad first impression. Made a weird joke? Came on too strong? Forgot how to speak English the second she looked at you? We’ve all been there—and this week, we’re talking about how to come back from a cringey first impression without losing the girl (or your dignity).

Comedian and crowd-reading master K.T. Tatara joins Kristen to break down what actually kills a first impression and more importantly, how to recover with grace, humor, and a little self-awareness. They dig into:

T...

We’re throwing it back to one of our most downloaded episodes with none other than Alpha M, the #1 men’s lifestyle influencer, Aaron Marino.

In this conversation, we unpack the truth about confidence: where it actually comes from, why most guys fake it wrong, and how to build the kind of self-assurance that women feel before you even say a word.

We dive into:

Why confidence has nothing to do with arrogance

The grooming/style habits that change how you feel, not just how you look

How small wins...

If you struggle to read women, constantly misinterpret signals, or feel like there’s a disconnect no matter how hard you try, this episode is for you.

We’re joined by Empathetic Leadership Coach Jevon Wooden to unpack the power of Emotional Intelligence (EQ) and why it’s the missing link for so many men when it comes to connection, attraction, and trust.

We break down how emotional intelligence helps you actually understand what a woman is feeling, how to respond in a way that makes her feel safe, and why it’s the antidote to being...

In this episode of How to Get the Girl (formerly known as Ask Women), Kristen and Marni are joined by certified sex therapist Dr. Tina Shermer to tackle one of the biggest silent confidence-killers for men: sexual shame.

Whether it’s shame around performance, desire, past experiences, or just not knowing what’s “normal,” this shame often goes unspoken — but it’s sabotaging your confidence, your connection with women, and your ability to feel powerful in your own skin.

Dr. Shermer breaks down where this shame comes from, how to reframe it, and what to do right now...

🎙️ Heads up! We’re playing around with new titles for the show! Right now, we’re rolling with "How to Get the Girl" by Ask Women, but stay tuned for another possible rebrand 👀

This week, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood emotions in dating: jealousy. And no, it’s not always toxic. In fact, if you know how to use it, it can be one of the most powerful tools for increasing attraction, creating sexual tension, and deepening connection.

We’re joined by Ally Iseman from Passport2Pleasure.com, and she’s breaking...

It’s time to STOP sabotaging yourself—and start asking for what you actually want. 

This week, we’re joined by Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a powerhouse salesman who knows how to close deals and create clarity.

Brad breaks down the exact mindset shift that will help you stop playing small, speak up, and go after what you truly want—not just in dating, but in life. We also dig into why so many people don’t even know what they want, and how to finally get clear so you can con...

This week, Marni is joined by the one and only Susan Bratton, intimacy expert to millions, for a no-holds-barred conversation all about the penis. From performance anxiety to erectile dysfunction, we’re breaking down the most common issues men face in the bedroom—and why it’s not just “in your head.”

Susan shares expert insights on what actually causes ED, how to regain confidence and sensitivity, and why the porn you’re watching might be sabotaging your sex life. Plus, we get into what women really want when it comes to intimacy—and spoiler: it’s not about being...

This week, Marni and Kristen break down the jaw-dropping style moments from a men's networking event — where the men weren’t just dressed well... they were dressed like MEN. Smart. Sophisticated. And undeniably sexy.

The ladies dive into:

HOW to dress in a way that makes her stop mid-sentence

WHY certain looks make women feel giddy and drawn in

WHAT it takes to turn the sidewalk into your personal runway

Because here’s the truth: how you dress tells the world how you treat yourself — with confidence, pride, and respect...

Kristen and Marni are joined by special guest Kelly Tao, one of Marne’s original wing girls, for a powerful conversation on confidence—how to access the confidence already within you, how to keep it consistent, and how to let it multiply.

They also get real about age gaps in dating—and share their personal preferences about WHY dating older men can be desirable and WHY dating younger/the same age range can also be desirable so you have a better idea of what make you and your age-range appealing.

It’s honest, insightful, and full of...

What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language—how the words you think and say directly impact your ability to connect, attract, and show up as your most magnetic self.

Spencer breaks down how unconscious language patterns fuel anxiety and resistance—and then flips the script with a live, on-air language coaching demo with Marni. Watch (okay, listen!) as he rewires her inner dialogue in real time to elim...

