Kebudel Parents

Tired of “new year, new you” pressure? We’re choosing a gentler path. Instead of chasing resolutions that turn into pass/fail tests, we slow down and reflect on what actually worked in 2025. We start by celebrating tiny, meaningful wins—like a bedtime that flowed or a peaceful car ride—and use those clues to build a calmer rhythm. From there, we get curious about who our kids are becoming, naming the traits that surfaced this year so we can respond to the child we have, not an ideal in our heads.

We also turn the spotlight back on ou...

Ever feel like you’re refereeing more than parenting? We open the door on sibling rivalry in the early years and show how tiny shifts—pausing before you step in, coaching instead of rescuing, and building short daily one-on-one moments—transform constant clashes into real-life lessons in empathy, patience, and repair. Drawing on a lived story of twins, including the domino effects after an injury, we unpack the hidden drivers behind bickering: competition for attention, developmental stages, family changes, and clashing temperaments.

Across this conversation, we get practical. You’ll hear simple, repeatable tactics to fill emotional tanks wi...

The moment a child starts insisting on “only Mum” or “only Dad” can upend a home. We dive into the real reasons behind parental preference and unpack why it’s less about rejection and more about predictability and safety. Drawing on our own story of twins who once demanded one parent for every cuddle, settle, and midnight wake, we map the emotions on both sides: the exhaustion of the preferred parent and the sting felt by the sidelined one.

From there, we move into solutions that actually work in busy family life. You’ll hear how to use low-stre...

What if the smartest thing we can do for our kids is to do a little less? We unpack how free play fuels deep learning, confidence, and resilience in the first five years—and why stepping back can be the most powerful support of all.

I share twin-tested stories that show how different play styles lead to rich growth, even without adult direction. We explore what free play looks like at each stage—from infants exploring textures and movement, to toddlers testing limits with sand and water, to preschoolers building worlds with rules, roles, and big ideas. Alon...

Remember your first day of school? That mix of excitement, fear, and confusion? As parents, we often worry about preparing our children for this milestone, focusing heavily on academic skills. But what if I told you that recognising letters and writing their name might be the least important aspects of school readiness?

Through my professional experience and personal journey with my twins, I've discovered that true school readiness revolves around social and emotional development. When I speak with new entrant teachers, they consistently emphasise the importance of self-help skills, emotional regulation, and social capabilities over academic knowledge...

Ever wonder why children typically say "Dad" before "Mum"? It's not favouritism—the 'D' sound is simply easier to master! This fascinating tidbit is just one of many insights shared as we explore the remarkable journey of communication and language development in children's first five years.

The COVID years created unprecedented challenges for our youngest learners, with many children now entering school with diminished communication abilities. But there's good news: supporting your child's language development doesn't require expensive apps or flashcards. The most powerful tool is already in your possession—your voice and presence during everyday moments.
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Autonomy isn't just a fancy concept—it's the foundation of raising children who feel confident, capable, and safe in who they are. This thoughtful exploration delves into why allowing children moments of independence and appropriate risk-taking is crucial for their development.

What happens when we step back instead of jumping in? When we allow the mess, embrace the slowness, and let our children try things for themselves? These seemingly small moments become powerful building blocks for our children's sense of self and their place in the world. Are they people who can make decisions and trust themselves, or...

What if respect wasn't something our children had to earn, but something they deserved from day one? This transformative question sits at the heart of today's conversation about respectful parenting.

Most of us crave respect in our adult relationships—with partners, colleagues, and friends. That feeling of being seen, heard, and valued creates safety and trust. Yet there's often a blind spot when it comes to our smallest family members. Western parenting culture has long positioned adults as fundamentally superior to children, suggesting little ones must be moulded and managed before they deserve our respect. I challenge th...

Struggling with baby or toddler sleep? You're not alone! In this episode, we tackle the biggest sleep challenges parents face—from bedtime battles to daycare nap transitions. With expert advice, proven sleep strategies, and real-life parenting insights, you'll learn how to help your little one sleep better at home and in childcare.

Whether you're preparing for your child's first daycare nap or just dreaming of a full night’s sleep, this episode is packed with tips to make sleep smoother for everyone.

☕ Tune in, get comfy, and let’s turn sleep struggles into sleep success! 😴✨

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”Educator Insights to Help You Navigate Parenthood: because children don’t come with a manual”

Starting ECE is a big step—for both kids and parents! 🌟 Join us for a fun and insightful webinar as we dive into the emotional side of this transition. We’ll share practical tips, expert insights, and real-life strategies to help your child feel secure, confident, and ready for their early learning journey. Whether you’re feeling excited, nervous, or a little bit of both, this session will give you the tools to navigate the change with ease (and maybe even a few laughs alon...

Let’s talk about the ultimate comfort items—those well-loved (okay, slightly gross) blankies, dummies, and stuffed animals that our little ones cling to for dear life. You know the ones… that raggedy bunny missing an ear or the blanket that definitely should have been washed weeks ago.

So, when should your child let them go? And more importantly—how do we help them move on without a full-scale meltdown?

In this episode, we dive into the emotional (and sometimes hilarious) journey of saying goodbye to childhood comfort objects. We’ll tackle the why, when, and how of...

"Muuuuum! Daaaad! Watch me!"—Why Your Child Demands Your Attention (and How to Find the Balance)

Ever feel like you’re under constant surveillance by your own child? You can’t pee alone, they’re clinging to your leg like it’s the last lifeboat on the Titanic, and every five seconds, it’s, “Look at me! Watch this!” Sound familiar? 😅

Here’s the deal: young children are adorable attention-seeking machines—and for good reason. They need our love and connection to thrive. But let’s get real: that doesn’t mean you’re on the hook for 24/7 applause an...

What do you do when your little one, who used to waltz into childcare like they owned the place, suddenly pulls the "No way, not today" card?

In this episode, we’re diving into the “why” behind your child’s sudden change of heart and giving you smart, sanity-saving strategies to help your child conquer those childcare wobbles. Tune in and get ready to turn their "I’m not going!" into "Okay, let’s go!" with confidence and calm.

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Welcome to the Kebudel Parent Podcast—your no-nonsense, fun-filled guide to paren...