The Queer Family Podcast – LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories
By: Jaimie Kelton – Queer Parenting & LGBTQ Families'.
Language: en-US
Categories: Kids, Family, Parenting, Health, Fitness, Sexuality, Society
The show all about family; but with gay! A hilarious and heartfelt dive into LGBTQ family life, parenting, and the challenges queer families face. Hosted by queer mom Jaimie Kelton, The Queer Family Podcast brings you weekly interviews with LGBTQIA+ guests exploring how they made their families and how they navigate a world that wasn’t necessarily built for them. The mission? To normalize, elevate, and celebrate queer family life—while proving we’re just like other parents... trying (and often failing) not to lose it when our kid still isn’t wearing shoes and we’re 25 minutes late. Through laughter...
Episodes
Surrogacy Without the Waitlist: Inside Be Parent with Founder Naia
Dec 15, 2025Jaimie talks with Naia, founder of Be Parent Surrogacy, about international surrogacy options, what intended parents can expect when working with an agency, and how Be Parent supports LGBTQIA+ families with transparency, ethics, and hands-on care. Naia also shares her own IVF story and her real-time sperm donor search—including why she’s choosing to freeze embryos as a future “insurance policy.
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The “quiet times” in family-building are real—and consistent support from an agency can make the waiting feel less lonely.LGBTQIA+ families often enter the process with excitement because we know we’ll need help from the st... Duration: 00:42:37Anish & Miguel: A Surrogacy Masterclass from Berlin
Dec 08, 2025Anish & Miguel are two dads in Berlin who recently welcomed their son, Alexander, through agency-based surrogacy. And listen — some of us (cough… Jaimie… cough) approached queer family building with good vibes and very few spreadsheets. But THESE TWO? Absolute meticulous gay dad excellence. From cross-country agency visits, to karyotype testing, to annual goal-setting (“become parents” was literally on the list!), Anish and Miguel walk us through the entire surrogacy process with clarity, honesty, and so much heart. This episode is truly a surrogacy masterclass — a must-listen for anyone exploring this path.
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Surrogacy through an agency is all about tr... Duration: 00:56:37Two Moms, One Donor: Sam & Laura Abbey on IVF, Extra Sperm & Raising Their Donor-Conceived Boys
Dec 01, 2025Sam & Laura Abbey are BACK, y’all. The last time they were on the show it was still called If These Ovaries Could Talk, they only had one kid, and their Bravo reality show moment had just helped catapult them into queer family-building visibility.
Seven years and two very boy-ish boys later, we’re catching up on IVF paid out of pocket (twice), using the same sperm donor for both kids, what happens when you over- or under-buy sperm, and yes—having to literally sign paperwork to “dispose” of a leftover vial while a straight guy wrestles with the “...
Duration: 00:37:46Ash on Queer Birth Justice, Pregnancy & Palestine
Nov 24, 2025Midwife, parent, nurse, educator, and proud Palestinian Ash joins Jaimie for a powerful, expansive conversation that connects queer birth work, liberation, bodily autonomy, and the politics of modern healthcare. From becoming a parent before coming into their trans identity, to the crisis inside U.S. obstetrics, to creating community-centered birth education for queer & trans families, Ash brings depth, clarity, and truth. The episode also touches on Ash’s ties to Palestine, why so many people are re-examining the narrative they were taught, and how to learn, help, and show up with intention.
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Birth is not inherent... Duration: 00:56:14Queer Parenting and Interracial Family Life: Navigating Donor Conception and LGBTQ Family Challenges
Nov 17, 2025Jaimie chats with Yanica & Leah, the interracial two-mom family behind @thefaustinfam, about building a queer family with intention. They discuss their donor conception journey, navigating race and colorism, raising multiracial donor-conceived kids, second-parent adoption, coming out stories, and parenting free spirited little humans in the South.
If you love stories about LGBTQ family building, intentional parenting, mixed-race families, and queer joy — this episode is everything.
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Queer parents—especially interracial two-mom families—have to parent with deep intention.Yanica & Leah went from “straight best friends” to realizing they couldn’t live without each other.Coming out requi... Duration: 01:09:17Kirsty Loehr: From Reciprocal IVF to Blended Family and Writing Our History
Nov 10, 2025Author and educator Kirsty Loehr joins Jaimie to share her beautifully messy story of queer family building — from reciprocal IVF with her ex-wife to co-parenting their 4-year-old son and now navigating life in a blended family with her new partner and her partner’s two kids.
Kirsty talks candidly about the breakup that came just months after welcoming her son, the challenges of 50/50 custody, and learning to blend families while balancing love, chaos, and new beginnings. She also shares the inspiration behind her new book, A Short History of Queer Parenting, a funny, accessible, and essential look at h...
Duration: 00:38:34No Accidents Here: Alon Rivel on Intentional Gay Parenting
Nov 03, 2025Alon Rivel joins Jaimie for a brutally honest, funny, and heartfelt conversation about what it really takes—emotionally, financially, and spiritually—to build a queer family through surrogacy. From his surrogate’s iconic one-liners (“I’m not keeping it”) to his reflection that queer parents are architects of love, Alon reminds us what intentional parenthood looks like.
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The intentionality of queer family building—“We don’t choose to be gay, but we choose to have families.”Growing up gay in a Jewish-Israeli household in New York, finding safety through love and community.The surrogacy process from start to finish... Duration: 00:53:02Mark & Eoin: Two Irish Dads, Two Daughters, and a Fight for Change
Oct 27, 2025Meet Mark and Eoin, two Irish dads proving that queer family building is both an act of love and of advocacy. Their path to fatherhood took them from Ireland to New York and Texas—navigating surrogacy independently, honoring their daughters’ Nigerian-Irish heritage, and pushing the Irish government to finally recognize families like theirs.
Together, they’ve turned loss, learning, and legislation into love and legacy. From discovering their donor’s culture to challenging outdated Irish surrogacy laws, Mark and Eoin remind us that sometimes the most radical thing LGBTQIA+ parents can do is parent out loud—and make the s...
Duration: 01:12:36From Cult Upbringing to Queer Co-Parenting
Oct 20, 2025What happens when you grow up in an evangelical cult, spend years closeted, marry to appease your family, and still find your way to queerness, healing, and chosen family? Therapist and author SC Nealy (they/she) joins Jaimie to share their powerful story of resilience and reinvention.
From a childhood in religious isolation to co-parenting two daughters one block away from their queerplatonic co-parent, SC shows us that family can be redefined—and joyfully so. They talk about surviving their eldest child’s terrifying medical crisis during COVID, leaving behind a judgmental family, building an affirming community, and...
Duration: 00:55:45Breaking the Binary: Maya Gonzalez and the Gender Wheel
Oct 13, 2025In this mind-expanding conversation, Jaimie sits down with Maya Gonzalez — genderqueer artist, author, publisher, educator, parent, and creator of The Gender Wheel — an innovative, nature-based framework that reimagines how we understand gender, identity, and self.
Maya takes us through their lifelong work of blending art, research, and spirit to help kids (and grownups!) move beyond the binary and return to connection — with themselves, with each other, and with nature. They talk about using children’s books, coloring pages, and even escape-room–style workshops to teach inclusivity and embodiment in playful, accessible ways.
The two also dive deep...
Duration: 00:57:11The Bio/Non-Bio Myth: Why Love, Not DNA, Makes a Family
Oct 06, 2025Episode Summary (Podcast Apps)
Kevin and Alim—longtime partners, dads of two, and global citizens—share how they built their family through Canadian surrogacy, what they looked for in an egg donor, and how they talk to their kids about donor conception using a “meet them where they are” approach. We get real about the bio vs. non-bio parent feelings (yes, they’re normal), the difference between a natural birth and a planned C-section as intended parents, and the constant “coming out” kids do at school. Kevin also serves as Vice Chair of Fertility Friends Foundation, a Canadian chari...
