BJJ Mental Models

BJJ Mental Models

By: Steve Kwan

Language: en-us

Categories: Sports, Wrestling, Health, Fitness

Your guide to a conceptual and intelligent Jiu-Jitsu approach.  BJJ black belt Steve Kwan and a slate of expert guests explain the concepts, strategies, and tactics behind the gentle art of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.

Episodes

Ep. 368: Lazy Wrestling, feat. Thomas & Phillip Barreiro
Dec 15, 2025

This week, we're joined by Thomas and Phillip Barreiro! They're both Division 1 wrestlers and multi-time Canadian national champions, plus the operators of Good Mind Grappling: an organization using wrestling and Jiu-Jitsu to address youth trauma. In this episode, Thomas and Phillip break down their "lazy wrestling" framework. They explain how effective stand-up grappling doesn’t require explosiveness, but instead relies on frames, hand fighting, pressure, and positional control. This episode reframes wrestling for Jiu-Jitsu athletes seeking safer, more sustainable ways to stay on top and dictate the match.

Support Good Mind Grappling:
https://goodmindgrappling.com
Duration: 00:57:00

Mini Ep. 84: Probabilistic Thinking
Dec 11, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss the importance of probabilistic thinking: viewing Jiu-Jitsu as a game of probabilities where your goal is to create (and maintain) the greatest possible chance of success.

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Ep. 367: The Weight of Expectations, feat. Jesse Phillips
Dec 08, 2025

This week, we're joined by Jesse Phillips! Jesse is a BJJ black belt under Brian Johnson and the head coach at Gentle Giant Jiu-Jitsu. In this episode, Jesse explores burnout in martial arts and real life, often caused by the crushing weight of personal expectations that we place upon ourselves.

Follow Jesse on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/gentlegiantjiujitsu

Train with Jesse at Gentle Giant Jiu-Jitsu in Seattle, WA:
https://www.gg-jj.com


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Survivorship Bias
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/survivorship-bias
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Duration: 00:58:09
Mini Ep. 83: Learning Modalities
Dec 04, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss the idea of learning modalities. The old concept of "learning styles" has been debunked; here's what we use instead.

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Duration: 00:06:11
BONUS: Marcelo Garcia vs Lachlan Giles Analysis, feat. Drew Foster
Dec 04, 2025

In this episode of State of the Meta, Marcelo Garcia vs Lachlan Giles takes center stage as Drew breaks down ONE Fight Night 38’s generational clash. He explores each legend’s style, career arc, and signature weapons (from Marcelo’s pressure, wrestle-ups, and guillotines to Giles’ K-guard leg-lock traps), while examining age narratives, meta trends, and realistic paths to victory for both icons.

This free bonus episode is from Drew Foster's excellent State of the Meta podcast, exclusively available on BJJ Mental Models Premium!

Watch Marcelo Garcia vs Lachlan Giles on ONE Figh...

Duration: 00:34:59
Ep. 366: The Gripfighting Scorecard, feat. Chris Round
Dec 01, 2025

This week, we're joined by BJJ and Judo black belt, Dr. Chris Round! Chris is the Executive Director at Martial Arts for Social Transformation, Equity, and Rights (MASTERs). In this episode, Chris explains the helpful gripfighting scorecard from his Tactical Grip Fighting system.

Follow Chris on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/chris__circle

Learn about Martial Arts for Social Transformation, Equity, and Rights (MASTERs):
https://www.martialartsforsocialgood.org

Get Chris' instructional, Tactical Grip Fighting:
https://tacticalgripfighting.com


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Grips...

Duration: 01:01:20
Mini Ep. 82: Defend With Purpose
Nov 27, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss the importance of defending with purpose: making sure that when you defend, you do so with the intent of advancing position, not just surviving the attack.

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Ep. 365: Analog Versus Digital, feat. Chris Wojcik
Nov 24, 2025

This week, we're joined again by Chris Wojcik! In this episode, Chris explores the tension between digital and real-world Jiu-Jitsu learning. Topics include: the limits of instructionals, the value of in-person training, communication challenges in teaching, and how grapplers can balance study with mat time.

Follow Chris on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/chrismwojcik

Get Chris' instructionals on BJJ Fanatics:
https://bjjfanatics.com/collections/instructional-videos/fighter_chris-wojcik

Subscribe to The Grappler's Diary on Substack:
https://thegrapplersdiary.substack.com

Buy Chris' book, A Grappler's Diary:
https://amazon.com...

Duration: 01:01:40
Mini Ep. 81: Respect Your Opponent
Nov 20, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss the importance of respecting your opponent: not only for moral reasons, but because it leads to better grappling outcomes.

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Duration: 00:06:02
Ep. 364: Staying Sane in an Insane Sport, Feat. Keith Krikorian
Nov 17, 2025

This week, we're joined by 10th Planet standout Keith Krikorian! In this episode, Keith shares his thoughts on mental health, community, and staying grounded in an increasingly chaotic world. Keith shares how Jiu-Jitsu builds confidence, connection, and emotional resilience, why the sport attracts so many unique personalities, and how gratitude transformed both his mindset and his game.

Follow Keith on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/keithkrikorian


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Feedback Loop
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/feedback-loop

Growth From Discomfort
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/growth-from-discomfort
<...

Duration: 00:56:26
Mini Ep. 80: Race to the Bottom
Nov 13, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss the race to the bottom: a pricing phenomenon where we drive prices so low that they become unsustainable. This concept is critical to understand for any Jiu-Jitsu business.

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Duration: 00:07:04
Ep. 363: Jiu-Jitsu for Belonging, feat. Kenny Kim
Nov 10, 2025

This week, we're joined by Mat Made founder Kenny Kim! In this episode, Kenny discusses how to build deeper connections and stronger communities through Jiu-Jitsu. Topics include: creating lasting engagement at gyms, growing authentic online followings, using storytelling to inspire others, overcoming imposter syndrome, building consistency, and leading with purpose.

Follow Kenny on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/kennykimbjj

The Jiu-Jitsu Millionaire, by Kenny Kim:
https://a.co/d/fZghu0a

Mat Made (book), by Kenny Kim:
https://amazon.com/dp/B09231HG4R

Mat Made show & gym...

