Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Want to know what really makes a high-quality man fall for you? (Hint: It’s not looks or playing hard to get.) These 7 irresistible qualities will set you apart, making you magnetic and unforgettable.

Originally Aired: Feb. 08, 2025

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You’ve met someone great, but how do you turn those exciting early dates into a lasting commitment? 

In this episode, We’re tackling the frustrating "in-between" phase of dating—the one that sinks most relationships. Learn the vital skills for maintaining love, mastering the cool-down period, and making sure you ditch the apps forever.

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I used to wonder why smart, successful women kept falling for the same type of man. Then I realized it had nothing to do with attraction. Everything pointed back to old wiring. In this episode, I break down why the bad boy feels so magnetic, why healthy love can feel uncomfortable at first, and the simple shifts that help you break the pattern for good.

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t's time to change your love strategy and attract the man you deserve. Discover the 24 principles to attract the man you adore in 2024. If you'd prefer to watch the full video instead of listening to the audio, feel free to go to https://lovestrategies.com/adore

Originally Aired: Jan. 01, 2024

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Want to know if a long-distance relationship is worth it? Before you sign up for dating on hard mode, listen to this. In this episode, we unpack how far is too far, why so many people get pulled into relationships that are built to fall apart, and what it actually takes to make one work if you really have to.

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If a man is trying to manipulate you, he can’t truly love you. Because love isn’t about control, it’s about collaboration. In this episode, I break down the subtle signs of manipulation most women miss, why even strong, successful women fall into these traps, and how to reclaim your power with one simple shift. 

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When we think of our ideal partner, the list often includes being highly attractive, intelligent, possessing a great personality, and solid values. Essentially, we're seeking perfection. This desire drives us to aim high, sometimes even out of our league, aspiring for a partner akin to a celebrity or supermodel. But is dating out of our league a realistic goal?

Originally Aired: Jan. 21, 2024

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Want to know what to say to make a guy feel truly special and appreciated? Stop telling him he's funny and start giving him compliments that matter. In this episode, we're revealing the core compliments that will set you apart and build an instant, deeper connection.

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When Vogue published an article questioning whether having a boyfriend is now “embarrassing,” I knew this wasn’t just another headline. It was a sign of a deeper shift in modern dating that most people aren’t even noticing.

In this episode, I break down what’s really driving this trend… and why the message behind it is far less empowering than it looks on the surface.

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Is he a lone wolf or a wounded soul? Discover the signs of an emotionally broken man and understand why recognizing them is vital. Unmask the hidden patterns that could lead to a toxic relationship and learn how to protect your emotional well-being.

Originally Aired: Jan. 04, 2025

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Ever questioned why someone cheats - even when the relationship seems fine? This episode exposes the hidden psychology behind infidelity, the emotional gaps that lead people astray, and the subtle red flags most women overlook. If you’re ready to protect your heart and build a relationship where betrayal isn’t even on the table, this conversation is your compass.

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You've probably heard it before: beauty is only skin deep. While physical attractiveness can certainly draw attention, it's the inner qualities that truly captivate and keep a man's interest. So, what truly makes a woman irresistible?

Originally Aired: Jan. 11, 2025

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Tired of dating down? In this episode, we're revealing the secrets for powerhouse women to attract powerhouse love. Discover how to build a truly synergistic partnership without compromising your success or your authentic self.

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Are emotionally secure masculine men still out there — or are they just a myth in today’s dating world?

In this video, I’m breaking down the six traits of a truly grounded, masculine man so you can stop wasting time on fragile egos and finally recognize the men who are actually capable of building a real partnership.

Once you understand these traits, you’ll never overlook the right men again — and you’ll stop entertaining the wrong ones.

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Tired of first date disasters? Discover the secrets to turning that initial encounter into a thrilling experience with our comprehensive guide to first date success. From pre-date preparation to post-date follow-up, learn 20 expert tips that will boost your confidence, spark genuine connection, and leave your date wanting more.

Originally Aired: Aug 21, 2024

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If you feel stuck in a dating rut, it's time to face a tough question: What motivates you to find love? We all know what we're running toward—a great relationship—but what if your most powerful motivation lies in what you're running from? Join us to discover how the fear of a lonely, regret-filled future can be the rocket fuel you need to change your love life forever.

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After coaching over 44,000 women, I’ve noticed a few surprising patterns that guarantee you’ll stay single—no matter how much you want love. In this video, I reveal seven subtle habits that sabotage even the smartest, most successful women… and what to do instead.