Trauma - we all have it. Whether it’s loud and obvious or quiet and buried, your past experiences are shaping your present more than you might realize.

In this powerful episode, we’re joined by trauma expert Tori Helf (Janae), who breaks down exactly how to uncover the hidden traumas holding you back — and more importantly, how to release them so they stop running the show. From small emotional wounds to deep-rooted pain, we explore how trauma affects everything from your confidence to your dating life to your sense of self.

Tori shares real, practi...

In this episode, we’re joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and co-founder of the Somatica Institute. Celeste is a somatic sex coach who specializes in helping men and women create deeper, more connected, and more satisfying intimate experiences.

We dive into how you can become a detective in the bedroom—not by overanalyzing, but by tuning in. Learn how to pick up on what a woman likes, what she doesn’t, and how to test the waters in a way that feels confident, playful, and deeply attuned. Celeste shares actionable tips on how to expl...

What if your “dark side” was the key to unlocking deeper confidence, attraction, and connection in your relationships?

In this episode, Adam Skoda — host of The Masculine Mindset Show, author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset, and creator of the Alpha Body Bootcamp Training Program — joins the show to explore the real power behind what psychology calls the “Dark Triad” traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy.

We dive into:

What the Dark Triad really means in the context of human attraction and female psychology

How to channel “dark” energy in a healthy way to c...

This week, we’re flipping the script on what you think women want.

Yes, your so-called "shortcomings" (the things you’re not proud of) can actually attract women when you know how to use them the right way. And our amazing guest - fiery redhead Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com - is here to explain exactly how to do it.

We also dive into:

How to find and pursue the right woman for you

How to build a strategy for attracting a specific girl

How to get different type...

We’re joined by charisma and hypnosis coach Wendy Packer, who shares how you can literally rewire your subconscious to become more confident, magnetic, and successful with women.

Wendy dives into practical, powerful tools to help you erase limiting beliefs and replace them with the mindset and identity of the man you want to be. (Yes - 'fake it till you make it' is real, and she’ll show you how.)

Whether you’re a man ready to level up or a woman curious about the inner workings of confidence and attraction, this episode has someth...

In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of arousal maps for both women and men, and how most of us have only scratched the surface of what's possible.

Whether you've been with your partner for years or you're just starting something new, Melissa shares powerful tools for communicating your wants, needs, and turn-ons in ways that feel safe, confident, and connected.

We...

In this episode, we're joined by a bold, sexy woman in her 50s who’s single, self-aware, and not afraid to speak the truth about dating at this stage of life. We dive deep into what’s actually going on for women in their 50s—physically, emotionally, and romantically.

She shares what men are doing that works, what’s turning women off faster than you can say “hey beautiful,” and the kind of communication that truly feels attractive and emotionally safe. We also get real about how things like hormones, life experience, and shifting priorities impact how women date a...

Dating is challenging enough, so why make it harder by hiding your true self and not asking for what you want? This week, we’re joined by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist at GrowingSelf.com, who shares powerful insights on building self-confidence and showing up authentically in your love life. She also breaks down attachment styles - how to identify yours and what it means for your relationships. If yours isn’t serving you well, don’t worry, Dr. Bobby provides practical tools to help you shift toward healthier, more fulfilling connections.

>>>To bec...

Can your taste in music lead you to love? In this episode, we’re joined by Rachel Van Nortwick, creator of the dating app Vinylly, to dive into the power of music in romantic connections. We explore why sharing playlists might be more telling than answering dating profile prompts and how musical chemistry can spark real-life attraction.

Plus, we break down the transition from working together to dating - when it works, when it doesn’t, and how to navigate the shift without hitting a wrong note.

If you’ve ever bonded over a band or won...

Confidence isn’t just about what you say - it’s about how you say it. This week, we're joined by speaking empowerment coach Linda Ugelow, who reveals the subtle yet powerful ways you can show confidence to women through your voice, tonality, and presence while eliminating anxiety.

Learn how to make women lean in, listen, and think, Wow, that guy is confident—without trying too hard. We break down the psychology behind vocal authority, the small shifts that make a big impact, and why confidence is one of the sexiest traits you can embody.

Tune i...

This week's episode with Dave Stultz from LimitlessBrave.com goes DEEP into what steps to take to EXPAND your world so you can meet more women. We also talk about HOW to meet them as well as masculinity - what's the perfect balance of it, how do you express it and why do women love it so much?