Duration: 00:51:14Screens, Teens, and Privilege: Positive Discipline and Tech Limits with Casey O’Roarty
Sep 29, 2025Screens are everywhere — but how do we keep them from taking over our kids’ lives? In this special ally episode, Jaimie sits down with Casey O’Roarty, a positive discipline trainer, parent coach, and host of the Joyful Courage podcast, to talk about raising kids in a high-tech world.
Casey shares practical strategies for balancing independence with safety, building critical thinking skills, setting real limits, and creating a united front with other parents. This candid conversation also weaves in Jaimie and Casey’s personal lives — both are supporting spouses through cancer — and how “life is lifing” for them while they...
Duration: 01:17:32Two Dads, One Mom, Zero Apologies | Therapist Ann Russo on Religious Trauma, Chosen Family & Queer Joy
Sep 22, 2025Queer therapist and “kid of queer parents” Ann Russo joins Jaimie to show what ordinary, extraordinary queer family looks like. Raised in the ’80s by a mom, dad, and dad’s partner under one roof—publicly “the roommate” for safety—Ann shares how chosen family (yes, Deadhead potlucks) and three parents taught compassion, and why bio vs. non-bio bonds never mattered. We get religious trauma 101: Ann’s fly-on-the-wall years inside a fundamentalist church as an out teen, what religious trauma is (and isn’t), and practical tools clients can use today—nervous-system grounding, boundary-setting, and how to vet an affirming therapist wi...
Duration: 00:47:20Jesse Callans: Transitioning While Parenting Four Kids + Writing Ollie in Between
Sep 15, 2025Transmasc author and parent Jesse Callans joins Jaimie to flip the parenting script. Jesse shares how he pressed pause on transition to build a family (surprise—then three more!), what it looked like to transition while his kids were 7, 4, 2, and 1, and how toddlers helped distill a complex change down to “the things that stay the same” (yes, there will still be spoons and napkins). We dig into gendered expectations in public, the patronizing “wow, you’re so good with them” dad compliments, and why communal, queer-inspired parenting beats competition every time. Jesse’s middle-grade novel Ollie in Between tackles puberty, ident...
Duration: 00:55:00What the New LGBTQ+ Study Really Says—And Why It Matters for Queer Families With Orion Rummler (The 19th) & Pew’s Rachel Minkin
Sep 08, 2025We went in-studio (!) with journalist Orion Rummler (The 19th) and Rachel Minkin (Pew Research Center, and a gay mom) to unpack Pew’s major 2025 study of LGBTQ+ Americans—released around the 10-year anniversary of Obergefell. We talk social acceptance gaps (L/G & bi vs. trans/nonbinary), how data actually moves policy, the everyday realities of queer family-building (hello, insurance barriers), chosen family, medical micro/macro-aggressions, and what comes next. Orion also shares reporting on transmasculine pregnancy; Rachel brings the numbers and her family story.
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Acceptance isn’t equal: 61% of LGBTQ adults see at least “a fair amount” of... Duration: 00:58:55José Rolón (NYC Gay Dad) and Luce Remy (Family Equality): Why LGBTQ+ Family Policy Helps Everyone
Sep 01, 2025In this Season 20 opener, Jaimie sits down in person (for the first time in years!) with two powerhouse voices in the LGBTQIA+ family-building world: José Rolón (aka NYC Gay Dad) and Luce Remey (VP of Public Policy at Family Equality). Together, they dive deep into what it really means to build, protect, and nurture queer families in today’s political climate. From navigating wills, Social Security benefits, and second-parent adoptions, to standing firm against legislative attacks on our rights, José and Luce remind us that our intentionality as queer parents comes with both gratitude and baggage—and that communi...
Duration: 01:07:31Bonus Replay: Redefining Parenthood: A Queer Guide to Modern Parenting
Aug 25, 2025🎉 Bonus Episode Alert! 🎉 Season 20 officially drops on September 1st, but while you wait, we’ve got one last bonus for you. This heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation redefines what it means to parent in our queer, messy, beautiful, modern world.
Writer, activist, and parent S. Bear Bergman sits down with Jaimie to explore love, family, and LGBTQIA identity against the backdrop of today’s political climate.
Bear shares his journey from coming out at 15 to more than 35 years of activism and parenting as a queer, trans parent. Together, they unpack the joys and challenges of inclusive parenting...
Duration: 01:06:35BONUS REPLAY: A Beautifully Complicated Transition with Emme Reynolds
Aug 18, 2025As we gear up for the launch of Season 20 this September, we're sharing some favorite past episodes that continue to resonate—because queer family-building is never just a one-time story.
Originally aired in Season 14, this episode features Emme Reynolds, a transgender parent of two in a newly blended family. Emme brings honesty, vulnerability, and wisdom to the conversation as she shares her personal journey of self-discovery, transition, and parenting.
In a world that often misunderstands or oversimplifies gender identity, Emme reminds us that transitioning isn’t a moment—it’s a lifelong process. She opens up about...
Duration: 00:58:55Bonus: Cruising Podcast Swap — Les Pierres, Love, and Queer Family in the Deep South
Aug 11, 2025While we gear up for Season 20 (September 1st!), I’m sharing something special — an episode swap with the fabulous podcast Cruising. They’re featuring one of my episodes on their feed, and I’m thrilled to bring one of theirs to you. This one’s a beautiful slice of queer history, love, and resilience.
Juanita Pierre and Leslie Martinez opened New Orleans' first Black-owned lesbian bar, Les Pierres, on the corner of Pauger St and N. Rampart St. No one can quite remember the exact date Les Pierres opened, but based on some other stories and dates, we can gue...
Duration: 01:08:37BONUS REPLAY: Flipping the Script on Foster Adoption
Aug 04, 2025🎉 BONUS REPLAY: Flipping the Script on Foster Adoption
As we gear up for the launch of Season 20 this September (!!!), I’m revisiting some of my favorite episodes from past seasons. These stories continue to resonate, inspire, and remind us why queer family visibility matters—every single day.
Originally aired in Season 13, this heartfelt and eye-opening episode features Ed Center, a husband, father, and educator who shares his family's journey through foster adoption with humor, grace, and deep honesty.
Ed and his husband—both Filipino men—broke stereotypes by adopting two white children, and their story...
Duration: 01:02:18BONUS! Navigating the Fertility Journey as a Queer Couple, with Jaimie Kelton
Jul 28, 2025🎉 BONUS EPISODE DROP! 🎉
As I get ready to launch Season 20 of The Queer Family Podcast this September(!), I’m sharing a few guest appearances that I think deserve a spot in this feed. This week, I joined Dr. Kelsey Duncan on The Fertility Confidence Podcast to talk candidly about queer fertility, intentional parenthood, donor selection, and the legal complexities that queer families face. If you're navigating the path to parenthood—or supporting someone who is—this one's for you.
Fertility, Donor Sperm, and Queer Parenthood with Jaimie Kelton
In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Jai...
Duration: 00:46:04Upstanders vs. Bystanders: Embracing Allyship for LGBTQ Families Everywhere with Jaimie Kelton
Jul 21, 2025🎉 Bonus Episode Drop! 🎉
While we gear up for Season 20 of The Queer Family Podcast, we're sharing this powerful conversation Jaimie had as a guest on the No Guilt Mom podcast! We talked all things queer family building, parenting with purpose, standing up (loudly) for what’s right—and yes, even voiceover work and musical theater. Enjoy this bonus episode while you wait for what's coming next!
Upstanders vs. Bystanders: Embracing Allyship for LGBTQ Families Everywhere with Jaimie Kelton
What do you get when you mix voiceover talent, musical theatre chops, and two kids made with...
Duration: 00:39:14Celebrating Queer Families & Normalizing Representation with Jaimie from the Queer Family Podcast
Jul 14, 2025🎉 Bonus Episode Drop! 🎉
While Jaimie gears up for Season 20 of The Queer Family Podcast—launching this August!—she's sharing this bonus episode from her recent guest appearance on the No One Told Us podcast. It’s a beautiful conversation about queer parenting, representation, and the honest, hilarious chaos of raising kids while gay. Enjoy this sneak peek into what’s to come next season!