Duration: 00:52:37
Mini Ep. 79: Points of Control
Nov 06, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss how the torso and levers become points of control. With torso control, we clamp or hook onto our opponent's torso so we can hold them in position or rotate around them. With lever control, we use our opponent's arms, legs, and/or head to create leverage. Attacking a single lever usually affords more force, whereas attacking multiple levers simultaneously usually affords more control.

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Duration: 00:09:07
Ep. 362: Submission Series: The Omoplata, feat. "Silver Fox" Karel Pravec
Nov 03, 2025

This week, we're joined again by "Silver Fox" Karel Pravec! In this episode, Karel explores one of Jiu-Jitsu's most underrated submissions: the omoplata. Karel explains why the omoplata is so effective as both a sweep and control position, how to chain between parallel and perpendicular omoplatas, and why it excels against bigger opponents.

Follow Karel on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/silverfoxbjj

Get Karel's instructionals on BJJ Fanatics:
https://bjjfanatics.com/collections/karel-pravec

Train with Karel at Silver Fox BJJ in New Jersey:
https://silverfoxbjj.com

Learn online...

Duration: 00:54:21
Mini Ep. 78: Last Mile Problem
Oct 30, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we introduce the last mile problem, which explains why it gets harder to achieve our goals as we near the end (or "last mile"). The last mile problem is commonly caused by complexity, complacency, consistency, or confidence.

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Duration: 00:11:26
Ep. 361: Submission Series: The Kimura, feat. Stephan Kesting
Oct 27, 2025

This week, we're joined by Stephan Kesting! In this episode, Stephan teaches the Kimura as both a submission and a positional system: its ancient origins, key positional variations, and how it functions as a control framework rather than just a finishing move. Topics include finishing mechanics, leverage physics, the "fat old lazy man" Kimura, and Kesting’s new instructional, The Kimura Roadmap.

Follow Stephan Kesting on Instagram:
https://instagram.com/stephan_kesting

Learn online with Stephan at Grapplearts:
https://grapplearts.com


Resources discussed in this episode:

Th...

Duration: 00:58:12
Mini Ep. 77: Types of Guard
Oct 23, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we introduce the four types of guard: hook, clamp, frame, and hybrid. Every guard in Jiu-Jitsu can be classified into one of these types.

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Duration: 00:07:16
Ep. 360: The Perfect Training Camp, feat. Josh McKinney
Oct 20, 2025

This week, we're joined again by Josh McKinney! In this episode, Josh explains how to structure the perfect Jiu-Jitsu competition camp. Topics include: offense vs. defense days, performance days, intensity vs. recovery, overtraining, saying no to unsafe rolls, and advice for non-competitors.

Follow Josh McKinney on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/thejoshmckinney

Train with Josh at HeadNod HQ in Granite City, IL:
https://headnodhq.com

Check out Josh on the I Suck at Jiu-Jitsu Show:
https://youtube.com/@isuckatjiujitsu

Get Josh's ebook, The Competitor's Journey:
https://www...

Duration: 00:59:15
Mini Ep. 76: Knee Line
Oct 16, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss the concept of the knee line: an imaginary line connecting your two knees. When the two points of this line combine with your groin, these three points create a triangle. That triangle is the basis for how we use our legs to clamp or wedge our opponent in place.

To clamp or wedge their body part in place with your knees, it should be inside your knee+knee+groin triangle. To prevent them from doing the same to you, your body part should be <...

Duration: 00:14:13
Ep. 359: Old Bastard Closed Guard, feat. Mike Mahaffey & Jesse Walker
Oct 13, 2025

This week, we're joined by Mike Mahaffey (Old Bastard BJJ) and Jesse Walker (Rough Hands BJJ)! Mike and Jesse explain the "old bastard" style of closed guard: a way to play the position without relying on strength, speed, or athleticism.

Follow Mike Mahaffey:
https://instagram.com/oldbastardbjj
https://threads.com/@oldbastardbjj

Follow Jesse Walker:
https://instagram.com/roughhandsbjj

Train with Jesse Walker at Rough Hands BJJ in Louisville, KY:
https://roughhandsbjj.com/


Resources discussed in this episode:

100 men vs. 1 gorilla: Jesse Walker...

Duration: 00:52:09
Mini Ep. 75: Curse of Knowledge
Oct 09, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss the curse of knowledge: a cognitive bias explaining why it's hard for experts to relate to beginners.

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Duration: 00:03:55
Ep. 358: Please Tap, feat. Rob Biernacki
Oct 06, 2025

In this episode, Rob Biernacki confronts a growing trend of competitors refusing to tap and taking serious injuries at low-level tournaments. Rob argues that reckless "tough-guy" behavior, poor finishing mechanics, and bad coaching culture are fueling unnecessary damage for hobbyists. Rob calls for smarter, safer training values, reminding athletes that protecting longevity matters more than risking ligaments for a $5 medal.

Follow Rob on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/islandtopteam

Train with Rob at Island Top Team in Nanaimo, BC, Canada:
https://islandtopteam.com/

Learn from Rob online at BJJ Concepts:
...

Duration: 00:52:04
Mini Ep 74: Center of Gravity
Oct 02, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss center of gravity: your body's "tipping point" of balance. Your center of gravity is around 56% of the way up your body (around your pelvis) when standing upright, but moves as your body moves. Understanding your center of gravity is key to preventing it from being used against you. With practice, your center of gravity can even be a weapon.

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Duration: 00:05:13
Ep. 357: The Truth About Burnout, feat. Jeff Shaw
Sep 29, 2025

This week, we're joined again by Jeff Shaw from Bellingham BJJ! In this episode, Jeff talks about the causes and cures for burnout in Jiu-Jitsu. Topics include: plateaus, the “blue belt blues,” the unique pressures faced by instructors and gym owners, keeping training sustainable, protecting consistency, staying playful, reframing expectations, and redefining what Jiu-Jitsu should mean for your life over the long term.

Follow Jeff on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/bellinghambjj

Train with Jeff at Bellingham BJJ:
https://bellinghambjj.com/


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Refr...

Duration: 00:57:57
Mini Ep. 73: Tipping Points
Sep 25, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss tipping points: the idea that once you have sufficient leverage or momentum, your desired outcome can no longer be denied.