>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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In this throwback episode, we have dating coach and matchmaker Laurel House host of Famously Single. We talk about pre-qualifying, what does it mean, how do you do it and what questions to ask so you don't waste your time and money on the wrong girls.

>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠

>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marn...

Women in their 40's are a HUGE category of women! Some are single moms, some are ball buster alpha females in the business world, some are wounded from past experiences with men.  So how do you navigate these muddy waters?  Our guest Heidi who works in the finance industry is going to tell you her experience as a single mom, kick ass business woman dating in today's world.  She'll tell you what works and what doesn't work. What to expect and what "things" really mean that come out of the mouth of a woman in her 40's. This was a g...

Women in their 40's are a HUGE category of women! Some are single moms, some are ball buster alpha females in the business world, some are wounded from past experiences with men.  So how do you navigate these muddy waters?  Our guest Heidi, a single NYer who works in the finance industry, is going to tell you her experience as a single mom, kick ass business woman dating in today's world.  She'll tell you what works and what doesn't work. What to expect and what "things" really mean that come out of the mouth of a woman in her 40's...

In this throwback episode, we have actress Catherine Urbanek with us to discuss how to handle heartbreak and rejection as Kristen got her heart a bit broken when reentering the world of dating after ending an 8 year relationship years ago. We all go through it at one point or another, so knowing that it's normal but moving forward and showing yourself grace and self love is the best way to grow so you can find your true love.

>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with K...

Figuring women out can be so hard, BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE because you always have us. But, today you ALSO have sought-after dating coach for women, Kelsey Wonderlin on to give us EVEN MORE insights into women: what they say they want versus what they really want, how to be yourself AND the guy they want and on and on and on. This show covers it all!

>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠

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This week, coach and fitness trainer, Martel Metellus shares with us his journey of becoming epically fit and seeing the behavior of women around him change in the process. And, no, it's not just because women drool over muscles, it's because they drool over someone who commands and earns respect. Yes, looking good plays a part, but in this episode you'll see how it's ultimately competence and confidence that will have the women come crawling.

>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://w...

What is the best time and best way to ask a woman out so that she is guaranteed to say YES??? Adam Gilad joins us to tell us how & when to ask a woman out and how to do it boldly. We also have sex therapist Aimee in studio and together we all discuss: 1. The #1 biggest mistake men make with women that has them losing out on countless opportunities with women 2. Tip and trick for how to quickly get over heart break 3. What NOT to do after you get rejection 4. How to handle rejection with class 5. When is the...

Today we're throwing back to an episode with dating coach, Bobby Rio, whose speciality is turning "nice guys" into desirable guys. He shoots you straight with the top 5 MOST ATTRACTIVE traits you NEED to have as a man and how to get them.

>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, schedule a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession

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This week we talk all about dating different aged women with our guest, licensed couples therapist and host of the podcast Insights from the Couch - Mental Health at Midlife, Colette Fehr. We dive deep into HOW to date younger women, IF you should date younger women, what age might be right for you and how to win her over.

>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession

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This week we talk about the after effects of COVID still vibrating through culture in the the form of isolation and how it's hurting you and your dating life. We talk about how to get more social and meet more people so we can get back to the healthy way of living life - with people.

>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession

>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Duration: 00:45:22

This week, we have a show packed with information that will help you understand your attachment style and if it's unhealthy so you can learn to change it so you can start attract healthier partners. The Attachment Expert, Adam Lane Smith has so much incredible knowledge and wisdom to impart on why we find ourselves dating people who aren't right for us as well as why presenting yourself with strength and integrity is so attractive to women and how simple it is to present yourself as and BE that man.

This episode is brought...

In this throwback episode, we have a listener join us who has a TON of experience with online dating. He shares with us the ups and the downs and the highs and the lows so you can avoid the mistakes he's made and get closer to dating online like a pro.

his episode is brought to you by Better Help.

>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a FREE discovery call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession

>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook S...

This week we have Professor Sabrina Strings, the author of the Book "The End of Love" on the show to explores the collective collapse of traditional romantic love. We talk about what "romance" means today and why it may not actually be what we want and how to have the romance that you DO want.

This episode is brought to you by Better Help.

>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a FREE call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession

>>>Get A FRE...

