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In this heartfelt episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' we dive into a profound conversation about life, fatherhood, and self-discovery. Host, D Johns explores the journey of our guest, Alexander Dixon, who shares his experiences growing up with absent parents, navigating the pressures of performance, dealing with anger and depression, and ultimately finding his identity as a father. Join us as we unpack the challenges and triumphs of breaking generational patterns, healing emotional wounds, and raising children with love and integrity. Don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more meaningful conversations and let us know which part...

In this engaging episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They discuss the importance of preparing for life's storms, both anticipated and unexpected, and share personal stories of overcoming challenges. D Johns talks about his health scare that changed his perspective on life, while Jey Blac reveals how a tragic family loss shaped his identity and resilience. The hosts also explore the impact of public embarrassment and the value of seeking help when needed. Whether you're a father, have a father, or are...

In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a raw and meaningful conversation designed to help young men and boys understand the lessons they wish they'd known earlier in life. They open with reflections on holiday experiences and the importance of managing expectations and stress. The discussion evolves into a deep dive into the concept of 'labels'—how we define ourselves and the impact of societal and self-imposed labels on our well-being. The hosts also explore how parents can better support their children's true passions and talents rather than imposing ca...

In this heartfelt episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the empowering theme: 'My Ceiling Is Your Floor.' Highlighting the importance of setting up future generations for success, the hosts explore how fathers can use their own experiences, both good and bad, to be a springboard for their children's achievements. Covering meaningful topics such as handling emotions, the impact of words, and the critical role of adaptability in today's ever-changing world, this conversation is both enlightening and motivational. Tune in to uncover valuable insights on how to shape the future for...

Welcome to the Dear Son Show, where hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into real-life, meaningful conversations designed to help young boys and men learn the lessons they wish they had known earlier. In this powerful episode, the duo discusses the essence of 'seeing it through,' the importance of internal motivation, and the challenges faced by young Black boys struggling with anxiety and depression. They also touch upon personal anecdotes about fatherhood, resilience, and the impact of maintaining open and loving communication with their families. Join us for a candid and eye-opening dialogue that can change lives...

Join hosts D Johns and Jey Blac on 'The Dear Son, Show' as they delve into the essence of marriage and fatherhood. This episode unpacks the highs and lows of being a husband and father, providing unparalleled insights through lived experiences. They discuss the importance of having a supportive partner, the irreplaceable moments in fatherhood, and the realities of navigating marriage. With candid anecdotes and valuable life lessons, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom for anyone navigating these crucial roles. Don’t miss out—watch, like, and subscribe for more enlightening conversations!

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What do you do when your son steps to you like a man? In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, things get real. A father faces a moment every parent hopes to avoid — his son challenging his authority. What starts as tension turns into a powerful conversation about respect, maturity, and what it really means to grow into manhood.

And just when it feels like things are cooling down, the conversation takes another turn. The son asks for advice about dating a young woman who already has a child. The father’s response? Hone...

In this engaging episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive into deeply impactful conversations aimed at helping boys, young men, and adult men learn valuable life lessons. Through personal anecdotes and real-life scenarios, the hosts discuss the importance of not taking things personally and how it can affect different areas of life, from personal relationships to professional settings. They also delve into the dynamics of parenting with grace and the significance of leading with curiosity, both in the corporate world and at home. Tune in for insightful dialogue that encourages self-reflection and proactive...

Welcome to another insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive deeply into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. In this episode, they touch on three main topics: the importance of respecting time and its implications, the challenges of parenting through gray areas and difficult scenarios, and the significance of not placing a price on one's integrity. The episode promises a blend of humor, critical thinking, and raw authenticity, providing valuable insights for fathers and sons navigating their own paths. Make sure to like, share, and subscribe to the...

In this milestone episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the pressing issues faced by parents today. They explore the intricacies of family dynamics, touching on the importance of communication with children and the struggles of balancing structure and empathy. The episode delves into real-life scenarios, including handling children's schedules, the impact of modern technology on parenting, and the importance of understanding and meeting your children's needs. This engaging conversation is a must-watch for parents seeking to strengthen their relationships with their children and improve their parenting strategies. Don't forget to...

In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They cover topics that resonate with fathers, those with fathers, and the fatherless. Key highlights include Jey Blac discussing his excitement about becoming a senior in college and the challenges that come with it, D Johns sharing his son's experiences balancing school and a budding career in the electrical trade, and an insightful discussion on how not every planted seed grows but how persistence and good nurturing can yield unexpected results. The hosts also...

In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into the importance of self-reflection and accountability. They discuss how understanding one's strengths and weaknesses can lead to personal growth, and they stress the significance of not falling in love with one's initial ideas or external perceptions. They also explore the challenges of maintaining meaningful relationships amidst busy lives and highlight the role of honest communication in strengthening these bonds. Finally, they examine the role of AI and modern technology in today's workforce, emphasizing the importance of using these tools to enhance rather than...

In this episode of The Dead Son Show, join hosts D Johns and Jay Black as they delve into meaningful conversations about the journey of fatherhood and the importance of leaving a lasting legacy for future generations. From discussing the challenges of balancing work and family life to ensuring children understand the value of resilience and progress, no topic is off-limits. Key highlights include the importance of being a dependable source of guidance for your children, the value of teaching entrepreneurial skills and financial literacy, and the necessity of holding children accountable to their dreams to foster their independence...

