Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast Hosted by Mike Enders

Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast Hosted by Mike Enders

By: Mike Enders

Language: en

Categories: Comedy, Interviews

Mike Enders, media personality, founder and creator of the wildly popular, award winning blog, Accidental Bear. He has been championing for queer culture and the arts for over a decade. Mike might be best know for his Bath Tub Interview Series from back in the day. After taking a few year hiatus to pursue other interests he has come to the conclusion that he misses connecting with community, creative types and this to put it frankly, "doing cool shit." A focus of Enders' '"comeback" will be spotlighting issues around aging as a queer person. Sadly his Youtube Channel associated...

Episodes

Musician/Artist BOY RADIO, "Himbo-ism", "Daddy Shorts", Who the F Do you think you are!?! Live Shows
Oct 24, 2025

S2E16 Guest: BOY RADIO. NYC based musician/artist with albums out titled, "Himboism" and "Pop That". Who the F are you? Who the F do you think you are!? , doggy named Frankie, live shows and what's next for BOY RADIO.

Find BOY RADIO on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/boy.radio/

Duration: 00:51:01
Norman Brannon, Hardcore History, Homocore, Anti-Matter Zine
Oct 09, 2025

S2E15 Guest Norman Brannon: guitarist for Thursday, publisher/founder of Anti-Matter Zine. Topics: Hardcore, punk, music history, homocore, zines, gay in the hardcore scene and much more chaos!

Find Norman on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/normanbrannon/

Duration: 01:32:12
Queer Blue Collar Comedian Metal Dork Peter Angelo Keeps it Real
Oct 01, 2025

S2E14 Queer Blue Collar Comedian Metal Dork Peter Angelo Gets Real. Peter is a unicorn! Topics: Punk, hardcore, metal, death core, wrestling, beards, boyfriend, standup comedy, queer community, fitting in, not fitting in

Duration: 00:59:16
S2E13 Seriously Handsome Comedian Colton Dowling, Lotto Tickets & Poor People, PC Comedy, Sobriety
Sep 25, 2025

Season 2 Episode 13 Guest Comedian Colton Dowling

Find Colton on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/coltondowling/ @beatmygay @someofthisisbad ​

Duration: 00:52:53
S2E12 Big Brother's Derek Frazier "Big D", Weight Loss, Dating Apps, Bear Diversity
Sep 18, 2025

Guest Derek Frazier "Big D". Runner-up of Big Brother 23 (US). Life after Big Brother, weight loss journey, dating apps while being recognizable from tv, new projects and the future.

Duration: 00:45:08
S2E11 Artist Anthony Hurd, Queer Imagery, Broke Back Mountain, Gay Representation, Sobriety
Sep 12, 2025

Season 2 Episode 11 Guest: Queer / Sober / husband / Step Dad / ABQ Gallery. Topics: New Mexico, growing up gay in rural areas, hardcore, skateboarding, "Last of Us" , "Brokeback Mountain", representation , step-dad, Charlie Kirk, art as a protest, Monogamy, and much more!!

Find Anthony Hurd on Socials

https://www.instagram.com/anthonyhurd/

Duration: 00:59:29
S2E10 Brett Gleason, Trauma, Healing, Music Industry, LA, " Moody & Gay"
Sep 06, 2025

Season 2 Episode 10. Guest Brett Gleason. Singer/songwriter, writer... Topics: Moving to LA from NYC. Creating music. Transitioning from music to writing, trauma, healing, Starbuck's cold foam, the future and much more! Brett doesn't back on how he feels about Orville Peck.

Find Brett on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/brettgleason_/ https://www.instagram.com/moodyandgay/

Duration: 01:05:24
S2E10 Brett Gleason, Trauma, Healing, Music Industry, LA, " Moody & Gay"
Sep 06, 2025

Season 2 Episode 10. Guest Brett Gleason. Singer/songwriter, writer... Topics: Moving to LA from NYC. Creating music. Transitioning from music to writing, trauma, healing, Starbuck's cold foam, the future and much more! Brett doesn't back on how he feels about Orville Peck.

Find Brett on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/brettgleason_/

Duration: 01:05:24
S2E9 Tattoo Artist, Full Time Homosexual Nick Bergin, Gloryholes, Buttholes and More!
Aug 28, 2025

Topics: The macho world of the tattoo scene, Nick's journey that got him where he is today, buttholes, glory holes, how he met his husband, penis tattoos, tattooing community and more salacious topics!