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Duration: 00:05:16
Ep. 356: Safer Jiu-Jitsu Competitions, feat. Dr. Jen Case
Sep 22, 2025

This week, we're joined by Dr. Jen Case! Jen is a 13x IBJJF masters world champion, BJJ black belt under Renato Tavares, coach at Charlotte Jiu-Jitsu Academy, and PhD in Human Nutrition & Performance. In this episode, Jen covers the risks of Jiu-Jitsu competition and how it can be made safer.

Follow Jen on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/drjenjitsu/

Jen's website:
https://drjencase.com/

Train with Jen at Charlotte Jiu-Jitsu Academy in North Carolina:
https://charlotte-bjj.com/


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Normalization<...

Duration: 00:56:23
Mini Ep. 72: Solid Frames
Sep 18, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss what makes solid frames: relying on bone structure, and minimizing the joints involved. We explain the difference between short-range and long-range frames, and when to use them.

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Duration: 00:07:11
Ep. 355: Jiu-Jitsu Tape Study, feat. Corey Guitard
Sep 15, 2025

This week, we're joined by Corey Guitard from 10th Planet Jiu Jitsu Calgary! In this episode, Corey explains how tape study in Jiu-Jitsu (such as video feedback and instructionals) builds structured, efficient learning.

Follow Corey on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/10thplanetcalgary

Train with Corey at 10th Planet Jiu Jitsu in Calgary:
https://10thplanetcalgary.com/


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Invariants
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/invariants/

Learning Modalities
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/learning-modalities/

Compartmentalization
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/compartmentalization/

Diminishing...

Duration: 01:02:00
Mini Ep. 71: Priit's 45° Rule
Sep 11, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss Priit's 45° Rule, a helpful tip for surviving (and escaping) bad positions. The "rule" tells us: When your legs have been neutralized (ie. guard is passed), get your shoulders at 45 degrees relative to the floor.

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Duration: 00:08:18
Ep. 354: How Goals Evolve, feat. Thomas Rozdzynski
Sep 08, 2025

This week, we're joined by Thomas Rozdzynski from RŌL Academy! In this episode, Thomas discusses how students’ Jiu-Jitsu goals evolve over time, the importance of coach–student communication, and balancing fun with measurable progress for long-term success.

Follow Thomas on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/rozdzynskibjj

Train with Thomas at RŌL Academy in Orland Park:
https://www.rolacademy.com/


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Compatible Intent
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/compatible-intent/

Process Over Outcomes
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/process-over-outcomes/

Keep it Pla...

Duration: 00:56:48
Mini Ep. 70: Hick's Law
Sep 04, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss Hick's Law, a powerful psychology and design concept that explains how the availability of more options increases our decision-making time.

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Duration: 00:04:38
Ep. 353: Jiu-Jitsu Fitness Myths, feat. Dr. Kristi Charish & Dr. Christle Guevarra
Sep 01, 2025

In this episode, we're joined by Dr. Kristi Charish and Dr. Christle Guevarra for a deep dive into fitness and nutrition myths in Jiu-Jitsu! Kristi & Christle explore how bad information spreads, the role of genetics in performance, and why aspiring athletes often fail when trying to do everything at once. They break down key misconceptions around supplements, weight cutting, and performance-enhancing drugs, while also addressing sensitive but crucial topics like Ozempic, hormone therapy, and perimenopause.

Follow Dr. Kristi Charish on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/charishkristi

Hire Kristi for science mythbusting & join her newsletter:<...

Duration: 01:15:12
Mini Ep. 69: Consistency
Aug 28, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss consistency as a concept, and explain how it acts as the basis for building good habits, achieving compound gains, and creating luck.

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Duration: 00:05:34
BONUS: Updated Pedagogy, feat. Rob Biernacki
Aug 26, 2025

In this bonus episode, Rob Biernacki talks pedagogy! We discuss his updated pedagogy module on BJJ Concepts, the evolving landscape of Jiu-Jitsu instruction, balancing concepts with techniques, evidence versus anecdote, emotional dysregulation in students, and the role of community in gym culture. Rob also shares news on his upcoming retirement from full-time teaching at Island Top Team, the winding down of his visiting student program, and his plans for future teaching through visiting instructor initiatives and Jiu-Jitsu camps.

Sep. 5-7, 2025: Check out Rob's upcoming camp in Invermere, BC!
https://www.tickettailor.com/events/invybjj/1804016

...

Duration: 01:00:18
Ep. 352: Arm Drag Concepts, feat. Niamh Bryn
Aug 25, 2025

This week we're joined by Niamh Bryn, owner of Snowblind BJJ in Seattle! In this episode, Niamh explores the versatility and depth of the arm drag, and why it's more than just a beginner move. We explain its role as an opening salvo to create reactions, off-balances, and angles rather than an all-or-nothing attempt at taking the back.

Follow Snowblind BJJ on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/snowblind_bjj

Train with Niamh at Snowblind BJJ:
https://snowblindbjj.net/


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Technique Chaining
...

Duration: 00:55:49
Mini Ep. 68: Defensive Thinking
Aug 21, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss defensive thinking, the tendency to excuse poor performance before it even happens.

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Duration: 00:05:44
Ep. 351: Injury Prehab, feat. Dr. Mike Piekarski
Aug 18, 2025

This week, we're joined again by “Doctor Kickass” Mike Piekarski: physiotherapist, BJJ black belt, online course creator, and instructor! In this episode, Mike discusses injury mitigation, or “prehab,” for grapplers. We explore how injuries commonly occur in Jiu-Jitsu through joint locks, scrambles, takedowns, and ego-driven decisions, and emphasize the importance of situational awareness, tapping culture, and coach-led environments that normalize safety.

Follow Mike on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/doctor_kickass

Get Mike's Kinstretch courses:
https://linktr.ee/doctor_kickass


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Static vs. Dyna...

Duration: 00:59:25
Mini Ep. 67: Loss Aversion
Aug 14, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss loss aversion, the human tendency to fear losses more than we desire equivalent gains. While avoiding losses is rational, excessive fear of loss can hold us back from our biggest growth opportunities.

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Duration: 00:06:20
Ep. 350: Front Headlocks, feat. Brianna Ste-Marie
Aug 11, 2025

In this episode, Brianna Ste-Marie talks about the front headlock: its offensive power, common pitfalls like “bloodlust,” strategic uses for control and distraction, and key differences between gi and no-gi.