Episode 92: Celebrating Queer Families & Normalizing Representation with Jaimie from the Queer Family Podcast
In this episode Rachael welcomes Jaimie, the creator of the Queer Family Podcast, for a vibrant and heartfelt...
Duration: 00:39:23From IVF to Foster Care to Film: Haven & Koy's Journey
Jun 30, 2025Haven and Koy's journey to parenthood included IVF, IUIs, anonymous and known donors, multiple moves, and ultimately foster care—where they met and adopted their 6-year-old son, River. In this final episode of our Pride Extravaganza, they open up to our host, Jaimie Kelton, about what it’s really like navigating foster-to-adopt as queer parents, how loss and resilience shaped their parenting journey, and how all of it inspired a new film.
Oh—and did we mention River is the star of that film?
This episode is loud, joyful, chaotic, and beautifully honest—just like queer fa...
Duration: 00:49:10Induced Lactation 101: Queer, Trans, and Chestfeeding Realness
Jun 26, 2025Can cis men be lactation consultants? Can trans folks chestfeed? Can someone who had top surgery still make milk? YES, YES, and YES. In this eye-opening Pride Extravaganza episode, Jaimie sits down with Jacob Engelsman, a cisgender queer man, lactation consultant, and author of Lactation for the Rest of Us, a groundbreaking guide designed specifically for queer and trans families. Together, they dive into all the whos, whys, and hows of induced lactation—debunking myths and expanding the conversation around who gets to feed babies with their bodies. Jacob also shares his personal story of love, queerness, and staying co...
Duration: 00:48:02Life Is Lifing for the Kelwoods: A Queer Family Update + a Queer Family Gift
Jun 23, 2025Jaimie and her wife Anne share a heartfelt update on Anne's breast cancer journey, including the challenges of chemotherapy, unexpected back surgery, and the support from their community. They discuss upcoming medical procedures and the emotional toll of their experiences. Photographer Suzanne Fiore joins the conversation to offer discounted sessions for queer families, highlighting the importance of capturing family moments. Listeners are encouraged to celebrate and document their families, emphasizing love and resilience within the LGBTQ+ community.
🎉 NYC Queer Fam! Don’t forget to RSVP to the Pride Family Meet-Up on June 28th at Sugar Mouse!
The...
Duration: 00:26:33Peggy Gillespie Is the Anti-DeSantis, Anti-Trump, Pro-Love Hero We Need
Jun 19, 2025Peggy Gillespie returns to The Queer Family Podcast with even more stories, accolades, and queer advocacy badassery.
Peggy Gillespie, co-founder of Family Diversity Projects and creator of Love Makes a Family and Authentic Selves, is back for our Pride Extravaganza—and she has not slowed down. Since her first appearance on the show, Peggy has been honored by Family Equality, hugged by Katie Couric, and danced her way into queer history. In this episode, host Jaimie Kelton sits down with Peggy to hear about the Family Equality Gala, her powerful new exhibits centering trans and nonbinary folks, an...
Duration: 00:53:40Intentional Parenting, Donor Decisions, and Fighting for LGBTQ+ Families with Darra Gordon
Jun 16, 2025Darra Gordon, the new CEO of Family Equality, joins host Jaimie to share her wild, beautiful, and intentional journey to queer parenthood—while simultaneously leading in LGBTQ+ advocacy. In a conversation filled with laughs, wisdom, and the occasional tween meltdown tangent, Dara opens up about trying to conceive at the same time as her wife, choosing donors (yes, plural), navigating unexpected challenges, and raising three incredible kids—including a nonbinary teen—in a world that’s not always built for queer families. Plus, they discuss why Family Equality’s work matters more than ever in our current political climate.
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Duration: 00:49:14Queer Joy as Resistance: Kyle Casey Chu (aka Panda Dulce) on Drag, Books, and Building a Better World
Jun 12, 2025Kyle Casey Chu (@pandadulce) is a drag performer, author, filmmaker, and one of the founding queens of Drag Story Hour—and in this powerful Pride Extravaganza episode, Kyle joins host Jaimie Kelton to talk about the art and activism that’s helping queer youth thrive. Kyle opens up about growing up in San Francisco with his autistic twin brother, coming out in middle school, and how queer joy, drag, and storytelling became his path to healing.
He shares the terrifying moment when Proud Boys stormed his reading at a public library—and how he turned that trauma into a...
Duration: 00:41:21Queer Dads, an Adoption Journey, and the Movie It Inspired: I Don’t Understand You
Jun 09, 2025Brian Crano and David Joseph Craig are husbands, dads, filmmakers—and now the creators of a new dark comedy based on their real journey to queer parenthood. In this powerful and delightfully funny Pride Extravaganza episode, they sit down with host Jaimie Kelton to share how their long, complicated path to adoption—complete with a scam, soul-searching, and spreadsheets—turned into “I Don’t Understand You,” a heartfelt horror-comedy now hitting theaters.
The couple opens up about the grief, the grit, and the gay tax of becoming parents, how their birth mother became the hero of their story, and w...
Duration: 00:58:28Intentional Parenting: Lessons from Single Gay Dad Darren Graham
Jun 05, 2025Darren Graham (@therealdarrengraham), a single gay dad by choice and content creator, shares his beautiful and powerful journey to fatherhood. Originally from St. Vincent, Darren opens up to host Jaimie Kelton about his path through trauma, coming into his queerness, and eventually adopting his son as a solo parent. He also shares how parenting has become a space of healing and intention, and why he never "came out"—he simply confirmed who he was all along. This episode is a celebration of resilience, chosen family, and the many ways queer folks build home.
🎙️ "I didn’t come out. I jus...
Duration: 00:55:41Gays With Kids Founder Brian Rosenberg: From HIV Diagnosis to Proud Dad of 3
Jun 02, 2025It’s Pride Extravaganza, y’all! 🌈
To kick off this month-long celebration of queer family goodness, Jaimie sits down with Brian Rosenberg, longtime advocate, dad of three, and founder of Gays With Kids and GWK Academy. From navigating HIV and homophobia in the '80s to building a beautiful family through adoption and surrogacy, Brian shares his powerful story with honesty, humor, and heart.
He opens up about the challenges of coming out as HIV-positive before coming out as gay, what it was like to raise kids during a time when queer family building had very li...
Duration: 00:59:19Bonus Replay | Out And Proud With The Mazelins
May 26, 2025This joyful, visibility-filled throwback deserves another listen.
Originally aired during our 2023 Pride Extravaganza, this episode features Brian and Alec Mazelin, a gay couple raising their daughter and showing up online as their fabulous, authentic selves. Their story of love, intentional family building, and unapologetic visibility is exactly what we need right now.
🎙️ “The more we show up, the more space we take up—and that matters.” – Brian Mazelin
In a time when LGBTQIA+ families are being erased from classrooms and attacked in legislation, the Mazelins’ presence is political. Their family is love in action, and thi...
Duration: 00:56:07Bonus Replay | Celebrating What DeSantis Fears (w/ Peggy Gillespie)
May 19, 2025This Pride Month warm-up replay is a must-listen.
Peggy Gillespie—author, queer parent, and co-director of Family Diversity Projects—has been celebrating LGBTQIA+ families and underrepresented voices for decades. In this episode (originally part of our Pride Extravaganza), she shares how her work has helped shift hearts and minds across the country—including the very communities where our identities are under attack today.
🎙️ “A child should wear what they feel comfortable in.” – Peggy Gillespie
We’re bringing this one back now because, in a time when lawmakers like Ron DeSantis and Greg Abbott continue to pass an...
