Curiouser + Curiouser Daily Podcast
By: Heather aka Nookie
Language: en
Categories: Education, Self Improvement, Health, Fitness, Sexuality
Welcome to Curiouser + Curiouser, the daily podcast where love, sex, romance, and kink get real.I’m Heather aka Nookie—author, educator, relationship coach, and professional truth-teller. Every day, I send a message to my community: part story, part confession, part “holy hell, that’s exactly what I needed to hear today.” Now, I’m bringing those daily messages to your ears.Each episode is 3–10 minutes long—short enough for your morning coffee, deep enough to shift how you think about connection. I talk about the conversations I’ve had, the questions people ask, the mistakes we all make, and the delicious, mes...
Episodes
December 15: Why this guy left with more than just cookies.
Dec 15, 2025Staying cool under pressure? Holiday miracle!
https://my.curiouser.life/post/holiday-miracle
Duration: 00:04:01December 12: This guy gave himself 6 months to “understand women.”
Dec 12, 2025But he forgot one important thing: himself.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/understand-women
Duration: 00:03:37December 11: “Nookie said…” and other terrible relationship moves.
Dec 11, 2025Weaponized wisdom is still violence.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/Nookie-said
Duration: 00:03:38December 10: What if they can see your fear?
Dec 10, 2025A 2013 study says… predators can.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/see-fear
Duration: 00:04:06December 9: The Midwest spice rack of masculinity…
Dec 09, 2025Funny, sure. But also kinda heartbreaking when you think about it.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/midwest-spice-rack
Duration: 00:04:42December 5: Dreams, disasters, and dance parties—oh my!
Dec 05, 2025Excited? Yes. Freaking out a little? Also yes.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/nerves
Duration: 00:03:33December 4: Minflation: It’s not the flex you think it is.
Dec 04, 2025If your dating personality screams “I’m not that bad,” we need to talk.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/minflation
Duration: 00:03:45December 3: When a gift says ‘I love you’—and when it doesn’t…
Dec 03, 2025It’s not about the thing—it’s about what it means.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/gifts
Duration: 00:03:47December 2: “But I said I love you…” (and other red flags)
Dec 02, 2025Love-bombing, gaslight compliments, and praise with strings attached? Let’s unpack it.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/words-of-affirmation
Duration: 00:04:08December 1: When love comes with a to-do list…
Dec 01, 2025From helpful to hurtful—how this love language gets turned against you.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/acts-of-service
Duration: 00:03:31November 30: When “quality time” turns into a guilt trip…
Nov 30, 2025Love should never feel like surveillance—or tit-for-tat.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/quality-time
Duration: 00:04:02November 29: A rope, a knot, and a full-on thirst storm.
Nov 29, 2025The manosphere’s not ready for this kind of sexy.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/a-knot
Duration: 00:03:44Love Language… or Power Play?
Nov 26, 2025Physical touch isn’t the problem. But how it’s used? That’s another story.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/physical-touch
Duration: 00:03:57November 25: What if they can feel it—and don’t know why?
Nov 25, 2025Unspoken feelings don’t just disappear. They start leaking out the sides.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/catch-feelings2
Duration: 00:03:59November 24: “I don’t want this to get weird” (but it might).
Nov 24, 2025When friendship and romance collide, it gets messy fast.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/catch-feelings
Duration: 00:03:59November 22: What your profile might say (even when you don’t mean it to)
Nov 22, 2025Your dating profile is talking behind your back. Let’s fix that.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/profile-audit
Duration: 00:07:36November 21: What if your next great love starts with a weird yes?
Nov 21, 2025Spoiler: “intention” isn’t always the straightest path to love.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/love-loreing
Duration: 00:04:37November 20: “So I should just do what I want?”
Nov 20, 2025Yes. And also... no. Let’s talk about that.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/what-you-want
Duration: 00:03:15November 19: Quarter-zips, culture, and calling B.S.
Nov 19, 2025What if you ignored both the haters and the hype?
https://my.curiouser.life/post/dont-listen
Resource Links:
Sunn M'Cheax's Reel: https://www.facebook.com/reel/2043258686514256
Take No Sh*t! Build better relationships through discovering, creating and maintaining healthy boundaries in three (sometimes five) simple steps. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGSZ78NL (4.8 stars on Amazon)
People Pleaser No More! Reclaim Your Life And Relationships By Putting Yourself First—Without Guilt! https://shop.curiouser.life/people-pleaser-no-more-shop (4.7 stars on Amazon)
Start With No: For those wh...