Follow Brianna on social:
https://www.instagram.com/briannasm


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Myopia
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/myopia/

Trading Up
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/trading-up/

Mask Your Intentions
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/mask-your-intentions/

Technique Chaining
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/technique-chaining/

Path of Least Resistance
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/path-of-least-resistance/
...

Duration: 01:03:12
Mini Ep. 66: Abundance Mindset
Aug 07, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we discuss the idea of an abundance mindset, where we view success as something we can mutually achieve. The abundance mindset contrasts with a scarcity mindset, which sees success as a zero-sum game. This mini-episode explains why the abundance mindset can counterintuitively improve your Jiu-Jitsu over the long term, even though sport competition is usually zero-sum.

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If you love the podcast...

Duration: 00:05:09
Ep. 349: Overcoming Obstacles, feat. Edwin "Junny" Ocasio
Aug 04, 2025

In this episode, we welcome back world champion Edwin “Junny” Ocasio for a deeply introspective conversation about the mental challenges of high-level competition. Junny shares how achieving his lifelong dream of winning a world title unexpectedly led to a period of depression and self-doubt, revealing the emotional complexity that comes with success.

Follow Junny on social:
https://www.instagram.com/junny_bjj
https://www.tiktok.com/@junnybjj
https://www.youtube.com/c/junnyocasio

Train with Junny at Unity Jiu-Jitsu:
https://unityjiujitsu.com/

Get Junny's instructionals:
https://bjjfanatics.com/coll...

Duration: 00:56:37
Mini Ep. 65: Process Over Outcomes
Jul 31, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss process over outcomes, a mental model we've also referred to as habits over results. This concept teaches us to balance long-term goals with the short-term habits needed to achieve them. We discuss how building habits motivates us by creating consistent "wins," how quick feedback enables us to pivot early, and when "trust the process" can become bad advice.

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<...

Duration: 00:07:54
Ep. 348: The Timeline of Coaching, feat. Francesco Fonte
Jul 28, 2025

In this episode, Steve Kwan welcomes back Francesco Fonte for an in-depth exploration of what Francesco calls the “timeline of coaching:”

For coaches: INFO → SKILLS → GAMES
For athletes: GAMES → SKILLS → INFO

Francesco explains how effective Jiu-Jitsu instruction should reverse the traditional info-dump model: instead of starting with detailed techniques, coaches should design games that develop essential skills, which only later become associated with specific concepts and information.

Follow Francesco on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/francescofonte76


Resources discussed in this episode:

Francesco's “timeline of coaching” Inst...

Duration: 00:54:32
Mini Ep. 64: Resulting
Jul 24, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss resulting, a logical fallacy where we incorrectly assume that the quality of our decisions are directly related to the quality of our results.

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Duration: 00:07:04
Ep. 347: The ABCs of Mental Coaching, feat. Laurien Zurhake
Jul 21, 2025

In this episode of BJJ Mental Models, Steve Kwan is joined by Laurien Zurhake to explore how trauma-informed coaching can transform Jiu-Jitsu into a safer, more inclusive, and more effective training environment. Laurien, co-founder of Off the Zone, shares her ABC Playbook for Mental Health (Anticipate, Bring Them Back, and Course Correct), a practical framework for coaches to support students through mental health challenges.

Follow Laurien and Off the Zone on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/off_the_zone

Work with Laurien @ Off the Zone:
https://www.off-the-zone.com/


...

Duration: 00:59:23
Mini Ep. 63: Self-Competition
Jul 17, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss self-competition. You've probably heard the phrase, "comparison is the thief of joy." Self-comparison is a problem we all face, and self-competition is a helpful mental model for working with this problem.

Get our Intro to Mechanics audio course, normally $79, FREE:
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/freeintro

Resources discussed in this episode:

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People - Eyepatch Wolf
https://youtu.be/wL93C0lm0nQ?t=126s


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Duration: 00:06:53
Ep. 346: Tryhard Hobbyists, feat. Rosie Miller
Jul 14, 2025

In this episode, Steve Kwan is joined by Rosie Miller to explore the concept of the “tryhard hobbyist” in Jiu-Jitsu: someone who trains seriously and with intention, even if they don’t pursue the sport professionally. Rosie, a brown belt out of Atos HQ and founder of The Grappler’s Lab, shares her journey of evolving goals, identity, and self-worth within the sport. Together, they discuss the emotional and mental challenges hobbyists face, including impostor syndrome, burnout, risk management, and the struggle to balance ambition with sustainability. Rosie offers a values-based framework to help practitioners define their goals, align training...

Duration: 01:01:01
Mini Ep. 62: The Red Queen Effect
Jul 10, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss the Red Queen effect, a hypothesis based on a quote from Alice in Wonderland that is oddly applicable to science and Jiu-Jitsu! It teaches us that sometimes we need to keep moving just to maintain our position. The Red Queen effect helps explain why we don't feel like we're getting better at Jiu-Jitsu when we compare ourselves to our training partners.

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Duration: 00:06:57
Ep. 345: Back After Layoffs, feat. Elisabeth Clay
Jul 07, 2025

In this episode, Steve Kwan talks with elite competitor Elisabeth Clay about returning to Jiu-Jitsu after major life changes like pregnancy and injury. Clay shares her personal journey of Jiu-Jitsu and pregnancy, staying mentally engaged during time off, and the challenges of regaining physical performance post-layoff. Elisabeth also discusses the importance of staying immersed in the gym culture when not actively training, how community can combat isolation and depression, and navigating the Jiu-Jitsu world as a new mom.

Follow Elisabeth on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/elisabethclaybjj


Mental models discussed in this...

Duration: 00:55:05
Mini Ep. 61: Systematic Abandonment
Jul 03, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss the concept of systematic abandonment, a mental model co-opted from business strategists like Peter Drucker and Michael Porter. Systematic abandonment teaches us to periodically review and discard habits that are no longer useful, because deciding what not to do is often just as (if not more) important than deciding what to do.

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Duration: 00:09:20
Ep. 344: Ankle Lock Strategy, feat. Jake O'Driscoll
Jun 30, 2025

In this episode of BJJ Mental Models, Steve Kwan is joined by Jake O’Driscoll from Essence BJJ in Perth for an in-depth discussion on the straight foot lock game. Jake explains his unique finishing mechanics, how his method differs from the popular “Woj Lock,” and how he uses straight foot locks not just for submissions but to control, off-balance, and transition to dominant positions like the back or mount. He emphasizes the importance of using 50/50 as a dynamic, offensive platform rather than a stalling position and shares insights on controlling all three leg joints for effective submissions. Jake also o...

