Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

Hey Dog Lover! 🐾🐾
This time of year, we humans get a little bit... extra.

Extra people, extra noise, extra sugar… and somehow, we expect our dogs to just “deal with it” in the name of socialization. 

But what if holiday chaos isn’t an opportunity to socialize your dog — it’s a chance to lead them?

In this episode, we talk about why “just letting them figure it out” can backfire, and what you can do instead. You’ll learn how to:

Read your dog’s subtle “no thanks” signals 👀

Step in...

🐾 Hey Dog Lover,

If you’ve been filling your online cart with dog toys and treats this holiday season… let’s press pause.

This episode is a gentle reminder that your dog doesn’t need more stuff—they need you. Your calm presence. Your stable routines. Your ability to lead with confidence when things feel chaotic. That’s the real gift.

We’ll explore how consistency, emotional leadership, and relevance are what actually help your dog feel safe and settled—especially during the holidays when stress can sneak in. So instead of asking “what should I buy my d...

🐾 Hey Dog Lover,

Does your rescue dog really trust you… or are they just surviving politely?

In this episode, we’re diving into one of the biggest mistakes new adopters make—assuming that a dog who cuddles, follows them, or “seems fine” is actually feeling safe. The truth? Trust goes deeper than tail wags or staying close.

We’ll talk about what real trust looks like (hint: soft eyes, relaxed body, no bracing), how to spot the difference between affection and actual security, and how to approach this with curiosity rather than guilt. Because when your...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾🐾

Ever saw a dog so cute you couldn’t help but just rush over to give them a little pet?
(Yeah, me too.)

But sometimes we need to pause and consider what our movement means to a dog.

In fact, this is one of the biggest—and most misunderstood—reasons fearful dogs struggle to feel safe, even with people who love them dearly.

In this episode, we explore what it means to “come in too hot” from your dog’s perspective.
We’ll talk about prey-mind vs. predator-mind, b...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾🐾

You’ve probably heard it before—“just toss some treats when your dog sees a trigger, to change their emotional response to the trigger."

And yes, that can work.
But there’s a small problem...
You’re not part of the solution.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the popular advice around food, fear, and emotional responses in dogs—especially when it comes to the why behind the behaviour.
Because here’s the truth: if you’re not part of the process, you’re missing out on how YOU can influence your dog...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

In this episode, I’m joined by Paisley as we tackle real questions pulled straight from our Living Beyond Obedience community—aka questions you didn’t even know you asked, but probably needed to.

We cover everything from how to help a rescue dog who’s scared of strangers and medical routines, to introducing new dogs after a loss, to managing reactivity and overwhelm in anxious dogs. It's honest, thoughtful, and packed with relatable struggles and supportive solutions.

Whether you're living with a fearful pup, navigating meds, or just wondering why your dog...

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Ever have one of those weeks where everything feels a little too much—and you’re still trying to be everything your animals need?

In this unscripted, from-the-heart episode, I’m showing up real and raw to talk about the emotional side of living with animals. It wasn’t the episode I planned, but it’s the one that needed to be shared.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like you’re failing at this whole “dog mom” thing… this one’s for you.

Hope you enjoy this one.

Hey Dog Lover,🐾

What if the most powerful thing you could do for your relationship with your dog… was nothing?

In this final episode of our Untrained Dog mini-series, we’re stepping into the quietest and most confronting part of connection—stillness. No cues. No fixing. No constant feedback. Just presence.

We’ll talk about why “doing less” is often the missing piece in our dog’s sense of safety and how to practice being withyour dog in a way that builds real trust—without needing to earn it through obedience or effort.

Let’s stop doing a...

🐾 Hey Dog Lover,

Let’s be honest — most of us were taught to talk at our dogs before we ever learned how to listen to them.

In this second step of our Untrain Your Dog to Build a Better Bond series, we’re flipping the script.

This episode is all about the magic that happens when you get quiet. Like, really quiet.
No obedience cues. No “Sit!” or “Stay!” Just presence, awareness, and curiosity.

We’ll explore:
→ The Be Quiet Game: what happens when you stop talking and start observing
→ How to “Ask the...

Hey Dog Lover,🐾

What if the behaviours you’ve been trying so hard to train… aren’t actually what you want?

In this episode, we’re kicking off Untraining Week with a powerful mindset shift. We’re diving into the heart of what “training” really means—and why letting go of task-based obedience can open the door to deeper connection with your dog.

You’ll hear me unpack:

Why traditional obedience cues might be missing the mark

What “heel,” “sit,” or “stay” are really about (spoiler: it’s usually not about the command itself)

How...

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If you caught Part 1 of my conversation with Nelson Hodges, you already know the kind of deep, perspective-shifting wisdom he brings to the table.

In this second half of our talk, we go even deeper into the emotional landscape of dogs—and how our being matters so much more than our doing. We unpack the question at the heart of it all:
What is a dog, really?
Not just behaviorally—but emotionally, relationally, instinctually.

Together, we explore:

Why most trainers are missing the point

How your in...

Hey Dog Lover,🐾

This episode is one for the books. I got to sit down with my mentor and dear friend, Nelson Hodges, for a conversation that honestly felt like cracking open the soul of our work with dogs.

We explored one foundational (and often misunderstood) question:
👉 What is a dog?
…and why getting that right changes everything else.

This is part one of a two-part conversation, and believe me, you’ll want to listen with a pen in hand and your curiosity dialled all the way up.

Because Nelson doesn’t just...

🐾 Hey there Dog Lover,

We’re diving into Part 6 of the Peace in the Pack series — and today’s episode is all about a sneaky dynamic that shows up in a lot of multi-dog homes (especially when you’re adding new dogs into the mix):
Us vs. Them.