Duration: 00:43:49Nonbinary Pregnancy, Known Donor Family Building, and Fighting Cancer Together | Casey & Sarah
Apr 28, 2025Casey and Sarah share their beautiful, uniquely queer family-building journey—featuring a known donor (Sarah’s brother!), a nonbinary pregnancy, chestfeeding after top surgery, and building a milk-sharing network. Plus, we dive into Sarah’s breast cancer diagnosis and how their love and resilience are carrying them through. Full of heart, humor, and radical queer joy. 🌈
Through all the twists and turns, Casey and Sarah’s story is a powerful reminder: queer families show up for each other, through everything—birth, milk, chemo, and beyond.
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Duration: 01:04:01The Donor Mix-Up That Made A Family
Apr 21, 2025Kim and Katie walk us through their ultra-intentional path to queer family building: from meeting online and moving in together lesbian-fast, to getting certified as foster parents just in case, to navigating a heartbreaking late miscarriage after IUI in a clinic, to finding success through home insemination—and thawing donor sperm under a boob.
As we dive deeper, the episode unpacks the layered complexities of queer family building. The couple reflects on the fear and beauty of non-biological parenthood, the nuanced choice between known and anonymous sperm donors, and how a simple donor mix-up led to a de...
Duration: 00:53:50Known Donor, Known Love: Kait, Sophie & Oliver’s Story
Apr 14, 2025What happens when your best friend offers to help you make a baby?
Jaimie sits down with Kait and Sophie—two queer folks trying to build their family—and their longtime friend (and now known donor!) Oliver. Together, they open up about the winding road that led them to one another, how a heartfelt email changed everything, and the love, planning, and community it takes to make a family—queer style.
This is not your average family-building journey. From navigating fibroids and reciprocal IVF to creating legal contracts and sharing meals during donation week, their story...
Duration: 00:53:20Building a Family with Reciprocal IVF (at the Same Time!)
Apr 07, 2025Two mamas. Two wombs. One donor. In this episode, Ana and Becky share their epic journey of building a family through simultaneous reciprocal IVF—yes, they were both pregnant at the same time. From pandemic sperm shortages to second-parent adoption logistics, this is a deeply lesbian, wildly honest, and beautifully queer tale of love, planning, and two babies born just five weeks apart.
This is a story of planning, spreadsheets, love, and so much queer resilience. Also, sperm selfies. And silk pajamas. You don’t want to miss this one.
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<... Duration: 01:09:31T4T and Totally in Love: Jacob and Riley's Queer Family Journey
Mar 31, 2025Jaimie sits down with Jacob and Riley, a T4T (trans-for-trans) couple redefining what it means to be a modern family. From co-parenting with Jacob’s platonic best friend to conceiving their son using nothing but love, timing, and a little queer magic (yes, really!), this episode is a beautiful, affirming deep-dive into queer love, chosen family, and intentional parenthood.
They open up about stopping hormones to conceive, the emotional journey of pregnancy as a trans man, and how gender identity shaped their experience of becoming “Mom” and “Dad.” If you’ve ever questioned what a queer family can l...
Duration: 00:54:53From Foster to Forever: A Gay Dad's Journey Through UK Adoption
Mar 24, 2025Jaimie sits down with Liam—a Scottish-born, England-based gay dad—who shares the winding road he and his husband took to adopt their daughter through the UK’s foster-to-adopt system. From intense evaluations to surprise newborn pick-up calls, this story is filled with love, bureaucracy, and a whole lot of intention.
You’ll hear how growing up under Section 28 shaped Liam’s identity, how he and his husband made the decision to adopt, and why they ultimately said yes to early permanence—despite the risks. It’s a moving, insightful story that shows just how badass LGBTQIA+ parents are.<...
Duration: 01:03:28Queer Parenting, Social Media & Fighting LGBTQ+ Hate
Mar 17, 2025Caitlyn, one half of @2ladiesand2babies on social media joins Jaimie to talk all things queer parenting, social media, and the ongoing fight for LGBTQIA+ visibility. From hilarious parenting fails to the not-so-funny rise of online hate, they dive into how social media has shifted for queer creators in today's political climate. They also discuss second-parent adoption, why legal protection is a must for LGBTQ+ families, and how to handle the trolls that come with being openly queer online.
This is a fun and heartfelt conversation between two gay moms who are just trying to raise good...
Duration: 00:52:32Marie Newman on LGBTQ+ Rights, Trans Advocacy & Fighting Anti-Trans Laws
Mar 10, 2025Marie Newman isn’t just an advocate—she’s a fighter. As a former Congresswoman from Illinois, she took on big fights for LGBTQ+ rights, healthcare equity, gun reform, and more. But her mission became personal when her daughter came out as transgender, propelling her even deeper into the fight for equality.
In this episode, Marie shares her unexpected path to Congress, the struggles of passing meaningful legislation, and why she refuses to back down—even as anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric ramps up across the U.S. and beyond. She also opens up about her family’s journey, the reality of...
Duration: 00:54:15Late-in-Life Lesbian & Religious Trauma: Coming Out, Healing & Co-Parenting
Mar 03, 2025Heather grew up in the Bible Belt as the daughter of a gay man and a pastor’s granddaughter, suppressing her truth for years. She married a man, started a family, and did everything ‘right’—until, at 38, she realized she was a lesbian… while on a literal therapy call in the closet. Now, she’s untangling decades of religious trauma, reclaiming her identity, and proving that it’s never too late to live your truth.
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Duration: 00:53:03Raising a Trans Child in Today’s America: Love, Advocacy, and Community
Feb 24, 2025Jaimie sits down with gender diversity expert Rachel Hulstein-Lowe to talk about raising transgender and non-binary kids in today’s political climate. Rachel, a parent of a non-binary child, shares insights on the impact of anti-trans legislation, generational shifts in understanding gender, and how parents can advocate for their kids. She also opens up about her own family’s history—her father came out in the Midwest during the AIDS crisis—and how the stigma against gay people then mirrors today’s attacks on the trans community. This episode is all about love, resilience, and the power of community in the fac...
Duration: 00:52:42Queer Parenthood Under Attack: Giuseppe’s Fight for Family
Feb 17, 2025As the U.S. ramps up its attacks on LGBTQIA+ rights, it’s hard not to see the parallels with Italy and other conservative countries tightening their grip on queer families. The Queer Family Podcast dives into this reality with Giuseppe, a single gay dad who built his family through surrogacy in the U.S.—something he could never have done in his home country of Italy, where surrogacy and adoption for queer parents are outright banned.
Despite these barriers, Giuseppe persevered, proving once again that LGBTQIA+ folks will always find a way to thrive. His story is a...
Duration: 00:52:55Double the Uteruses, Double the Strength
Feb 10, 2025Jaimie shares a heartwarming conversation with Sophie and Agnese from London, showcasing the resilience and adaptability of queer families. They detail navigating the NHS fertility system, selecting a sperm donor, and the emotional challenges faced during the process, including a sperm shipment fiasco, a miscarriage, and a couple of womb switches along the way. Through perseverance and adaptability, their journey ultimately leads to a successful pregnancy. Tune in for an inspiring testament to love, determination, and the beautiful complexities of LGBTQIA family-making.
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Duration: 01:04:39Two Lesbians, a Known Donor & Surprise Grandparents
Feb 03, 2025Jaimie sits down with Caitlin, a lesbian mom who, alongside her wife Ashley, spent six years navigating the path to parenthood with a known donor. They dive into the complexities of donor relationships, legal agreements, and the unexpected yet beautiful involvement of the donor’s parents as paternal grandparents. Caitlin shares her experiences with different insemination methods, medical challenges, and the profound joy of growing their family. This episode offers an honest and insightful look at the many layers of building a family within the LGBTQIA+ community.