Duration: 00:59:02
Mini Ep. 60: Flow
Jun 25, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss the concept of flow, a mental model for peak performance first proposed in 1975 by the psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi.

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https://bjjmentalmodels.com/freeintro


Resources mentioned in this episode:

Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience, by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
https://www.harpercollins.com/products/flow-mihaly-csikszentmihalyi

Mini Ep. 57: The Map Is Not the Territory
https://podcast.bjjmentalmodels.com/243161/episodes/17285192-mini-ep-57-the-map-is-not-the-territory


Don't forget to check out BJJ Mental...

Duration: 00:08:30
Ep. 343: Living Your Values, feat. Giles Garcia
Jun 23, 2025

In this episode, we're joined once again by Giles Garcia, head coach of Ronin Grappling in Glasgow, to tackle the complex topic of living your values in Jiu-Jitsu. Giles explores the challenges coaches and students face when trying to uphold personal and gym-wide values, especially in situations involving discrimination, safety, and accountability. Giles shares candid experiences from his own gym, emphasizing the importance of fostering a culture rooted in inclusion, respect, and trust. Giles dives into how values must be enforced consistently, even when it’s uncomfortable or financially inconvenient, and how both coaches and students have the power—and...

Duration: 01:24:53
Mini Ep. 59: Growth Mindset
Jun 19, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss growth mindsets, a mental model popularized by Carol Dweck in her hit 2006 book, "Mindset: The New Psychology of Success." Growth mindsets are defined by belief in our ability to improve, as opposed to fixed mindsets, which assume our attributes can't be changed.

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https://bjjmentalmodels.com/freeintro


Resources mentioned in this episode:

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, by Dr. Carol Dweck
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/44330/mindset-by-carol-s-dweck-phd/

Mini Ep. 57...

Duration: 00:08:10
Ep. 342: Developing Coaches, feat. Cody Maltais
Jun 16, 2025

In this episode, Steve sits down with Cody Maltais, head coach at Elevate MMA in Durham, North Carolina, to explore the art of developing coaches in Jiu-Jitsu. Cody shares his journey from Marine Corps veteran to academy leader and emphasizes the importance of fostering a collaborative, student-centered culture. He advocates for empowering students at all levels to take on coaching roles early, encouraging experimentation, mistake-making, and personal expression.

Follow Cody on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/codymaltais_

Train with Cody and Drew at Elevate MMA:
https://elevatemmaacademy.com/


Mental...

Duration: 00:57:57
Mini Ep. 58: The 80/20 Rule
Jun 12, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss the 80/20 rule, a mental model that's well-known, but misunderstood and overapplied. The 80/20 rule refers to an uneven distribution where the majority of results are produced by a minority of efforts.

Get our Intro to Mechanics audio course, normally $79, FREE:
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/freeintro


Resources mentioned in this episode:

Mini Ep. 57: The Map Is Not the Territory
https://podcast.bjjmentalmodels.com/243161/episodes/17285192-mini-ep-57-the-map-is-not-the-territory


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Duration: 00:10:42
Ep. 341: Jiu-Jitsu Is a Team Sport, feat. Francesco Fonte
Jun 09, 2025

In this episode, we're joined by Francesco Fonte, MMA and Jiu-Jitsu head coach from Sportschule Next Level in Germany! Francesco explores the idea of Jiu-Jitsu as a team sport. He explains how fostering a relaxed, playful training environment not only builds community but also accelerates learning by encouraging experimentation and removing the fear of mistakes. Drawing on his experiences organizing camps and running a diverse gym, Francesco highlights the value of humor, inside jokes, and a “third place” culture where people feel at home on the mats. Together, they discuss how hobbyists and competitors alike can thrive in inclusive gyms...

Duration: 00:50:54
Mini Ep. 57: The Map Is Not the Territory
Jun 05, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss how the map is not the territory, a foundational concept for working with mental models and other abstractions. The key lesson: no "map" is a 100% accurate reflection of the territory it describes. Similarly, no Jiu-Jitsu "concept" is 100% applicable all the time...including this one!

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Duration: 00:06:32
Ep. 340: Awkward Turtles, feat. Sonia Sillan
Jun 02, 2025

In this episode of BJJ Mental Models, Steve Kwan welcomes back Sonia Sillan from Combat Arts Academy to explore the concept of the “awkward turtles:” the introverted, unsure, or atypical students who often feel like outsiders in Jiu-Jitsu. Sonya unpacks how gym culture, coaching priorities, and interpersonal communication affect whether these students feel welcome or alienated. Together, they discuss how creating an inclusive, empathetic training environment isn’t just good for business; it’s essential for building resilient practitioners and a healthy mat culture. This conversation offers a roadmap for coaches and students alike to rethink how they engage with the...

Duration: 01:05:07
Mini Ep. 56: Controlled Breathing
May 29, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss the importance of controlled breathing when sparring. Managing your breath effectively creates a positive ripple effect in your Jiu-Jitsu performance by reducing anxiety, avoiding adrenaline dumping, and concealing your emotional state from your opponent.

Get our Intro to Mechanics audio course, normally $79, FREE:
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/freeintro


Resources mentioned in this episode:

Mini Ep. 55: Staying Loose
https://podcast.bjjmentalmodels.com/243161/episodes/17206785-mini-ep-55-staying-loose


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Duration: 00:05:46
Ep. 339: Developing Youth Programs, feat. Brennan Strimple
May 26, 2025

This week we're joined by Brennan Strimple! Brennan is the black belt head coach at RPMA (Rochester Phoenix Martial Arts). In this episode, Brennan shares his playbook for building a thriving kids' Jiu-Jitsu program, as well as leading the development of affordable kids' tournament circuits in the local community.

Follow RPMA on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/rphxma

Train at RPMA in Rochester, NY:
https://rochesterjiujitsu.com/


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Abundance Mindset
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/abundance-mindset/

Keep it Playful
https...

Duration: 00:51:20
Mini Ep. 55: Staying Loose
May 22, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss the importance of staying loose when sparring. Being relaxed makes it easier to conserve energy, avoid being controlled, and conceal your intentions. There are times to be tense, such as when completing a throw or finishing a submission, but your "default mode" should be staying loose.