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Tired of chasing men who seem completely oblivious to you? Discover how to shift your mindset and behavior to attract the love you deserve. Learn the importance of independence, personal growth, and a positive outlook. Tune in to our latest podcast to discover the secrets to finding lasting love.

Originally Aired: Oct 12, 2024

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Ever wish you had a cheat sheet for relationship communication? We’re going beyond the typical advice to give you the exact words and phrases emotionally intelligent partners use. From handling conflict to showing genuine care, this episode will equip you with a new language for connection that strengthens your bond and makes your relationship feel truly safe.

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Ever wonder why some men act so weird when they really like you? From talking too much to teasing you like a middle schooler, these behaviors can seem confusing until you realize what they really mean.

In this video, I reveal the 5 signs to look for when a man is truly into you (and how to tell the difference between genuine attraction and mixed signals).

Watch now to decode his behavior and finally know when he’s actually interested.

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Discover the hidden clues to his relationship intent. If you’re tired of the mixed messages and want to decode what he truly wants, our latest podcast reveals four key motivations behind his actions and helps you spot the genuine signs of relationship intent.

Originally Aired: July 03, 2024

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Tired of "mankeeping" and feeling drained in your relationships? We're diving deep into this viral term, challenging the narrative, and revealing how a fresh perspective can actually make dating easier and more fulfilling for women. Tune in for a powerful discussion that might just change how you see men and relationships!

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Love isn’t just about butterflies; it’s brain chemistry, choices, and the habits you build together. In this episode, Dr. Gary Lewandowski (Chief Love Scientist at LoveStrategies) unpacks the science behind passion, intimacy, and commitment, how to tell real love from impostors, and why “falling” isn’t enough. If you’ve ever wondered whether love can conquer all, this episode will change how you see relationships forever.

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Flirting over 40 doesn't have to be a mystery. In this 10-minute guide, we'll teach you a dignified and high-character approach to flirting that leaves the giggling and cutesy stuff behind. From subtle body language to playful verbal cues, you'll learn how to be clear, confident, and captivating—because it's time to stop being the one who rejects yourself.

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What if the “dating advice” you’ve been told your whole life is the very thing keeping you single?

In this video, I uncover the 6 biggest myths that silently sabotage smart, successful women in love. These myths feel true—but they quietly push high-value men away and keep you stuck in frustrating patterns.

If you’ve ever wondered why your dating life doesn’t match the powerful, magnetic woman you know you are, this is the video you can’t afford to miss.

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Are you tired of attracting the same type of partner? In this episode, we're moving beyond identifying the wounds that attract unhealthy partners and shifting the focus to what truly matters: your worth. Tune in for five powerful strategies to help you break old patterns and attract a fulfilling partnership built on a foundation of self-love and confidence.

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You think men are drawn to looks, charm, or the perfect body, but what actually captivates them runs much deeper. In this video, I reveal what men find truly beautiful in a woman (and how to tap into it effortlessly).

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In this episode, Dr. Gary debunks the modern myth that independence is the ultimate goal. You’re absolutely right to believe in yourself—but wrong to think you can thrive completely alone. Discover the surprising science behind why connection is the foundation of real happiness, health, and fulfillment.

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Are you tired of attracting the wrong kind of love? This week, discover if your past wounds are unknowingly picking your partners and learn to identify the five key emotional injuries that might be sabotaging your relationships. Tune in to start attracting the healthy, fulfilling love you truly deserve.

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Are you spending all your energy perfecting your look for a date, only to have the spark fizzle? The truth is, men don’t fall for appearances… they fall for how you make them feel. This week, discover five magnetic phrases that instantly spark chemistry and connection — and learn how the right words can draw him in effortlessly. Start creating dates that feel exciting, authentic, and unforgettable.

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Do you secretly love rules, even if you pretend you don't? This episode reveals how a few simple dating "rules" can put your love life on autopilot, making it effortless and fun. Stop the guesswork and learn the easy guidelines that will help you find the right person by being the right person.

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I’m not here to sugarcoat things… I’m here to tell you the brutal truths about dating men that most women never hear. If you’ve been attracting the wrong guys—emotionally unavailable men, commitment-phobes, or “man-children”—this video is for you.

These 7 truths might sting a little, but they’ll also set you free. I’ll show you what’s really holding you back in love, and how to finally open the door to the kind of relationship you truly deserve.

