Life Check Yourself

Mary Olson-Menzel is a nationally recognized expert in career and workplace success with over 30 years of leadership experience across media, tech, healthcare, and even the NFL. As the founder and CEO of MVP Executive Development, she’s coached everyone from Fortune 500 leaders to parents reentering the workforce—helping them find purpose, confidence, and a plan to do what truly lights them up.

In this inspiring episode, we unpack the mindset and tools to thrive through massive change, find your “reason for being,” and design work—and a life—that truly lights you up.

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Today’s episode features Rachel Gitlevich, author of What in the Actual Fck: Life’s a Hot Mess—How to Find Gratitude Anyways* and founder of Ray of Consciousness. Through her writing and consulting work, Rachel fuses raw storytelling with wellness and strategy, helping people and organizations grow with authenticity. Her story is one of resilience, transformation, and radical gratitude—even in the face of unimaginable challenges.

In this episode, Rachel shares her extraordinary journey through multiple cancer diagnoses, near-death experiences, and the powerful process of reclaiming her life. Together, we explore what...

This week’s conversation is all about rewriting outdated scripts and reclaiming intimacy with confidence, connection, and joy. Lauren Elise Rogers—certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy coach—shares her empowering approach to navigating desire, healing from harmful narratives, and reigniting long-term relationships.

With warmth and clarity, Lauren unpacks how to release the scripts that no longer serve, nurture your own sense of pleasure, and bring curiosity back into love. This is a reminder that nothing is broken—you have the right and the power to create intimacy that truly feels like yours.

Guest: Elliott Connie — psychotherapist, best-selling author, and global leader in Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT).

In this episode, Elliott breaks down how asking the right questions can create powerful shifts in healing, relationships, and life direction. With over 20 years of experience, he shows why focusing on strengths and desired outcomes leads to transformation faster than traditional models of therapy.

3 Powerful Takeaways

The questions you ask shape your future.

Change begins by focusing on outcomes, not problems.

Lasting relationships thrive on reciprocity, not blame.

In this episode of Life Check Yourself, Marni Battista interviews Steven Miyao, an executive coach and entrepreneur, about navigating midlife career changes and personal reinvention. They discuss the challenges faced by midlife professionals, the importance of aligning careers with personal values, and practical strategies for overcoming fear and taking action. Steven shares insights from his coaching practice, including the eulogy exercise to reflect on one's values and the significance of experimentation in making life changes. The conversation emphasizes the need for intentional living and the journey of self-discovery in midlife.

Takeaways

Midlife professionals o...

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In this episode, we explore the power of integrating body, mind, and subconscious to release long-held emotional knots and reclaim wholeness. Our guest, Esin Pinrali, is a holistic psychotherapist and relationship expert specializing in imago therapy, brain spotting, internal family systems, and somatic practices. With her experiential approach, she helps people move beyond anxiety, trauma, and codependency to become fully alive and connected.

3 Key Takeaways

Labels don’t heal—untangling the root does.

The body stores unresolved trauma and reveals the knots that block freedo...

In this enlightening conversation, Marni Battista and Steffani LeFevour delve into the concept of soul assignments, exploring how our life experiences shape our spiritual journeys. They discuss the importance of recognizing chaos as an opportunity for growth, the power of choice in relationships, and the significance of daily practices for self-awareness. Steffani shares her personal journey of overcoming challenges and the process of writing her upcoming book, emphasizing the need for radical acceptance and conscious creation in our lives.

Takeaways

Soul assignments are experiences our soul desires to have. Duration: 00:34:32

In this episode, I sit down with my longtime friend and fellow coach, Jonathan Aslay. Jonathan is one of America’s leading midlife self-love coaches, and together we dive into what it really takes to create lasting love in today’s world. From navigating power dynamics in relationships to building trust, and from self-awareness to the surprising truth about chemistry, this conversation is packed with wisdom for anyone ready to step into a healthier, more fulfilling partnership.

Jonathan emphasizes the importance of being present in relationships.

Self-awareness is crucial for bu...

In this episode, Dr. Sam Shea discusses his work with adults on the autism spectrum, focusing on burnout, resilience, and the importance of self-care for parents. He shares insights on the challenges faced by neurodiverse individuals, the significance of proper terminology, and the concept of masking. Dr. Shea emphasizes the need for resources and support for both parents and children, and highlights the role of comedy in advocating for understanding and connection. The conversation also touches on the importance of care in relationships and the impact of coaching on personal development.

Dr. Sam S...

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Dr. Corey Allan—husband, father, author, speaker, and seasoned marriage and family therapist—to unpack the truth about long-term love, personal growth, and staying connected through change. We go beyond surface-level advice to talk about what really keeps relationships alive, why personal responsibility is non-negotiable, and how to navigate shifts in yourself and your partner without losing the bond.

3 Main Takeaways:

Face the relationship you have—not the one you wish you had.

Personal growth will shift the relationship—be ready t...

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In this episode, we explore how grief—often avoided, misunderstood, and pushed down—can actually become the catalyst for living fully and authentically. Dr. Michelle Petticola shares powerful insights on transforming complex grief into fuel for life’s purpose. You’ll discover why facing your emotions is essential, how reframing loss can shift your experience, and the hidden costs of suppressing what your heart needs to feel.

3 Main Takeaways:

Surrender is the first step to transformation — Allowing emotions to flow opens the door to healing and self-discovery.

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In this conversation, Myles Katz—licensed psilocybin facilitator and founder of Confluence Retreats—shares insights from years of experience guiding individuals through legal psychedelic journeys. Drawing on themes of trust, connection, integration, and nature, Myles explores what makes a psilocybin retreat truly transformative. From the importance of nervous system safety to the role of nature as a co-facilitator, this dialogue highlights the ethical and structural foundations needed to support lasting healing with the use of legal psilocybin mushrooms. 