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Duration: 01:00:50Gay Grandmas Talk Body Image: When a Mastectomy Redefines Identity
Jan 27, 2025Jaimie welcomes Sarah and Tamara to discuss their journey as queer moms and grandmothers, exploring the complexities of known donor conception, non-biological parenting, and how gender norms influence body image. Sarah shares her personal experience with the BRCA gene and the emotional journey of breast removal, offering diverse perspectives on body identity and self-expression. Together, they emphasize the importance of open conversations about gender and representation. The episode also highlights their documentary, Not Quite That, and its role in sparking meaningful dialogue within the LGBTQIA+ community.
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Duration: 00:52:37The Fight for Trans Rights: Insights from Elle Moxley
Jan 20, 2025Jaimie interviews Elle Moxley, founder of the Marsha P. Johnson Institute, to discuss the ongoing fight for gender-affirming care and trans rights amidst political regressions. With a new administration coming into the White House, this timely conversation underscores the urgent need for community support, visibility, and action in combating hate and protecting transgender individuals. Elle shares insights on fostering collaborative solidarity and provides valuable resources for building stronger, more inclusive communities. This episode focuses on the resilience of the LGBTQIA+ community and offers hope and guidance for navigating these challenging times.
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Duration: 00:59:09Replay: Baby Making For Everybody
Jan 06, 2025Replay Alert: Originally Aired 2023
Jaimie and guest co-host Tom dive into the complexities of known donor dynamics in queer parenting, featuring insights from guests Marea and Ray, midwives sharing their personal journeys. Explore the intricacies of donor selection, legal agreements, and family integration. Marea and Ray discuss their unique conception stories and how supportive community structures like midwifery can enhance the childbirth and postpartum experience. Discover how their shared experiences led to the collaborative development of their book, "Baby Making for Everybody," offering guidance for LGBTQ and solo parents navigating family building.
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Duration: 00:56:05Replay: Connecting Rainbows with Gena Jaffe
Dec 30, 2024Replay Alert: Originally Aired 2020 This episode first aired in 2020, back when the show was called If These Ovaries Could Talk, co-hosted with Jaimie’s co-founder, Robin Hopkins. With the new changes coming to government, Gena Jaffe’s work with Connecting Rainbows is more important than ever.
In this episode, Gena shares her journey using reciprocal IVF to create her family and how that experience inspired her to found Connecting Rainbows. Her organization helps LGBTQ folks navigate starting, growing, and protecting their families. This conversation is just as relevant today as it was when it first aired.
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Duration: 00:51:33BONUS- Holiday Chaos and Traditions With The DNR Show
Dec 23, 2024Join Derek and Romaine of The DNR Show for a festive bonus holiday episode featuring special guest Jaimie! 🎄✨ We’re diving into holiday traditions, family dynamics, and all the gay holiday cheer you could ask for 🙃🤪. From heartwarming memories to queer holiday vibes, this episode is perfect for anyone navigating modern family life or just looking to keep their holidays a little more fabulous.
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Duration: 01:05:00Trans Parenting, Polyamory and Redefining Family Narratives
Dec 16, 2024Jaimie chats with Aiden, a trans dad, about embracing differences, self-discovery, and building his family—first as a solo parent and later in a polyamorous relationship. They dive into sperm donation with a known donor, IVF, pregnancy loss, and the importance of connection, community, and representation. Aiden also shares his dream of starting a podcast for trans parents.
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Aiden emphasizes the importance and beauty of living authentically, illustrating how one's unique perspective can positively influence and transform soc... Duration: 00:58:24Exploring Queer Parenting and Gender Fluidity with Lamia
Dec 09, 2024Jaimie welcomes Lamia to the to discuss zir journey of embracing gender fluidity and using Ze/Zem pronouns. They explore Lamia's experiences navigating parenthood as both a biological and non-biological parent within a queer and multi-ethnic context. Lamia shares personal stories, including the challenges and joys of raising children with known donors, the importance of energetic healing through acupuncture, and the impact of losing close relatives. This episode offers an intimate look into queer family dynamics, gender identity, and community support.
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Duration: 00:56:06The Beautiful Chaos of Queer Foster Parenting and Self-Discovery
Dec 02, 2024Katie tells Jaimie about how she went from not wanting kids to ending up with 10 of them. As a queer mom who built her family through fostering and adoption, Katie shares her journey of embracing a queer identity while married to a man, and navigating the unique challenges of parenting a big family. Together, they dive into themes of love, chosen family, and the deep connections that come with fostering and adoption. Katie also talks about her work with Camp Quest, a summer camp dedicated to critical thinking and inclusion. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation about creating safe sp...
Duration: 01:01:05BONUS - C-Sections, Epidurals and Destroyed Nipples: Jaimie Had A Baby
Nov 25, 2024Jaimie revisits her birth story, originally shared on the podcast when it was called "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Celebrating over seven years of normalizing LGBTQIA family narratives, Jamie reflects on how her expectations of an idyllic birth experience were upended, a metaphor she connects to the current socio-political climate and the Thanksgiving week. After years of unexplained infertility, Jaimie finally got pregnant. One would think that would mean she was due an easy birth. But one would be wrong for thinking that. From birth to busted boobs. Hear how her second child made his way into the world.<...
Duration: 00:50:34Building Our Family Against All Odds: Love, Disability, & Transition
Nov 18, 2024Megan and Greyson join Jaimie to talk about their journey to parenthood. They discuss using a known donor, at-home insemination with a Frida Fertility kit, and navigating family planning as an LGBTQIA couple in Florida’s challenging political climate. Megan highlights disability representation in parenting, while Grayson shares stories of his transition and military service, offering a powerful narrative of love, resilience, and identity.
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Megan and Greyson are embarking on a new journey as expectant parents while tackling unique challen... Duration: 00:58:25Challenging the Binary: Aspen and Eren's Parenting Journey Beyond Labels
Nov 11, 2024Join Jaimie for an inspiring episode with Aspen and Eren, exploring LGBTQIA+ family dynamics, gender identity, and inclusive parenting. Aspen shares their journey from wanting to parent solo to finding love with Eren and choosing a known donor. Eren discusses their non-binary identity and the challenges of authentic, supportive parenting in a society slow to embrace fluidity. This episode highlights resilience, love, and the importance of representation for LGBTQIA+ families and future generations.
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Aspen and Eren's family journey highlights the possibilities of building a family outside... Duration: 01:03:13Redefining Parenthood: A Queer Guide to Modern Parenting
Nov 04, 2024Jaimie and guest S. Bear Bergman delve into love, family, and LGBTQIA identity against the backdrop of the 2024 political climate. Bear shares his journey from coming out at 15 to 35+ years of activism and parenting as a queer, trans parent. He opens up about the joys and challenges of inclusive parenting, co-parenting with a known donor, and living progressive values. Bear also introduces his new book, Special Topics in Being a Parent, packed with insights for inclusive parenting. Tune in for a heartfelt, hopeful, and humorous look at modern queer family life.
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Duration: 01:06:35Queer Family Building Abroad: Navigating LGBTQIA+ Fertility and Reciprocal IVF in Scotland
Oct 28, 2024Join host Jaimie as she talks with Alicia and Emily, a queer couple who left a conservative Christian university in Texas for a new life in Scotland. They reflect on the challenges they faced with family acceptance and the struggles of growing up in restrictive environments. In Scotland, they’ve found a supportive healthcare system that has made reciprocal IVF not only affordable but also accessible, transforming their parenthood journey. Against the current socio-political climate in the U.S., Alicia and Emily's story offers an inspiring look at finding community and hope abroad as they pursue their family dreams.
... Duration: 00:56:03American Teenager: A Deep Dive into Trans Lives Across the U.S
Oct 21, 2024Jaimie welcomes Nico Lang, creator of Queer News Daily and author of "American Teenager." With the 2024 presidential election looming, they explore the complexities of trans youth experiences and the crucial role of supportive families in today's challenging socio-political climate. Nico shares insights from their book, highlighting the diverse lives of trans kids across the U.S., and emphasizes the importance of representation and advocacy. With personal reflections and shared stories, this episode underscores the need to affirm the humanity and rights of queer individuals, urging listeners to engage and support the community.
