The Velvet Hammer Podcast

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Voyeurism isn’t taboo — y’all just scared to admit you like being watched. In this unapologetically messy Velvet Hammer episode, we break down why the “eyes on me” thrill hits different, why watching can be just as intimate as touching, and why some of you get turned on the moment you reali...

Duration: 00:19:43

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 Why is the sex always nastiest with the most toxic people? In this unhinged Velvet Hammer episode, we unpack why red flags come with premium stroke, why chaos makes the bedroom crazy, and why the “don’t text me back” people always flip you like a mattress. It’s messy, it’s hilario...

Duration: 00:11:26

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

When your partner stops giving intimacy—whether out of choice, control, or pure neglect—are you wrong for seeking pleasure somewhere else? In this raw and unfiltered Velvet Hammer episode, we unpack the truth behind sex deprivation, weaponized intimacy, emotional manipulation, and whether outsourcing sex is cheating… or a form of survival...

Duration: 00:18:01

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Car sex isn’t just for teenagers — it hits DIFFERENT when you're grown. In this wild Velvet Hammer episode, we break down why the car (or the garage) is still one of the freakiest, most adrenaline-filled places to get it in. From the thrill of being caught, to the close bodies...

Duration: 00:31:01

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Why do straight men hide their freaky desires from the women they love? In this raw, messy, unfiltered Velvet Hammer episode, we dig into the real reasons men stay quiet about their kinks—fear of judgment, masculinity pressure, shame, intimacy anxiety, and the belief that their partner “can’t handle” who they...

Duration: 00:15:26

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 Some people need recovery time — others reload like they’re built for it. But is it physical or mental? In this spicy Velvet Hammer episode, we explore what makes “reloaders” tick, how desire resets, and why round two can be even more intimate than the first. With our guest host Level & Taj Duration: 00:34:28

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 It’s just two simple words — yet they can make your body melt, your pulse race, and your mind surrender. In this episode of Velvet Hammer we explore the psychology and power play behind praise: why being called “good girl” or “good boy” hits deeper than you think. This isn’t just dirty talk —...

Duration: 00:13:51

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 He opened doors, pulled out chairs, and was the definition of a gentleman. But three drinks in, the real confession came out: a full-blown foot fetish and a request to lick my toes 😳. Join us for laughs, wild dating stories, and an honest chat about when kink meets cocktails. 

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Duration: 00:23:20

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 What happens when a guy takes your number… but your digits are already hiding in his phone under another name? 😂 Join V and her best friend as they share this hilarious story (yes, he really blamed it on his “niece”), talk about forgettable flings, and dive into why dating today feels like a c...

Duration: 00:17:25

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 Late nights, long shifts, and endless temptation—what really happens when the world is sleeping? In this episode of Forbidden Wayz, we dive into the secret life of infidelity among bartenders, waitresses, nurses, and hotel staff. Who cheats the most? What makes it easier for some professions to hide their affairs...

Duration: 00:30:39

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 Everyone talks about threesomes—but do they actually live up to the fantasy? In this episode, we unpack the good, the bad, and the sweaty reality of adding a third. Do threesomes spice up relationships, or are they just way too much work? From jealousy to pure ecstasy, we’r...

Duration: 00:20:42

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 Let’s be honest: anal play is the ultimate taboo for a lot of people. In this unfiltered episode, I sit down with my guest co-host Level to ask: When was the first time you tried it—or asked for it? We dive into the awkward moments, the surprising...

Duration: 00:26:08

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 Step into the world most men only fantasize about. In this exclusive interview, I sit down with Level, a working male escort, to reveal the raw truth about what it takes to live this double life. From wild client stories to intimacy on demand, this conversation peels back the cu...

Duration: 00:19:17

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

What really happens on girls trips when the drinks hit, the clothes drop, and the tension finally explodes?

In this unfiltered episode, Issa spills every messy, sexy detail from her wild girl-on-girl vacation — from flirty eye contact by the pool to tangled sheets and wet mouths whispering secrets you...

Duration: 00:19:16

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Ever been watched while someone else had their way with you?
In this explosive episode, Issa and Sherilyn dives deep into the messy, freaky, and emotionally complex world of cuckolding — where submission, desire, and domination collide. From jealousy to arousal, from humiliation to empowerment, we unpack what really goes d...

Duration: 00:19:40

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Why limit yourself to just one flavor… when the whole menu is right there?

In this mouthwatering episode of Forbidden Wayz, Essa and Sherilyn dive into the messy, thrilling, and often controversial world of interracial dating. From cultural curiosity to sexual stereotypes, we’re keeping it raw, real, and just...

Duration: 00:25:34

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 What happens when shame turns you on? In this explosive episode of Forbidden Wayz, Essa and Sherilyn dive headfirst into the wild world of degradation kinks, slut play, and the blurred line between disrespect and desire. Why do certain words hit different in the bedroom? Is it just a kink... or...