This week, we take a deep dive into negative dating terms with Mason Farmani who is an intuitive personal coach, specializing in relationship and emotional healing. We talk about what these terms are, why they're being used so much and how to not let them effect you and your dating success.

This episode is brought to you by Better Help.

>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty, charming, a master at banter, a pro at dating, and great at sexual escalation with Kristen, fill out the coaching application here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com...

In this throwback episode, we have Myke Macapinlac joining us. Myke is the founder of Social Confidence Mastery, an incredible resource for those in the STEM industries or men who consider themselves introverted. If that's you, he's going to talk directly to YOU about how to step outside of your brain and become a master at confidence, flirting, escalation and so much more.

Have you ever wondered what Tantra is really about? Have you ever heard about it? If you haven't, you should. That's where we come in. This week we have Alicia Davon from The Davon Method on the show. Alicia and her husband have been teaching this sexual yoga practice for 15 years and she's here to tell us all about why you NEED tantra in your life and why it's essential to to become present when interacting with women, both in and out of the bedroom

>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty, charming, a master at banter...

We have Dr. Joshua Spodek on with us who is also a dating coach. He's here to teach you how to be a LEADER with the ladies, one of the foremost traits women are looking for in a man. He's going give you the in's on how to get her to open up, be more comfortable around you, express her passions , all *without* being an interviewer or pick up artist.

We also talk about BJs, that's right! We're talking about how to get them and then how to get MORE of them.

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This week, we talk about something you will most likely encounter at one point in life or another, and that is when a woman isn't feeling so "friendly" (our politically correct way of saying "bitchy"). Why do some women become bitchy? We'll tell you. But more importantly, our guest, Gianna Rackham, a female dating coaching, will tell you how to curb the bitchiness and use it to your advantage. We'll also talk to Gianna about how she was won over by her boyfriend who she didn't see originally as a boyfriend.

“This episode is br...

Kristen and Marni are really excited to share this week’s episode because it is jam packed with top-notch info from top-of-the-line dating experts and instructors, Darren and Nikki from BecomeSharp.com 

Darren and Nikki are going to clearly define flirting so it’s no longer a practice you "kind of" understand, then they're going to go step-by-step and break down exactly HOW to flirt. They're also going to share with us the THREE ESSENTIAL THINGS you need to do in order to become a master flirt as well as the THREE ESSENTIAL THINGS you ne...

To pursue or not to pursue? That is not the question. The question is HOW to pursue. This week we go deep into the topic of pursuing women and how to do it right so you don't come across as needy, but instead, a man after what he wants.

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Laura Berman is an renowned American relationship therapist and television host. She is the host of In the Bedroom with Dr. Laura Berman on the Oprah Winfrey Network and she is here to talk to us about that mysterious and magical thing we're always looking to create but never quite sure how: CHEMISTRY. She's going to tell us all about the science behind romantic chemistry, why it's created and most importantly, HOW to it on a first date, first encounter or even in that long term relationship that it disappeared from years ago.

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The Banter Queen herself and the co-host and co-creator of Ask Women, Kristen Carney, is today’s “guest” of honor. Kristen has turned Banter and Playful Communication into a science and she, herself, a mad (banter) scientist - think Doc from "Back to the Future" - only not a dude and has never been atop a clock tower. However, she undoubtedly will make you feel like you're from the future with such advanced banter skills. And, Kristen has a natural knack to teach it better than any dating coach out there. After perfecting her methods for almost a decade, today...

When a woman respects you, she is MUCH more likely to be attracted to you. This concept is often overlooked or forgotten about. Well, not this week! This week we dive DEEP into how to get respect from women. And, no it’s not by complimenting them or giving into their every need. It’s quite the opposite, actually. And, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, an Intamacy Coach and Marriage Expert, as well as host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast joins us to tell us exactly how. 

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Friends aren’t always available to go out and hit the town with, especially as you get into the years where lots of friends start getting married or have long been married. So, this week, Rob from Sex Party Podcast joins the show to talk about HOW to go out by yourself doing it successfully so you can make the most out of your time alone. He gives us the goods on how to connect with people without your crew there to offer a safety net. And, he also talks about how to DISCONNECT FROM OUTCOMES so your carefree en...

