Can't Keep My Mouth Shut

Today, we're talking about dating after 30. And let me tell you… it hits different.

In your 20s, dating feels like an endless buffet — a lot of options, a lot of chaos, and a lot of emotional drama.

In your 30s, it's more like a tasting menu — smaller portions, but higher quality.

Let's discuss more shall we!

With love,

Nixalina.

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Don't be shy, c...

If you've ever thought, 'Why does he keep ruining this?' — grab a notebook, ladies. You're about to get a field guide."

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Nixalina.

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The concept originated in Freudian psychoanalytic theory, where Sigmund Freud coined the term "Madonna-Whore complex" (or "psychic impotence") to describe men who are unable to feel sexual desire for a woman they love and respect - the Madonna - but can only be aroused by women they devalue or disrespect  the Whore.

Let's discuss, shall we?

With love,

Nixalina. 

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Don't be shy, come say hai! He...

Nahhhhh mate, move along. 

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I just...I cannot deal with this attitude towards oral sex on women.

Sigh. JUST SIGH.

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We throw the word soulmate around a lot — in movies, in songs, and in the quiet corners of late-night conversations. But when it really happens, when you meet someone who feels like home, you know there's something different about it. It's not just attraction or timing or luck. It's an unexplainable pull — a sense that your souls already knew each other long before your first tryst.

With love,

Nixalina.

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Spoiler alert - here are the 5 things I explain in this episode about what happens to me after I leave a toxic mofo:

Denial & Derail

Rumination & Revenge Bod

IDGAF

Peace & Penis

Locked IN

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Is it a good idea...ever?

Can it ever work out again, long term?

Let's discuss, shall we!

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Nixalina.

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To anyone living through this as we speak - I hear you, I see you, I understand you and I am here for you.

With love,

Nixalina.

In modern slang, a "sigma female" refers to an independent, self-sufficient woman who operates outside of traditional social hierarchies, values her autonomy, and doesn't feel the need to conform or seek external validation.

Let's discuss this bad-ass b*tch in depth, shall we?

With love,

Nixalina.

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I have no words.

But apparently I don't even need words anymore - because his Chat GPT is now my voice anway.

WTAF THOUGH!?

With love,

Nixalina.

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This mofo has a lot to answer for, let me tell you that.

Let's discuss, shall we?

With love,

Nixalina.

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...instead ask yourself why you keep going to the f**king CIRCUS?!

With love,

Nixalina.

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Listen up mofos, it's a rant, is what it is.

With love,

Nixalina.

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Allow me to finally break down all the 'Nixalina' reputation taboos. 

With love,

Nixalina.

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"In a sexual context, "Daddy" can be associated with power dynamics, where one partner takes on a more dominant role and the other a more submissive one."

Ohhhh let's discuss, shall we?

With love,

Nixalina.

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Just. URGH.

With love,

Nixalina.

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I'm here to tell you, it's not your fault.

I'm also here to tell you, that as long as you keep trying to leave, and you eventually do leave - it doesn't actually matter how many times it takes you. 

With love,

Nixalina.

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​Energy over looks sis, always.

With love,

Nixalina.

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I'll save you all the time - NOPE.

THE. END.

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​Ohhh the tricky terrain of the FWB. Let's nagivate this together, shall we?

With love,

Nixalina.

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​Only once you've lived it can you truly understand how bizarre this feeling is.

Let's discuss the struggle of expat life, shall we?

With love,

Nixalina. 

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Eww.

Just eww.

The fact I endured this for 6 months is testament to my mental strength.

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That shizz stays on their phone, or in their cloud, FOREVER.

Let's not forget that key point.

With love,

Nixalina.

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I got second-hand cringe for you bro.

With love,

Nixalina.

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I'm 37 with no kids... THROUGH MY OWN CHOICE?

I must be a broken woman. 

Let's discuss, shall we?

With love,

Nixalina.

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I'M SO EXCITEDDDDDDDDDDDDD.

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

That is all.

With love,

Nixalina.

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But like, have we ever discussed pubes before? I think not.

With love,

Nixalina.

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It's quite something, let me tell you that.