In this insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, Jey Blac and D Johns delve into meaningful conversations aimed at guiding young boys and men. They explore the balance between traditional values and modern practices, discussing the impact of old advice on new generations. Key topics include the significance of teaching wisdom rather than just steps, the complex dynamics of caring for aging parents, and the importance of letting the new generation find their own path. Tune in for a deep dive into parenting, societal expectations, and the evolving nature of roles within the family. Don’t forget to li...

Welcome to another heartfelt episode of The Dear Son, Show where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. In this episode, they navigate the exciting and challenging journey of parenting, focusing on significant moments and lessons learned. They discuss their sons transitioning into adulthood, the importance of expressing love and appreciation, and how to prepare them for life's responsibilities. Tune in for a heartwarming and enlightening discussion on embracing fatherhood. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful content!

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Welcome to another impactful episode of The Dear Son, Show with Jey Blac and D Johns! In this episode, we dive deep into real-life conversations aimed to guide young men and fathers through the challenges of life. JD shares a moving story about his father's recent health scare, and they both open up about navigating their sons' journeys toward adulthood and independence. Together, they tackle the importance of 'fine-tuning' rather than 'removing' traits in your children, the valuable life lessons learned, and the importance of setting benchmarks for parental involvement. Tune in to hear our take on vital topics...

Welcome to another meaningful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive deep into the life lessons and challenges faced through the lens of fatherhood. This episode tackles critical topics such as choosing friends wisely in adulthood, the acceptability of allowing your friend circle to discipline your child, and the essential nature of having a trustworthy village to help raise your kids. Not only will we explore the importance of these discussions, but we'll also delve into real-life examples and personal stories that illustrate the impact of these decisions. Don't miss this candid...

In this insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, delve into meaningful conversations about life, fatherhood, and personal growth with host and special guest Quintin Harris. Through compelling dialogue, they explore the nuances of fatherhood, the importance of being present, and navigating the intricacies of marriage. Discover how personal experiences and shared wisdom shape their journey, and gain practical advice on effective parenting and relationship building. Tune in for an episode rich in life lessons and heartfelt moments. Don't forget to subscribe for more engaging conversations.

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In this captivating episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the realm of double standards. Designed to provide young boys and men with wisdom they can use today, this conversation addresses the real-life implications of double standards across parenting, relationships, and societal expectations. Discover Jay Black's and D John's personal experiences and candid thoughts on subjects such as the differing rules for sons and daughters, the unique dynamics in marital relationships, and the societal pressures young men face today. Don't miss out on this engaging discussion that offers both heartfelt advice...

In this captivating episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the profound conversations about fatherhood and the pivotal moments of their sons' recent high school graduations. They discuss the journey from adolescence to adulthood, the impact of newfound independence, and the responsibilities that come with it. Key topics include the emotional whirlwind of seeing their sons graduate, the importance of letting them face life's challenges to build character, and the realities of parenting double standards. Join the discussion as they share personal stories and advice, making this an essential episode for...

Welcome to another powerful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into what it truly means to take responsibility for our actions and lives. From the pressures of leading a family to the evolving challenges young boys face today, this episode sheds light on the idea that 'It's On Me.' Tune in as we discuss the importance of accountability, share personal stories, and offer invaluable advice to help young men navigate their paths. Don't miss this eye-opening conversation — like, share, and subscribe to stay updated on our latest episodes!

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In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, host D Johns engages in a profound conversation with Nate Cottman, a repeat guest known for his insights on masculine vulnerability and love. Join them as they discuss fatherhood, relationships, and the essence of intentional living. Nate opens up about his journey of personal growth, his thoughts on dating with intention, and the powerful lessons he's learned along the way. This episode is a must-watch for anyone navigating the complexities of marriage, fatherhood, and personal evolution. Don't miss out on these valuable insights and heartfelt moments. Make sure to subscribe to...

Welcome to the Dead Son Show, where we dive deep into the essence of fatherhood, forefathers, those with and without fathers. Join hosts D. Johns and Jane as they share personal experiences, discuss connecting with their sons, and highlight the importance of affirmation and open communication. This episode goes beyond the surface, touching on crucial aspects such as the dangers of conflicting views on manhood, the importance of hugging your children, and the necessity of being a well-rounded role model. Whether you're a father or anticipating fatherhood, this conversation is rich with insights to help you build stronger, more...

In this deeply heartfelt episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac hold an essential conversation about life through the lens of fatherhood. They cover significant topics that affect us all: preparing for mortality, the importance of spiritual grounding, and the necessity of financial responsibility. They share personal stories and insights, emphasizing the need for transparent and early discussions on grief, loss, and life planning. Don't miss out on their invaluable advice and actionable steps to better navigate fatherhood and personal growth. Subscribe now to ensure you never miss an impactful episode.