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Duration: 00:49:27Budgeting for Babies: The True Cost of LGBTQ Family Dreams Part of the mini-series: Nicole and Shannon Want a Baby, or Do They?
Oct 14, 2024Part of the mini-series following Nicole and Shannon’s journey to parenthood, Jaimie and the couple chat with Angela Rastagar from Sunfish about the financial challenges queer families face. They explore the costs of sperm donation, egg donation, IVF, and surrogacy. Listeners are introduced to the resources and support Sunfish provides, including grants, a loan marketplace, and a unique IVF success program, all aimed at facilitating a smoother journey to parenthood.
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Angela Rastagar emphasizes the financial challenges of queer family-building, describing the costs associated with sperm... Duration: 00:43:56Connecting LGBTQIA+ Families with Known Donors: Insights from Seed Scout Part of the mini-series: Nicole and Shannon Want a Baby, or Do They?
Oct 07, 2024Nicole and Shannon continue their journey to parenthood with Jaimie as they explore the known donor route with Danielle from Seed Scout. Danielle shares her personal story and the motivation behind her agency, which provides ethical family-building options for LGBTQIA families. Together, they discuss the benefits and complexities of known versus anonymous donors, including ethical concerns, medical history updates, and donor relationships.
Key topics include transparency, ethical considerations in donor selection, and the personal experiences of donors and recipient families. The conversation also covers Seed Scout’s comprehensive process, from matching potential donors to legal steps and on...
Duration: 01:07:12LGBTQ Fertility Options: Exploring California Cryobank
Sep 30, 2024In the third episode of the series, Nicole and Shannon Want a Baby, or Do They?, Jaimie, Nicole, and Shannon dive into the world of donor conception with Sydney Sharon, an expert from California Cryobank. With 45 years of experience in the fertility industry, California Cryobank is known for its strong support of LGBTQIA+ families. Sydney discusses the advantages of using a large sperm bank, including their extensive donor catalog, stringent screening processes, and comprehensive support services.
The episode covers critical topics like the psychological and medical screening of donors, ethical considerations when choosing a sperm bank, and...
Duration: 00:58:49LGBTQIA Adoption: How to Afford $50K in Costs
Sep 23, 2024In the second episode of the series, "Nicole and Shannon Want a Baby, or Do They?," Jaimie, Nicole, and Shannon sit down with Becky Fawcett, founder of HelpUsAdopt.org, a nonprofit offering financial grants to help families cover adoption costs. Becky shares her personal adoption journey, the unique challenges faced by LGBTQIA+ families, and the vital role of both financial and emotional support. They discuss the costs of adoption, foster-to-adopt options, and the collaboration between adoption and fertility communities—all with a focus on inclusivity and making parenthood accessible to all.
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Duration: 00:49:16Nicole And Shannon Want a Baby, Or Do They?
Sep 16, 2024Jaimie sits down with her assistant Nicole and her wife Shannon. Despite Nicole having worked on this podcast about queer families for over two years, they still haven’t decided if they want to have kids. As they weigh the pros and cons, the conversation covers the unique challenges queer couples face when it comes to starting a family—especially when you have two uteruses and no sperm. Jaimie offers her personal insights on parenthood, and the discussion marks the start of a mini-series that will tackle LGBTQIA+ family building. Over the next few episodes, they'll explore questions like: Does...
Duration: 00:45:15Two-Spirit, Polyamory, BDSM, and Beyond: Building LGBTQIA+ Family & Community
Sep 09, 2024Leland and Bonnie share their journey through identity, gender, and family. Leland, identifying as Two-Spirit, discusses Native American gender roles and their impactful transition story. Bonnie recalls navigating her identity from the '70s to a polyamorous marriage and raising a son. Together, they recount their creation of a trailblazing trans/non-binary surgical recovery center, a yearly educational BDSM conference, and delve into their latest project, the Beyond Gender conference, aimed at fostering community, education, and support across the gender spectrum. This episode explores acceptance, resilience, and the power of chosen family.
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Duration: 00:57:54From High School Besties To Queer Mamas
Sep 02, 2024Ashlyn and Jessica, high school friends turned life partners from Houston, share their journey to parenthood. They discuss the challenges of coming out, choosing a sperm donor, and navigating fertility treatments. They delve into their mixed emotions as Ashlyn induces lactation to bond with their baby amid excitement and heteronormative societal pressures. With honesty and vulnerability, Ashlyn and Jessica offer a heartfelt glimpse into their struggles and triumphs as they prepare to welcome their son, highlighting the intentionality and love that define queer family-building.
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Duration: 00:52:32A Tale of Love, Kids, and Surrogacy
Aug 26, 2024Ali and Megan open up to Jaimie about giving the gift of family to another queer couple through surrogacy. Ali was a recently divorced mother of two when she swiped right for Megan on Tinder. Their connection was instant, and soon, they found themselves blending their lives, navigating co-parenting with Ali's ex, and talking about carrying a baby for another family. Join us as we explore the intricate dynamics of their relationship, the co-parenting experience, the emotional and logistical aspects of surrogacy, and their hopes for the future. This episode offers a heartfelt look into the beauty and challenges...
Duration: 00:54:04Exploring Gender Identity and Representation with Author Kelly Vincent
Aug 19, 2024Jaimie sits down with Kelly Vincent, author of the YA series "Ugly, Uglier, and Ugliest," to discuss gender identity, representation, and the challenges faced by LGBTQIA individuals. Kelly shares personal experiences of growing up in Oklahoma, the impact of societal gender norms, and the journey to embracing an agender identity. The episode explores the importance of diverse stories in fostering understanding and normalization, with a focus on the current political climate and its effects on the queer community. Also, hear about the remarkable reception Kelly's books have received.
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Duration: 00:47:43Surrogacy, Sperm Donation, and Raising a Rainbow Family
Aug 12, 2024Jaimie chats with Damien Chambers, a gay dad through surrogacy, a known sperm and embryo donor, and founder of Surrogacy Agency, NewGen Families. They discuss the emotional and legal intricacies of surrogacy, sperm and embryo donation, and the creation of ethical surrogacy journeys. Get insights into Damien's experiences and learn about the importance of trust and support in the surrogacy process. For those on the queer family-building journey, this episode offers valuable perspectives and information.
Tune into the full episode to hear more about Damien Chamber's journey, the intricacies of surrogacy, and tips for navigating the legal...
Duration: 00:52:57Tyler's Journey from Closeted Christian to Proud Gay Dad
Aug 05, 2024Tyler, a gay dad of three, shares his transformative journey from a strict Christian upbringing to living his truth as an "ex-hetero." Highlighting his struggle with faith, family, and coming out later in life, Tyler talks about the importance of self-love, parenting shifts, and building a resilient, chosen family. Jaimie and Tyler also delve into combating toxic masculinity and the ongoing political and social challenges facing LGBTQIA+ families. This episode offers an inspiring look at embracing differences, resilience, and authenticity amidst adversity.
Embark on Tyler's journey of self-discovery and transformation, and gain invaluable insights into the power...
Duration: 00:50:50Bonus Replay: Chateau Buteau feat. Michelle Buteau
Jul 29, 2024Jaimie is still on a short break with her family, but we thought you’d enjoy a hilarious interview with ally extraordinaire Michelle Buteau from 2019! Michelle Buteau talks about her six-year journey to parenthood. From a brain tumor to IUI to IVF to surrogacy to the work she did with Andy Cohen to legalize surrogacy in New York State. This episode originally aired when the podcast, co-hosted & co-founded by Robin Hopkins, was known as "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Enjoy this special throwback! 🏳️🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podca...