Dogs are deeply wired for social structure. In their world, there’s with us… and there’s not with us. And when we humans unknowingly reinforce that division — through the way we set up our homes, introduce new dogs, or even talk about “my dog vs. your dog” — it create...

🐾 Hey there, Dog Lover,

We're back with Part 5 of the Peace in the Pack series — and today, we're getting into one of those deceptively simple questions that opens the door to a whole lot of deeper conversations:

Should your dog be allowed on the furniture?

My answer? Yes.
…And also maybe no. 😉

This episode isn’t about setting rules — it’s about understanding what levels mean to dogs. From who gets the couch to who sleeps on the bed, your dogs are constantly making choices based on strategy, safety, and social standing...

🐾 Hey there, Dog Lover,

We’re continuing our Peace in the Pack series this week with a topic that hits close to home for so many multi-dog households: possession and resource conflict.

Ever said, “Ugh, my dog is so jealous!” when one dog pushes the other away for attention?

Yeah. Let’s talk about that.

In this episode, I’m diving into:

Hey Dog Lover,

You’ve probably heard it before — or maybe even said it yourself:
“He’s just social!”
“She’s friendly!”
“They love other dogs!”

But here’s the thing: “social” isn’t always what you think it is.
And in a multi-dog home, it might actually be the source of your tension.

In this episode, we’re digging into the four types of canine sociality — asocial, antisocial, social, and pro-social — and how this spectrum plays out in real-life relationships between your dogs (and between you and your dogs, too).

We’ll talk about:

W...

Hey Dog Lover,🐾

The truth is, a peaceful pack isn’t built by making your dogs follow the same training, the same rules, or the same boundaries.

Because every dog brings their own unique Dogonality™ to the table.

It’s easy to say “rules, boundaries, and expectations,”… but what we sometimes miss is that those rules might need to look different depending on the dog in front of us. And that’s not just okay — it’s essential.

In this episode, we’re talking about how to honour the individual dog — their play style, their processing st...

Hey Dog Lover,

We’re kicking off a brand-new podcast series today called Peace in the Pack — and if you’ve ever found yourself saying, “Ugh, this dog is driving me nuts,” then this one’s for you.

In today’s episode, I’m sharing a perspective shift that might just blow your mind (in the gentlest, most supportive way possible, of course 😉).

What if the dog that looks like the “problem child” — the one barking, pacing, reacting — isn’t actually the root of the issue? What if they’re just the messenger?

I’ll tell you the story of Jam...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

It’s the Monday after Bootcamp… and Thanksgiving here in Canada. 🇨🇦

So I wanted to offer something simple, grounding, and honestly—really powerful.

Because training probably takes up, what? Maybe 5–10% of your day tops?
So what’s happening in the other 95%?

That’s where your dog is learning the most about who you are—
and where your bond is really being built.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through 3 simple things you can do today (no training required!) to strengthen connection, deepen trust, and help your dog feel safe in...

Dear Dog Lover 🐾

Someone once asked me what good training looks like.
And I said — it looks like nothing at all.

Because when it’s good — when the relationship is solid — you don’t have to do much.
It’s quiet. It’s steady. It’s felt.
That’s not control.
That’s leadership.

In this episode, we’re peeling back the layers on a word that’s tossed around a lot in the dog world — leadership — and looking at what it actually means to your dog.

Because here’s the thing…
Leadersh...

Hey friend,

I just wanted to pop in for a minute...

This isn’t a regular episode.
It’s a quiet moment to talk about why I created the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp… and why it matters so much to me.

You see, most people come into this work thinking it’s their dog that needs to change.
The barking, the pulling, the spinning — all the chaos that makes your shoulders tense and your breath go shallow.
And I get it.
That’s what most training is built around: fixing the dog.<...

Dear Dog Lover 🐾

You’ve probably heard it before — “Your dog’s behavior problems are rooted in fear.”

And while that might be true, fear itself isn’t the problem.
Fear is normal. It’s necessary. It’s survival.

In this episode, we unpack what really happens when your dog feels fear — and how your response to it can either build trust or break connection.

You’ll hear stories about Gunther, my young pup, and how sitting quietly in a field turned fear into calm… and how standing tall during a siren helped him regulate th...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

In this special behind-the-scenes episode, you’ll be listening in on a powerful coaching moment from inside The Fearless Framework community.

This time, I’m working with Candice and her dog, Arlo, as we do a real-time video analysis of Arlo’s behaviour. It’s a super cool conversation where we get to slow things down, look closely at what’s really going on, and talk through what Candice can do next to help Arlo feel more confident and supported.

She walks away with tactical steps—and you might, too.

Hop...

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In this special episode, you’re getting a sneak peek behind the curtain—into a real coaching call from inside The Fearless Framework Online Program

We’re quietly eavesdropping (with permission, of course 😉) on a session between me and Laurel, who’s preparing for a big move with her dog, Henry. As Laurel shares, we dive into how a fresh start can be more than just a change of scenery—it can be a powerful opportunity to reset boundaries, redefine leadership, and help your dog feel safe and confident in a new environment.

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This one might come with a little ambient background noise, courtesy of my son mowing the lawn — because hey, life doesn’t pause when you're trying to record a podcast. 😅

But while he’s out there pushing a mower, we’re in here pushing back on one of the most common (and misguided) pieces of training advice:

“Just ignore the behaviour you don’t like.”

Here’s the truth:
Ignoring your dog’s behaviour can frustrate your dog as much as it does you.
And it definitely doesn’t help t...

🎉THE CALM DOWN, DOG! BOOTCAMP IS BACK 🎉— and I couldn’t be more excited.
It’s happening October 7–8, and we’re diving deep into the real work of living with dogs — not just training them.