Follow Nick and his shop Godspeed on Instagram

Follow Nick and his shop Godspeed on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nicholasbergin/

https://www.instagram.com/godspeed.tattoo/

Duration: 00:39:24
Guest: Erik Ireland, Mindfulness Teacher, Sexy Papa Smurf, Self Compassion
Aug 22, 2025

Exploring identity and community. Mindfulness and "hero's journey", self compassion, etc. Is mindfulness for those with privilege only?

"I’m Erik, a mindfulness teacher, storyteller, and guide. I live in a cabin in the woods with my dogs, where I create bedtime stories, meditations, and courses to help you rest, reconnect, and gently wake up to a life that’s calling you. Whether you’re here to fall asleep, feel more grounded, or begin your own inner journey, I’ve got something for you. " Erik Ireland

Find Erik Ireland here https://www.inst...

Duration: 00:58:03
S2E7 Daddyhunt Jordan, Daddyhunt Past -Present-Future, "Twunk", Gay Dating Apps...
Jul 25, 2025

Season 2 Episode 7

Guest Daddyhunt Jordan, Daddyhunt Past -Present-Future, "Twunk", Gay Dating Apps, personal stories and journeys.

"Join the Daddyhunt community, the No. 1 online community for all things Daddy. The Daddyhunt community is for gay, bi and curious Daddies and guys that love Daddies because they know that #ExperienceMatters."

daddyhunt.com

Daddyhunt on Instagram

Daddyhunt on Youtube

Duration: 01:00:47
S2E6 Actor, Austin Jennings, P-Town, "A Gay Masseur’s Guide to Happy Endings" , Jojo Siwa Needs Help
Jul 19, 2025

Season 2 Episode 6. Guest: Actor Austin Jennings. "A Gay Masseur’s Guide to Happy Endings" in P-Town Aug 12th and 14th, Jojo Siwa, Jordan Firstman, and much more chaos.

Find Austin on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/austinnnnjb/

Get tickets to "A Gay Masseur’s Guide to Happy Endings" https://redroom.club/events/113884?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAachAXNx4piaLZ4dmYXKaBRgNovM8qDOdvi48YWQw4Dd4ybueWyqIIydyy8qrA_aem_QCfHnMbIeYxJTx8U9FNGWQ

Duration: 00:50:50
S2E5 Photographer Blake Little, "Construction Nudes", Nude Art, "Toxic Masculinity"...
Jun 19, 2025

Guest photographer Blake Little discusses new book, "Construction Nudes 1981-1985", inspirations, "toxic masculinity" , Palm Springs, current/future/past project and much more.

Find Blake Little and his work at www.blakelittle.com

@blakelittlephoto on Instagram

Find "Construction Nudes 1981-1985" by Blake Little here

https://blakelittle.store/books-by-blake-little-construction-nudes/

Duration: 00:48:54
S2E4 "Queer Cripple", Queer Disabled Sex/ Intimacy , Andrew Gurza, Fetishizing....
Jun 12, 2025

Guest: Andrew Gurza. Disability Awareness Consultant / Author of "Notes From A Queer Cripple" Conversation: "Notes from a Queer Cripple" book, queer intimacy, queer disabled experience, accessibility to "dark rooms", accessibility to queer bars, dating, hook-ups, boners and much more!

Follow Andrew https://www.instagram.com/andrewgurza/

Duration: 00:51:07
S2 E3 Guest Tom Goss, Kink Pressure, Bear Hugs, Wholesome Brand
Jun 02, 2025

This week’s episode will be released Monday June 2nd!!! It’s my Birthday/ Wedding Anniversary on Thursday so I’ll be taking the rest of the week off! S2 Episode 3 is with guest Tom Goss ! Such an amazing conversation! Pride Season, East Coast tour, new music video/song “Bear Soup”, soup served better hot or cold?, Bear hugs vs non Bear hugs, “wholesome is my kink”, wholesome brand, and is there pressure to have a kink from the queer community and more!

Follow Tom here @tomgossmusic

Duration: 00:30:48
S2 Ep2 Artist Michael James Schneider, Trump/ MAGA Trolls, Art as Protest, Cat Dads...
May 29, 2025

Guest; Artist, author Michael James Schneider. Art as a protest, F@ck Trump, F@ck MAGA, cat dads, online haters, personal safety.

Find Michael on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/blcksmth/

Duration: 00:48:39
S2 Ep 2 Artist Michael James Schneider, Art As Protest, Trump & MAGA Trolls, Cat Dads
May 29, 2025

Guest; Artis, author Michael James Schneider. Art as a protest, F@ck Trump, F@ck MAGA, cat dads, online haters, personal safety

Duration: 00:48:39
Season 2 Premiere of Fear An Ordinary Life w/ Mike Enders, Guest Stefan Weiner
May 23, 2025

Season 2 Premiere! Mike chats with singer/song writer, Stefan Weiner, for the second time! The chat covers a gamut of topics, Stefan's debut, tour, album, dating, ghosting, sexual position "side", and much more!