Healing Can Be Accelerated in the Right Environment – Safety, preparation, and integration are key to lasting breakthroughs.

 This week I’m talking with Erin Washington—author, former college athlete, podcast host, and the founder of “Squats and Margaritas.” Erin is a fierce voice for women breaking free from perfectionism, diet culture, and comparison traps. Her story of going from disordered eating and self-doubt to empowered confidence is raw, real, and refreshing. She teaches women how to create sustainable wellness and lasting joy—without shrinking themselves or their lives.

🌟 What You’ll Walk Away With:

Confidence has nothing to do with perfection.

Healing starts when the comparison stops.

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On this episode, I’m joined by Megan Walrod—writer, speaker, and transformational guide whose journey from overachieving to aligned living will crack open something deep inside you. Megan walked away from a life that looked “perfect on paper” to rediscover her voice, power, and soul’s deeper calling. What she found? A life of freedom, joy, and magnetic abundance that didn’t require her to hustle, perform, or prove.

🌟 3 Takeaways to Anchor In:

Real wealth begins with honoring your inner truth.

Doing less can actually open...

 This week’s guest is the extraordinary Larry Michel—founder of the Institute of Genetic Energetics, relationship innovator, coach, and author of Lasting: 11 Illuminations and Essential Questions for a Co-Creative, Evolutionary Partnership. Known as the “Love Shepherd,” Larry has spent over three decades reshaping the way people find and build love. His work dives deep into the science of human connection, compatibility, and co-creation.

🔥 This Episode Will Help You:

Stop treating love like a transaction and start showing up with truth.

Shift from judgment to curiosity to unlock deeper...

In this episode of Life Check Yourself, I sat down with the brilliant behavioral expert and author Tracy Crossley to unpack the real root of relationship crisis. Whether you're stuck in an on-again, off-again dynamic, feeling emotionally unseen, or quietly questioning your future with someone—this is the conversation that will shift everything.

We explore the hidden habits that keep us stuck, the unconscious fear that fuels dysfunction, and how you can finally experience the kind of intimacy and power you’ve always wanted—without playing the blame game.

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In this episode, I sit down with Christine Lang—former New York attorney turned intuitive healer, energy translator, and author of the upcoming book Ask Your Spirit: Receiving Life-Changing Wisdom from Your Elevated Intelligence. Christine has spent nearly 30 years helping people decode the messages from their body, spirit, and nervous system—so they can stop feeling stuck and finally start living in alignment.

We dive deep into how to shift from chronic pain and fear into clarity, confidence, and true prosperity—without bypassing the messy human stuff.

💡 3 Life-Changing Takeaways: Duration: 00:38:33

In this heartfelt and hilariously real episode of Life Check Yourself, I’m joined by my longtime friend and soul sister Bobbi Palmer. Bobbi became a first-time bride at 47, is now divorced, and back in the dating game at 66—this time with more confidence, peace, and joy than ever. She's a nationally recognized dating coach for women over 40, and in this conversation, we dive into the TRUTH about what dating looks like when you’re grown, wise, and absolutely done with BS.

Whether you’re single, newly divorced, or wondering if it’s “too late” for you (spoiler: it’s...

In this powerhouse episode of Life Check Yourself, I sit down with JM Ryerson—leadership coach, international speaker, and bestselling author of Let's Go Win and Upgrade. JM is the founder and CEO of Let's Go Win and has helped companies double (and sometimes triple!) their revenue by simplifying leadership, alignment, and performance. If you're navigating work stress, team dysfunction, or feeling stuck in victim-mode, this episode is a must-listen.

We dive deep into what it takes to thrive in the ever-changing world of work—especially if you're juggling it all in midlife. From mindset hacks to lead...

👤 Guest Introduction: Sharon Pope is a Certified Master Life Coach, renowned relationship expert, and seven-time internationally bestselling author—including the hit book Stay or Go, which sold over 300,000 copies. She helps women and men heal, transform, or release struggling marriages with radical clarity and compassion. In this episode, Sharon and I unpack how to navigate midlife relationships, especially when you feel like the spark is gone and you’re stuck in a roommate marriage.

Clarity Begins with Ownership – Empowerment starts when you take responsibility for your role.

Conflict Isn’t the Problem—Av...

👤 Guest Introduction: Lisa Copeland is a trailblazer in the world of midlife love and reinvention. An internationally recognized dating coach for women over 50, Lisa is the author of The Winning Dating Formula for Women Over 50 and has been featured on Dr. Phil, ABC, USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, and more. After building a successful business, she found herself quietly tolerating things that no longer fit—until she decided to radically redesign her life.

🎙️ Episode Topic: In this empowering episode, we dive deep into the transformation that happens when you stop settling for a “good enou...

Guest Introduction 

Today, we are honored to welcome Dr. Warren Farrell, a renowned Ph.D., internationally bestselling author, and one of the world’s top 100 thought leaders (as recognized by the Financial Times). His work has shaped both the women's and men’s movements, and his latest book, Role Mate to Soul Mate, dives deep into the science and art of sustaining intimate relationships. Having been married for over 30 years, Dr. Farrell doesn’t just teach relationship transformation—he lives it. 

In this episode, we’re breaking down the critical shifts needed to move from just “coexis...