In this episode, I’m sharing the real reason I got a new German Shepherd puppy… and the realer reason why I’ve been rejected by rescues and breeders more than once.

Yep.
Despite working professionally with dogs for over 20 years, I’ve had doors closed on me simply because I don’t subscribe to the “purely positive” training model.

Today, I’m pulli...

Hey Dog Lover! 🐾

In this delightfully spontaneous episode, we’re keeping it real because, well, life happens! I’m sharing a little behind-the-scenes peek into my world: the whirlwind of getting a new German Shepherd puppy named Gunther, a recent jaunt to England, and some curious insights I picked up about dog culture across the pond.

“How interesting!” you’ll hear me say because it’s all about bringing that curiosity back home and letting it shape the way we build trust and leadership with our dogs.

So, join me as I chat candidly a...

Hey Dog Lover! 🐶
Welcome to Part Three of the Beyond the Bark Series! In this final episode, we’re wrapping up my contribution to a recent article on barking with some of the most practical — and controversial — questions around the topic.

Here’s what we’re covering today:

How furniture placement can actually reduce barking (yep, where your couch goes matters!)

Using tools like curtains, crates, and X-pens to prevent escalation and create calmer spaces

Why too much “free reign” often leaves dogs feeling like they have to control too much real estate<...

Hey Dog Lover! 🐶
Welcome to Part Two of the Beyond the Bark Series! In this episode, we’re tackling the questions about puppies and adult dogs when it comes to barking.

As part of my contribution to a recent article on barking, I was asked:

With puppies, what can we do to prevent barking at things like the doorbell, the garbage truck, or people passing by?

What about adult dogs? Is it too late to train them out of barking?

Here’s what we’re unpacking today:

Why the real...

Hey Dog Lover! 🐶
Welcome to Part One of my brand-new Beyond the Bark Series! This is the first of three episodes where we’re digging deep into one of the most common (and often misunderstood) dog behaviors: barking.

Fun fact: I was recently asked to contribute to an article on barking (how interesting, right?), and in this episode I’m sharing some of the answers I gave to the journalist’s questions.

Here’s what we’re covering today:

The main reasons dogs bark — and the most common triggers

The difference betw...

Hey Dog Lover! 🐾
Ever feel a little weird about saying “no” to your dog?
Like you’re doing something wrong or “un-positive”? 😬

In this episode, we’re unpacking the myth that “no” is a bad word in dog training.
We’ll explore why clarity isn’t cruel, why disagreement doesn’t mean disconnection, and how using both yes and no helps build trust, confidence, and a real relationship with your dog.

If you’ve ever stood there, frozen, wondering what to do next—or if you’ve been stuck in the all-or-nothing world of dog training lingo (looki...

Hey Dog Lover,

Have you noticed your dog barking more lately? Acting out in ways that seem “out of the blue”? Maybe every time someone walks in—or out—the door, your dog launches into full-blown emotional mayhem. 😅

Here’s the truth: your dog feels it too.

Whether it’s back-to-school chaos, a kid leaving for college, grief, stress, or just a shift in your household energy—dogs don’t miss a beat. And what we often label as “bad behavior” is actually a cry for stability, connection, and leadership.

In this episode, we unpack...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
If your dog struggles when guests come over—whether it’s barking, hiding, or pacing—this episode is for you. Inspired by Jenee from the Living Beyond Obedience community, we’re digging into the Build Your Brave Protocol: Guest Edition so you can create a space where your dog feels safe and even starts to build confidence with each visit.

We’ll talk about:

Setting up a comfort zone before guests arrive

Responding based on your dog’s personality and needs

Prepping your guests so they’re part of the solut...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

We’ve all tried it—a new harness, a head halter, or that “miracle” tip from a midnight scroll. Sometimes, these quick fixes help… and that’s okay. But they’re not the full answer.

In this episode, we’ll explore:

How quick fixes can give you the breathing room to start real change

Why true progress comes from calm, consistent leadership—not just tools

The danger of staying “loud” in your communication with your dog

How to keep building connection and trust after the quick fix moment has...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
Ever found yourself saying, “I’ve tried everything and nothing is working…”?

If your head is spinning and your dog still seems confused, you’re not broken—and neither is your dog.
You’re just stuck in the noise.

This episode is about why trying everything might actually be the thing holding you back… and how doing less can finally bring the calm and clarity you’ve both been craving.

Inside this episode:
🐾 Why system-hopping creates noise, not progress
🐾 How conflicting techniques confuse your dog (and rattle your own confidence...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
Have you ever felt like you’re just not the “leader type”?
Maybe you’re not loud enough. Not confident enough. Not “trainer-y” enough.

Here’s the tail-wagging truth:
You don’t need to be loud. You don’t need to be dominant.
You just need to be clear. Calm. Trustworthy.

In this episode, we’re redefining leadership—not as something you do, but something you be.
Because your dog isn’t looking for perfection... they’re looking for someone who won’t crumble when things get messy.

Inside this episod...

Hey Dog Lover! 🐾

Okay… so I don’t love the term “fur baby.” 🙃
But you know what? If you’re showing up, leading, loving, and learning alongside your dog—you are still parenting. Just not in the “let’s dress up for brunch” kind of way.

In this episode, I’m sharing a story about the time a parenting coach absolutely went off on me for suggesting that dog leadership and parenting might have something in common. Spoiler alert: her own story accidentally proved my point.

We’ll talk about:

Why “pet parenting” gets a b...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

You love your dog.
But if you're feeling frustrated, short-tempered, or just plain tired—this episode is for you.