Duration: 00:26:19

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Ever tried to keep your cool while your lover had their hand between your thighs—right as the waiter asked if you wanted fries or salad?

In this dangerously delicious episode of Forbidden Wayz, Essa and Sherilyn slip into the taboo world of public play, risky touching, and lowkey a...

Duration: 00:28:42

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Let’s talk about the peach. 🍑
 Because the moment a man shows interest in anything back there, people start asking:
 “Wait… is that gay?”

In this episode, we’re blowing up the myth that booty play defines your sexuality. We’re unpacking the fear, the stigma, and the t...

Duration: 00:22:05

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

You’ve got the commitment. The ring, the title, the routine.
 But where did the heat go?

This episode dives headfirst into the tension between monogamy and sexual aliveness. We’re getting raw about the truth so many couples avoid: sometimes, the structure that makes us feel secure...

Duration: 00:33:05

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

They called it a hoe phase... but what if it was your healing era?

In this episode, we're diving deep into the truth that nobody wants to admit: sometimes the late-night hookups, the fleeting pleasure, the bodies, the sweat, the mess—it’s not about being reckless. It’s about rec...

Duration: 00:29:21

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

You had the sex. The chemistry was wild. The orgasm hit...
 But why did you still wake up feeling empty?

In this episode, we’re breaking the myth that sex automatically equals intimacy. Because let’s be honest—bodies can collide without souls ever touching. We're diving into why s...

Duration: 00:33:06

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 Is intimacy fading in your relationship? In Sexless Marriage: Who’s to Blame?, we dive deep into the emotional, psychological, and physical reasons behind intimacy struggles. Through raw conversations, expert insights, and real-life stories, we explore the dynamics of relationships, communication, and desire. Whether you're experiencing a dry spell or just curio...

Duration: 00:28:04

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 "Why do we stay in relationships that have clearly run their course? In this episode, we dive into the uncomfortable truth about holding on to love that’s expired. From fear of change to guilt and everything in between, we unpack the reasons we waste each other’s time and how to fina...

Duration: 00:32:36

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 Open conversations about intimacy can transform a relationship. In this episode, we explore why sharing your expectations and desires with your partner is crucial for a strong and lasting connection. Learn how to navigate these often tricky discussions." 

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Duration: 00:52:24

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 "In this episode of Forbidden Wayz, we explore the emotional and psychological reasons behind why we find ourselves returning to the same person, even when we know it's not in our best interest. Are you circling the block, caught in a cycle of revisiting past relationships, unable to move forward? We...

Duration: 00:39:27

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 In this insightful episode, we tackle the important question: Are you an asset or a liability in your relationship? Relationships thrive on balance, mutual support, and growth, but sometimes we might unknowingly contribute more harm than good. Join us as we explore what it means to be a positive force in yo...

Duration: 00:27:05

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the complex and often taboo topic of sexual honesty in relationships. Why do we lie to our partners about sex? What are the underlying reasons behind these deceptions? Join us as we explore the psychological, emotional, and social factors that lead to sexual sec...

Duration: 00:25:52

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 Welcome to Forbidden Wayz on this episode were talking about 
"Love or Security: The Chess vs. Checkers of Marriage," where we delve into the complex dynamics of modern relationships. Join us as we explore the age-old question: Are we getting married for love, or is security our primary motivation...

Duration: 00:55:11

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

In this episode with Forbidden Wayz, we delve into the intricate world of sexual dynamics, exploring the often-taboo topic of faking satisfaction. Why do people feel the need to embellish or lie about their sexual experiences? How do these falsehoods influence our perceptions and expectations of intimacy? Join us as we unra...

Duration: 00:30:05

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

In this episode with Forbidden Wayz, we delve into the intriguing realm of women's sexual experiences, examining why some may turn to toys more frequently in the bedroom. From societal influences to personal preferences, we explore the multifaceted reasons behind this trend. Join us as we unravel the complexities of pleasur...

Duration: 00:18:18

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Welcome to Forbidden Wayz, where we delve into the intricacies of submission in relationships. Join us as we navigate the taboo and misunderstood aspects of surrendering to your lover. From exploring power dynamics to embracing vulnerability, we uncover what it truly means to submit and the beauty it can bring to a...

Duration: 00:40:25

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Welcome to Forbidden Wayz, the podcast where nothing is off-limits when it comes to exploring the taboo and controversial aspects of human sexuality. Join hosts [Esa Evans] and [Sherilynn Marilyn] as we delve into the forbidden realm of sexual hot topics, from unconventional fantasies to societal taboos. With candid discussion...