Adam Gilad, author of "The Bold Life Tribe – a mastermind for bold living, graces us with his presence in this week's throwback episode. He's here to talk to us about how to be the confident guy who makes bold choices and asks women out. He's here schooling us on HOW to get her to say yes and WHEN to get her to say yes.

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One of our very own listeners, Omar, is struggling with his online dating profile, as so many people do. He's a foot surgeon and has so much going for himself but isn't expressing it in a way that draws the women in. So, in this week's throwback episode, we do one of our favorite old segments "Help a Brother Out" and walk him through improving not only his profile but the way he views himself.

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This week we have Hilary Silver, a psychotherapist and owner of ReadyForLoveInc.com on with us to spill the beans on what successful and desirable women who are playing the field are really looking for and how to sweep them off their feet.

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Dr. John joins us to talk all about masculinity and male socialization on this week's throwback episode. He'll also cover pursuing happiness, how to have and express just the right amount of vulnerability as well as how to be your masculine self in the 21st century.

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This week, world renowned Dating and Relationship Consultant Race DePriest from AttractionRockstar.com. He explains how to get a woman to LUST after you and see you the way you want her to - sexually. He also shares 5 Lust Triggers toward the end of the episode so make sure to listen to the end. You don't want to miss them!

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We have dating former dating guru, Michael C. Fiore from Modern Day Romantic, also known by his real name and as an expert communicator working as a highly regarded copywriter, Chris Haddad on the show this week. Chris gives us all the communication pointers and skills that you need to successfully emote with women so you can woo her with your charm and vulnerability. And, he also shares how to express yourself and keep communication strong if you're in a committed relationship.

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David Shade joins us to discuss HOW to date younger women.  David is in his mid 70's and has a girlfriend in her 20's.  Impossible you say?  Listen to find out how he attracts younger women :)

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Maybe you have a lack of confidence holding you back from being all that could be in the bedroom. Or, maybe you can't get the nerves under control. Perhaps you messed up before and think you're going to make the same mistake again. All of this is very normal but we are going to help you change your subpar performance with Men's Sex Coach Alex Grendi.

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Mark Sing, one of the best dating coaches for men out there is here to share with us exactly HOW to get a woman to CHASE you. He's also going to tell us what his 80/100 rule is. It's so good that Marni has quoted it at least 10 times now.

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In this episode, we talk about our male guests' experiences with women and rejection and how they handle it. Then we get into romance and how it compares to porn and why most women prefer romance over porn.

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We have Clancy, a wonderful matchmaker with us who gives us interesting insights into what it's like using a matchmaker and the benefits to taking advantage of a matchmaking service. And, we also go in-depth on APPROACHING women - do they want to be approached, how to approach, where to approach and so much more!

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Throwing back to an episode with dating coach Dan Bacon who's going to share with us the formula for ULTIMATE success with women and it's something EVERY guy can do. He'll also be sharing the top 3 secrets he's learned about women that even Marni didn't know about.

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In this week's episode, we have author of the great book 'Money Grows on Trees' Jerremy Alexander Newsome on to talk about how your views and relationship with money is a direction reflection of your relationship with and views of women. In this episode, learn how to have and get MORE of BOTH.

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This week, we're going to give you so many great tips from female dating coach Jonathon Aslay on how to get comfortable being intimate and just as importantly, get her to talk dirty ;) We also have Playboy Bunny Maya Jordan with us who gets in on all the conversation action to give her advice as a hot, desired woman.

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In today’s world, masculinity has been been criticized and even shamed. But, we need masculinity more than ever. So, this week, we have Keith Yackey and Jesse Marquez from the Married Game on to discuss how to be a man and maintain your masculine energy from the early phases of dating all the way into years and years of marriage.

Blaine is one of the best dating coaches out there and she's here to talk about how to approach women, and the BEST places to approach. She's also going to give us her tips on how to keep the conversation going after you've made the approach and, so much more.

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Blaine is one of the best dating coaches out there and she's here to talk about how to approach women, and the BEST places to approach. She's also going to give us her tips on how to keep the conversation going after you've made the approach and so much more.

This week, we get into PE (premature ejaculation). We talk about WHY it happens, MYTHS about it and HOW to FIX it. We also cover how to express yourself to women and how to be your natural authentic self when dating.

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Life is unpredictable and so is dating, so in this throw back episode we break down what scenarios you may come across and how to deal with them on the fly so you'll be smooth no matter what.