Because here’s the truth:
You were told to train more. Socialize more. Enrich more.
But what happens when you don’t have anything more to give?

If having a dog is starting to feel like a full-time job... how interesting.

In this episode, we explore why the relationship might feel heavier than it should:

Why constant cueing means you’re always leading the dance (and...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

You see a scared dog—and your heart jumps in to help.
So you crouch down, soften your voice, toss out a “hi sweetie”… and maybe even offer a little face-level fist bump of encouragement.

You know... "smell my hand, I am a good person"

And yet... the dog shrinks back even more.
Yikes.

Here’s the truth:
When dogs are feeling uncertain, we often get weird. We shrink ourselves, change our energy, or turn into a Disney side character trying to soothe a fear that actually...

Hey Dog Lover,🐾

If you’ve ever looked at your dog and thought, “But you know this… why aren’t you doing it?” — I see you. And I promise, you’re not alone.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what’s really going on when your training isn’t landing—and why it might not be about training at all. 🤯

We’ll unpack 3 signs that your dog’s behaviour has less to do with disobedience and everything to do with trust, leadership, and nervous system overwhelm.

Here’s what we dig into:

Why your...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
What if your biggest goal right now wasn’t “get the dog outside”—
but build enough trust that they want to go with you?

In this episode, I share a real-life story from one of our new Facebook group members: Wendy, whose 6-month-old shelter pup is afraid to even step outside.
No walks. No potty. Just pads and a whole lot of uncertainty.

Sound familiar?

Here’s the truth:
Fearful dogs don’t need to be forced into bravery.
They need someone to believe in first.

We...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
Ever feel like you’re head-over-heels for your dog… but the feeling’s not exactly mutual?

You’re bringing the snacks, the snuggles, the “who’s a good boy” energy—and he’s over there sniffing dirt like you don’t even exist.
Yeah. We’ve all been there.

This episode is your loving-but-honest wake-up call:
If your dog only checks in for treats, ghosts you in new places, or forgets you exist on walks—it’s not because they don’t love you. It’s because they’re not into you… yet.

We’ll cove...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
Does your dog panic the moment you pull into the vet clinic parking lot?
Do you start sweating before the car's even in park?

Vet visits with a fearful or reactive dog can feel like emotional combat.
You’re doing your best—but somehow it still ends in trembling, barking, and that deep, gnawing feeling: “Why is this so hard?”

Here’s the truth no one tells you:
You’re not failing.
Your dog’s not broken.
You’re just both navigating a world that doesn’t understand how safe...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
You’ve done everything right.
You’ve loved hard. You’ve tried training, treats, supplements—even energy work.
But your dog still barks at strangers. Still panics on walks. Still can’t be trusted with guests or grandkids.

So what gives?

This episode is for the dog people who are holding heartbreak in one hand and a leash in the other—wondering why nothing’s working, and what to do next.

We’ll dig into:

Why obedience and affection aren’t enough for fearful dogs

What it actually...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

Did you know your dog can smell your stress?
Not just sense it—literally smell it. Cortisol has a scent, and our dogs pick up on it long before we say a word.

In this episode, we’re unpacking how your dog reads your nervous system, why different Dogonalities™ respond in unique ways, and how to shift from reaction to calm, connected leadership.

You’ll walk away with a fresh understanding of why obedience isn’t the answer—and what to focus on instead to build real trust and safety.

H...

Hey there, Dog Lover🐾

You packed the treats, braced for meltdowns, and hoped your reactive dog wouldn’t unravel the moment you left your driveway. But surprise! On vacation, your fearful dog was calm, confident, even easy.
What gives?

In this episode, I’m diving into what I call the vacation effect—and why a change of scenery can reveal a whole new side of your reactive or anxious dog. We’ll talk about how triggers, habit loops, and environmental pressure can influence your dog’s behavior way more than you think. And how trust-based l...

Hey Dog Lover,🐾

Ever feel like you're never doing enough for your dog? Like your to-do list is longer than your leash, and somehow the walk still didn’t happen?

You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re talking about the pressure to “do more” and why that mindset might be getting in the way of the meaningful connection you and your dog both crave.

From stories about juggling dogs and real life (hello summer chaos 🥵) to a surprising lesson I learned from a teacup during Toastmasters, we’ll unpack:

Why the word “more...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

What if the problem isn’t your dog’s behavior… but how we’re communicating?

In this episode, I share a powerful moment that shifted the way I think about leadership, clarity, and connection with our dogs. It's all about learning to ask instead of tell—and why that one shift makes such a big difference.

We’ll explore how your posture, tone, and intention shape the way your dog responds—and why asking with curiosity builds trust, while telling often creates tension.

Whether your dog is bold, sensitive, or som...

Hey there Dog Lover! 🐾

It’s fireworks season!
And while we humans love the festivities... our dogs? Not so much.

If your fearful dog hides under the bed or your reactive dog goes into full panic mode at every boom, this episode is for you.

In today’s chat, we’re diving into why loud noises like fireworks trigger fear-based behaviours—and how you can start building a more confident, resilient dog without relying on obedience commands, endless treats, or outdated training methods.

We’ll talk about:

What’s really happen...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

Ever feel like everything else in the environment is way more interesting than you?
The wind, a leaf, a squirrel 300 yards away—all have your dog’s full attention. You? Not so much.

Welcome to life with the Fearless Explorer—those bold, independent dogs who chase the world like it’s their job… and forget you’re even holding the leash.

In this episode, we’re unpacking:

Why your dog isn’t ignoring you—they’re just deeply invested elsewhere

How prey drive and independence show up as...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
Is your dog always ready to bolt at the drop of a leaf?
Skittish, jumpy, hyper-alert—and constantly scanning for the exit?