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In this powerful episode of The Dear Son, Show, our host, D Johns, engages in a deep and meaningful conversation with Xavier Miller, a remarkable guest who shares his unique life experiences. From growing up in the segregated neighborhoods of Chicago to joining the Air Force and eventually diving into entrepreneurship, Xavier opens up about the lessons he learned along the way. The discussion touches on the significance of fatherhood, the challenges of maintaining strong family relationships, and the invaluable advice received from elders. If you’re seeking wisdom on personal growth, leadership, and the delicate balance of life, th...

Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive into the importance of having real, impactful conversations with young boys and men on the verge of major life milestones. Drawing from personal experiences, the hosts discuss how to ask the right questions to get meaningful answers, the importance of checking in beyond routine responses, and why it's vital to support your children's true passions—even if they differ from your expectations. This powerful discussion is also inspired by a recent tragedy, emphasizing the importance of doing real-life check-ins. If you want to eq...

Join us on this episode of The Dear Son, Show, where host D Johns engages in a profound conversation with educator extraordinaire Mr. Carvell Dangerfield. Dive into the intricate world of fatherhood, education, and personal growth as Mr. Dangerfield shares invaluable insights from his life journey. Discover the challenges and triumphs of raising a son, the impact of technology on today's youth, and the delicate balance of guiding students both in and out of the classroom. This episode is filled with relatable stories, practical advice, and a powerful call to be more intentional in our roles as fathers and...

Join hosts D Johns and Jey Blac for a captivating episode of The Dear Son, Show, where they unpack the intricacies of 'Man Code' in the context of fatherhood, relationships, and personal growth. From hilarious personal anecdotes to deep reflections, this episode dives into the phases of manhood and how societal expectations shape our boys into men. The hosts discuss the importance of emotionally intelligent conversations, the generational transfer of values, and the evolving definition of masculinity. Don't miss out on their insights about modern parenting, the impact of peer pressure, and the importance of providing comprehensive guidance to...

Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, host D Johns sits down with the remarkable Johnny L. Collins II for a heartfelt and insightful conversation about fatherhood, legacy, and the pivotal moments that shape our lives. From Johnny's early years in the title business to his reflections on being a son and a father, this episode delves deep into the lessons learned and the values passed down through generations. Johnny shares his personal stories, the wisdom imparted by his late father, and his own unique approach to parenting. Don't miss this inspiring and thought-provoking discussion that promises...

In this engaging episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the challenges and rewards of parenting, personal development, and setting goals. From navigating the teenage years and prepping for graduation, to discussing personal and professional growth, the hosts provide invaluable insights and anecdotes that resonate with both parents and young adults alike. Join the conversation as they share personal stories, discuss the pressures of achievement, and explore the balance of individual desires and communal responsibilities. Plus, stay tuned for a major announcement that promises to add more excitement to the journey...

Welcome to The Dear Son, Show, where we engage in meaningful conversations about life from the perspective of fatherhood. In this episode, join host D Johns and special guest Stanley Nash Jr. for a candid discussion on fatherhood, life lessons, and personal growth. Stanley Nash Jr., a father, husband, and community influencer, shares his journey from growing up in a close-knit, rural community to becoming a voice of positive change. Hear about his upbringing, the impact of his father's guidance, and how he strives to instill the same values in his daughters. This episode offers a heartfelt exploration of...

In this enlightening episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in a heartfelt discussion about life through the lens of fatherhood, marriage, and personal growth. They share their experiences and challenges, providing invaluable insights for fathers, sons, and the fatherless. As they celebrate personal milestones—10 and 20 years of marriage—they talk about the importance of communication, understanding, and self-awareness in maintaining a successful relationship. The episode also touches on the transformation that comes with marriage, emphasizing how it pushes individuals to be their best selves. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation, and don't forg...

In this episode of the Dear Son Show, host D Johns sits down with the inspiring TJ Davidson for an engaging conversation that delves into life through the lens of fatherhood. They discuss the significance of open communication in relationships, the impact of corporate careers on family life, and the journey of self-identification beyond job titles. Both fathers talk about their parenting philosophies, the sacrifices they've made, and the importance of showing their children how to strive for greatness. Join us for a heartfelt conversation that touches on everything from raising kids to overcoming career challenges and finding true...

Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In honor of Women's History Month, we deviate from our usual discussions and delve into the perspectives of women on fatherhood and men's roles in society. This episode features the amazing Lee Greer as she shares her experiences growing up as the youngest child in a household with both parents. Lee reflects on the strong bond with her father, her childhood in Dallas (TX), and the invaluable life lessons she acquired. Through this heartfelt conversation, Lee reveals how her father's unwavering support and guidance have shaped her confidence and outlook on relationships. Tune...

Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Myer Krah to delve into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. Whether you’re a father, have a father, or grew up fatherless—this episode is for you. Myer and I discuss the trials and triumphs of raising children, the pivotal role fathers play in their sons' lives, and the transformative power of open and honest conversations. We explore our experiences growing up, the mistakes we’ve made, and how sharing these stories can prevent our kids from making similar errors. Learn why so...