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In this episode of Life Check Yourself, we sit down with the incredible Jen Crowley, a woman who has walked through love, loss, and the courageous journey of rediscovering herself. After losing her husband, Tyke, to cancer in 2015, Jen faced the overwhelming challenge of navigating dating again. With determination and a willingness to embrace new possibilities, she ultimately found love once more and is now engaged to Jeff. 

Jen’s story is a powerful testament to the fact that love exists when we are willing to heal, redefine what we truly need, and take inte...

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Welcome to another powerful episode of Life Check Yourself! Today, we’re diving deep into the art of boundary-setting, emotional resilience, and the power of reinvention with the incredible Jennifer Fable. After being diagnosed with over seven different mental health conditions by the age of 19, Jennifer embarked on a journey of radical healing that shaped her belief in one core truth: You are not broken. Now, she’s on a mission to help others reclaim their voice, set healthy boundaries, and build relationships that empower instead of drain. 

In this episode, we unpack the mi...

Guest: Phil Weiss 

Phil Weiss is the founder of Apprise Wealth Management and a financial expert with over 25 years in personal finance and investment management. His mission? To help women take control of their financial futures, avoid regret, and create a life of abundance. Phil's deep personal connection to financial empowerment, shaped by his own family’s struggles, fuels his passion for educating and guiding women toward financial clarity and confidence. 

Episode Overview 

So many women find themselves in midlife realizing they don’t fully understand their financial picture. Whether they’ve built wealth bu...

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In this powerful episode, we welcome Riana Malia, an advanced trauma care coach and expert in quantum biology, neuroscience, and transformational healing. She is the creator of the Clear to Create Method and Quantum Pattern Protocol, designed to help ambitious women move past trauma, break deep-rooted patterns, and step into their full potential with confidence. With over 20 years of experience, Riana has helped hundreds of women transform their lives, find love, and create personal and professional breakthroughs by tapping into the unconscious mind to uncover and heal the root causes of emotional and psychological blocks. 

Episode Overview: Relationships thrive on clarity, communication, and emotional investment. In this episode, we break down how to identify relationship deal breakers, communicate emotional needs effectively, and move beyond surface-level compatibility. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Lynda K. Cash, shares insights from years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families, helping them understand how to break dysfunctional patterns and create meaningful, lasting connections.

If relationships feel like an uphill battle or you’re tired of repeating the same cycles, this episode will give you practical strategies to strengthen your emotional foundation, communicate assertively, and build a pa...

Tracy Crossley is a behavioral expert, relationship coach, and the author of Overcoming Insecure Attachment. With over 17 years of experience, she specializes in helping individuals break free from toxic patterns, overcome fear-based relationships, and develop the confidence to create lasting, fulfilling connections.

Are you stuck in a relationship loop, constantly questioning whether to stay or leave? Do you find yourself repeating the same painful patterns, feeling like you’re always the one fighting for love? In this powerful conversation, we break down the hidden forces that keep people trapped in unsatisfying relationships and, more importantly, ho...

Episode Introduction

What if everything you thought about fitness and nutrition was wrong? In today’s episode, we sit down with Esteban Lutz, a fitness and nutrition expert who has spent over 30 years helping high-achieving professionals reclaim their health and vitality. Creator of the K7 Method, Esteban has worked with elite athletes, business leaders, and thousands of individuals looking to transform their energy, mindset, and physical well-being.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycle of restrictive diets, low energy, or fitness fads that don’t work, this conversation will shift everything for you. Esteban breaks down t...

In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the power of soul alignment and energetic healing with Michal Spiegelman—certified professional soul coach, Reiki master, and founder of Beacons of Change. With three decades of experience, she’s helped therapists, social workers, and coaches move beyond traditional talk therapy to awaken their inner wisdom and create profound transformation. Her new book, Becoming Soulful: Six Keys for Profound Transformation, is a guide to reconnecting with your soul, embracing vitality, and living with meaning. 

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your purpose, stuck in patterns that drain your energy...

Guest Introduction: Lorna Poole

In this episode, we dive into the real truth about money, wealth, and financial freedom with Lorna Poole, a wealth-certified coach who helps women stop playing small with their finances and start building lasting wealth. Lorna is on a mission to help established female entrepreneurs and professionals ditch money anxiety, invest wisely, and create a secure financial future—so they can live life on their own terms without financial stress.

But here’s the kicker—wealth isn’t just about making money. It’s about what you do with it.

Most pe...

Guest: Chris Miles – The Cash Flow Expert & Anti-Financial Advisor 

Today, we’re diving deep into financial independence, wealth creation, and breaking free from the traditional money myths that keep so many people stuck. Our guest, Chris Miles, is a cash flow expert and anti-financial advisor who has helped his clients increase their cash flow by over $300 million in the last 15 years. He’s the host of The Money Ripples Podcast, a featured expert in Entrepreneurs on Fire, CNN Money, and Bigger Pockets, and has built a reputation for showing people how to get their money working for them—wi...

Guest: Karen Gray, CEO & Founder of Gray Legacy Coaching Karen Gray is a powerhouse in leadership and personal transformation. As the CEO and founder of Gray Legacy Coaching and President of Texas Business Women Inc., she’s a force behind helping individuals unlock their innate strengths and step into confident leadership. With a passion for aligning values, intentions, and purpose, Karen is a true catalyst for meaningful change in life and business. 

Episode Overview 

The workplace is evolving rapidly, and with that change comes uncertainty, stress, and the constant pressure to adapt. In this episode, we d...

In this transformative episode, we sit down with the incredible Michelle Rios—a transformational coach and mentor for high-achieving CEOs, entrepreneurs, and leaders. With over 25 years of experience, Michelle has guided top executives and visionaries through self-discovery, alignment, and a deeper sense of purpose beyond traditional definitions of success. As the host of the Live Your Extraordinary Life podcast, Michelle is on a mission to help people step into their most authentic and fulfilling lives.