Duration: 00:47:55

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

In this episode of  "Whispers of Passion," we delve into the tantalizing world of dirty talk and sexual communication. Join us as we uncover the intricacies of verbal seduction, from playful innuendos to explicit fantasies. Our candid discussions will guide you through the dos and don'ts of talking dirty, offering in...

Duration: 00:40:25

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 In this eye-opening episode, we confront the pervasive impact of digital distractions on modern relationships. As technology infiltrates every aspect of our lives, the constant connectivity through smartphones and devices threatens to erode the quality time we spend with our loved ones. Join us as we explore the detrimental effects of...

Duration: 00:47:55

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Description: In this bold and candid episode, we delve into the often overlooked yet crucial aspects of morning intimacy. From discussing the significance of starting the day with affection and connection to exploring the joys and benefits of oral sex in relationships, we leave no stone unturned. Join us as we chal...

Duration: 00:33:28

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

"Join me on 'Nipping Love's Fires in the Bud,' and introduce my New Co-host Sherilynn Marilynwhere we explore the vital art of addressing the small issues before they grow into colossal problems in matters of the heart. In every relationship, there are those tough conversations that need to be had, th...

Duration: 00:40:01

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

In this episode, we dive into a topic often considered taboo: men's apprehension towards sex toys and the profound impact it has on intimacy. Join us as we explore the societal stigmas surrounding male sexuality, debunk myths, and discuss the importance of open communication and experimentation in fostering deeper connection...

Duration: 00:34:22

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

"Join me on 'Nipping Love's Fires in the Bud,' where we explore the vital art of addressing the small issues before they grow into colossal problems in matters of the heart. In every relationship, there are those tough conversations that need to be had, the little sparks that, if left un...

Duration: 00:17:41

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

"Dive into the intimate world of surrender and submission as we explore the profound beauty that lies within the act of yielding to your lover. Join me where we unravel the delicate dynamics of trust, vulnerability, and passion. Discover the power of letting go, embracing vulnerability, and experiencing a deeper con...

Duration: 00:17:41

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

"In this sizzling episode, we delve into the tantalizing world of seduction through style. Discover how your choice of attire can fan the flames of desire and reignite the passion in your relationship. Join us as we explore the art of keeping the spark alive by embracing the power of fashion...

Duration: 00:15:05

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

In this episode of "Emasculated by Success," we delve deep into a poignant and often unexplored aspect of modern relationships. Join us as we navigate the turbulent waters of a man's struggle when his partner's success eclipses his own. When love takes a backseat to money, emotions run high, and the dynami...

Duration: 00:17:42

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

In this scintillating episode, we delve deep into the tantalizing world of intimate communication as we explore "The Importance of Talking Dirty." Join us on a journey where words become the ultimate aphrodisiac, igniting passion, and forging a deeper connection between partners.
Discover the art of seduction through conversati...

Duration: 00:13:25

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

 In this heartfelt episode, we explore the raw, passionate moments in a relationship when disagreements arise. Sometimes, both partners find themselves in the heat of the moment, and it takes one of them to bring in the soothing energy of love. We delve into the idea that when both are on "GO," it...

Duration: 00:17:38

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Join us as we discuss the impact of routines, communication breakdowns, and societal pressures on a couple's intimate life. If you've ever wondered how to keep passion alive in your marriage or want to gain a deeper understanding of the dynamics of long-term relationships, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in fo...

Duration: 00:18:12

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

"How Did You Stop Getting Freaky After You Got Married?", In this episode we dive deep into the challenges that many couples face when it comes to maintaining intimacy, and freaky, hot nasty passion in their marriages. We'll explore real-life stories and experiences from couples who have navigated this journey, s...

Duration: 00:15:18

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

In this discussion, we address the harmful practice of starting fights to achieve intense or aggressive sexual encounters. Such behavior is not only toxic but also suggests a lack of emotional intelligence. It's a pattern often observed, especially among females or submissive partners, who resort to unnecessary conflict when what they...

Duration: 00:13:34

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

Hey there, folks! Today, we're diving headfirst into a subject that's all too common in many relationships - the fine line between obligation and passion. Picture this: you and your partner are more like roommates who occasionally roll into bed together out of sheer necessity. It's not exactly a page-turne...

Duration: 00:14:56

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

In this captivating episode, we delve into the profound significance of selflessly indulging your partner with the pleasures of oral affection, all without uttering a word. It's disheartening to note that many individuals often fall short in their efforts to thoroughly gratify their beloved, leaving them in the dark about thei...

Duration: 00:14:15

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”

The importance of initiating intimacy in your relationship cannot be overstated. It's the heartbeat of your emotional connection, the glue that binds two souls together. Intimacy isn't just about physical closeness; it's about the vulnerability, trust, and love you share.

In those stolen moments when you initiate a...

Duration: 00:10:46