Follow Stefan Weiner on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/stefanweiner/

Find his debut album "How Lucky You Are" https://linktr.ee/stefanweiner?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafgh04XxogSsY3cmWo3QoTlJbmd3VylV_zfui_JxqQrx3AOCN_kH3iqUXIMTQ_aem_KDAwZsgfXqS2ulYOnF-55A

Duration: 00:26:37
Gay Icon, Photosexual, Peter Berlin LOST INTERVIEW with Mike Enders (2014)
Mar 14, 2025

Mike Enders interviewed gay legend Peter Berlin in 2014 at Peter's home in San Francisco accompanied by friend Eric Smith. Berlin asked not to be seen on camera. This interviewed was deleted by Youtube because it was said to go against policy; "We've taken a careful look at your channel again, and confirmed that it violates our Nudity and sexual content policy. We recognize it’s disappointing news, but our goal is to keep the YouTube community safe and supported."

Enders was able to recover the interview recently and thought it be important to share. It contains great in...

Duration: 00:28:55
S1E14 Singer Stefan Weiner, Queer Media, Thirst Trap Strategy, Bawdy Gay Folk Songs
Mar 06, 2025

Find Stefan Weiner on Socials

https://www.instagram.com/stefanweiner/

Listen to new song "Do Nothing" here https://orcd.co/stefanweiner-donothing

Takeaways

The importance of honesty in personal relationships.Finding humor in songwriting can be liberating.Queer identity plays a significant role in artistic expression.Community support is vital for queer artists.Cultural commentary can be effectively conveyed through music.The folk genre has a rich history of queer representation, especially among women.Songwriting can be a therapeutic process for artists.Social media is a powerful tool for artists to...

Duration: 01:01:35
S1E13 Pablo Escobar, All Male Review, SOO San Francisco, Gay Horror Podcast, Gay Fatherhood
Feb 08, 2025

Guest: Pablo Escobar. Fitness trainer, performance artist, media personality based out of San Francisco

San Francisco, queer culture, nightlife, podcasting, horror films, performance art, community, drag queens, cultural identity, podcasting, queer voices, personal loss, social media pressure, aging, parenthood, online opinions, political activism, self-reflection, mental health

takeaways

San Francisco's identity is deeply rooted in its queer culture.The all-male review 'Bologna' combines humor and sexuality.San Diego offers a different lifestyle compared to San Francisco.Cultural evolution is influenced by both older and younger generations.Diversity in performance art is celebrated in...

Duration: 01:03:45
Ep 12 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Life Coach Rob, Grief & Loss, Coping Skills
Jan 31, 2025

Mike talks with Life Coach Rob Goddard, based in Brisbane, Australia about grief, loss, and coping skills. Rob talks on his journey to becoming a life coach and the upcoming release of his new book. '

Find Rob on /at

https://www.instagram.com/robgoddardofficial/

https://liftingstones.com.au

coaching@liftingstones.com.au

Listen to full podcast on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Sbh...

Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@UCJec4V8iGCCMlx10yxdEDnA

Duration: 01:00:38
Ep 11 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Guest Boomer Banks, X-Rated NY, OnlyFans, BF, Gay vs Queer
Nov 20, 2024

Ep 11 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Guest Boomer Banks. Topics: X-Rated NY TV series, Twitter, Bluesky, 'trump supporting gays', DJing the world, Upcoming projects, Sobriety, Cruising for fun on off time, Foreskin Mafia, community needs to be kinder to each other, marginalized communities, P-Town Energy, Fuck Around and Find out! etc Does one get insurance for their penis?

Find Boomer on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/baconlvr/

Linktree https://linktr.ee/Boomerbanks?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaYEtoXy2gTUbQbKyKNYt8K1bbt2ux9wGdZy5bUvl-3T83fqAg00lX56sys_aem_fKLvtIYTzsBFM9Byy1ZDbQ

Duration: 01:01:07
Ep 10 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Guest Artist Scooter Laforge; Debbie Harry, Patricia Field...
Oct 04, 2024

Ep 10 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Guest Artist Scooter Laforge. Topics: San Francisco, collaborations (White Lotus), Debbie Harry, Patricia Field...