That’s not just a “nervous temperament.” That’s flight mode. And for these dogs, the world feels like too much, too fast, too loud… all the time.

In this episode, we’re diving into what it really means to live with an overwhelmed runner and how you can help them slow down, stay longer, and start to feel safe in their own skin.

You’ll learn:

Why yo...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾
Does fear stop your dog in their tracks?
No barking. No bolting. Just frozen—staring, trembling, unable to take a single step forward.

That’s not stubbornness. That’s survival mode. And for these sensitive souls, the stillness isn’t calm—it’s fear.

No treat in the world will get your dog to move if their brain is locked in freeze mode. And no amount of “it’s okay” will convince them it is.

In this episode, we’re digging into:

Why your dog won’t move (and why forcing i...

Hey Dog Lover! 🐾
Does your dog have big energy, big opinions, and an even bigger personality? You might just be living with an LBE—Left Brain Extrovert—aka the “life of the party” dog!

In this episode, we’re diving into what makes the LBE dog tick (hint: it’s not dominance or treat pouches). These clever, active dogs are often misunderstood when all they really want is a job and a buddy. You’ll learn:

Why Fulfilment is the secret sauce for the LBE Dogonality

How to turn chaos into connection through partnersh...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

Ever feel like your dog is ignoring you… but without actually doing anything wrong?

Welcome to the world of the Left Brain Introvert (LBI)—the deep-thinking, cautious, often misunderstood Dogonality™ who isn’t saying “no”… but definitely isn’t saying “yes” either. And that matters. A lot.

In this episode, we’re diving into:

What Dogonality™ really is (and why it changes everything)

Why your “lazy” dog might actually be leading the relationship

The sneaky leadership leaks that happen with quiet dogs

How to uncover true fulfillment...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

You’ve probably heard that “leadership matters.” But what does that actually look like in your daily life with your dog? No jargon. No treat pouch. Just real-life leadership your dog can trust.

In Part 2 of this two-part series, we’re diving into the Secret Sauce—the stuff that makes your dog want to follow you, even when you’re not “training.”
Spoiler alert: it has everything to do with how you show up and nothing to do with how many reps you do.

You’ll learn:

The Leadership Scorec...

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

Have you ever looked at your dog mid-chaos and thought, “He should know better by now”?

You're not alone. That thought creeps in when you're tired, frustrated, or just not up for another round of treat-pouch training. But what if the real issue isn't your dog "knowing better"... it's that the kind of training you're doing doesn't feel sustainable—or satisfying?

In this episode, we’re unpacking the hidden pressure behind traditional dog training and talking about what to do when you just don’t want to train anymore.
(And no, you’r...

Hey Dog Lover,🐾
How many times have you said, “My dog just needs more training…”?

Here’s the truth bomb:
If your dog knows “sit,” “stay,” and “come” (even inconsistently)—they’re trained.

So if they’re still not listening, it’s not about obedience.
It’s about relationship.

In this episode, we’ll explore:

Why more training won’t fix a communication gap

How obedience and leadership are not the same thing

When to use structure… and when to just be with your dog

Why some dogs love obedience—...

Hey Dog Lover,🐾
If you've brought home a rescue dog, you’ve probably heard (or said), “She must have been abused…” or “He’s like this because of his past.” And while backstory can matter—it’s not the whole story.

In this episode, we’re gently challenging the rescue narrative. Because pity might feel kind, but it can unintentionally disempower your dog. And your dog? They’re capable of so much more than their history.

We’re diving into:

Why assumptions about your dog’s past can shape their future

The difference between empa...

Hey Dog Lover! 🐾

Can you teach a dog to be calm?

Spoiler: not exactly. Because calm isn’t a command—it’s a state. And your dog isn’t just listening to what you say… they’re feeling who you are.

In this episode, I’m breaking down one of the biggest myths in dog behaviour: that we can train calm into our dogs. Instead, we explore why obedience is not the same as regulation—and how to become the kind of leader your dog can actually trust.

You’ll learn:

Why stillness is...

Hey dog lover,
You know those moments where your dog reacts out of nowhere? One second everything feels calm… and the next—boom. Barking, lunging, pacing, chaos. It’s confusing, frustrating, and sometimes downright scary.

But here’s the truth: those moments are never as random as they seem.

In this episode, we’re unpacking:

Why those “hold your breath” moments matter

How stress stacks up—sometimes silently

Why dogs remember unfinished conversations

And what you can do to interrupt the spiral without panic or punishment

This is a m...

Hey Dog Lover,🐾

Think your dog just needs more exercise?

Think again. In this episode, we’re digging into one of the most overlooked aspects of behaviour and well-being: fulfilment.

It’s not about endless fetch or racking up steps—it’s about understanding what truly lights your dog up and letting them express that joy in ways that build connection, not chaos.

You’ll hear:

Why fulfilment is non-negotiable for pro-social behaviour

How our dogs' different breeds and genetics show us what true joy looks like for THEM. Duration: 00:23:07

Hey Dog Lover,🐾

Have you ever felt that gut punch of fear when your dog lunges, growls, or just gets a little too intense? This episode is for you.

I’m pulling back the curtain on a real moment with my horse Sunny—and sharing how fear, uncertainty, and doubt (aka the FUD Factor) can derail our leadership in a heartbeat.

We’ll unpack:

Why fear is a leadership killer—and what to do about it

How your nervous system is your training strategy

Why responding > reacting matters mor...

Hey Dog Lover!

In this very special 100th episode, Paisley and I are reflecting on the journey—how this podcast went from a final message to a full-blown mission. We’re celebrating the episodes you loved most, sharing powerful stories from our incredible community, and giving you a peek behind the scenes at what’s next for the Fearless Framework.