Duration: 00:04:26November 18: The secret to better relationships? Starts with your Tuesday.
Nov 18, 2025You can’t connect deeply when you’re running on empty.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/time-boundaries
Duration: 00:03:19This holiday? Skip the bullsh*t (and feel amazing about it!)
Nov 17, 2025This season, give yourself the gift of “Nope.”
https://my.curiouser.life/post/jomo
Duration: 00:04:32November 15: Do you struggle to put yourself first in love? This may be why.
Nov 15, 2025When you keep giving until there’s nothing left, the only thing you attract are takers.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/more-self-ish
Duration: 00:03:12November 14: Can a 1985 marriage help your 2025 dating life?
Nov 14, 2025Spoiler: maybe. But probably not.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/1985
Duration: 00:03:32The quiet heartbreak of never feeling wanted…
Nov 13, 2025Still trying to feel chosen by someone who keeps choosing everything else?
https://my.curiouser.life/post/quiet-heartbreak
Duration: 00:02:54The friendzone’s sleazier cousin…
Nov 12, 2025Ever feel like someone was only being nice for one reason? Yeah. That.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/f-ckzone
Duration: 00:04:00The “gotcha” question that got me thinking…
Nov 12, 2025“How many of you are actually with the person you want?”
https://my.curiouser.life/post/my-favorite-human
Duration: 00:04:16November 6: Real connection online starts with one overlooked detail…
Nov 06, 2025They’re great photos. But are they telling the truth?
https://my.curiouser.life/post/photos-lie
Duration: 00:03:34November 5: Is your brain… kinda weird too?
Nov 05, 2025Hack your odd-ass brain for better love and life!
https://my.curiouser.life/post/the-brain
Duration: 00:03:58November 4: Is your relationship taking more than it gives?
Nov 04, 2025Most people settle for “less than enough.” What if you didn’t?
https://my.curiouser.life/post/a-successful-relationship
Duration: 00:03:20November 3: If you’re nice for results, you’re not nice.
Nov 03, 2025Good humans don’t "turn bad" to get attention.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/turn-toxic
Duration: 00:04:09Worst sleep ever + 1 fuzzy butt = a smile anyway.
Nov 01, 2025Some days you run on love and caffeine. Today’s one of those days.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/fuzzy-butt
Duration: 00:01:56October 31: First Time Jitters...
Oct 31, 2025After decades of being the guest, I’m stepping into the host seat—and trying not to freak out.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/first-time-jitters
Duration: 00:02:47October 30: Are your struggles secretly turning you on?
Oct 30, 2025Turns out, struggle can feel weirdly good. But at what cost?
https://my.curiouser.life/post/denial-kink
Duration: 00:03:46October 29: Sharing everything? You might be doing it wrong.
Oct 29, 2025What you share, how you show up, and who you make it safe for… matters.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/best-friends
Duration: 00:04:10October 28: Are you talking your way out of love?
Oct 28, 2025What if saying MORE is making things worse?
https://my.curiouser.life/post/talk-outta-love
Duration: 00:03:46October 27: Not sure? Scared? Good. Do it anyway.
Oct 27, 2025Some people wait for certainty. That’s why they’re still waiting.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/doubt
Duration: 00:05:06October 26: Do THIS before reentering the dating pool.
Oct 26, 2025Build this first, and dating becomes 10x easier (and a lot more fun).
https://my.curiouser.life/post/before-dating
Duration: 00:03:59October 24: I don’t build "community." I do this instead.
Oct 24, 2025Turns out, culture beats control every single time.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/community-culture
Duration: 00:03:48October 23: Want better matches? Show them your weird.
Oct 23, 2025Trying to please everyone = dating hell. Let your quirks do the heavy lifting.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/silly-socks
Duration: 00:04:13October 22: I’m launching a(nother) podcast! Here’s how you get first dibs…
Oct 22, 2025I’m launching a podcast! Here’s how you get first dibs…First recording happens Oct 31—and your question could be in it.
https://hoefessionals.com/questions
Duration: 00:03:55