Discover your Attraction Archetype by visiting: http://www.attractiontype.com/

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Are you drawn to powerful men? If so, it’s crucial to be aware of the four dangerous risks involved in pursuing such relationships.

Originally Aired: June 11th, 2024

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This podcast explores the surprising appeal of older women in dating, revealing the attractive qualities that transcend age. Discover why maturity, confidence, and a zest for life make older women incredibly desirable.

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Ready to captivate a man's attention without appearing too eager? Today's podcast reveals seven powerful strategies to command his interest.

Originally Aired: June 23rd, 2024 

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Tired of endless swiping and disappointing dates? This week, we're revealing our top strategies to transform your online dating profile from frustrating to magnetic. Learn how to craft a captivating profile and pick pictures that truly reflect your unique charm, attracting the right kind of attention and making your online dating journey efficient and enjoyable.

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Curious if he's really into you or just being friendly? Tune in to our latest podcast, "7 Secret Signs He's Extremely Attracted to You," where we uncover subtle yet telling behaviors that reveal his true feelings. Don’t miss these key insights to help you decode his silent signals and gain clarity in your dating life!

Originally Aired: July 21, 2024

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Worried about navigating money in your relationship, especially when you've built your own success? Our latest podcast tackles the awkwardness of who pays, what to do when you earn more, and why true financial compatibility goes beyond a bank account. Discover how to build a strong, meaningful connection where money is a tool, not a tension point.

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Ever wonder why your relationships follow a similar script? Discover your unique Attraction Archetype in our latest podcast episode, based on data from over 46,000 women. Uncover your hidden patterns, understand the type of energy you attract, and learn how to break free for good.

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Are you dating over 40 and feeling like it's an impossible mission? Join us as we reveal 5 transformative shifts that will completely change your perspective and experience. Stop wishing you learned this sooner and start attracting the love you deserve today!

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In this special client interview, Gary sits down with Tracy, who went from crying on a consultation call to finding her "above average Joe" just weeks after her lowest moment. After 22 years in a dysfunctional marriage, Tracy learned to trust herself and build healthy boundaries.

Discover how Tracy found the kind of love where someone would "move mountains" for her—and how the skills she learned improved every relationship in her life, including with her adult daughter.

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Are you dreading those tough talks about money, sex, or the future with your partner? This episode reveals how to master difficult dating conversations without blowing things up. Learn practical strategies to make these discussions easier and strengthen your connection.

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Curious about what makes someone wife-material? Tune into our latest podcast episode where we, two married guys, break down the top six qualities that made us realize we had found our lifelong partners. Trust us, this is a very personal and enlightening conversation you won't want to miss!

Originally Aired: Jul. 28, 2024

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Tired of dating feeling like a second job with no benefits? This podcast episode offers 7 powerful strategies to transform your approach, helping you date smarter, not harder. Discover how to identify your non-negotiables, efficiently screen potential partners, and master meet-ups to find the right person without wasting precious time. Tune in to take control of your dating life and make it both efficient and enjoyable.

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Let’s be honest: Love is addictive.
So why do some women get hooked—and end up with breadcrumbs—while others flip the script and have men addicted to them?

In this episode, I reveal five powerful (and unexpected) ways to make a man emotionally addicted to you—no games, no gimmicks. Just real connection, desire, and pursuit. If you’ve ever wondered what makes a man crave you long after the date ends… this one’s for you.

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The heart is a powerful force, relentlessly pursuing what it desires, often without our conscious realization. This pursuit can lead us to engage in a deceptive practice called F.I.B.ing—Filling In Blanks.

In today’s podcast, we discuss why he’s probably NOT as “perfect” as you think, and how to navigate the dating scene with clarity.

Originally Aired: Feb. 18, 2024

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Tired of endless bad dates with the same old "type"? This episode dives into why your usual dating patterns might be holding you back and how breaking free can lead to better relationships. Discover why your "picker" might be broken and learn actionable steps to find a truly compatible partner.

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Still single and wondering why love hasn’t clicked yet? This video uncovers four sneaky beliefs that might be sabotaging your love life—without you even realizing it. From rejecting your feminine energy to waiting until you're “100% ready,” find out what’s really holding you back and how to finally open the door to the relationship you deserve.

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Discover 11 game-changing strategies to date with confidence in our latest podcast, "Ditching the Doormat."

Learn how to set boundaries, embrace your worth, and find genuine connections without compromising your true self. Say goodbye to dating pitfalls and hello to empowered love.