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Duration: 00:05:22
Ep. 338: Gaze Tracking, feat. Timothy Lee Peterson
May 19, 2025

This week we're joined by Timothy Lee Peterson! In this episode, Timothy explains why gaze tracking — or where your eyes are looking — is a surprisingly important aspect of Jiu-Jitsu.

Follow Timothy on social media:
https://www.instagram.com/timothyleepeterson
https://www.threads.com/@timothyleepeterson


Resources discussed in this episode:

Free+Style: Maximize Sport and Life Performance with Four Basic Movements, by Carl Paoli
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1628600209


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Theory of Alignment
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/theo...

Duration: 01:00:39
Mini Ep. 54: Controlling the Distance
May 15, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss controlling the distance, a key lesson in most martial arts, including Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. As general advice, many instructors  will coach you to close the distance when attacking and make space when defending. While this is often true, in this mini-episode we'll explore the exceptions to that rule and settle on a more general guideline for controlling the distance: find the distance where you can control them but they can't control you.

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Duration: 00:09:08

Ep. 337: Gatekeepers Ruin Everything, feat. Charles Harriott
May 12, 2025

This week we're joined again by Charles Harriott! In this episode, Charles discusses the problem of "gatekeepers" in Jiu-Jitsu, or people who try to enforce their way of thinking over others.  Charles explores how gatekeeping can shut down creativity, personal development, and fun.

Follow Charles on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/charlesharriott

Charles Harriott's website:
https://charlesharriott.com/

Get Charles' instructionals on BJJ Fanatics:
https://bjjfanatics.com/collections/dvd/fighter_charles-harriott

Subscribe to Charles' YouTube channel:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjQfov7RyQ5fn3TLfqSmezQ

S...

Duration: 01:20:55
Mini Ep. 53: Kuzushi
May 08, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss kuzushi, the Japanese concept of breaking balance! Kuzushi is critical in Judo, but it's just as important in Jiu-Jitsu — both standing and on the ground.

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https://bjjmentalmodels.com/freeintro


Resources discussed in this episode:

Mini Ep. 51: Technique Chaining
https://podcast.bjjmentalmodels.com/243161/episodes/17035097-mini-ep-51-technique-chaining

Mini Ep. 52: Shifting Platforms
https://podcast.bjjmentalmodels.com/243161/episodes/17077049-mini-ep-52-shifting-platforms


Don't forget to check out BJJ Mental Models Pr...

Duration: 00:06:28
Ep. 336: Growing Your Academy, feat. Hillary Witt & Nelson Puentes
May 05, 2025

This week we're joined by the founders of Inverted Gear: Hillary Witt and Nelson Puentes! Three years ago, Hillary and Nelson took the Inverted Gear brand beyond Jiu-Jitsu equipment and opened a physical academy in Pennsylvania! In this episode, Hillary and Nelson share key lessons learned from their journey into academy ownership.

Follow Inverted Gear on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/invertedgear

Train at Inverted Gear Academy in Bethlehem, PA:
https://www.invertedgearacademy.com/

Shop Inverted Gear:
https://www.invertedgear.com/

Order the SWEET Moo Deng rashguard from...

Duration: 01:03:26
Mini Ep. 52: Shifting Platforms
May 01, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we discuss shifting platforms, wherein you as the bottom player use continuous movement to prevent your opponent from fully establishing their base on top of you. Moving away from big, explosive escape attempts and toward smaller, continuous movement makes a huge difference in your success from bottom positions.


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Duration: 00:10:45
Ep. 335: The PLAY Framework, feat. Erin Herle
Apr 28, 2025

This week we're joined again by Erin Herle! In this episode, Erin introduces the PLAY framework and explains why humor is a fundamental element of good culture and learning.

Follow Erin on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/erinherle/

Get Erin's new book, If You’re Not Laughing, You’re Losing:
https://amzn.to/4jP5x8K

Work with Erin:
https://www.erinherle.com/
http://highmentalperformance.com/


Resources mentioned in this episode:

Humor Styles Questionnaire, by Rod A. Martin, PhD:
http://www.humo...

Duration: 01:03:33
Mini Ep. 51: Technique Chaining
Apr 24, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we explain the importance of technique chaining, and why "Jiu-Jitsu is the space between the techniques."


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Duration: 00:10:28
Ep. 334: Project-Based Gameplanning, feat. Josh Vogel & Dr. Mike Israetel
Apr 21, 2025

This week we're joined by two BJJMM alumni: Josh Vogel and Dr. Mike Israetel! In this episode, Josh and Mike discuss the unique way they build gameplans at The Jiu-Jitsu Company.

Follow Josh and Mike on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/joshrvogel
https://www.instagram.com/drmikeisraetel

Subscribe to Josh and Mike on YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/@thejiujitsucompany
https://www.youtube.com/@RenaissancePeriodization

Get Josh's instructional, 90 Day Project Based Jiu Jitsu:
https://bjjfanatics.com/products/90-day-project-based-jiu-jitsu-by-josh-vogel

Get ripped with Mike at RP Strength:
https...

Duration: 00:57:28
Mini Ep. 50: Phases of Passing
Apr 17, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we explain the phases of passing: disentangle, control, pass.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Mini Ep. 49: Phases of Guard
https://podcast.bjjmentalmodels.com/243161/episodes/16950582-mini-ep-49-phases-of-guard


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https://bjjmentalmodels.com/freeintro


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Duration: 00:09:19
Ep. 333: Coaching for All Levels, feat. Nick Volpe
Apr 14, 2025

This week we're joined by Nick Volpe! Nick is the black belt head coach at Dark Bear Jiu-Jitsu in Staten Island, New York. In this episode, Nick explains how he makes Jiu-Jitsu coaching accessible to students and coaches of all experience levels. Topics include: self-organized learning, teaching the "why" behind techniques, the importance of timing, creating objectives that guide student progress, and layered difficulties during live resistance training.

Follow Nick on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/darkbeardojo

Train with Nick at Dark Bear Jiu-Jitsu in Staten Island:
https://www.darkbeardojo.com/

<...

Duration: 01:03:32
Mini Ep. 49: Phases of Guard
Apr 10, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we explain the phases of guard, as taught by Rob Biernacki: engagement, maintenance, and retention.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

BJJMM Ep. 16: Guard Series: Engagement Phase
https://bjj.plus/16

BJJMM Ep. 17: Guard Series: Engagement Phase
https://bjj.plus/17

BJJMM Ep. 18: Guard Series: Engagement Phase
https://bjj.plus/18


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https://bjjmentalmodels.com/freeintro


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...