Today, we’re dismantling the myths of success, uncovering why so many high achievers feel unfulfilled, and learning how to embrace extraordinary livi...

Guest: Natalie Ledwell

Today, we’re diving deep into manifestation, brainwave technology, and the science behind visualization with a powerhouse in the personal development world—Natalie Ledwell. She’s a best-selling author, co-founder of Mind Movies, and the visionary behind groundbreaking emotional intelligence coaching and AI-based tools for personal growth. Her work has transformed the lives of over 10 million people worldwide, and today, she’s here to reveal a new way to manifest desires faster than ever before.

If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, limiting beliefs, or wondered why traditional visualization hasn’t worked for you, this episode...

Guest: Katie Sampaio, founder of Thrive Life & Business Coaching for Entrepreneurs, creator of Thrive Fitness Adventure and Transformational Retreats, bestselling author, and a global nomad since 2018. Katie has helped high-achievers step into their next level of success through her seven-pillar life redesign system, merging mindset, business strategy, and adventure for a truly fulfilling life.

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If you’ve ever felt like you’re meant for more but aren’t sure how to break free from the cycle of stress and self-doubt, this episode is your roadmap. Today, we’re diving deep into how mindset mastery, personal...

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Dating in today’s world can feel like an emotional rollercoaster—frustrating, exhausting, and sometimes downright discouraging. But what if dating could be empowering? What if it became a tool for self-discovery rather than self-doubt?

In this episode, I sit down with Julie Krawczyk and Yue Hsu, co-hosts of the hit Dateable podcast and authors of How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love. These two have spent years studying modern dating trends and have identified why so many people feel stuck in a cycle of disappointment. We brea...

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Have you ever felt like you're stuck in a life that looks good on paper but doesn’t quite feel like you? Maybe you’ve been told to play it safe, to follow the 'practical' path, and now you're wondering if it's too late to reclaim your dreams.

Today, we’re joined by Dr. Drayvon James, a powerhouse in personal development, life coaching, and empowerment. As a pharmacist, actress, leadership expert, and transformation specialist, she has mastered the art of reinvention. In this episode, we dive deep into self-worth, overcoming fear, and breaking through the limits...

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In this candid and empowering episode, we’re joined by Bernie, a successful professional who embarked on a transformative dating journey. After years of frustration, Bernie realized that self-awareness and personal growth were key to unlocking better relationships. She shares how shifting her mindset, improving her communication, and embracing vulnerability led to intentional dating success.

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Are you tired of dating feeling like a chore? This episode offers practical relationship advice on how to bring more intention, authenticity, and self-awareness into your dating life. Bernie’s story is a testament to the powe...

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In this heartfelt episode, we’re diving deep into the world of holiday relationships and personal growth with Marni Battista, a well-known relationship expert who has been guiding people toward self-improvement, emotional health, and better dating experiences for over a decade. Marni shares her insights on goal setting for relationships, how self-talk shapes our reality, and the power of self-assessment in creating authentic connections.

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Navigating the holiday season can be tough when it comes to relationships, personal growth, and emotional well-being. Whether you’re single and reflecting on dating patterns or look...

Guest Introduction: In today’s inspiring episode, we’re joined by Adelajda Child, a certified Psyche-K instructor who has dedicated her life to helping others achieve profound personal transformation. After facing burnout and life challenges in her late 20s, Adelajda discovered Psyche-K—a unique mind technology that reprograms limiting beliefs by accessing the subconscious mind. Through muscle testing, whole brain states, and energy work, she now guides individuals in overcoming subconscious barriers, creating lasting change, and embracing self-healing and self-discovery.

Episode Introduction: What if you could easily rewire your limiting beliefs in just minutes? This episode dives deep i...

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Dr. Greg Hammer, a retired Stanford University professor and author of GAIN Without Pain: The Happiness Handbook for Healthcare Professionals, shares his groundbreaking GAIN method for cultivating mindfulness, reducing stress, and fostering resilience. With decades of experience in medicine and wellness, Dr. Hammer introduces practical strategies to help individuals build a foundation for lasting happiness and well-being.

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In this episode, we delve into the physiological and emotional effects of chronic stress and how intentional mindfulness practices can rewire the brain for happiness. Dr. Hammer’s GAIN...

Guest Introduction
Jessie Bennett, a yoga and pilates instructor, children’s author, and wellness advocate, is on a mission to bring mindfulness into the lives of children and families. Her books, inspired by her own experiences as a mother, teach practices like breathwork and meditation in an accessible and engaging way. Jessie believes in the power of simple tools to help regulate emotions and create meaningful connections.

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This episode explores how cultivating mindfulness can transform the way we approach emotions, parenting, and self-awareness. Jessie shares actionable insights on using breathwork, storytelling, and intentional pr...

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In this empowering episode, Dr. Mary Giffara, an internationally renowned therapist, author, and speaker, shares her expertise on creating and sustaining fulfilling relationships. With years of experience helping couples restore connection, Dr. Giffara introduces key strategies from her book, Two by Two on the Arc: Four Strategies for Lasting Love. Her insights illuminate how personal growth, emotional regulation, and intentional communication can transform relationships into a thriving partnership.

Main Takeaways:

Embrace Self-Awareness to Navigate Emotional Triggers

Leave Space for Individual Growth Within Relationships

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In this transformative episode, we explore the intricate dynamics of modern workplace culture with Marie Gervais, a visionary leadership coach and author of The Spirit of Work. Together, we uncover actionable strategies to bring joy, emotional well-being, and resilience back into professional life. Through techniques like nervous system regulation, conscious communication, and fostering self-awareness, this discussion provides tools to create thriving, productive environments in the face of volatility.