Duration: 00:56:59Bonus Replay: Two Moms Pregnant Featuring Sarah Kate Ellis and Kristen Henderson
Jul 22, 2024Jaimie’s still on a short break with her family, but we thought you’d enjoy Sarah Kate Ellis’s hilarious interview from 2019! Sarah Kate Ellis, CEO of GLAAD and Kristen Henderson, from Antigone Rising join us to talk about having a baby at the exact same time, why representation in media matters and that time Kristen's water broke. This episode originally aired when the podcast, co-hosted & co-founded by Robin Hopkins, was known as "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Enjoy this special throwback! 🏳️🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast o...
Duration: 00:56:13Bonus Replay: Rosie O'Donnell's 2019 Interview
Jul 15, 2024While Jaimie takes a much-needed summer break with her family, we're bringing back Rosie O'Donnell's unfiltered interview from 2019. Hear about her trailblazing journey as an LGBTQ parent during a time when few Hollywood stars were out, her personal struggles, and what it’s like to be the target of Donald Trump’s wrath. This episode originally aired when the podcast, co-hosted & co-founded by Robin Hopkins, was known as "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Enjoy this special throwback!
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Trailer: The Queer Family Podcast
Jul 12, 2024The show all about family, but with gay! Queer mom, Jaimie Kelton, goes in-depth with weekly guests about their experiences as LGBTQIA+ parents. We explore how we build our families, delving into sperm and egg donor searches, fertility procedures like IUI/IVF/RIVF, surrogacy journeys, adoption and foster stories, donor sibling experiences, and more. In a world that seeks to strip away LGBTQ+ rights, this podcast refreshingly highlights, uplifts, and normalizes queer families. We let the world know that, despite working extremely hard to create our very intentional families, we're just like every other parent out there, trying to...
Duration: 00:01:08Sarah Kate Ellis: Tackling Trans Rights and Advocacy Challenges
Jul 01, 2024Jaimie concludes the second annual Pride Extravaganza with Sarah Kate Ellis, CEO of GLAAD, discussing the organization’s efforts to combat misinformation and advocate for the LGBTQIA community. Together, they delve into current challenges, such as anti-trans sentiments infiltrating local school districts, and strategies for fostering understanding and inclusivity. Sarah highlights the importance of ongoing activism, voter engagement, and resilience in the quest for equality.
Jaimie also details her personal experience with rising anti-trans sentiments in New York City's School District 2, highlighting the infiltration by groups like Moms for Liberty. Sarah Kate provides pragmatic advice on how to...
Duration: 00:35:36The Gay Grandmas of Canada’s Gayest Family: A 50-Year Journey Through LGBTQ+ History
Jun 27, 2024Jaimie welcomes the “gay grandmas” of “Canada’s Gayest Family,” Jan and Linda, to the show. They share their compelling journeys through decades of LGBTQ+ history, from living in secrecy to becoming advocates and icons within their community. Joined briefly by Linda's daughter, Karen, they discuss the significance of pride, evolving family dynamics, and the strides made for LGBTQ+ inclusion. Their conversation blends poignant memories with hopeful perspectives, highlighting resilience, activism, and family love.
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Duration: 00:49:15From Gay Moms to Gay Dad Surrogates: A Chosen Family Story
Jun 24, 2024Lauren and Amanda Brown are back! The interracial lesbian moms share updates on their family-building journey, including Lauren's recent decision to become a gestational surrogate for a two-dad family. They discuss their motivations for choosing surrogacy, the emotional highs and lows, and the intricacies of the process, including a detailed narrative of the screening process, embryo transfer, and matching with the intended parents, offering valuable insights for anyone considering or curious about surrogacy. They also explore broader themes like LGBTQIA advocacy and the true meaning of Pride, highlighting the power of chosen family and the unique bonds within the...
Duration: 00:56:16The Rising Impact of Anti-Trans Resolutions in Progressive Areas, with Jaymes Black, CEO of Family Equality
Jun 20, 2024Jaimie gets emotional welcoming Jaymes Black, CEO of Family Equality to the show. They highlight initiatives for supporting LGBTQIA families throughout the country. They also discuss the unsettling rise of anti-trans resolutions within New York’s District 2 CEC board where Jaimie’s kids attend school, and the resulting mobilization and activism. With personal anecdotes and actionable insights, this episode underscores the ongoing fight for equality and the challenges faced even in progressive areas. Join them for a compelling look into advocacy, community, and resilience.
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Duration: 01:03:57From 2 Ladies To 2 Babies: A Lesbian Love Story
Jun 17, 2024Jaimie gives a warm welcome to Caitlyn and “Wanda”, the brains behind the hilarious TikTok account "2.ladies.and.2.babies." They chat about how they met, their coming out stories, picking a donor, and what it’s like for each of them to be both bio and non-bio moms to their kids. They also highlight the playful dynamic in their family, sharing their funny take on parenting and the joy of watching their kids embrace their beautiful family identity. The episode mixes in lots of laughs and real talk about the ups and downs of parenting as a modern LGBTQIA+ family...
Duration: 00:44:16Queer Love, Fashion, and Family: The Birth of Dapper Boi Clothing
Jun 13, 2024Jaimie sits down with Vicky and Charisse Pasche, the founders of the Dapper Boi clothing brand. They share their queer family journey, including the challenges of coming out, their unique fertility experiences leading to the birth of their twins, and the inspiration behind creating an inclusive clothing line. They delve into the importance of visibility, representation, and the power of authentic self-expression through fashion. Their heartfelt stories underscore the significance of community and advocacy within the LGBTQIA+ landscape.
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Duration: 00:54:55From Religious Roots to Queer Love – Coming Out, Blending Families, and Living Our Truth
Jun 10, 2024Jaimie welcomes Kelsey and Kymaria, the dynamic influencer duo behind @houseofk.love. They delve into their unique coming-out stories, dealing with religion, and forming a blended family. The couple shares insights into their experiences raising their daughter within a loving, queer household and Kelsey’s transition into instant parenthood. Touching on the challenges and joys of their relationship, they reveal their thoughts on having more children and what pride means to them. This episode is a heartfelt conversation on love, family, and identity.
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Duration: 00:44:25Colton Underwood: From NFL and 'The Bachelor' Star to Proud Gay Dad
Jun 06, 2024Jaimie welcomes Colton Underwood, former NFL player and Bachelor star, to discuss his journey from playing football to embracing his identity as a gay man. Colton shares his struggles with internalized shame, his unique coming out process, and how the COVID-19 pandemic changed his life. He opens up about his ongoing surrogacy journey with his husband, the importance of being intentional in building a family, and the steps they are taking to ensure their future children know they were made with love. Discover Colton's plans, aspirations, and advocacy for LGBTQIA family building.
To get a deeper understanding...
Duration: 00:45:46Rosie O'Donnell On Parenting, Gender, And Acceptance
Jun 03, 2024Rosie O'Donnell opens up about her experiences as a parent, discussing her journey with raising a child on the autism spectrum and the challenges and joys that come with it. She shares her insights on gender identity and the importance of unconditional love and acceptance. Jaimie also reflects on her own fears and struggles as a parent, including her initial reservations about having a son and the non-biological connection she has with her daughter, and Rosie lovingly tells Jaimie that she needs therapy🤪. This heartfelt conversation explores the complexities of parenting and the power of embracing and supporting our chi...
Duration: 00:52:54Unapologetically Proud: What Pride Means to LGBTQ+ Families
May 27, 2024What does Pride mean to you? As we get ready for Pride and our upcoming PRIDE EXTRAVAGANZA, Jaimie closes out this season with a little medley of responses to this question from all of last year’s Extravaganza guests. These answers will give you all the feels, y'all. Let them serve as a reminder that LOVE is LOVE, YOU are loved, and PRIDE is EVERY DAY. Happy Pride to all.
AND stay tuned next season for episodes with cultural icons and individuals making impactful strides for queer visibility and rights, like Rosie O’Donnell, Colton Underwood, Jaymes Blac...