If you’ve ever felt like you're walking through the world with a misunderstood dog and just want to get it right—this episode is for you.

Here’s what we dig into:

The top...

🐾 Hey there, Dog Lover,

If you’ve ever felt like your relationship with your dog revolves around treats, you’re not alone.
The truth is, treats can buy attention... but they can’t build a relationship.

In today’s episode, we're diving into what it really means to lead with trust—not treats.
We’ll talk about why real leadership isn’t about transactions or constant reinforcement, but about becoming the calm, steady, trustworthy presence your dog can depend on—no cookie needed. 🚫🍪

Hope you enjoy this one!
Be sure to share it with your dog...

🐾 Hey there, Dog Lover,

We all want our dogs to like us—it's only natural.
But when you're working with a fearful or reactive dog, likeability isn't the goal. Trust is.

In today’s episode, we’re digging into the hidden trap of trying to "win" your dog's affection—and why focusing on being trusted instead of liked changes everything.
We'll explore what real leadership looks like (hint: it's not about bribery or constant cheerleading) and how you can start showing up as the steady, calm, trustworthy presence your dog actually needs.

And yes...

🐾Hey there, Dog Lover,
Are you constantly scheduling walks, enrichment, training sessions—and still feeling like you’re not doing enough?

This episode is your permission to pause.😉

We’re talking about the emotional weight of trying to “get it right,” what overstimulation might be doing to your relationship, and why doing nothing together can still be doing something.

Let’s slow down and rediscover the calm, connected life you and your dog actually want.

Next Steps:
👉 Join the Fearless Framework- Share in the journey with other dog lovers like you!
Inside...

🐾Hey there, Dog Lover,
You want to do right by your dog. 💜

You want connection, confidence… and if we’re honest, you probably want them to be “good.”

But what does that even mean?

And who gets to decide?

This episode unpacks where the “good dog” myth really comes from, how it quietly shows up in our daily lives, and what it might be costing you—and your dog.

If you’ve ever thought, “She should be over this by now” or “I just want him to be good,” this one’s for you.<...

🐾Hey there Dog Lover,
What if your dog didn’t need more drills, tools, or treat pouches… but a completely different kind of relationship?

In this episode, I’m sharing the 5 core values that guide everything I do inside Beyond Obedience.

These aren’t training tips—they’re mindset shifts.

Anchors. Invitations to lead from trust, not pressure.

If you’ve felt stuck in the “shoulds,” these pillars might just set you free.😊

Next Steps:
👉 Join the Fearless Framework- Join the most supportive, amazing dog lovers♥️
This is where transformation re...

Hey Dog Lover,

What happens when we stop trying to “fix” our dog — and start asking who they truly are?

In this episode, I sit down with Heather to talk about her incredible journey with Geordie — a dog she once believed she’d never truly connect with. Together, we explore what it means to see the world through your dog’s eyes, to lead with emotional reliability, and to step into a quiet, shared language of partnership.

Heather reflects on:🐾 Moving from confusion to clarity
🐾 The power of calm, present leadership
🐾 Why curiosity changed...

Hey dog lover!

Okay, so here’s the deal…
You’ve done the training. Your dog knows the cues.
And yet… every walk feels like a strategy session, every outing ends in stress, and you're still left wondering, “Why isn’t this working?”

If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

In today’s chat, I’m walking you through three signs that the real issue isn’t obedience—it’s something deeper.

We’ll unpack why your dog might be better off-leash than on, what your exhaustion is trying to tell you, and...

🐾Hey Dog Lover!,

You’ve probably asked it at some point — maybe even this week:
“Is my dog doing this because they’re afraid?”

It’s such a common question… and honestly, a really complicated one.
Because fear can show up in a lot of ways: barking, lunging, freezing, chasing, or even growling. And to make it even trickier? Those same behaviors could also come from frustration, confusion, or instinct.

And when you’re the one holding the leash — trying to read your dog’s body language in real-time, while your own heart rate is going...

Hey there Dog Lover!🐾

This week, Paisley and I sat down to answer some of your most honest, heartfelt questions — and wow, did you deliver.

From a siren-sensitive Malinois who never leaves your side… to a fearless Boston with a taste for freedom… to a big, beautiful German Shepherd whose jumping has turned into bruises and scratches — every question we answered this week was rooted in one thing:
A deep desire to understand.

Here’s what we unpack in this April Q&A episode:🐾 Should you let your fearful dog follow you everywhere? Duration: 00:47:36

Hey dog lover 🐾

Have you ever found yourself wondering, “Why isn’t this getting better yet?”
You’re showing up, doing the work, being patient… but your fearful or sensitive dog still seems stuck.

In today’s episode, I’m sharing the story of Levi—a shutdown rescue who couldn’t even be touched when he arrived. He taught me one of the most powerful lessons I’ve ever learned:
Progress doesn’t happen on our timeline.
And sometimes, letting go of the clock is what finally opens the door to trust.

If you’ve been feeli...

Hey dog lover! 🐾

Ever feel like you're just the dope at the end of the rope—being dragged along while your dog follows their nose and completely tunes you out? I’ve been there. And so was Chuckles, my husband’s swamp-loving, scent-obsessed Basset Hound who taught me one of the most powerful lessons about fulfillment, relevance, and real connection.

In today’s episode, I take you on a muddy little adventure that changed everything for Chuckles and me—and I just might do the same for you and your dog especially if you're living with a confid...

Hey Dog Lover,

Apollo wasn’t the easiest dog to live with. He had a massive prey drive, a fearless attitude, and a knack for chaos — and honestly, there were days I didn’t even like him.