Regulate Before You React: Emotional intelligence begins with managing your nervous system.

Loneliness Is a Silent Epidemic: Connection is the co...

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In this enlightening episode, we dive into the complex and often humorous realities of modern dating and relationship dynamics. Chris Gillis, a seasoned relationship coach, brings a wealth of insights into how communication, emotional intelligence, and unspoken power dynamics shape our connections. From discussing passive aggression to addressing personal growth in relationships, this conversation is packed with wisdom on how to foster stronger, more fulfilling partnerships.

Communication is a Superpower: Clear expectations prevent resentment and foster appreciation.

Non-Negotiables Are Essential: Knowing your values creates stronger, more balanced relationships.

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In this episode, Sarah Walton, a dynamic business coach and sales expert, unpacks the powerful connection between money mindset and personal growth. Raised in a low-income household, Sarah knows the unspoken rules and financial beliefs that shape our lives. She brings her signature no-nonsense coaching strategies to reveal how women in business can break free from scarcity, embrace abundance, and cultivate confidence in sales and life.

This conversation dives into how mindset shifts around time, money, and self-worth can transform your business and personal development journey.

Unspoken Rules Sh...

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In today’s powerful episode, we’re joined by Marisa Peters, founder of BCM and an advocate for colorectal cancer awareness, and David Thau, a dedicated fundraiser and speaker for young-onset cancer initiatives. Both Marisa and David are cancer survivors who are transforming their experiences into a mission for change, focusing on the importance of early detection, health conversations, and self-advocacy. They share insights on managing health risks, knowing the symptoms, and taking proactive steps to protect yourself and your loved ones.

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The Life-Saving Impact of Early Detection and Family Health Advo...

Guest Introduction In today’s episode, we’re joined by Joanna Kleinman, a transformative psychotherapist, leadership coach, and the founder of the MIND Method. Joanna is passionate about helping people silence the inner critic and unlock their potential through self-awareness and personal growth. Her unique approach, blending coaching with neuroscience and spirituality, empowers individuals to move beyond self-doubt and thrive in their lives.

Episode Topic Dethroning the Inner Critic: How Self-Compassion and the MIND Method Lead to Lasting Transformation

Top Three Takeaways

Recognizing and understanding the inner critic is the first step toward chan...

Guest IntroductionOn today’s episode, we’re thrilled to have Thais Gibson, a leading expert in attachment theory and emotional healing with an impressive background in psychology and personal development. Thais has transformed the lives of thousands by helping people understand and heal their core wounds, leading them towards secure, fulfilling relationships. She’s here to share invaluable insights into self-awareness, relationship advice, and effective communication and boundaries.

Top Three Takeaways

Attachment styles are learned, not fixed, and can be reprogrammed.

Core wounds drive most of our fears in relationships, but they ca...

Summary

In this episode of Life Check Yourself, Marni Battista engages in a profound conversation with Jamal Javangi, exploring the depths of human experience, the quest for survival, and the journey towards thriving. They discuss the cultural influences that shape our understanding of loneliness and suffering, the four core survival drivers that motivate human behavior, and the illusion of happiness tied to material possessions. The conversation emphasizes the importance of being present and finding peace within oneself to create a fulfilling life. Jamal shares insights on how to navigate internal conflicts and the significance of s...

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Chris Gillis to the Life Check Yourself studio where they dive into the essential components that make a man fall deeply in love. Chris Gillis is a professional dating coach with a unique approach to understanding the psychology of dating. Chris brings practical insights and experience from his work with men who are actively seeking meaningful relationships. The duo discussed the importance of maintaining a balanced approach in dating—one that fosters curiosity, preserves mystery, and builds lasting self-assurance. Get ready to explore how confidence, clear intentions, and self-love play crucial roles in c...

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Stephanie Hessler to the Life Check Yourself Studio. Stephanie is a seasoned career coach with a rich history on Wall Street, she specializes in helping high-achieving leaders, especially women, break through career roadblocks and reach the next level of success. Today, we’re exploring how to reframe self-imposed limitations and create strategies for growth.We discussed common roadblocks many women face, such as undervaluing their achievements, not advocating for themselves, and failing to leverage important relationships. Stephanie offers actionable advice on how to shift mindset, become more strategic, and define a clear path...

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Matthew Sinkovitz to the Life Check Yourself studio. Matthew is the founder of the Porn to Purpose Community, which he started in 2019 after battling pornography addiction. With years of coaching, therapy, and 12-step recovery work, Matthew is on a mission to help men transform their lives. His focus on personal and spiritual development, mindfulness, and recovery offers a powerful path for those seeking freedom from addiction. They dive deep into the complex topic of pornography addiction, its impact on relationships, and the journey to reclaim purpose. Matthew shares insights from his own re...

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Heather Wiese to the Life Check Yourself studio. Heather is the founder of Bell'INVITO, a responsible luxury brand specializing in stationery and leather goods. Heather shares her journey from art direction to establishing a company that marries beauty with etiquette, and her passion for teaching the importance of thoughtful communication in our everyday interactions. Their conversation dives deep into the relevance of etiquette in today’s fast-paced world, showing that it’s not just about table manners or formal occasions—it’s about everyday respect, emotional intelligence, and intentional living. Heather breaks down how e...