In this deeply moving episode of The Dear Son Show, host D. Johns welcomes Cory L Hughes for a powerful conversation about fatherhood, personal growth, and overcoming childhood trauma. Cory shares his emotional journey of growing up with an angry father, dealing with authority issues, and how those experiences shaped his relationships and parenting style. From discussing his tumultuous childhood in Chicago to re-evaluating love and commitment after a life-changing divorce, Cory's candid reflections offer invaluable lessons for fathers and sons alike. This episode is a must-watch for anyone looking to understand the complex layers of manhood and fatherhood...

In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the nuances of 'gentle parenting' and question whether 'Punk A Parenting' has a place in today's world. They highlight the importance of setting firm boundaries for children and consistently enforcing them. The conversation also explores how rewarding the right behavior and ensuring that punishments are fair and proportional to the infractions can shape well-rounded and resilient young adults. With compelling anecdotes and deep reflections, this episode offers valuable insights into the complexities of parenting, the impact of tradition, and the necessity of adapting...

In this heartfelt episode of the Dear Son Show, the host dives deep into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. The special guest, Lamont Moore, shares his inspiring journey of battling kidney failure, the challenges of waiting for a transplant, and the transformative power of family support. The episode highlights the critical importance of regular health screenings for fathers and stresses the necessity of open communication about health status with loved ones. Through candid dialogue, this episode aims to inspire fathers to prioritize their health and stay present for their families. Don't miss this powerful discussion...

Welcome to today's episode of The Dear Son Show! Join hosts Jey Blac and D Johns as they dive deep into the crucial conversation about 'Teen Privacy vs. Traditional Parenting.' In this engaging and relatable episode, our hosts share personal anecdotes and practical advice on setting appropriate boundaries for children of all ages. Discover why it's essential for parents to balance offering their children privacy while maintaining oversight to ensure their well-being. Learn about the importance of being relatable to your children to foster open and honest communication. Don't miss this insightful discussion that every parent needs to...

In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosted by D Johns, with a special guest Joe T. Baker III, we dive deep into the meaningful conversations around fatherhood and life lessons, focusing on the impact of Hip-Hop culture on our youth. D Johns opens up about the show's mission to provide valuable insights for fathers, those with fathers, and the fatherless. Joe T. Baker III shares his personal journey, highlighting the challenges of re-entering society and striving for consistency and balance. This episode also covers the significance of evaluating one's circle, standing against wrongdoing, and the extensive impact...

In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into the complex dynamics of adults living with their parents. They discuss the essential need for open and honest communication between parents and their adult children. From setting clear timelines and milestones to addressing the potential pitfalls of over-parenting, this conversation is packed with valuable insights. Discover strategies to work collaboratively with your adult children to ensure a successful transition to independence. Special segments include personal stories, expert tips, and a hot discussion on the ramifications of not establishing boundaries. Don't miss this engaging...

In this emotional and powerful episode of The Dear Son, Show, host D Johns welcomes Joe T Baker III, a man whose life story is a roller-coaster of crime, redemption, and ultimately, transformation. Joe discusses his tumultuous relationship with his father, who was in prison for most of Joe's life, and how that absence contributed to his own path of crime from a young age. With raw honesty, Joe recounts how he ended up serving a 10-year prison sentence, only to experience a life-changing revelation that set him on a new path. From writing his first book in prison...

In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into powerful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. From reflecting on their own past mistakes to discussing the value of being present and honest with their children, no topic is off-limits. They candidly share their experiences with college life, reckless behavior, and near-miss accidents, highlighting the importance of open communication with their sons to prevent the same pitfalls. Both hosts emphasize the critical role of fathers in guiding their children and the importance of making wise choices. Tune in for heartfelt confessions...

In this special episode of The Dear Son, Show, host D Johns is joined by his 17-year-old son for an intimate and eye-opening conversation about life, personal growth, and the transition into adulthood. As they discuss the importance of fatherhood, the challenges of making wise choices, and the dynamics of their own relationship, this episode underscores the role of fathers in shaping their children's lives. Together, they explore themes of responsibility, legacy, and open communication, making it a must-watch for anyone interested in the impact of fatherhood on a child's journey into manhood.

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In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns kick off the new year with heartfelt reflections and meaningful conversations about fatherhood, family, and personal growth. They discuss their experiences bringing in the new year, complete with birthday celebrations and family outings. As they look ahead to 2025, they set ambitious goals to strengthen their relationships with their children, enhance their parenting techniques, and improve their personal well-being. By addressing topics such as family dynamics, economic transitions, and making conscious efforts to better themselves, they offer valuable insights and actions that can inspire all parents...

Join hosts Jey Blac and D Johns on a thought-provoking episode of The Dear Son, Show, where they dive into the profound topic of 'Toxicity Has No Gender.' This episode is a deep exploration of societal labels, the dynamics of masculinity and femininity, and the impacts of toxic parenting. They emphasize the importance of genuine conversations between fathers and their children and challenge the stereotypes that often surround toxic behaviors. This episode is packed with personal anecdotes, practical advice, and a call for honesty in the family dynamics, especially as the holiday season brings families together. Tune in...