Find Scooter Laforge on https://www.instagram.com/scooterlaforge/ scooterlaforge@gmail.com

Listen to all full podcasts on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/7MCBLposTK8AZLHWVJLsuA

Duration: 00:34:29
Ep 9 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Guest: Art Consultant James Bacchi, Why Palm Springs?, Metaverse
Sep 28, 2024

Ep 8 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Guest: Art Consultant James Bacchi. Congratulations to 40 Years of working in the Art Business, Metaverse, Why Palm Springs, "gay erotic" art, cunsultant vs gallerist and more!

James J. Bacchi

@jamesbacchicontemporary

Duration: 00:47:40
Ep 8 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Guest: Recording Artist George Alley
Sep 13, 2024

On Episode 8 of Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast Mike chats with recording artist, producer, podcaster, writer, and professor. Find George on Socials https://www.instagram.com/georgealley/ https://www.georgealley.com https://georgealley.bandcamp.com/album/george-alley

Duration: 00:48:59
Ep 7 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Guest: The Illustrious Blacks
Aug 30, 2024

Episode 7 of Fear An Ordinary Life hosted by Mike Enders

Guests: The Illustrious Blacks. Self proclaimed Afro-Electro-Disco-Space-Punks, DJ/Music duo. Find all links for The Illustrious Blacks here https://linktr.ee/theillustriousblacks

Duration: 00:33:55
Ep 6 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Guest Brett Edward Stout: Gay Marine, Author, Military Porn..
Aug 23, 2024

Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast hosted by Mike Enders.| Guest Brett Edward Stout: Marine, Author, gay Topics: "A Gay Marine's Story" book series, gay amateur military porn, J.K. Rowling, Lady Bunny, "gish galloping" and so much more!

"As a gay author, it has always been my intention to expand gay fiction beyond the boxes of porn, camp, and tragedy. My first gay fiction novel was described as post-gay fiction, a description I accept with pride. What’s more, while sex does indeed get people’s attention, being interesting is what keeps it. If I was going to w...

Duration: 01:05:06
Ep 6 Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast | Guest Brett Edward Stout: Gay Marine, Author, Military Porn..
Aug 23, 2024

Fear An Ordinary Life Podcast hosted by Mike Enders.| Guest Brett Edward Stout: Marine, Author, gay Topics: "A Gay Marine's Story" book series, gay amateur military porn, J.K. Rowling, Lady Bunny, "gish galloping" and so much more! "As a gay author, it has always been my intention to expand gay fiction beyond the boxes of porn, camp, and tragedy. My first gay fiction novel was described as post-gay fiction, a description I accept with pride. What’s more, while sex does indeed get people’s attention, being interesting is what keeps it. If I was going to write a bo...

Duration: 01:05:06
Over the Hill Podcast Hosted by Mike Enders Ep 5 - Guest Gay Country Musician Cornelius Versa
Aug 09, 2024

Episode 5 of Over the Hill hosted by Mike Enders. Guest: Out LA based country singer Cornelius Versa.

Duration: 00:47:31
Ep 4 - Guest Race Cooper. Ex Porn Star, Thunder Thighs & Short Shorts, Queer Business Owner
Jun 28, 2024

Episode 4 of Over the Hill hosted by Mike Enders. Guest: Race Cooper; Personal Trainer, queer business owner, ex-porn star, dog dad and husband.

Duration: 01:04:33
Over the Hill with Mike Enders Podcast Ep 3 - Musician DALIN, Colonoscopy, LA vs NYC Queer Music Scene
Jun 21, 2024

The conversation then shifts to music, with DALIN discussing his approach to making music and the challenges of being a queer artist in the industry. The conversation explores the shift in the music industry and the challenges faced by artists in the current digital age. It touches on the concept of timeless music and the importance of authenticity and individuality in artistry. The conversation also discusses the impact of technology on music production and the loss of raw expression in favor of branding and image. The conversation explores the challenges and concerns of aging in the gay community, particularly...

Duration: 01:12:32
Ep #2 Over the Hill w/ Mike Enders - London Calling, MEAT, Embracing Aging, "Just for Men" ...
Jun 14, 2024

n this conversation, Adrian and Mike E discuss their experiences with technology, their respective careers as a photographer and DJ, and the challenges and joys of getting older. Adrian talks about his work as a DJ and the longevity of his Meat Party event. Mike E discusses his past work as a photographer and his current focus on creating diverse content. They also touch on the importance of representation in the LGBTQ+ community and the worries and considerations that come with aging. The conversation revolves around the challenges and experiences of getting older in the LGBTQ+ community, particularly in...

Duration: 00:55:48