Get ready to be focused on absolutely NOTHING else, except that man's cock.

With love,

Nixalina.

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I am so gloriously happy, at peace, and living the most incredible life - one I couldn't have even dreamt of a year ago. So, here I am, wishing to have you all join me in this elevated state, for the best year to date!

This is part one of my 10-tips to make sure your 2025 is the year you GLOW up! 

With love, Nixalina.

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Don't be shy...

Wasn't 2024 quite the year? 

It seemed to play us all, with ups and downs worse than a rollercoaster.

Allow me to reflect on my last year and close season 8 with tonight's episode.

With love, Nixalina.

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As if we really need another reason other than "it feels amazing".

Let's explore self-pleasure and masturbation benefits!

With love, Nixalina.

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If I could go back in time and freeze my eggs in my twenties, I would 100000% do it without question.

So what exactly happens during the egg-freezing process? Let me tell you all.

With love, Nixalina. 

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Did you know - It IS possible for women to squirt and ejaculate at the same time, and every woman DOES have the physical capacity to squirt.

For more pearls of wisdom on this topic, let's dive in shall we?

With love, Nixalina.

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I can only hope and pray that nobody else has experienced any of this, but I sadly know that's not the case.

With all my love on this one, Nixalina.

I'd like to thank the sponsor of today's episode - The Meat Club.

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I can only hope and pray that nobody else has experienced any of this, but I sadly know that's not the case.

With all my love on this one, Nixalina.

I'd like to thank the sponsor of today's episode - The Meat Club.

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Don't worry doll, because SAME.

And actually, it's much more common than you think. 

Let's discuss, shall we?

With love, Nixalina.

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Don't love 'em, don't hate 'em either.

I just feel if we want the guy to service us, we should also be willing to service him too.

Let's discuss shall we!

With love, Nixalina.

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Strap yourselves in for some major Nixalina life tea-spilling.

And to the guy himself - thank you for coming into my life. 

With love, Nixalina.

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I believe the no contact rule should be established after every and any breakup, but it's specifically important for toxic seperations with toxic people.

I understand that shared homes, children and marriages often mean you can't go no contact, in which case I'd say aim for reduced contact where possible. 

I hope this helps you all.

With love, Nixalina.

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​So what, we all just have to quietly accept it, forgive and move on with our partners?

Do men cheat more than women?

SINCE WHEN WAS THIS THE NORM?

With love, Nixalina.

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I don't think this topic is discussed half as much as it should be. The more we educate ourselves, the better equipped we are to lead a life that we love, with self-protection in mind.

I hope this helps you all when deciding on your perfect choice of safe-sex contraception.

With love, Nixalina.

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I hate to break it to you all (including myself) but the negatives definitely outweigh the positives here.

Let's explore the effects of booze and binge drinking on your physical, mental and emotional health!

With love, Nixalina.

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I've been there my friends, I've been there.

It sucks.

Or doesn't suck properly, as the case may be.

With love, Nixalina.

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I'm backkkkkk!!

And this is what went down so far in my 2024. Enjoy the tea spill!

With love, Nixalina. 

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It's not easy, but it can be done! I survived 2.5 years long distance with 7000 miles between us, so I know the tricks and tips to make sure the time and space doesn't ruin your connection.

With love, Nixalina.

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I mean, was it really ever a good idea?

Does returning to an ex partner ever work out?

Let's discuss!

With love, Nixalina. 

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Does age actually matter? 

Or does true love and connection override such things as a large age gap?

Let's discuss shall we?

With love, Nixalina.

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Just.

Nah.

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This is a male dating personality you need to avoid at ALL costs. 

Heed my 10 warning signs to ensure you don't get emotionally invested in a man who is controlling, possessive and toxic.

With love, Nixalina.

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This is a male dating personality you need to avoid at ALL costs. 

Heed my 10 warning signs to ensure you don't get emotionally invested in a man who is controlling, possessive and toxic.

With love, Nixalina.

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If you've found yourself, like moi, checked in to the horrendous establishment that is Heartbreak Hotel, listen to my 2-part episode on how to ensure it's just a short staycation, sans room charge.