But behind all that intensity… was one of the most fiercely loyal, deeply devoted dogs I’ve ever known.

In this episode, I’m telling the story of Apollo — the dog who made me question everything I thought I knew about leadership, love, and what it means to accept the whole dog, not just the easy parts.

W...

Hey dog lover! 🐾

Have you been unintentionally denying your dog’s cultural identity?

In this episode, we explore the surprisingly overlooked world of honouring your dog’s roots—whether that’s through themed meals, heritage-based enrichment, or just a deeper understanding of who they really are. Because maybe the reason your dog is ignoring you… is cultural.

Or maybe—it’s something else entirely. 😉

Hope you enjoy,
Tracy

NEXT STEPS:
✨ Want to understand your dog’s Dogonality™? Take the free quiz: www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
💬 Ready to connect...

Hey Dog Lover,

What do you do when your dog couldn’t care less that you exist?

Jayce was one of the most confident, independent dogs I’ve ever worked with — and for the first few days we lived together, I was just the dope at the end of the leash. He didn’t want my attention, my approval, or my connection.

But one weird little moment — involving a frog and a puddle — shifted everything.

In this episode, I’m sharing the full story of my time with Jayce and the powerful lesso...

Hey Dog Lover,

If you’ve ever wondered, “Why isn’t my dog listening?” or felt like you’re doing all the right things but still struggling to connect—this episode is for you.

Because treats and tricks can only take you so far.

The leadership style your dog really needs isn’t about obedience cues or bribery. It’s about trust, relevance, and understanding who they are at their core.

And that’s where your dog’s Dogonality comes in.

In this episode, I’m breaking down how to lead your dog based...

Hey Dog Lover,

Have you ever looked at your dog and thought, “Why are you doing that?” Maybe they freeze, ignore you, or even react in ways that leave you feeling frustrated or confused. It’s easy to assume they’re being stubborn, ignoring you, or just plain difficult. But what if it’s none of those things?

What if it’s a misunderstanding?

In this episode, I’m sharing the 3 most common signs that you might be misunderstanding your dog—and how a simple shift in perspective can change everything. We’ll talk about:
🐾...

Hey Dog Lover! 🐾

You love your dog—that part is easy. But the deep, beautiful bond where you just get each other? That kind of connection doesn’t happen by chance. It happens when you understand who your dog really is at their core.

Because here’s the truth: love is simple, but understanding is transformational.

In this episode, we’re digging deep into what it really takes to build a bond that feels effortless and unshakable. We’ll explore:

Hey Dog Lover!

Ever feel like your dog is straight-up ignoring you? You call their name, and they keep sniffing. You ask them to sit, and they stare off into the distance. Frustrating, right? But what if the problem isn’t that they’re ignoring you… what if it’s that you’re ignoring who they really are?

In this episode, we’re diving deep into how understanding your dog’s unique personality is the key to better communication and a stronger bond. Because once you know why your dog behaves the way they do, you can stop f...

Hey Dog Lover~

Got dog behavior questions?

We’ve got answers! 🎤🐾

In this special Q&A episode, (Paisley is jumping on the mic with us today!) we tackle some of the most common (and quirky) dog training questions from our Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group and past bootcamps.

We’re diving into questions like:

✅ What are subtle but powerful ways to boost my dog’s confidence at home?
✅ How do I help my dog feel safe and calm around cars?
✅ My dog got spooked by a loud noise—no...

Hey Dog Lover,

“Sit!” It’s the go-to command, the first thing we teach our dogs, the magic word that’s supposed to mean they’re well-behaved and under control. But have you ever stopped to ask why we make our dogs sit in certain situations?

What if, in some cases, asking your dog to sit is actually making them feel more insecure?

Today, we’re diving into why obedience isn’t always the answer—and how sometimes, the very thing we think is helping is actually working against our dogs.

In this episode...

Hey Dog Lover,

Does the thought of having guests over send you into a panic—not because of your guests, but because of your dog? Maybe they bark like a maniac, hide under the table, or pace like they’re planning an escape route. Sound familiar? You’re not alone.

Let's talk about what we can do to set our dog up for success and actually enjoy having friends over again.

In this episode, we’ll dive into:

Hey Dog Lover~

Spring break is here, and while you're planning your getaway, your dog might not be as excited about the change! 🐾 Should they come along for the adventure, or would they be happier staying home with a sitter or at a boarding facility? The key to making the right decision lies in the Three Stages of Trust-Building from the Fearless Framework.

In this episode, we’ll help you determine:

✅ The three stages of trust-building and how they affect travel readiness
✅ Why trust, not obedience, determines your dog’s ability to handle new...

Hey Dog Lover,

Some people say, “Never let your dog on the couch—it’ll ruin your leadership!”
Others say, “My dog is my baby! Of course, they’re on the furniture!”
Me? I say, have your cake and eat it too! 🍰💪

But here’s the thing—it’s not just about saying yes or no to dogs on the furniture. It’s about understanding how dogs use space, levels, and positioning as part of their communication.

In this episode, we’re digging into:

Hey Dog Lover,

We love putting labels on things—especially our dogs. She’s dominant. He’s stubborn. She’s independent. He’s needy. But here’s the thing: those labels don’t tell the whole story. They carry all of our preconceived ideas about what our dog is rather than allowing us to see their behaviour for what it truly is—just information.

Behaviour isn’t a fixed personality trait; it’s a response to the environment, experiences, and emotions. It’s how your dog communicates what’s going on inside.

Hey Dog Lover!

Ever feel like your dog has selective hearing? You ask them to “come,” “sit,” or “leave it,” and they look at you like you’re speaking another language (spoiler: you kinda are!). The truth is, words often muddy the waters when it comes to communicating with your dog.