In this enriching episode of 'The Dear Son Show,' host D. Johns reconnects with Avalon Elliott, a returning guest who shares profound insights into fatherhood and marriage. They discuss Avalon’s journey from struggling to thriving, touching on key aspects like emotional health, understanding identity, and creating a nurturing environment for their families. From personal stories to actionable advice, this conversation covers the basics of protecting, providing, and preserving as husbands and fathers. Tune in to hear how Avalon managed to find balance and clarity, and what excites him most about his evolving relationships with his wife and ch...

Welcome to 'The Dear Son, Show' where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into dynamic conversations about fatherhood, life, and personal growth. They discuss the transition from summer to fall, highlight the challenges of raising multiple children, and celebrate personal milestones like birthdays. The episode emphasizes the importance of focusing on the race rather than the pace in life, underscoring that everyone’s journey is unique. They reflect on their individual growth, the significance of maintaining a balanced life, and the importance of being transparent. The episode serves as a reminder to cherish friendships, remain dedicated to personal he...

In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into the crucial, yet often overlooked, conversations young men should be having about fatherhood. They candidly discuss their personal experiences and the profound impact of communication in relationships and parenting. The episode highlights the importance of being open to guidance and advice, especially from older men, and how not communicating effectively can lead to misunderstandings and unresolved issues. The hosts emphasize the necessity of transparent conversations in cultivating strong, healthy relationships, addressing misconceptions about male emotional vulnerability, and the vital role that fathers play...

In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, Forrest Laurent returns for a deep and meaningful conversation about life through the lens of fatherhood. This discussion spans various topics including overcoming personal struggles, the impact of family and fatherhood, dealing with loss and grief, and the challenges of being an influencer. Forrest shares his experiences with handling temptations, the importance of compatibility in relationships, and finding guidance without a father figure. The conversation is thoughtful, introspective, and aims to offer insights for fathers, those with fathers, and the fatherless.

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In this insightful episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D. Johns and J. Black dive into the complex yet rewarding journey of fatherhood and blended families. Joined by guest Tim Nicholas, they unpack their personal experiences and challenges, including topics like acceptance, enmeshment, discipline, and communication. Through meaningful dialogue, they explore the ups and downs of co-parenting and the importance of being present and intentional as a father. This episode is a heartfelt look at how fatherhood shapes lives and the vital role men play in the nurturing of their children, regardless of biological ties.

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In this episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss a wide range of topics relevant to fathers and parents. They begin by sharing their personal experiences with their children's education, focusing on finding the right balance between guiding them and allowing independence. Conversations cover understanding life's battles versus wars, the role of cliches, and the importance of forward thinking. They address the dichotomy of allowing children to pursue their passions versus steering them towards more lucrative careers, and how to prepare them for life's challenges. The episode also touches on serious issues like...

In this episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in a heartfelt discussion that touches on life through the lens of fatherhood. They explore the impact of recent elections, the role of societal and emotional factors in decision-making, and how these elements intersect with their responsibilities as fathers. The conversation also delves into the importance of community, personal growth, and preparing the younger generation for the complexities of the world. Additionally, they discuss how political outcomes can affect personal priorities and the importance of maintaining perspective amid shifting societal dynamics. The hosts emphasize...

In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D. Johns and Jay Black engage in a heartfelt discussion about the pressures of fatherhood, the struggles of being perceived as strong, and the importance of vulnerability. They reflect on their personal experiences, share lessons learned from their fathers, and discuss how they are navigating these concepts with their own children. The conversation explores various perceptions of strength, the consequences of unaddressed emotions, and the importance of seeking help and support. Tune in for an insightful dialogue on the realities of fatherhood and life.

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Join hosts J Black and D Johns on The Dear Son Show as they dive deep into meaningful conversations about fatherhood, parenting, and life lessons. In this episode, they discuss the critical distinctions between tolerating and enabling behaviors in children, reflect on their personal experiences with these challenges, and share valuable insights on maintaining balance and accountability within the family. Tune in for relatable stories, practical advice, and a heartfelt dialogue aimed at fostering better father-child relationships.

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In this episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' hosts J Black and D Johns engage in a meaningful conversation about responsibility, preparedness, and the unexpected lessons life throws at us. They discuss a personal experience involving an unintentional firearm incident at an airport, the implications, and the importance of being judgmental and aware of one's surroundings. The hosts also delve into the evolution of friendship loyalty, gun safety, and how these topics are crucial conversations to have with their children. The episode concludes with an exciting announcement about the 'Dear Son, Network' obtaining its trademark, signifying a major...

In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D. Johns and Jey Blac delve into meaningful conversations about life, fatherhood, and the challenges they face. They discuss personal struggles, including health issues, aging parents, and the evolving dynamics of family leadership. The episode touches on themes of resilience, the importance of understanding one's 'why,' and the impact of personal battles on family and business. They also reflect on the balance between external motivations and internal well-being, emphasizing the significance of staying true to one's core values. Alongside personal anecdotes, they explore how pride, loyalty, and the need...

In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac have candid conversations about fostering better family life and personal growth on the cusp of the New Year. They discuss the importance of lightening the load at home, being more active in family roles, the art of delegating responsibilities, and managing frustrations. They also delve into the significance of setting resolutions, staying true to them, treating goals as daily commitments, and having a healthier, more intentional lifestyle. Importantly, they highlight the cruciality of self-care, checking in on family and friends, and treating group efforts seriously...