With love, Nixalina.

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If you've found yourself, like moi, checked in to the horrendous establishment that is Heartbreak Hotel, listen to my 2-part episode on how to ensure it's just a short staycation, sans room charge. 

With love, Nixalina.

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It's been a damn whirlwind of a year for me and yet I am so thankful for all of the experiences 2023 brought to my front door. 

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This New Year's Eve, join Nixalina, The Orientalist Spirits and the newly opened Pullman Singapore Orchard for a one-night-only Masquerade: The Enchanted Ball of Eden.

On 31st December from 9:30pm until 3am, Nixalina will take over the 5-star hotel's entire Level 4, transforming the 3-concept space, including the outdoor pool, into a decadent Italian ball, inspired by the magical Venetian gardens of old.

Enjoy a welcome complimentary flute of Nicolas Feuillatte Champagne, a reception lounge with 1-for-1 beverages until 11pm, an illusionist, MC host, 2 DJs, a confetti cannon countdown at midnight and bespoke The Orientalist Spirits cocktail...

Short answer? No I don't.

Long answer? Nooooooooo, I don't.

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​Well well well, who could have called this one? 

It's the plot twist none of us saw coming! 

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It's the plot twist NOBODY saw coming.

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I promise you, it's the right move.

Let me tell you why...

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If you want to ensure you bag yourself date number 2, or 3, or even 4...you need to make sure you leave the right first impression on the first date.

Allow me to help you out, with my 10 easy tips on getting the green flag! 

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Can we all just move past the obsession with money for 5 damn minutes and take a look at the human behind the bank account instead? 

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It was a life I was absolutely not prepared for. 

And I'm so glad!

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It wasn't a conscious decision. 

It was my vagina's decision.

One must respect the vagina.

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Dare to descend into the eerie depths of the century-old Alkaff Mansion's Dungeon, where an unparalleled Halloween party awaits.

In the Dungeon of Desire, dimly lit corridors decked with cobwebs and flickering candles beckon, as a DJ spins sinister beats. Underneath ancient stone arches, mingle with devilish dark souls dressed for the mystical and macabre.

Don your most enchanting and chilling attire and join us for a night steeped in thrills, chills, and captivating fright.

Event Details:

The Alkaff Mansion Dungeon

Saturday 28th October, 9pm-2am.

Early B...

Just because she has a big juicy ass, does not mean she has a big ass-hole. 

Did you learn nothing in Biology?

7 seasons in, I've finally opened up the can of worms that is - anal sex.

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Allow me to explain, from my personal experience, how this is the worst thing you can possibly do - and yet we all do it, often subconsciously, A LOT.

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Sigh. Just when it was going well - he went and gave me the damn ICK.

Here's my list of 15 things that immediately put me off a guy in the early stages of dating.

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Toxic breakups are harder to recover from than normal, it's just fact, sadly.

What makes it even HARDER, is that you might end up stuck in a rumination loop that starts to damage your mental health.

Let's delve into what this is, what it does and how to get over it. 

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Are they mindblowing spontaneous epic sex with a stranger, OR, are they awkward, embarrassing, regretful rubbish sex where you wish you could forget the entire thing?

Let's discuss one night stands shall we!

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Point one...OMG point one. It infuriates me. STOP DOING IT.

Point 8 isn't a f*cking vibe either. 

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Aim of the game?

Get wind of the red flags BEFORE you get in too deep, and then run a mile in the opposite direction.

Let's go!

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Aim of the game?

Get wind of the red flags BEFORE you get in too deep, and then run a mile in the opposite direction.

Let's go!

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Where are all my fellow Phoenixes at?

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Why is the world breeding fuckboys like there's some fuckboy farm out there making billions for every fuckboy let out into society?

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It's interesting, to say the very least.

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It suddenly came to me (call it a shower thought, if you will) 

They teach us all how to love, but they don't teach us how to STOP.

We need to discuss the ability to stop loving people.