Originally Aired: Aug 17, 2024

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Are you constantly swiping left and wondering why dating feels so broken? In this no-holds-barred episode, we're tackling the elephant in the room: who's more delusional in dating – men or women? Tune in to uncover the surprising truths about what both sexes get wrong and why our expectations are completely out of control.

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What if the key to becoming irresistible to high-character men has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your energy? In this video I invite you to discover 5 surprising ways to become deeply attractive to men, without playing games, pretending to be someone you’re not, or obsessing over the “perfect” dating profile. Watch now to unlock your magnetic edge.

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If you're facing a breakup or have just recently gone through one, your life starts to feel like it's falling apart. But the research shows that many times, our breakups can be an incredibly positive experience. In today's podcast, Gary and Adam discuss the science of breakups and how to turn a breakup into a positive experience.

Originally Aired: Dec. 28, 2022

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Discover a smarter approach to love by rethinking your understanding of attachment. This episode reveals why common views are flawed, explaining the crucial shift from rigid "attachment styles" to fluid "attachment tendencies." Learn how to identify your true attachment patterns and gain actionable strategies to cultivate a more secure and fulfilling love life.

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Struggling to get the affection you desire from men? The good news is, you can have the love you desire, without chasing it. In this video, you'll discover 5 powerful (and subtle) ways to inspire more affection from men, without losing yourself or playing mind games. From celebrating his masculinity to creating emotional safety, you’ll learn how to foster the connection and warmth you deserve.

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Breaking up can feel like an end to your world as you know it. Everything around you – from the music you hear to the shows you watch – reminds you of your ex. It's a challenge even to recognize who you are without them. But what if there's a better way to heal and move on?

Originally Aired: Jan. 16, 2024

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Do you prefer real-life sparks but find dating apps have tainted your approach? This episode unpacks the hidden ways online dating creates bad habits, from superficial evaluations to the 'What's In It For Me?' mindset. Learn how to break free and embrace a more authentic, fulfilling way to date

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Ever felt like your age or confidence was scaring men off, but couldn’t quite put your finger on why? In this new video, I’m revealing the five real reasons some men avoid dating older women. Once you understand them, you’ll be in the driver’s seat of your love life.

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In this podcast, Dr. Lewandowski and I will share the game-changer: the "3 P's" - Potential, Process, and Progress. These concepts can make dating clearer and brighter for you.

And here's a tip: the word "YET." This tiny word can change how you view everything, emphasizing growth and change.

So, don't give up on love just yet. Join us as we delve into this easy but powerful approach. Remember, you're still learning and growing, and that's truly wonderful!

Originally Aired: Sep. 13, 2023

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Tired of dating games and men who constantly disappoint? This episode reveals why true masculinity is so elusive and how to spot the problematic "alpha assholes." Learn to identify the S.T.R.O.N.G. qualities of genuinely good men and finally find the healthy relationship you deserve.

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Think you know the dating scene? Think again. In this episode, we're joined by Macy Matarazzo, a Senior Love Advisor with Love Strategies, to break down five modern dating trends and what they reveal about modern love. Learn how to decode the trends, avoid the traps, and date with more clarity (and fun) than ever before.

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Ever wonder why dating feels so hard? This week, we're uncovering the hidden ways you're unintentionally making your romantic life miserable. Get ready to identify your own blind spots and finally break free from these frustrating patterns.

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Whether you’re dealing with a one-time ghoster or a guy who’s suddenly MIA mid-connection, here’s what his behavior is actually telling you—and how to respond without losing your sanity (or your standards).

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Dr. Lewandowski and Adam uncover the importance of authenticity and how being provocative can lead you to the right match. Learn why your quirks are actually your advantage in the dating world and how embracing your uniqueness is your ultimate superpower. Get ready to change your dating game and waste less time as you find the love you deserve.

Originally Aired: Aug. 13, 2023

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That "hey" text from your ex just popped up – now what? We're tackling the tricky return of the "zombie ex," helping you decode their motivations and navigate your own mixed emotions. Before you fall back into old patterns, learn our strategic approach and the crucial questions you need to answer to decide if this blast from the past deserves a second chance, or a firm block.

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Your time is precious, especially when it comes to finding love.

And if you've been burned by flaky texters, charming narcissists, or emotionally unavailable men, you're probably tired of wasting it on guys who drain your energy and leave you wondering if love is even worth it.

The truth? It is, but only if you're protecting your time and heart.

Let’s dive into five ways to quickly tell if a man is worth your energy… or if it’s time to say that magical four-letter word: NEXT.