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Approaching women is only hard if you make it hard. And, in this week's throwback episode, Marni along with comedian Dan Cummins of Playboy Radio share the number 1 way to approach women and it's a lot easier than you think.

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First dates are make or break moments. Sometimes we think they went well only to never hear from her again. This can get frustrating when it happens time and time again. On this week's episode, we have on comedian Amir K, who is smooth with the ladies, to talk to us about how he kills it at first dates so you can get to the 2nd, 3rd 4th date and beyond.

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This week we have Zach and Sally from Max-Well Coaching on to give us the nitty gritty on how to go from pleasure with one person to two. The good news, it's not as intimidating as you think!

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There are more than 5.4 million adults in the U.S. on the Autism Spectrum. That's a lot of people dating in a world that may not be the easiest to navigate. So, this week we have Thomas McCoy on, someone who has spent his life with Autism and figured out how to date successfully without his diagnosis getting in the way. The insights he shares on this episode are helpful for not only those on the Spectrum, but those off the Spectrum as well.

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Some men are resistant to upping their style game to attract a woman. But, we promise, you're shooting yourself in the foot by not just giving in and trying something new - sharp clothing! This episode, we have Marni's Winggirl stylist, Carol on to discuss not just why it's important to wear clothes that make you feel and look your best but WHAT clothes will help you look and feel your best.

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Do women actually enjoy rejecting you? Do they want to make you feel bad? Why does it feel like some women can be "bitches" to you and how do you make it stop? We discuss this with guest Christine Blackburn as well as do women prefer texting or talking.

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This week we have dating Dale Valor from Modern Flirting on with us to talk all about assertiveness, something many people are afraid to be with the opposite sex. We also talk about setting boundaries and how to both of those things with tact so your intentions are well received.

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The phrase "toxic relationship" is all abuzz right now. And, it's for good reason. It seems like social media has shined a light on relationships like this and how to end them and recover from them. "Codependency" is also a hot topic because people seem to be getting more in touch with their attachment styles thanks to all the dating help available online. So, this week, we have Sherry Gaba, a holistic psychotherapist and Carla Romo, a relationship coach and author are here to talk about how to avoid these types of relationships as well as how to tell...

Have you ever wondered what it's like dating women from another country? Should you worry about different cultural norms, languages barriers, if they have different romantic preferences? Eve Lyons, wife of dating expert Adam Lyons and also Russian, is here to talk about that and more.

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In this week's throwback episode, we have listener Kurt on who did TONS of research into women and dating and on his journey, he discovered the 7 THINGS he wish he knew sooner and he's here to share them with us.

Who are you? What is your purpose? How do you find your purpose? If you don't know your purpose, dating will be harder because you won't have that to guide you. So, this week, we have Jade Simmons on to talk about how to find your purpose and how to use it to make you shine.

Max Tripp Kramer, dating coach is back to talk about how to talk to women. We talk about everything from the best methods to start a conversation online to how to keep her interested as you go. If you're looking for an episode that dives deep into the best, most successful ways to chat a woman up, this episode is for you.

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This week, we're joined by the founder of the dating app Marshmallo, Andrew Hendel, who created the safest online dating platform. He's here to tell us how to stay safe while dating online, how to spot scammers and what to do if you get taken advantage by one.

This week we're throwing back to when we did our 'Help A Brother Out' episodes where we help a listener with a specific roadblock they're coming up against. This time around, we have Justin on who has a hard time asking for what he wants. Join us as Marni coaches him into a more confident mindset so he can start stating his needs, wants and desires.

In this week's Thanksgiving-break throwback episode, we have Mighty Ducks and Heavyweights actor Aaron Schwartz on to help us talk about how to date when also dealing with depression. It's that time of year where most of us lose an hour of daylight and we get down on our Vitamin D, so no better time to talk about how to juggle your mental health and dating than now.

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Certified health coach and 15 year NBA scout Jared Ralsky joins the show this week to talk about how to get your body back to a place that supports a better dating life. We also talk about how difficult dating can be and what we can do to make it not so difficult so you can enjoy your experience while looking for your partner.

This week we have sex coach for men, Sterling Cooper on to tell us what you're doing wrong, what to do that's right and how to do it better in the bedroom. We also talk about how to position yourself as a sexual man, not just a friend.

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