I swear, 'stuff' just happens to me.   Ridiculousssss stuff.   This is a story of aforementioned stuff.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

​​I just felt, how do I say, 'stuck' and needed to reconnect with my inner self, which is why I took myself off to REVIVO Wellness Resort in Bali for a wellness retreat. It was my first ever wellness retreat and I had no idea what to expect, but it exceeded all my expectations.   Check out what happened during my stay there and my life-changing takeaways from my trip.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to...

Spoiler alert...I have. And I don't regret it.   ​​​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.  

I have had it with this negative narrative of men treating their women like rubbish.   I am fed up of women emigrating to other countries because they cannot find true love on this island, as the main stories that run on repeat is the women being f*cked over. These are high-value women too, being treated appallingly by absolute losers.   I. AM. OVER. IT. ​​  ​​​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide

If you adore fitness classes but fancy something different, why not head to the beach on Sentosa and workout against a stunning sunset or sunrise? Check out all the classes available and book online here: https://islandhappenings.sentosa.com.sg/Activity   ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

"You open the door to the firefighter, and the next day you wake up next to the arsonist." Toxic relationships is well up there on the list of my favourite topics to discuss.   Today, we're looking at the CYCLE of toxic relationships and how people remain stuck in them for yearssssssssssss.   ​​​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

I had the pleasure of catching up with Daniel Chidiac, the best-selling author of 'Who Says You Can't? You Do' and 'The Modern Break-up', to talk about the trials and tribulations of writing a novel, finding career success in the unknown and navigating break-ups and dating in this modern world.    ​​​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

I sit down with Ashley - one of Singapore's Dominatrix - and we delve into the world of BDSM, femdom, Shibari and allllllll things KINK.

Enjoy everyone!

What's the difference between just dating multiple people in the early stages (which is totally fine) vs cookie jarring?

How can you work out if you're stuck in a cookie jar?

What does it even meannnn?

Allow me to enlighten you all... 

​​ We have 6 'T' tips here that I believe, if used correctly, can lead to a fantastic blowie. Don't take my word for it, ask my exes.   Time - Tongue - Temperature - Talk - Two Balls - Tightness   Let's get down, shall we? Pun intended. ​​​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

I hope these tips help you if you're wanting to find 'the one' ... or even just to give you an emotional boost over the romantic valentines period. 

Jacqueline Kee from Singapore's sexual wellness brands Hedonist & Genvie talks to me about the introduction of toys into the bedroom and why toys are actually a fab way to ensure your sex life keeps getting better and better.

​In my opinion, this stuff needs to be included in school education. For your own help and understanding, I've detailed the cluster B personality disorders that make for toxic relationships that may cause you long-lasting trauma and damage.   My advice? Run for the hills.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Do you find that often as soon as you like a guy, he seems to distance himself? Do you struggle to secure second or third dates? Are you fed up of never being the girl they want to chase?   Fear not, here are my 10 tips to help you secure your desired man.    ​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

​But...but why?   Is it real regret and remorse? Or is it purely for a quick shag? Let's explore why boys ALWAYS come back.  ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Is there a running theme that women don't realllyyyyy like giving blowies?   Are blowjobs a much-needed part of a great sex life between you both?   Do I personally believe in blowjobs? Let's open up (oi oi) and discuss!   ​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

COME AT ME 2023!!!

Christmas can be a time of heightened loneliness and sadness for we singletons. But I say nay, let's make it FUN FUN FUN.

Is there a designated timeline to healing from heartache? When is the right time to move on?   ​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Oushhhh it's a tricky tricky thin line this one. Dating someone new is complex as is, let alone trying to understand if you're with a good soul or a toxic manipulator.   Are they lovebombing you aka tricking you into loving them? Or is this the genuine happy honeymoon period of authentic love? Let's try distinguish between the two shall we?   ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DM

It's not goodbye, it's just farewell...

I am closing this show, 5 glorious seasons, to launch a brand new global show: Can't Keep My Mouth Shut. 

Please do move over to my new show - like, follow & subscribe, and continue to share the love of my podcast episodes.

Thank you all for your support over the last 3 years and 5 seasons, it's just been incredible.

Who else has found themselves single in their mid-thirties, unexpectedly? Do you find it so very different to dating in your twenties? We need to talk about it - I've got A LOT to say.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.