Duration: 00:11:50
Ep. 332: Half Guard Passing, feat. Mo Black
Apr 07, 2025

This week we're joined by Mo Black! As of this writing, Mo is a reigning champion at Main Character Jiu-Jitsu and an instructor at Tabula Rasa BJJ in Colorado Springs. In this episode, Mo shares key concepts behind one of her favorite Jiu-Jitsu skills: half guard passing.

Follow Mo on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/mo.jiujitsu

Train with Mo at Tabula Rasa BJJ in Colorado:
https://tabsbjj.com/


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Predictable Responses
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/predictable-responses/

Opening Salvos
...

Duration: 00:59:18
Mini Ep. 48: Kaizen
Apr 03, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we explain kaizen, a Japanese concept translating roughly to "continuous improvement."

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Duration: 00:06:14
Ep. 331: The Problem With Lapel Guard, feat. Stephan Kesting
Apr 01, 2025

In this bonus emergency episode, we're joined by legendary Jiu-Jitsu instructor Stephan Kesting to discuss the immediate dangers of the lapel guard position, why it is so harmful, and why the IBJJF must ban it immediately.

Don't forget to check out BJJ Mental Models Premium!

If you love the podcast, you'll definitely love our premium membership offerings. The podcast is truly just the tip of the iceberg – the next steps on your journey are joining our community, downloading our strategy courseware, and working with us to optimize your game.  We do all...

Duration: 00:34:36
Ep. 330: The Student's Guide to Eco, feat. Noah Shaffner & Greg Souders
Mar 31, 2025

This week we're joined by Noah Shaffner and Greg Souders from Standard Jiu-Jitsu in Maryland! Noah shares his unique perspective as a competitor trained exclusively under the constraints-led approach (CLA) since he began grappling in 2021, while Greg describes Noah's journey from his coach's perspective.

Follow Noah on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/noahshaffner/

Follow Greg on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/gdsouders/

Train with Noah and Greg at Standard Jiu-Jitsu in Rockville, Maryland:
https://www.standardjiujitsu.com/


Resources discussed in this episode:

Ep. 203...

Duration: 01:08:31
Mini Ep. 47: Investing in Loss
Mar 27, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we explain investing in loss, a learning mindset often attributed to Tai Chi and other internal martial arts. In his excellent book The Art of Learning, Josh Waitzkin discusses the concept and its relevance to the martial arts. Investing in loss means reframing our thinking to view failure as an investment in our skill development, rather than as a loss.

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Duration: 00:06:53
Ep. 329: Rolling From Home, feat. Paul Kindzia
Mar 24, 2025

This week we're joined by Paul Kindzia, a BJJ black belt under Emily Kwok training out of Atlanta, Georgia. Most notably, he's a "homeschooled" black belt who carved out his own path in the art. Paul now trains out of a private gym, "The Bunker," that he built in his home. In this episode, Paul discusses how "rolling from home" has allowed him to take total ownership of who he trains with and who he learns from.

Visit Paul's website:
https://thebalancedgrappler.com/

Get Paul's book, Master Jiu-Jitsu, Master Life:
https://amzn.to/41...

Duration: 01:04:25
Mini Ep. 46: Beginner's Mind
Mar 20, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we explain beginner's mind! Known in Zen Buddhism as shoshin (初心), beginner's mind is a concept present in belief systems, philosophies, psychology, and martial arts. It teaches us to approach every learning opportunity with the curiosity and humility of a beginner. It's a mindset that helps us shelf the ego, focus on skill development, and better enjoy our training.

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Duration: 00:07:31
Ep. 328: Training Intensity, feat. Dr. Mike Israetel
Mar 17, 2025

This week we're joined by Dr. Michael Israetel! Mike is a PhD in sport physiology and newly minted Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu black belt under Josh Vogel. In this episode, Mike teaches the intricacies of training intensity in Jiu-Jitsu. Topics include: the different intensity zones (light, moderate, and hard), their respective roles in skill acquisition, training intensity during competition preparation, training strategies among partners of varying skill levels, the significance of developing a focused game plan, and tailored approaches for casual practitioners versus competitors.

Follow Mike on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/drmikeisraetel

Subscribe to Mike's...

Duration: 01:34:44
Mini Ep. 45: Spaced Repetition
Mar 13, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we explain spaced repetition! This concept helps us set a dynamic schedule for how frequently we should review old material to maximize our ability to recall information.

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If you love the podcast, you'll definitely love our premium membership offerings. The podcast is truly just the tip of the iceberg – the next steps on your journey are joining our community, downloading our st...

Duration: 00:10:24
Ep. 327: Perseverance, feat. Stephan Kesting
Mar 10, 2025

In this episode, legendary Jiu-Jitsu instructor Stephan Kesting joins us to discuss the concept of perseverance. It's both a critical mental model for success in martial arts, and also the title of his new Amazon best-selling book, Perseverance: Life and Death in the Subarctic. Stephan shares his remarkable journey following a health crisis that led to kidney failure and transplant in 2015, his 1000-mile solo canoe trip through the Canadian North, and how these journeys translated to learnings applicable to Jiu-Jitsu.

Follow Stephan on Instagram:
https://instagram.com/stephan_kesting

Buy Stephan's new book, Perseverance:<...

Duration: 00:56:44
Mini Ep. 44: Effortful Retrieval
Mar 06, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we explain effortful retrieval!  It's a concept from cognitive psychology proposing we can improve our ability to recall information — a critical skill during live rolling — by creating a recall practice that forces our brains to work.

For more information on effortful retrieval, check out:

BJJMM Ep. 287: Automatic Grappling, feat. Cal McDonald
https://bjj.plus/287

Effortful Retrieval — BJJ Mental Models database
https://www.bjjmentalmodels.com/effortful-retrieval/

Get our Intro to Mechanics audio course, normally $79, FREE:
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/freeintro


Don't f...

Duration: 00:08:54
Ep. 326: Dropping In, feat. Rob Biernacki
Mar 03, 2025

This week we're joined again by Rob Biernacki!  Rob shares advice for getting the most out of BJJ gym drop-ins, seminars, and camps.  Topics include the importance of prior communication before attending, safety and etiquette during training, addressing issues with aggressive partners, the mindset needed to ensure a positive experience, and Island Top Team's visiting student program.