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Christina McMahon, PhD, a love coach and certified somatic counselor who has been empowering individuals to overcome their inner barriers to love and life through the power of somatic healing. With a background in academia, Christina made the bold decision to leave a tenured university position to follow her passion, now helping hundreds of singles embrace love in a transformative way. She’ll take us through how listening to our bodies, especially in times of change, can lead us to our most authentic selves. This episode dives deep into the concept of soma...

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Kristal De Santis to the Life Check Yourself studio. Kristal is a licensed marriage and family therapist and author of Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man, she shares insights on masculinity, partnership dynamics, and how men can thrive in today’s shifting societal expectations. They explore the complexities of modern relationships, particularly focusing on the evolving roles of men and women. Together, the duo uncover actionable strategies to build stronger, healthier relationships based on mutual understanding and growth.

Redefining Masculinity in Modern Relationships

The I...

In this week's episode, Marni welcomes Nancy Hurley to the Life Check Yourself studio. Nancy is a seasoned marketing executive and a client of Marni. She shares her incredible journey of transforming her life, moving from a state of work overload and self-doubt to a balanced life filled with purpose and joy. Her story is a testament to the power of intentional life design, where she took bold steps to redefine her future, embrace retirement, and open new doors, all while working through the profound internal and external changes with Marni’s guidance.

The Journey of...

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Mary McMonagle to the Life Check Yourself studio. Mary is an intuitive healer and feminine energy coach who helps high-achieving women break free from limitations and unlock their true potential. She is also the founder of True Vibe, a spiritual lifestyle brand dedicated to guiding others toward embracing their true selves.

In this episode, the duo dives into the concept of feminine energy, exploring how it manifests uniquely in each of us and why it's important to balance both masculine and feminine energy. They'll unpack why some women find it ha...

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Mahwish Syed to the Life Check Yourself Studio. Mahwish is an award-winning fashion and interior designer, cancer survivor, and author. She shares her incredible journey of turning adversity into a powerful source of transformation. Her new book, Purgatory to Paradise: How Cancer Helped Me Design an Authentic Life, highlights how she navigated the dark times of her illness to emerge as a stronger, more authentic version of herself. In this episode, the duo dives deep into the concepts of self-love, healing, and the transformative power of our environments. Whether you're battling illness, ov...

In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Katie Horwitch to the Life Check Yourself Studio. Katie is an author, speaker, mindset coach, and self-talk activist. She is the founder of WANT: Women Against Negative Talk, a platform that gives women tips, tools, motivation, and inspiration to live fearlessly by shifting their negative self-talk patterns. Her first book, Want Your Self: Shift Your Self-Talk and Unearth The Strength In Who You Were All Along, (10/3/23 Sounds True), guides you to change your self-talk at the deepest level—so you can move forward fearlessly into the life you were meant to live. The...

In this week’s episode, I welcome Ashley Radzat to the Life Check Yourself studio.Ashley is a seasoned educator and certified life coach from The World Coaching Institute (WCI). She has dedicated over 20 years to helping parents and teens navigate this critical stage of life. We dive deep into the challenges and complexities of parenting teenagers in today's fast-paced world. Together, we explore the unique pressures facing today’s teenagers and how parents can effectively support their development while fostering independence.

The Impact of Over-Parenting on Teenagers

The Role of Technology and Socia...

In this week's episode, I welcome Robert MacPhee to the Life Check Yourself studio.Robert MacPhee is the creator of the “Excellent Decisions” values-based leadership program and the author of “Living a Values Based Life”.He is an expert in experiential learning, peak performance, values clarification and leadership. In this episode, we’ll explore the importance of clarity, confidence, and inspired action in achieving personal and professional success. Robert shares his insights on how making excellent decisions can transform your life by aligning your actions with your core values. Whether you're striving to advance in your career, build better relationsh...

In this week’s episode, I welcome Sureya Leonara to the Life Check Yourself studio. Sureya is a holistic sex and relationship coach dedicated to healing and liberating sexuality in a way that permeates every area of our lives. In this episode, we'll explore how to cultivate sexual energy, address common sexual dysfunctions, and understand the broader impact of a healthy sex life on our overall well-being. We will dive deep into a topic that is often overlooked but crucial for living a fully expressed life: sexual vitality.

    The Importance of Sexual Energy

    Addressing Sexual Dysfunctio...

In this week's episode, I welcome Tammy Mastroberte to the Life Check Yourself studio. Tammy is a bestselling and award-winning author, spiritual teacher, and wellness expert. Her mission is to empower people with simple and practical tools to thrive in everyday life and create positive change. We’ll dive into her latest book, "The Higher Help Method: Stop Trying to Manifest and Let the Universe Guide You," and explore the transformative power of connecting with a higher power. In this episode, Tammy shares insights from her new book and discusses how we can tap into higher help to navigate li...

In this week’s episode, we dive into the art of living life on your own terms with my husband Jeremy Blaise Crane. In this unique session, Jeremy and I open up and address various questions from listeners, sharing our experiences and insights on a wide range of topics. From personal growth and relationship advice to career transitions and life planning, this episode is packed with valuable advice and motivational stories that will inspire you to take charge of your life and create the future you desire.We'll explore how to redefine success, implement a structure in your life, an...

In this week’s episode, I welcome Amy Leigh Mercree to the Life Check Yourself studio. Amy is a bestselling author, holistic health expert, and medical intuitive with over 23 years of experience. She is on a mission to help people raise their vibrations and lead happier, healthier lives. Her upcoming book, "Aura Alchemy," focuses on teaching people how to sense energy fields, interpret the color spectrum, and manifest success. We dive deep into Amy’s wisdom and insights on living a balanced and fulfilled life.

Understanding Yin and Yang in Modern Life

The Power...