In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts Jay Black and D John engage in significant, reflective discussions regarding the quotidian influences that shape their sons' characters and actions. Drawing lessons from current events, such as the Club Shay Shay interview controversy (without focusing on the actual dispute), they transition to personal parenting experiences unveiling implications of hasty conclusions and the significance of influence. Insights are shared on how teenagers' actions can lead to severe consequences while shedding light on recognizing their own influence over friends. The hosts consider the prevalence of passing quick judgments based on limited...

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In this free-flowing conversation, the two hosts discuss various socio-cultural and personal topics. They delve into the complexity of navigating life, addressing their journey with personal growth, authenticity, and their experiences as fathers. They reflect on the power of ego, the influence of people around them, the role of effective communication, expectations in relationships, and the significance of self-awareness. They touch upon the repercussions of false accusations, the impact of fabricated narratives, and the societal inclination to amplify negativity. An important aspect of their discussion...

Sometimes you just need to slow down. In this episode, we discuss various personal experiences to emphasize the importance of slowing down in life. We got into our hectic daily schedules, balancing family and work, overcommitting to tasks, and the challenges of entrepreneurship. This conversation highlights the importance of effective communication within families and re-evaluating their priorities to maintain a healthy work-life balance.

This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you...

This platform focuses on lessons we’ve learned as men and how we apply them to fatherhood. Sometimes we need to take a step back and identify what we’re learning from our children. We used this episode to be very intentional about giving our children their flowers. The assignment was for each of us to bring five lessons to the episode, but we didn’t compare notes. Luckily, the lists didn’t overlap… so we’re really delivering the top 10 lessons we’ve learned from our children. 

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The fatherhood journey has emotional phases. We should talk about that more. At some point, just being resilient isn’t enough. I encourage all fathers to find safe spaces to emotionally dump the toxins within. That’s what this episode was for me. If you feel a way, process that feeling. When necessary, seek professional help.  

This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into t...

Purpose is heavy and often looks foreign to others. Stay the course. 

This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it.

We learned quite about ourselves durin...

Dear son, I went too far! We don’t discuss this often, but I was once a child. Not only was I a child, but a very stupid one at different phases. Well, maybe not a stupid child, but if you isolated certain actions and behaviors, you could easily classify me as stupid-adjacent.  This was a very lighthearted discussion, and it the message is impactful. Yes, those two seemingly opposing concepts can be simultaneously true. Enjoy the banter, but don’t miss the jewels. 

We took advantage of this safe space to evaluate how far the...

Dear son, the torch is yours! I think every proud father looks forward to the day when he knows his son is ready to the lead the family. There’s no generic timeline for this transition of authority, and the path is nuanced for each scenario. What does the preparation look like? Do fathers and sons even discuss this in advance or do most wait for an untimely life event to thrust the weight of patriarchy onto an unsuspecting son.  

I also want to believe that my son will be ready, yet this conversation caus...

Dear son, don’t prey on broken women. In this age of opportunity and seemingly unlimited access to everything, don’t allow women to become a commodity in your mind. Every opportunity to gain, isn’t a good or fair opportunity, especially when it comes to women. The simple truth is that how you treat them is always a reflection of you. The woman you choose reflects your decision making, tolerances, and morals. Remember that. 

Now, I’ll dismount my high horse to communicate more transparently and practically. This conversation stems from experiences (personal and obser...

Dear son, the black woman is not your enemy. Society, media, and entertainment platforms often present a monolithic, unrealistic representation of what black women are (or are not). The narrative is even reinforced within our community (by some) for some reason. Black men and women are often pitted against each other, fueling hatred and disdain… or at least that’s what “they” would have us believe. 

The narrative can only shift through a collective understanding of how we should be valued. Before that, we need to understand how valuable we are as individuals. It’s very hard...

Could you forgive a felon? Your answer may depend on the context, but should it? Order is a necessity in life. Order has several subcomponents such as structure, law, and consequences. One of the most extreme consequences is incarceration. This conversation isn’t about agreeing about law or the repercussions of breaking the law. What happens to those individuals after they’ve paid their debt to society? 

Your response to the last question above probably depends on the context as well. Many could care less about how a felon returns to society if they aren’...

Dear son, life has cycles. Highs and lows are a part of life, but have you ever stopped to evaluate the associated patterns? Sometimes we revisit lessons that are presented multiple times throughout our lives. Is your natural response to complain about your current circumstance or learn from it? If you give this careful consideration, your final answer may not match your initial response. 

The other interesting thing about cycles, specifically in a family dynamic, is that it will not only repeat in your life, but it is likely to show up in the l...

This conversation was so necessary. For most men, there’s a little boy spirit that is tough to evict. It shows up in different ways for different individuals. A consistent theme from this discussion is that little boys need their fathers, even when they become adults. 

Chapo and Savv (The Chop It Up Podcast) stopped by the set to share several vulnerable moments from their childhood, teenage, and adult years. The stories are too deep to capture here, but this was definitely an emotional roller coaster for me. One thing is for certain, and tha...