Contact Rob regarding his visiting student program on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/islandtopteam

Learn from Rob online at BJJ Concepts:
https://bjjconcepts.net/


Mental models discussed in this episode:

Co...

Duration: 01:20:18
Mini Ep. 43: Interleaving
Feb 27, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we explain interleaving!  It's a concept proposing we learn faster by cycling through several topics rather than focusing on a single one at a time.  For example, instead of training AAA BBB CCC, we would train ABC ABC ABC.

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Duration: 00:07:20
Ep. 325: Economy of Motion, feat. Mike Mahaffey
Feb 24, 2025

This week we're joined again by Mike Mahaffey!  Best known as the "Old Bastard BJJ" guy, Mike joins us to discuss economy of motion in Jiu-Jitsu.  We define economy of motion as: All else being equal, prefer the option that requires less movement.  We unpack why this mental model is important, and how more athletic grapplers can violate this concept in favor of a movement-based game.

Follow Mike on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/oldbastardbjj

Check out upcoming BJJMM camps and events:
https://bjjmentalmodels.com/events


Mental models discussed in...

Duration: 00:56:10
Mini Ep. 42: Body Tethering
Feb 20, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we explain body tethering!  When you clamp onto your opponent as you would via closed guard or a triangle choke, make sure that YOU control THEIR body's alignment, not the other way around.  If they still have alignment they can pick you up, stack you, or slam you, which are especially dangerous if you're smaller.  Don't be a tetherball!

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Duration: 00:07:00
Ep. 324: Breaking Social Contracts, feat. Josh "Kintanon" Wentworth
Feb 17, 2025

This week we're joined again by Josh "Kintanon" Wentworth from Apex MMA in Covington, Georgia!  In this episode, Josh discusses "social contracts" in Jiu-Jitsu and how to break them.  Social contracts are the unwritten rules we abide by, which often aren't actually rules.  Social contracts can become invisible mental scripts and self-limiting habits that hold us back from our best performance in every roll.

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Duration: 01:06:14
Mini Ep. 41: Redundancies
Feb 13, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we explain the concept of redundancies, or how to ensure you have backup options if your plan fails.  There are two ways to create redundancies in your technique: by using multiple points of control, and by having a solid "plan B."

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Duration: 00:10:12
Ep. 323: Collaborative Camps, feat. Josh "Kintanon" Wentworth & Jesse Walker
Feb 10, 2025

This week we're joined by a panel: Josh "Kintanon" Wentworth from Apex MMA and Jesse Walker from Rough Hands BJJ!  In this episode, Josh and Jesse recap lessons learned from our most recent BJJ Mental Models camp in Georgia, and share best practices for running a collaborative camp and breaking from the traditional "one-man show" seminar structure.

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Train with Josh at Apex MMA in Covington, Georgia:
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Duration: 00:56:48
Mini Ep. 40: Placeholders
Feb 06, 2025

In this week's mini-episode, we explain the concept of placeholders.  Think of positional advancement like climbing a ladder: one rung at a time, and never let go of both rungs at once!  Don't abandon a point of control until you've got something equivalent or better.

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Duration: 00:07:22
Ep. 322: Technique Zero, feat. Marc Ste-Marie
Feb 03, 2025

This week we're joined by Marc Ste-Marie!  Marc is a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu black belt and the father of IBJJF "Queen" Brianna Ste-Marie.  In this episode, Marc explains the concept of "technique zero," or how we can teach Jiu-Jitsu quicker by reverse engineering and mastering the point of entry.

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Resources discussed in this episode:

The Fighter's Mind: Inside the Mental Game, by Sam Sheridan
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Duration: 00:54:58
Mini Ep. 39: Surface Area
Jan 30, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we explain the concept of surface area, or how much of your body is connected to your opponent when you apply force.  You can create more pressure by applying maximal force through the smallest surface area.  A classic example is the "shoulder of justice" side control crossface pin.  We also discuss other benefits to minimizing surface area, and other types of pressure beyond the physics definition.

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Duration: 00:08:26
Ep. 321: Submission Series: The Woj Lock, feat. Chris Wojcik
Jan 27, 2025

This week we're joined again by BJJ Mental Models sponsored athlete Chris Wojcik! In this episode, Chris breaks down the mechanics and meta relevance of his new signature move, the Woj Lock.

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Duration: 00:59:56
Mini Ep. 38: Ratchet Control
Jan 23, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we explain ratchet control, a mental model that fine-tunes rotational submissions, especially the kimura.  Ratchet control occurs when you force their limb into an "L" shape and rotate it like an Allen/hex key.

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Duration: 00:06:06
Ep. 320: The Language of Injury, feat. Scott Fritzinger
Jan 20, 2025

This week we're joined by Scott Fritzinger!  Scott is a BJJ black belt under Dave Camarillo and is the head instructor at Guerrilla Jiu Jitsu Academy Reno.  In this episode, Scott discusses "the language of injury," or how our choice of words and delivery can change student behavior and influence the risk of injury in the gym.

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Train with Scott at Guerrilla Jiu Jitsu Academy Reno:
https://www.renojiujitsu.com/


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Duration: 00:52:23
Mini Ep. 37: Rotational Control
Jan 16, 2025

In this week's mini-episode we explain rotational control, a mental model that helps us better secure positions and complete submissions.  Rotational control involves either preventing your opponent from rotating their torso, or allowing them to rotate so you can follow and improve your position.  Achieving rotational control usually requires you to occupy their elbow-knee space along their torso, or restrict the movement of their far arm/leg so they can't spin.

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Duration: 00:09:55
Ep. 319: 4 Pillars of Successful Gyms, feat. Eliot Marshall
Jan 13, 2025

This week we're joined again by Eliot Marshall!  Eliot is a BJJ black belt, retired UFC fighter, and owner of Easton Training Center in Colorado.  In this episode, Eliot explains the 4 elements that every successful Jiu-Jitsu gym needs to nail: sales, marketing, product, and culture.

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https://www.instagram.com/firemarshall205

Train at Easton Training Center in Colorado:
https://eastonbjj.com/

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Mental models discussed in this episode:

Abundance Mindset
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Duration: 01:15:17