In this episode, we’re breaking down why talking less actually helps your dog understand you more. You’ll learn:

🐾 Why too much talking turns into background noise for your dog
🐾 How movement, body language, and energy create real engagement
🐾 The simple mindset shift th...

Hey, Dog Lover!

If you’re living with a fearful dog, you know how tough it can be. You’re doing your best, but sometimes it feels like no matter what you try, your dog is still anxious, reactive, or struggling to feel safe. What if some of the things you’ve been told to do… are actually making life harder?

In this episode, we’re breaking down the top mistakes dog owners make when living with a fearful dog—and, more importantly, what to do instead.

🐾 We’ll cover:
✔️ Why you can’t train fear away...

Hey Dog Lover! 🐾

We hear all the time that dogs need a leader—but what does that actually mean? Leadership isn’t about control; it’s about being someone worth following…to a dog. And here’s the catch: your dog doesn’t follow just anyone. They follow someone who truly understands them.

In this episode, we’re breaking downfour key ways to be a leader your dog actually wants to follow—by learning who they really are, what fulfills them, and how to show up in a way that makes them feel safe, seen, and understood.

Hey Dog Lover! 🐾

Does your dog's anxiety turn every walk into a stressful event? If your dog is lunging, freezing, or constantly on edge, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to dread walks forever.

In this episode, we’re diving into theC.A.L.M. method—a simple yet powerful framework to make walks more predictable, less stressful, and (dare I say) even enjoyable for both of you!

✅C – Check the Environment → Spot potential stressors before your dog does.
✅A – Assess the Situation → Read your dog’s body language—thinking mode or reacting mod...

Hey fellow dog lover! 🐾

Setbacks happen, and they can feel heavy—like you’re back at square one. But guess what? You’re never really starting over. The difference now is you.

In this episode, we’re diving into how to rebuild trust after a setback—both with your dog and within yourself—so you can move forward with confidence and clarity. You’ll learn how to take small, intentional steps that strengthen your relationship and help you shake off that 'starting over' feeling.

🔥 Want to fast-track this process and help your dog feel calm and secure...

Hey Dog Lover!

I’ll be real with you—I seriously considered cancelling next week’s Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp. With everything happening in the world, Everything just feels so heavy right now. I wondered, Is this even the right time?

But then I realized… that’s exactly why this needs to happen. We need to connect more than ever over our shared love of dogs now!

Because if you’re anything like me, you’ve probably felt:

🐾 Frustrated that your dog’s anxiety or reactivity isn’t getting better, no ma...

Hey fellow dog lover! 🐾

Are you ready to finally help your dog feel calmer and more secure—without relying on endless training drills? In this episode, I’m sharing three simple ways to deepen your bond and build trust, so your dog sees you as a safe and confident leader.

Whether you have a fearful dog or just want to create a more peaceful, connected relationship, these strategies will help you move beyond obedience and into true partnership.

And if you’re ready to take this to the next level… 🎉

🔥 Join m...

Hey Dog Lover!

Ever feel like your dog just isn’t listening fast enough? Or maybe they hesitate, and you’re tempted to push them along, because you know they know...you know?

In this episode, we’re diving into The Power of the Pause and why giving your dog space to process their world can make all the difference. Whether you have a fearful pup or just want to strengthen your bond, this simple but powerful technique is a game-changer.

🐾 What is the Power of the Pause? – How slowing down helps dogs move from r...

Hey, fellow dog lover! 🐾

Have you ever wondered if your dog is feeling overwhelmed but weren’t quite sure how to tell? Dogs are constantly communicating through subtle body language and behaviour—and learning to recognize these signs and to move into action to help them feel safe and supported.

In this episode, we’re diving into:

The telltale signs of an overwhelmed dog (spoiler: it’s not always what you think!). How stress builds up and why recognizing overwhelm early can prevent reactive behaviours. What to do when your dog is feeling overstimula...

Hey Friend! 🐾

Want to know the secret to helping your dog feel truly safe? It’s not just about food, water, or treats—it’s about YOU showing up as a calm, consistent leader. In this episode, we’re talking about why being that steady presence in your dog’s life makes all the difference.

Here’s what we’re diving into today:

What It Means to Be a Calm, Consistent Leader

Leaders "go first"—your energy and actions set the tone.

Why being the center of your dog’s world creates secur...

Hey Friend! 🐾

You ever notice how your dog seems to pick up on your vibes? Like, if you're stressed, they’re stressed... but if you're chill, they start to relax too? In this episode, we’re diving into emotional mirroring—how your mood directly shapes your dog’s behaviour.

Let me tell you about Lexi, a rescue who had a tough time with reactivity on walks, and I had a rough time dealing with her intensity. With some patience,(which I struggled with) understanding, and this game-changing advice—"Be what you want your dog to be"—Lexi taug...

Hey fellow dog lover! 🐾

Does your dog bite or nip every time you try to show them affection? It might be time to rethink how you’re connecting with your dog. In this Q&A episode, I tackle the tough question: "My dog bites me every time I pet him—how do I prevent that?"

The answer might surprise you: stop petting the dog. 😧

While this isn’t the answer most dog lovers want to hear, respecting your dog’s love language is essential rather than teaching them to tolerate ours.

Not all dogs e...

Hey fellow dog lover! 🐾

Are you stuck judging your progress based on an unattainable ideal? In this episode, I’ll help you flip the script and focus on your real accomplishments by looking at how far you’ve come—not just how far you think you have to go.

This mindset shift isn’t just for you—it can make all the difference in how you show up for your dog. Together, we’ll explore why celebrating incremental progress is essential for building confidence and trust, both for you and your dog.

Wanna talk one-on-one...