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In this follow-up to the wildly popular Year of Deb, we’re diving into her “little black book” method for dating with clarity, confidence, and zero BS. Discover why calm is the new chemistry, how outcome independence makes you magnetic, and the secret power of being still.

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Tired of feeling like finding a high-character man is an impossible solo mission? We're changing the script on traditional dating advice. Discover the surprising power of community and how your "tribe" can become your greatest asset in attracting the love you deserve.

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When a man is ready to commit, it’s not about your résumé, your looks, or even how perfectly you check his boxes. It’s about how you make him feel—and there are five specific emotions that tip the scales from “she’s great” to “she’s the one.”

Let’s break them down—and show you how to tap into the emotional blueprint that makes a man fall deeply (and lastingly) in love.

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In this spicy episode, we’re joined by Love Strategies’ very own Macy Matarazzo—Senior Love Advisor and resident truth-teller—to unpack why so many women find themselves drawn to criminals, bad boys, and rule breakers.

From dreamy mugshots to emotional mayhem, we explore the surprising psychology behind “bad boy” attraction and what it might reveal about your own dating patterns.

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Ever been swept off your feet, only to realize it was a red flag parade in disguise? We're diving into the seemingly sweet behaviors that actually scream toxic. Learn to spot the subtle signs of manipulation and control before you fall for a fantasy, and discover how to find genuine connection instead.

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In this video, I’ll uncover the hidden “mind viruses” that could be sabotaging your chances at real connection. These are common, contagious beliefs that quietly sabotage your dating life—without you even realizing it. And the worst part? They often sound like empowerment… but end up closing you off to the very thing you want most: real, lasting love.

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Ever wonder what emotionally mature, relationship-ready men are really looking for? In this special pod, I peel back the curtain on what men (not boys) find irresistible—and how it’s completely different from what younger guys value (and why that’s a very good thing).

A Gift From Me (On My Birthday): To help you get there, I created a free training just for women over 40+: 👉 LonelyToLove.com

Inside, I walk you through the step-by-step process for getting clear, aligned, and ready to attract real love—no games, no confusion.

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Tired of swiping left based on political affiliation? We're diving into the surprisingly complex world of dating across the aisle, challenging the notion that red and blue can't find common ground. Forget the simple advice – we'll equip you with a strategic mindset to navigate differing views and discover if love can truly conquer political divides.

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Are you tired of feeling cursed when it comes to first dates? Does it seem like no matter what you do, you just can't seem to make a connection with someone new? It's a common feeling, but the good news is that there are proven ways to be a charming first date, and have men begging for that second date, and many more.

Many people believe that charm is something you either have or don't have, but that's not true. Charm can be learned and developed, just like any other skill. With a little bit of effort...

Unlock the secrets to effortless attraction with our 7 research-backed body language techniques that will have men drawn to you from across the room. Learn how to project confidence, spark intrigue, and master the art of nonverbal communication to captivate the right guy.

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Have you ever gone on a first date, clicked with someone, and started planning your future together before you even finished dessert? If so, you're not alone. Many women overinvest in a man before seeing if he's worth it. Unfortunately, this can lead to heartbreak and disappointment when things don't work out. However, there are ways to break this cycle and find lasting love.

Originally Aired: Apr. 24, 2023 

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Think he's being honest? Think again. This week's podcast cracks the code on the sneaky linguistic tactics guys use to bend the truth while dating, without technically lying. Learn to identify the subtle red flags and protect yourself from being misled in the confusing world of modern romance.

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He’s not giving you what you need in the relationship and it’s time for some “feedback”. Should you try and fix him or just it go?

In today’s podcast, we discuss the one thing you should NEVER do in a relationship.
Originally Aired: Mar. 24, 2024

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Tired of the emotional rollercoaster and predictable heartbreak that comes with dating "bad boys"? This week, we're diving deep into why this pattern persists and, more importantly, how to break free for good. Discover the surprising psychological factors at play and gain actionable strategies to finally attract the healthy, fulfilling relationship you deserve.

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Society will tell you that men only want to date younger women.

But our experience, having coached over 44,000 women on how to find love, is that this is NOT true.

In fact, here are 10 reasons why men love older women.
Originally Aired: May. 06, 2024 

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Are you unknowingly sabotaging your dating life? This episode reveals the surprisingly common mistakes people make that actively push potential partners away. Learn the key behaviors that lead to loneliness and how to avoid these self-defeating patterns to finally find the fulfilling relationship you deserve.