The title is a bit jarring by intent, but is it inaccurate? Every day we hear about acts of violence and malice, but the assailants and orchestrators are getting younger. For some, that’s all they’ve been given, or at least, that’s what they see in their environments most frequently. In other scenarios, the children are blessed with a loving two-parent household that seemingly doesn’t struggle financially or emotionally. So, what’s happening?

This discussion was inspired by a social media clip featuring Charleston White. He’s a polarizing persona by design, and...

Stop! Don't! Sit down! Wait! Just be patient. Sound familiar? If not to you, then ask your children how often they've heard these exclamatory statements. Sometimes these outburst are warranted whether to keep the child safe or to keep the child from harming someone or something else. Other times, parents are just too far spent with life to deal with an annoying request for mild and cookies (oat milk, of course). 

What is the lesson for the parent? That's simple...take a dose of your own medicine. Life comes at you fast, and sometimes w...

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The journey of manhood is nuanced. We are often called to be everything to everyone at the expense of knowing our purpose and identity. Some would argue that those concepts are interchangeable, and yes, they are similar; however, they are not the same. 

In this series launch, we assembled 16 panelists, men from varying walks of life, to discuss what some might consider a very simply defined word, identity. We learned very quickly th...

What is your motive for success? For some it’s personal, while others have an external “why.” Ultimately, most of us are either doing it for the castle or for the crowd. Stated differently, we’re pursuing success to take care of our home (the castle) or to impress those outside of our home. The delineation is vanity, doing the thing to be seen and praised.

Sometimes our motives are misaligned. The effort looks good and plausible from the outside, but internally, the individual is pursuing selfish gain. Even though the outcome may seem positive...

The burden of manhood is heavy. Sometimes we get weighed down with its duties and responsibilities, which leaves little room for an expectation of being loved the way we want and need to be. Some men want a fairy tale love too. This may be a hot take for some, and others may assume the title is just for the views, but I challenge you to really give this some thought. A fairy tale is just a curated escape from reality. I’d submit that everyone has (or has had) those moments in life. 

For...

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The curse of the unworthy is a quiet disruptor, distancing many men from the life they deserve. Many of us constantly speak negative outcomes over our lives because we simply believe that our past mistakes define who we are. Sure, the bad behaviors must be addressed, but once they are in the past, we cannot allow them to be the ceiling to our joy, peace, freedom, success, wealth, and love that we crave (and deserve). 

This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of...

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The journey of manhood is nuanced. We are often called to be everything to everyone at the expense of knowing our purpose and identity. Some would argue that those concepts are interchangeable, and yes, they are similar; however, they are not the same. 

In this series launch, we assembled 16 panelists, men from varying walks of life, to discuss what some might consider a very simply defined word, identity. We learned very quickly th...

Enjoy the visual experience here: https://youtu.be/1N1VrNMuEco

Dear Son, the world will offer you many definitions of what a man is and how he is expected to behave. Most of these definitions are filtered through the lens of personal experiences. Some may sound logical while others will clearly sound farfetched. It’s important that you understand how to recognize your full range of emotions and embrace them responsibly.   

Merriam-Webster defines masculinity as “the quality or nature of the male; the quality, state, or degree of being masculine or manly.” Many will...

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Dear Son, It isn’t what it looks like! Sometimes we see things and people how they are presented to us, not knowing what is really happening at the core. We live in a microwave, celebratory, highlight reel of a world. Our timelines are constantly flooded with unimaginable lifestyles, wins, and “goals” that shape how we view and value success.  

Comparison has been stealing joy for centuries. It may be more pronounced at different stages of life, but it is always p...

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Dear Son, don’t jump out the window for your friends! This is a metaphor for being so passionate about a person or a thing that you rush to defend the person or thing no matter what. Your friend says that someone hurts their feelings, and you’ve already put your boxing gloves on, ready to spar. You don’t even know if the friend antagonized the person, and you really don’t care. It’s up! 

Jumping out the window...

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I have a tough time understanding why some parents introduce their child as their best friend. I’m not talking about an adult parent and adult child, but literal kids (toddlers in some cases). There are so many barriers to creating that kind of relationship in my mind, but this conversation may have changed that. 

There are several circumstances that yield single parenthood. I can understand how parent-child friendships form when they are all they’ve got, or at least they...

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Practice DOES NOT make perfect. This is a fact. Practice only makes you consistently good at what you do in practice. Practice wrong…you’ll surely play wrong. Practice long, and you’ll only gain endurance. Perfect practice is the only key to greatness. Don’t you agree?

This may initially sound like a harsh take, but it’s pretty sound when you think about it. Repetition builds muscle memory, and eventually creates a habit or an almost sub...

I’m willing to pay for convenience, and I’m not ashamed of that. When it’s time to travel, upgrade me please and thank you. If I’m driving to an event, front row park me for a fee. If I’m bored on the plane, take my money, and give me internet. I, like many, want what I want when I want it. 

Unfortunately, that convenience-craving character doesn’t easily detach from my roles as father and husband. Through repetition, it became a way of life and has robbed my family of meaningful op...

Dear Son, choose your wife carefully! Choosing a spouse is one of the most important decisions anyone can make in life. It’s a very intentional process, or at least it should be. The process is longer for some than it is for others, but there isn’t a process that guarantees favorable results after “I do.” Many feel like marriage isn’t worth it. I believe a healthy marriage is.