Duration: 00:20:17Trans Dad Shares Journey of Self-Discovery and Parenthood
May 20, 2024Jaimie sits down with Shawndeez, a non-binary trans dad who shares their journey towards self-discovery and parenthood. Seandeez discusses the challenges they faced as a queer and trans individual, their decision to pursue IVF and egg retrieval, and the importance of unconditional love in the parent-child relationship. Seandeez also talks about their work supporting parents of trans children and the need for compassionate guidance in navigating the complexities of gender identity. Tune in for an inspiring and heartfelt conversation.
Stay tuned for more enlightening discussions that challenge conventional narratives and celebrate the beautiful diversity of queer families.<...
Duration: 00:49:11Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity: The Power of Honesty
May 13, 2024Tish's and Arlesia's accidental journey to parenthood brings uncharted waters into the traditional queer family narrative. After a rocky period in their relationship, Tish became pregnant with their son, Ethan, after a one-night stand. Despite the challenges, they decided to stay together and focus on raising their child. Now, as Ethan grows older, they are facing new transitions and learning to prioritize their own growth as individuals and as a couple. This episode highlights the importance of communication, honesty, and resilience in queer family building. It also emphasizes the need for appreciation, constant connection, and showing up for each...
Duration: 00:58:53Beyond Parenthood: A Queer Birth Doula’s Journey
May 06, 2024Victoria Vega, a yoga instructor and doula, shares her journey into birth work and the importance of addressing generational trauma. As a lesbian, Victoria discusses her decision not to have children but expresses a desire to experience childbirth as a surrogate, highlighting that the desire to carry and the desire to parent can exist independently. This perspective adds a refreshing dimension to the broader narrative about what constitutes a queer family. She emphasizes the significance of chosen family and the support she provides to BIPOC and queer communities. Victoria's work focuses on helping individuals navigate their fears and traumas...
Duration: 00:25:39A Lesbian Surrogacy Story
Apr 29, 2024Grier and her wife Alana created their family through surrogacy after fertility treatments wreaked havoc on Grier’s mental health and it became clear that carrying a child in either one of their wombs was not an option. She discusses the challenges and shame that can come with not being able to conceive and the importance of breaking down taboos surrounding different ways of creating a family. The conversation also touches on the non-biological connection in queer families, the decision to use an anonymous sperm donor, and the complexities of navigating societal expectations and assumptions. This conversation emphasizes the im...
Duration: 00:54:12From Mormon To Lesbian Mom of 4: A Story Of Resilience
Apr 22, 2024Lacey, a former Mormon and lesbian mom, shares her journey of coming out and building her family with her wife, Gabby. They unexpectedly conceived their first child through at-home insemination and later decided to have more children. After struggling with infertility, they turned to fertility treatments and ended up having triplets. Amidst the joy of their growing family, their oldest child, Jonah, was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia. Lacey recounts the challenges they have faced and the strength and newfound faith they have found as a family navigating this journey together.
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Duration: 00:49:38Gay Secret Service Agent Shares Surrogacy Journey and Challenges
Apr 15, 2024Corey Allen, a former Secret Service agent and current future dad on a surrogacy journey shares his experience of leading a double life while working in law enforcement and the challenges he faced as a gay man. He also discusses his surrogacy journey, including the setbacks and the decision to use two surrogates. Corey highlights the financial and legal obstacles that LGBTQ+ families often encounter and the importance of sharing stories to create awareness and promote change. Tune in for an inspiring and informative conversation.
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Duration: 00:44:14Louisiana Lesbian Couples Fight for Parental Rights in Landmark Case
Apr 08, 2024Host Jaimie sits down with Megan, Taylor, and Jessica, three married lesbian non-bio moms fighting for legal recognition of their parental rights in Louisiana. They discuss the challenges they're facing in the legal system, the archaic "presumption of paternity" civil code 185 being used against them, and the impact it has on their families. The guests share their personal experiences and the uncertainty they face as non-biological parents. They also highlight the importance of second-parent adoption and the need for better legislation to protect LGBTQ+ families.
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Duration: 00:47:29Deciding if I Want to Start a Family as a Queer Person
Apr 01, 2024Host Jaimie sits down with Kay Anderson, host of the Lost Spaces podcast, for a candid discussion about the complexities of queer family planning, nature vs nurture, and the individual choice to have children. The conversational journey offers a deep dive into not only Kay's personal musings regarding family and parenting but also the diverse ways queer individuals approach these life choices. The episode is rich with exploration of various family-building options such as surrogacy, adoption, fostering, and the roles that genetics and environment play in shaping familial relationships.
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Duration: 00:49:04It’s Never Too Late To Come Out: Our Dad’s Journey To Queerness
Mar 25, 2024S15 EP9 l Host Jamie sits down with Courtney, Whitney, and their dad Glenn to discuss their unique family story. Glenn came out as gay after 33 years of marriage, and his daughters were in their 20s at the time. The conversation delves into the challenges Glenn faced in coming to terms with his sexuality and the impact it had on his family. The episode highlights the power of acceptance and the transformative change that can come from embracing one's true self. They also discuss the importance of telling these stories to create a more accepting world.
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Duration: 00:58:53Transgender Author and Bonus Parent: A Journey of Identity and Family
Mar 18, 2024In this episode of the Queer Family Podcast, host Jamie sits down with Miles Borrero, a trans queer yoga teacher and author of the memoir "Beautiful Monster: A Becoming." Miles shares their journey of self-discovery and transition, discussing the labels and identities they have explored along the way. They also delve into their experience as a bonus parent to teenagers and the importance of representation in queer families. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about embracing change, finding love, and redefining what it means to be a family.
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Duration: 00:39:24Donor Conception Full Circle, With Hayley King
Mar 11, 2024Haley King is a donor-conceived gay mom who ALSO used donor conception to start her own family. Haley shares her journey of discovering her donor-conceived status at the age of 30 and how the challenges she faced in finding information and support led her to become an advocate for donor-conceived people and families. She and Jaimie delve into the importance of open communication, navigating relationships with donor siblings, the impact of modern technology on anonymity, and the nuanced feelings of being a non-bio parent.
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Duration: 00:57:12From Stigma to Celebration: Embracing Disability on the Journey to Parenthood
Mar 04, 2024Jennifer and Vanessa are in the middle of creating a family as a lesbian couple, yet Vanessa's recent hysterectomy and Jennifer's epilepsy add intricate layers of complexity to their journey. Faced with legal uncertainties surrounding adoption as an LGBTQIA+ couple, they shifted towards using donor sperm at a bank, only to confront profound societal biases and systemic hurdles in the fertility industry. The conversation delves deep into these challenges, fostering an argument for true inclusion in family planning, irrespective of disability or sexual orientation. Their narrative serves as a compelling call to action, advocating for the fundamental right of...
Duration: 00:56:00Two Dads, Two Daughters: Adoption Journeys & Kid’s Books
Feb 26, 2024Host Jaimie sits down with Tom Tracy, an award-winning author and proud gay dad, to explore his inspiring journey to parenthood through adoption. Together, they delve into the joys and challenges of raising children, drawing from Tom's experiences that have inspired his acclaimed book series, Scoochie and Skiddles. Tom's work aims to normalize LGBTQIA+ families by portraying them in everyday life, showcasing the ordinary yet extraordinary moments. The episode emphasizes the importance of representation in media and literature, offering a heartfelt discussion on the significance of diversity and inclusion. Plus, don't miss a special guest appearance by Jaimie's 10-year-old...
Duration: 00:47:58Breaking Down the Myths: Breastfeeding and Chestfeeding in the LGBTQ+ Community
Feb 19, 2024l S15 EP4 l Heidi and Trine, lactation consultants and friends, join host Jaimie to discuss feeding babies in the queer community. They explore induced lactation, chest feeding, and inclusive feeding practices. Sharing their own queer journeys, they provide valuable insights into the challenges and possibilities of feeding babies in the queer community. They emphasize the importance of seeking help and finding the right lactation consultant. Don't miss this informative and inclusive conversation.
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