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The path to acquiring dating skills can often be a slow and painful process filled with missteps, and lessons learned the hard way. But what if you could accelerate this process?

Here are 7 Psychological Skills Every Successful Dater Needs
Originally Aired: May 19, 2024

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Tired of dating guesswork? Learn the five must-ask questions that cut through the small talk and reveal a man's true self, fast! Stop wasting time on dead ends and start gaining real insights into his values, relationship style, and future aspirations. This episode unveils the secrets to smart dating, empowering you to find the right connection sooner.

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In today's dating landscape, mastering the art of texting is essential. Like flirting, which we've covered in previous podcasts, "Love Texting" is a skill anyone can learn and perfect.

Originally Aired: Jun. 02, 2024

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Sick of dating advice that coddles you? We're cutting through the fluff with the brutal truths you've been avoiding. Prepare for a no-holds-barred conversation about your dating habits and why you're stuck. If you're ready for real change, this episode is your wake-up call.

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It's time to stop wasting time with the wrong men. Here's the three major signs you're wasting time, and the exact step by step strategy to avoid it moving forward.

Originally Aired: May. 03, 2024

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Want to know if your date is really a good person? Words are cheap, actions reveal everything. We're showing you how to observe behavior, not just listen to promises, to truly understand a potential partner. Learn how simple things like the “Phone Test,” “Daily Dinner Test,” and the “Coin Flip Test” help you figure discover lasting love

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When capturing a man's attention, the usual compliments like "You're so handsome" or "You're funny" often fall flat.

They're overly familiar and can feel insincere because they could be said to just about anyone.

To truly stand out and make an impact, it's crucial to delve deeper. Here's a guide to giving compliments that not only catch his attention but also touch his heart.
 Originally Aired: May 10, 2024

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Are you unknowingly sabotaging your love life? We're flipping the script on red flags and asking: what if you're the problem? Discover the 7 hidden habits that might be sending good guys running, and learn how to transform them for lasting love.

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Beyond butterflies and fireworks, what truly makes a relationship thrive? We're diving deep into the often-overlooked power of emotional protection. Join us to learn what it means, why it matters, and how to cultivate it in your own love life.

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Why does dating feel so complicated? In today's podcast, we decode the modern dating scene to simplify it and help you attract the love you truly deserve.

Originally Aired: Apr. 7, 2024

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Feeling like you have to choose between career success and a fulfilling relationship? We're calling BS on that myth and empowering successful women to have it all. Join us this week for practical tips on balancing ambition and love, and attracting a partner who can match your energy.

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Dating after 50 can feel daunting, especially when society bombards us with messages that youth is the zenith of desirability.

But finding your forever man at this stage in life is not just a possibility; it's a journey that can be embarked upon with dignity, wisdom and a bit of strategic know-how.

Here are seven essential steps to navigate the dating world after 50 and find the love that you deserve.

Originally Aired: April 21, 2024

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Stop dreading dates and start making genuine connections. In this episode we reveal the power of conversation builders, questions that go beyond the surface. Learn the art of sparking meaningful dialogue.

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Have you ever really liked a guy, but he never appreciated you or saw you in a romantic way?

Here are 6 ways to position yourself as a high-value woman that men desire.

Originally Aired: Dec 3, 2022 

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Struggling to get dates? In this episode we reveal the three simple strategies to boost your dating game and finally meet someone who adores you. Learn where to find eligible singles, how to be more approachable, and how to break your own dating "algorithm" for better matches.

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Are you navigating the single life, feeling increasingly frustrated and hopeless? You've tried everything, yet nothing seems to change your status. The sense of running out of options, fearing a future of eternal singleness, looms large. But what if the issues you believe are holding you back are actually leading you astray?
Originally Aired: Mar. 31, 2024

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Feeling discouraged by the idea of dating after 40? It doesn’t have to be that way. In this episode, we reveal The 5 S’s of Successful Dating After 40—so you can navigate love, relationships, and the modern dating scene with confidence and ease.

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In this podcast, Dr. Gary reveals the science behind attraction. Learn the “Golden Rule of Attraction,” whether opposites really do attract, should you play hard to get, and how important is personality (or is it really all physical?) Discover how to increase your chances of connecting with someone special and build lasting relationships.

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Tired of the dating game? Learn to spot the red flags and navigate the confusing world of modern dating. In this episode, we dive deep into the common tactics men use to keep you hooked, from subtle put-downs to emotional manipulation. Discover how to respond, move on, and find someone who truly values you.

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