Years InBetween

Sometimes you just have to get ready for the greatness that’s about to enter your life!

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Do you think emotional connection is enough to stay in any sort of relationship, whether that be platonic, romantic, familial?

We talk on some fun stuff this episode, sorry about the very late upload, forgiveeeee🫶🏿

Heyy guyss do like the new style? Let us know down below! In todays episode we have a catch up then delve into the book, some interesting stuff goes down, tune in to find out!

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Heyyy guys how're we doing? I hope you're watching or listening to this while having a great day, If that's okay too, we pray peace finds you🫶🏿 and that having a little catchup and chat with us helps a little🫂

Get ready to hear about the new book, it seems it'll be a good one!

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Guys we’re backkk and better and rested! How’re you guys? Let us know in the comments :) Todays episode kind of went on a tangent after updating each other on what has happened in the time in between. The catch up was very much so needed for the both of us and we hope you can relate to bits too

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Today’s episode is a mix of life updates, wedding planning, personal and the standard catching up. We talk about whether purpose is something you discover or build, and how to recognise when ego is leading instead of alignment. A thoughtful reminder that we’re all just figuring it out, one conversation at a time 🤎

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Hey guysss in this episode, we talk about the lessons we wish we knew earlier and how to find purpose in the day-to-day. It’s an honest chat about slowing down, noticing the little things, and learning to feel more at peace right where you are 🤎

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Heyy guys, in today's episode we discuss the pressures of showing up for your community and how to navigate that. We also discuss forgiveness and how that can look or if it's even plausible in some cases.

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Heyy guyss how're we doing? Let us know in the comments! Todays ep is topic based, a little bit of this a little bit of that, tune in to hear what we get to talking about!

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Heyy guysss we get into a lot this episode and we wrap some stuff up... tune in to see what we're on about.

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Heyyy guys in today's one we touch on the big A... ACCOUNTABILITY. In Stay With Me, Adebayo makes us question where the accountability lies for the current predicament Akin finds himself. If something is agreed on although morally wrong does it make it okay?

We also talk about financial expectations when choosing a partner, is there a threshold income you guys have for your person? Let us know down below👇🏿👇🏾

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Heyy guys we have a few debatable questions that we dive into and of courseeee we talk about Yejide and her reality in our current read: Stay With Me by Ayobami Adebayo.

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Heyy guyss we're backkkkk, and the content has only got wilder... Stay With Me by Ayobami Adebayo continues to keep our jaws braced against the floor. In other news, we ask each other some questions that maybe you guys should ask a friend, partner or family member tune in to our chinwag we'll meet you there😉

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Heyyy guyss it the first episode of the new season!!!! We're touching on a lot today from exercising your strengths to marriage and of courseee the book, Stay with me by Ayobami Adebayo. A whole lot of surprises happen in the book but also in real life for Loreto....

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Heyyy guyss so it's the last episode of Season 3!!! We've had an interesting week, tumultuous for some of us😅... In regards to the book... it's getting increasingly shocking Yejide is quite the character and everything stays coming from left field..

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Heyyy guyss, in this one its heavy on relationships, they're hard but can be good where intentional work and effort is put in, what do you guys think are key things for a healthy relationship?

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Heyy guyss hope you're all doing well! So in today's episode we introduce our new read!!! - Stay With Me by Ayobami Adebayo. We also do the standard chinwag where we touch on some hilarious and some traumatic moments... hope you enjoy!

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Heyy guys so unfortunately we've come to the end of For Such A Time As This, the book really offered insight to realities that most definitely exist in the lives of the people we know and those of strangers. We 10000% recommend! We also answer some questions from our returning guest 😋 We hope you enjoy ✨ IG: @yearsinbetween TikTok: @yearsinbetweenpod

Heyyy guys, so in this ep we touch on some of the topics mentioned in the book, some deep some light hearted but all in all a chin wag was had 😌

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Heyyy guys so we've started on a new book, For Such A Time as This by Shani Akilah, guysss it's so far soo good we can't wait for you to read along with us!

Heyy guys this episode is about what friendship means to us and how we navigate loneliness, what does friendship mean to you? Have you experienced loneliness recently?

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We need to tell you guys something....

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Heyyy guys so we have some more special guests in today's episode and we deep dive into boundaries where it concerns loyalties to your friends versus your partner, thoughts?

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Heyyy guyss!! WE'VE MADE IT TO SEASON THREEEE AHHH New season means one thing a new book! We've started reading Open Water by Caleb Azumah Nelson, defo get the book if you're feeling to read along with us 👀

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Hey guys so this is the final episode before we're onto the next book! We're catching you guys up on our lives and of courseee we're having a cheeky chin wag too :P

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Heyyy guys we had a bit of a catchup in this episode then dived into the Forever series on Netflix.

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Do you think there are categories that crushes fall into? How long do you think a crush should last?

In today's episode we have a special guest who has also read the book and shares their thoughts, feelings, and experiences... who you might ask?... well tune in to find out :P

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Do you think genuine singleness with no romantic interests is accepted in today's society?

In the book we see time and time again that this may not be the case with all the aunties and uncles putting their several pounds into the topic of Yinka's love life, thoughts?

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Another discussion on Yinka Where's Your Huzband and in this first half of the chapter month(May) Yinka displays what some would say is selfishness but is it just a season of selfish tendencies for Yinka or has she reached a new level of rock bottom?

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As we continue reading Yinka Where's Your Huzband the are the motif's of victimhood alongside scrutiny but we beg to question is Yinka milking it to not take control over her life? or is it the insufferable critique from her peers and family that make getting a grip on life that bit more challenging?

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SEASON 2!!!!

We finish the courage to be disliked and talk on it for the last time, we hope you enjoyed this season! On to the next!

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We touch on what it means to be "normal" and whether that is a good thing.

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The DOAC podcast episode referred to in the episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-diary-of-a-ceo-with-steven-bartlett/id1291423644?i=1000695446328

Does offloading your thoughts feelings and experiences on others come easy to you?

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We touch on how it's easy to fall into the habit of living life for the recognition of others, and understanding the difference or commonality of what someone is "paid" for versus what they are "here" for...

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We touch on the slight chaos going on in Loreto's life, the calm in Yacinta's and our valentine's antics.

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Adlerian psychology says we have three main life tasks, work, love, and friendships. We touch on how we handle these life tasks and how certain fears hold us back in some.

We can't lie we have a bit of a ramble at the top but then we touch on whether the outward expression of emotions is optional and how communication can be vital in handling them. We then dive into how perceiving the success of others as a failure of your own creates a state of constant comparison and competition.

Do you think we choose to act on emotion "positive" or negative" and if so why?

Do you think competing with peers is a healthy way to motivate your success?

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We touch on the topics of self love and how we feel about ourselves today. We also talk on the topic of procrastination and reliability...

Do you guys think a person who procrastinates can be a person you can rely on?

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We touch on the real courage it takes to do the work to change. We then dive into the how we need to be comfortable with being uncomfortable in order to peruse the passions we have in a society were people can and will mock you until there's a success story to relay.... We hope you enjoy ✨

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We dive into our 2024, the lessons learnt and our aspirations for the new incoming year

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