In this week’s episode, I welcome Florence Ann Romano to the Life Check Yourself studio. Florence is a renowned personal growth strategist, author, philanthropist, and businesswoman. Known as the "Windy City Nanny," she has spent over 15 years as a childcare provider and is an expert on childcare, family, and village support. We dive deep into the significance of creating and maintaining a supportive community, the challenges of asking for help, and how to embrace change for personal growth. Florence's insights are not only inspiring but also practical, offering actionable advice for anyone looking to enhance their life and re...

In this week’s episode, I welcome Dr. Debra Mandel to the Life Check Yourself studio. Dr. Mandel is a nationally renowned psychologist with over 30 years of experience. She's the author of four books, including the intriguingly titled "Dump That Chump," and she's here to share insights from her latest book, "Sassy and Rude: A New Attitude." We discussed the complex and often tumultuous mother-daughter relationship and explored the dynamics of mother-daughter relationships, the impact of social media and societal pressures, and strategies for fostering healthier connections.

The Influence of Social Media on Mother-Daughter Relationships

Ge...

Marni welcomes Peter Canova to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discusses how to embrace your intuitive gifts by training your subconscious. Peter is an award-winning author who also contributed to the much-loved Chicken Soup for the Soul series. He’s recently released a book, “Quantum Spirituality” which looks at the metaphysical intersection between quantum physics and Gnostic wisdom. In this episode, Marni and Peter look at what it means to actually listen to your intuition and what you stand to gain from doing so.

·         How to stop being skeptical  

·         Train your subconscious

·         H...

Marni welcomes Marc Von Musser, founder of SoarAndRoar, to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discusses how to ditch the victim mentality and start rebuilding your life. In this new series about reinvention, the duo discussed what it means to reinvent yourself. And it’s something that can be done at any age. They delve into the tactics to silence your inner critic and allow room for your inner superhero to grow and transform obstacles into success. 

*         How to ditch the victim mentality

*         How to stop fearing failure

*         Always set ambitious goals

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Marni welcomes Shelley Paxton to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discusses how to listen to yourself and navigate towards what your soul truly wants. Shelley is an author, a speaker and a change-maker. She helps people redefine their success. In this episode, Marni and Shelley talk about how to get out of something that makes you miserable. With the daily grind of life, and the pressure thrown at you from every direction, sometimes it’s easier to just continue on the conventional track, to stick to the initial plan. And it ends up slowly eating at yo...

Marni welcomes Dr. Harry Cohen to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo delves into the practice of nurturing traits that make people naturally gravitate towards you. What are these virtues that attract people? Harry is an author, having most recently published the book, “ Be the Sun, Not the Salt''. In this episode, Marni and Harry discuss how to forgive your mistakes and move forward while practicing the authentic virtues that will bring out the best version of yourself and those around you. Are you ready to be the change you wish to see in the world?

Marni welcomes Susan Gulyas to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discusses the limiting beliefs that hold us back in our life. Susan, a longtime client of Marni’s, is a successful career woman who works as a senior manager in engineering at Boeing. For this episode, they delve into what it means to explore unhealthy patterns and to shift your energy to attract what you want.

*         How to shape your beliefs

*         What energy are you putting out into the world?

*         Communicating with Integrity

Confront Your Limiting Be...

Marni welcomes Junnie Moon to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo delves into the hidden aspects of ourselves that we often suppress and that influence our behavior and relationships. We suppress these parts of ourselves without even realizing it. Junnie is the CEO of Midlife Love Out Loud. She’s an author, a global love mentor and a certified shadow work practitioner. In this episode, Marni and Junnie discuss what shadow work actually is and how through working on yourself you can find empowerment and authenticity.

*         What is shadow work?

*         What are your tr...

Marni welcomes Ciicii to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discusses how to break free from co-dependency and find your own identity. Ciicii is the host of podcast That Bitch Positive. She is a life and energy coach who has millions of followers as well as a singer-songwriter who has a book that came out yesterday with the title “Show Up As Her”. For this episode, Marni and Ciicii discuss the importance of owning your power and becoming the person you’re meant to be. And it starts by letting go of all the external triggers that may be...

Marni welcomes Bobby Frank to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo delves in the dynamics of a lasting relationship. Bobby who has been married for 31 years is currently working on his book, "The Unimpeachable Wife: Developing a Million Dollar Bank Account and a Million Dollar Family."

For this episode, Marni and Bobby discuss the secrets to success and longevity within a relationship.  Self-reflection, authenticity and personal growth are all part of it. When each person focuses on themselves first, it creates a solid foundation for a successful partnership.

*         How to introspect

Marni welcomes Nicole Russo to the Life Check Yourself studio. A personal stylist to high-achievers and executives, Nicole opened her own styling shopping service in 2017 and has styled thousands of people since. The duo discusses the most effective way to declutter, how to find your style and why dressing well means being empowered. How you dress, when it’s authentic, is a reflection of who you are and who you want to be.

*         How to dress for power

*         Avoid impulse purchases

*         How to cleanse your closet

It’s Not Any Less Fem...

Marni welcomes Shanenn Bryant to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discusses how to crack the control code and transform the way we view jealousy. Shanenn is a jealousy and relationship confidence expert. She’s also the host of the Top Self podcast and founder of self-development company, Top Self. It’s not just about eradicating jealousy but understanding that this feeling isn’t the problem, but rather a symptom of it. And the answers can be found by examining yourself. 