People change, that’s just a constant in life. These changes differ by the individual and occur at different phases of life. This can take a t...

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Dear Son, are you ready or are you prepared? Those are not interchangeable terms, as some may assume. Let's take an honest look back at various decision points throughout our lives for context. A teenager that doesn't care for his parents' rules, may believe (with full conviction) that he is ready to move out. Emotionally, that may be true, but is he really prepared to handle life independently? Maybe a young woman is so ready to be married that she accepts the first...

Dear Son, It's bigger than you! Life is a series of choices. Some choices you make, and others are made for you. All of it is connected though, especially within a household. Every member of the family has a unique value to offer that dictates its legacy.

Have you ever been curious about how successful families become household names? Johnson & Johnson, the Ford family and many others have created business empires that have survived and thrived for several generations. Do you think there was at least one generation that wanted to do something different...

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Dear Son, you will be better because of me, not in spite of me.  A common sentiment amongst parents is the desire to provide a better experience to their children than what they had as a child. Every generation should be greater than the previous one, I agree. Sometimes we need to assess the source of our motivation to do or be better in life. In my opinion, anytime success is rooted in resentment, that’s a dangerous place to operate. Revenge parenting goes both ways. 

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The journey of manhood is nuanced. We are often called to be everything to everyone at the expense of knowing our purpose and identity. Some would argue that those concepts are interchangeable, and yes, they are similar; however, they are not the same. 

In this series launch, we assembled 16 panelists, men from varying walks of life, to discuss what some might consider a very simply defined word, identity. We learned very quickly that while everyone understood the assignment, there wasn't necessarily one correct answer. Nerves a...

Sometimes we just need to acknowledge when our children a great job and shut up. Seriously, too often praise is delivered with a slight sprinkle of shade. Need example? “Hey son, you did a great job cutting the grass, but next time do it like this.” If this sounds familiar, congratulations on admitting it. I hear that’s the first step to most recovery processes. There’s a time and place for constructive criticism. The frequency of communicating it is as important as the delivery method. 

We had a candid conversation about where we’ve struggle...

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Are you a bridge or a wall? Without context, one may seem more positive than the other. Consider what the bridge connects and what the wall protects. I’ll wait. Either can facilitate or stifle successful relationships with your children. Did your answer change?

Ideally, parents always have their children’s best interest in mind, and would NEVER do, say, or block anything that would harm their future. I wish life really was that simple. The real-life version of parenting ofte...

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Discipline is a critical component of success. It's the principle that keeps you pushing forward when life seems to be working against you. As a parent, there's another side to the coin...how you discipline your children. Some of us discipline for correction, and others, for control. 

Discipline can be administered in many forms. We won't all agree on what's acceptable in every home, but I challenge this audience to reach a consensus on what is an acceptable motive for t...

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"If I would've known then what I know now"...is a common copout. Yep, I said it. This is literally the adult version of "I can teleport," as my 8-year-old often proclaims. For argument's sake, let's play this out. What would father of 5 me tell father of 1 me? A lot!

Becoming a parent is a wonderfully terrifying experience; at least it was for me. I'm willing to bet that this sentiment is shared across many families, cultures, and ethnicities...

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Have you ever reflected on your life and experienced feelings of regret? Even in the mildest case, one typically spends at least a few moments traveling down the hypothetical road of 'what if.' If you haven't, then now is the perfect time to fail.

We had a candid conversation about the importance of embarking upon the unknown before life convinces that there's only one path to success (college... 40 years at a job...retire). It was all so simple when...

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The journey of manhood is layered. We are often called to be everything to everyone at the expense of knowing our purpose and identity. Some would argue that those concepts are interchangeable, and yes, they are similar; however, they are not the same. 

In this series launch, we assembled 16 panelists, men from varying walks of life, to discuss what some might consider a very simply defined word, identity. We learned very quickly that while everyone understood the assignment, there wasn't necessarily o...

Enjoy the visual experience: https://youtu.be/X_0mbUgt0HE

How far will you go for your son? Many parents proudly tout that they are willing to do anything for their children. The reality is that most of us will do anything (within reason) if our children are "representing the family correctly." What happens when they take on a moral compass that looks nothing like ours? While there are parents that will never turn their back on their children, most of us haven't been tested in a way that challenges that notion.

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What are we really teaching our sons about dating? Is this even a conversation anymore, or was it ever for that matter? Dear Son, nice guys finish last! That might be a myth but jerks certainly don’t win the race. Perhaps there’s a middle ground that will position our young men to mature into respectful companions for the right young lady.

We had a lively discussion about the importance of dating with clarity and intention. Our sons need to be awar...

This episode is just as the title implies. Am I about to pop? Every man (that I know) has come face-to-face with an ‘about to pop’ moment at some stage of life. For some of us, this is a mile marker at every phase, from adolescence to the elderly years. While seemingly inevitable, the more important part is how we show up in those moments. 

Losing a source of income, losing a relationship, losing health, or perhaps even losing a family member can trigger anxiety, feelings of inferiority, and uncertainty. Conversely, those ‘about to pop’ mo...