*         Focus on yourself

*         Lengthen the space between trigger and response

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Marni welcomes Paget Kagy to the Life Check Yourself studio. A Korean-American actress, writer, and empowerment coach, Paget is fueled by her passion for challenging societal norms. Paget, a frequency healer and spiritual coach, discusses the significance of operating from a deeper level rather than superficially judging oneself and as a consequence, others as well. The duo speak about the power of detachment and embracing uncertainty to connect with one’s higher self.

*         How to dream bigger

*         How to identify your blind spot

*         Step out of your comfort zone

Are you Hitting...

Marni welcomes Lily Womble to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discusses what holds successful women back from truly flourishing in the dating world? Lily, who shot to fame after a viral TikTok video is the founder and CEO of DateBrazen.com. She’s helped women overcome personal obstacles to achieve confidence and whole dating lives. It’s not just about finding the right relationship but about understanding what is keeping you stagnating.

*         How to live in your main character energy

*         You’re not too anything

*         Ask for what you want out loud

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Marni welcomes Dr.Heidi Brocke to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo delves into what being toxic actually means. It’s a buzz word that gets thrown around a lot but does anyone really know how to detect a toxic person? Heidi is a toxic relationship awareness and healing specialist. With a podcast that has over 1 million downloads, Heidi has worked with hundreds of people to help them get out of and heal from toxic relationships.

*         What does toxic actually mean?

*         How to decode unhealthy dynamics

*         How to clean up your social...

Marni welcomes Anya Chernyshova to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo delves into the process of reinvention. What does it take to completely transform your life? It begins by letting go of the negative beliefs you have about yourself. Anya, who is one of Marni’s long-time clients, went through a reinvention herself where she managed to alter her life to adapt her vision. Understanding that you actually have the power to do it is empowering.

*         Don’t keep it festering

*         How to let go of blame

*         Forgiveness is key.

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Marni welcomes Anapaula Corral to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo delves into feminine energy, recognizing the dating mistakes and letting go of deep-rooted beliefs that may be doing more harm than good. Marni and Anapaula, who is an author, met on Instagram. After that meeting, Anapaula started doing the work with Marni and gaining insight on what it is that she was doing wrong in her dating life. The conversation between the two women explores notions of regained self-confidence, mindful dating, and the journey of self-love.

*         How to define your rules

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Marni welcomes Dr.Abby Mecalf to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo dismantle pre-held beliefs about the secret to a successful relationship. Abby is a psychologist and a relationship maven who also happens to be a podcast host. Throughout this episode, they look into one of the leading causes for the failure of a relationship. And it’s not communication, it’s competition that influences the dynamics within a relationship. 

*         Why do so many relationships fail?

*         How to stop Comparing

*         Find common ground

It’s Actually Not Just Abo...

Marni welcomes Dr. Amelia Kelley to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo delves into the notion of gaslighting and how to spot it when it’s happening. Amelia who is a hypnotherapist and an art therapist, discusses the prototypes that are most likely to get gaslit. Dissecting the different types of gaslighting, she explains the personality traits that can play a role in whether or not a person will get gaslit as well as how to avoid a gas-lighter.

*         How to know when you’re being gaslit.

*         Stand firm in your truth

Marni welcomes endocrinologist and author Dr.Ricky Arenson to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discuss the dynamics between men and women in a partnership. The duo delves into the differences between both genders and how the things that set them apart actually become their strength when combined. While men and women may function on opposing wavelengths, that is actually the key to the success of a relationship. And a happy relationship means a longer life. Longevity isn’t just about eating those berries and that OJ.

*         Uncover your innate qualities

*         Why do you...

Marni welcomes Julie Hakim to the Life Check Yourself studio for a live coaching session. Julie is a physician who works at Texas Children’s Hospital. For Julie, it is vital for her to step into her power especially since she’s been struggling to feel seen recently. During the session, the duo tackle what it actually means to feel seen and how to regain control in situations that feel unpredictable.  

*         What’s your external avatar?

*         How to be Seen

*         What are energy influencers?

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Life Check Yourself 436 –  How to Navigate the world of relationship and dating when you’re neurodivergent with Jeremy Hamburg and Ilana Frank

Marni welcomes Friendship and Dating coaches, Jeremy Hamburg and Ilana Frank. Having worked for years towards creating strategies that empower autistic and neurodivergent adults, Jeremy and Llana give in-depth insight on the dating world. The duo has come up with a program, dubbed Social Life 360, that teaches clients to confidently meet new people. In this conversation, they touch on our basic need to connect as humans and what that really means. They delve into t...

Marni welcomes transformational speaker and relationship coach, Stephen Muiriri to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discusses why women feel trapped in certain relationships and how to overcome that feeling and find their authentic value. Stephen has helped thousands of women overcome dating challenges and find true love. In this conversation, he talks about the importance of finding your value and harnessing that energy to communicate it to yourself and those around you. And that value isn’t just limited to the physical, it is much deeper than that. What do you stand for? What are your va...

Marni welcomes one of her clients, Rebecca Purnell to the Life Check Yourself studio. Rebecca shares how she found love. Having had a fulfilling career and what she describes as a great life, she felt something was missing: she couldn’t find her person. Rebecca explains the journey she went through to find her person and the lessons that she learnt along the way. How to date on online apps? Who deserves a second chance and who doesn’t? are just a few of the questions that Marni and Rebecca discuss as they delve into the details of a love...

Marni welcomes strategic dating coach, also known as the OG of online dating, Mike Goldstein in the Life Check Yourself studio, where the duo dive into the male perspective of dating and what men are actually looking for when it comes to a partner. What makes them tick? How do they date? Men, like women, are looking for a safe space where they can be themselves. But what does that actually mean? Their conversation touches on cornerstones of what it means to be in a relationship and how to get there.

How to be his safe space<...